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Nightcrawler/Religious & Spiritual Discussion

thylacine - 18/12/03 at 13:45

Would anyone like to have a Nightcrawler & Spirituality / Religious discussion? In the movies Kurt is a real spiritual dude so I thought it would be a cool topic for discussion. Also, a lot of the fan fics get into this subject & it makes an excellent story, so that shows there is an interest. Any ideas, people?

:)

Lauren - 18/12/03 at 14:08

You mean making an entire board to talk about the subject, or using this to discuss his religious background? I is confuzzled.

thylacine - 18/12/03 at 16:52

I am sorry that you are confuzzled.

No, like I mean just a general discussion of Nightcrawler, our favorite mutant, and spiritual / religious issues.

Like, for instance... Nightcrawler is an inspiration to me, like Yoda, since he forgives people who mistreated him, and he never loses his faith, and he always does good, and etc. He is also inspirational to me because there are so very few positive religious and / or Catholic characters in the media today. In popular culture today, religious people are often portrayed and being mean or judgmental, and Nightcrawler doesn't appear this way, and etc.

So... anyway... let the discussion begin, then. When you think of Nightcrawler and religious and / or spiritual issues, what comes to mind? Does it inspire you to write fan fiction? Or inspire you to forgive others? Or whatever... Just discuss whatever you feel like when it comes to Nightcrawler & spiritual issues. Okay? I hope people enjoy this discussion, and I hope no one decides to use it to preach or argue either. Let's just talk about it & have fun & get to know each other through this.

rockstar - 18/12/03 at 17:31

i agree. There are too few Catholic characters in pop culture today. Nightcrawler is a definite inspiration in that area.
I find it amazing that he pities the people who hurt him. He pities them instead of hating them. If everyone could be as forgiving as Nightcrawler, the world would be so much better.
Also, I think it's cool how he can be so deep in his faith and still have his sense of humor. I know too many people who say "God is everything, so I can't be funny". That's not how it works and Nightcrawler knows that.

Lauren - 18/12/03 at 17:35

Well, when I think about Kurt and his religion, I usually get inspired to do a fanfic, but sometimes i think up really funny situations concerning the fact that he's Catholic and the negative way we're portrayed.

Mob: Kill the demon! Kill the demon!
Kurt: No, I'm not a demon! I'm just a Catholic mutant!
*really long pause*
Mob: Kill the Catholic! Hide the little boys! Kill the Catholic!

*sigh* Still, sometimes I pull a WWJD only instead of J it's WWKD. He's actually been able to rekindle my faith.

rockstar - 18/12/03 at 17:45

yeah. Even though he's a fictional character, he helps me to tell myself "If Kurt can be that close to God after he's been through so much persecution and ostricizing, why can't I be closer to God, too?"

Lauren - 18/12/03 at 17:46

yeah...Kurt's a great guy for the Catholic religion... In all honesty if he were real, I would advocate for him to become a saint. <img src=grin" />

rockstar - 18/12/03 at 17:48

I dunno about that. If he were real, I might be doing things with him that will add some more tattoos to his body......

JUST KIDDING!!!!!

Winnowill - 18/12/03 at 17:50

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Originally posted by Lauren

Mob: Kill the demon! Kill the demon!
Kurt: No, I'm not a demon! I'm just a Catholic mutant!
*really long pause*
Mob: Kill the Catholic! Hide the little boys! Kill the Catholic!


Lol- I love this. I send my daughter to a "Christian" private school, and she was told Catholics are not christians- by a teacher! What a moron. Let's just say, I had a "discussion" at the school.
I like the fact that they are showing him as a Catholic, but didn't like the part in the movie where he said the psalm after Jean's death. That seemed like he was pushing it too much in their time of grief, considering he was still an outsider.

Lauren - 18/12/03 at 17:52

he was just praying for her. And it shows a little more how open he is with others if he can pray for someone he only knew for a few hours.

rockstar - 18/12/03 at 17:53

well, they say that Psalm at funerals all the time. I think it's like he's saying that even though she's "dead", Jean will be alright in Heaven.

Lauren - 18/12/03 at 17:54

Just a little reassurance, besides, nothing kurt could do could make me mad....except joining the priesthood. That really pissed me off. It made him the stereotypical "I'm Catholic, so I'm gonna be really religious and become a priest."

rockstar - 18/12/03 at 17:56

THANK YOU LAUREN *applauds Lauren*

We're Catholic. We love God. But we can lead a normal life.

Lauren - 18/12/03 at 17:59

Yeah, even though most people who know me think I'm more of the laid back type! WHOOO! I guess it's cause I argue every point in the Bible kinda meh*shrug* i just dislike making him a FANATIC about being Catholic. It makes me want to hurt someone. But since I'm Catholic, I can make confession and make it go away :D

rockstar - 18/12/03 at 18:14

trust me, with some of the things I've said and done, you'd never guess I was Catholic. I'm somewhat like Nightcrawler (at least the comic version, anyway). I'm Catholic, but i love to have fun and be a goofball.
That's why i love Nightcrawler so much. I can relate to him. He's Catholic, he's fun-loving, but he's also a kind of misfit among misfits.

Warbird - 19/12/03 at 03:17

I really love that nightcrawler's Catholic. He is such a popular and charismatic charicter which is the exact opposite of what we're usually portrayed as. It's sad that a comic book is the only positive exposure for Catholics in the media. I'm actually suprised at the amount of people that think that there's something wrong with my religion or say that i'm not christian. However, I don't really think that it's important that he's Catholic. The real point is that he has an undying faith and good will. That is so much more important than labeling him with a denomination. It's great that he's a good catholic that is also a good person, something that for some reason people don't belive is possible, but it's more important that he's a person of faith, no matter what religiouse sect it comes from.

Lauren - 19/12/03 at 03:30

Plus, he's not the stereotype either. I hate when people say that all Catholics think abortion is wrong or the biggie....all homosexuals go to hell. Honestly, what the hell is up with that one? any way, Kurt is just so cool because he's the only one we've got who's good besides the Pope we've got now.

rockstar - 19/12/03 at 15:52

yeah. The priests doing stuff with little boys aint exactly helping.

Maelstrom - 19/12/03 at 16:18

Ironically, the main people screaming about gays going to hell are the same ones bombing abortion clinics: extremist Protestants. I've yet to hear of an RC group, church, or whatever taking pride in that. Not that I agree with the church position that homosexuality is wrong. That seems to be the big problem I have with most versions of Christianity (and I'm American Orthodox). I just can't see it as a sin. Sorry, but if no one is hurt by the action, and it's a way to show love, I just can't see the sin behind it.

I guess we're all free to disagree on things. ;)

One of the reasons the RCs have been getting the short shrift in America is because we were damn near created by Protestant militants: the Puritans. Some of these guys were wacko: the even limited their vocabulary to words written down in the King James translation of the Bible. Their hatred of the "papal whore" was legendary, and, regrettably, a lot of that has persisted. What they were actually angry about wasn't so much the way the religion was practiced as the political quagmire of Europe, which was entangled in religion. If you were Catholic, you believed in X political views, while the Protestants were of Y view. (We're still seeing the same stuff over in Ireland. :cry )

Kurt seems to espouse the "pure", unpoliticized RC faith. He doesn't constantly witness (evangelize), he doesn't make political decisions based solely on faith, and he doesn't use it as an excuse for pre-existing intolerance. He takes Christ's admonition of "As you treated the least of your brothers, so you have treated me" very seriously. And considering how he gets treated in return, it takes a lot of moral fiber to keep ones chin up in that way. :nodyes

Lauren - 19/12/03 at 17:26

Yeah, Kurt is one cool guy when it comes to being Catholic. When I found out he was going to be religious in the movie, I thought "Oh God, here we go with the stereotypes." But they did a pretty good job with keeping him downsized with it and not eccentric with it.

wow...!

thylacine - 19/12/03 at 18:53

Wow, you guys... This is really a great discussion. I love it. And this is getting some great replies, too! You guys are all so awesome. Lauren, you write terrific stories. And you guys are all correct in saying that there are too many negative stereotypes of Catholics... I guess our leadership (the "hierarchy";) isn't helping right now...

Anyway, this is a great discussion. We can also use this Kurt & Religion thing to get to know each other & discuss how we feel about stuff sociologically & spiritually too.

As to how some people feel that Catholics are "not Christians" -- that is so sad. My uncle became a Jehovah's Witness, and he says that God loves only Jehovah's Witnesses, not Catholics, or Muslims, or Buddhists, or (your group in this space here). Sad, isn't it? Why can't we all just get along, and focus on the things we agree on rather than what we disagree on? Because that only drives people apart.

Anyway... one of the things that I loved so much about the movie was the portrayal of Kurt Wagner. This was because, like, FINALLY -- a Catholic was portrayed in a positive way in a movie. Now, some people may watch the movie and disagree that this is a positive portrayal of a Catholic because the guy is a mutant who climbs up walls and hungs from the ceiling from time to time. But I thought that -- now hear this! -- this movie was the best thing to happen for Catholics in a long time -- and we needed it, honey! Finally, a positive Catholic character in film -- he prays, he lives in a church, he says the Rosary, and he kicks ass then disappears before you can catch him! LOVED IT!!!

BamfChyck - 19/12/03 at 19:48

I have to admit I returned to church, as an adult, mostly because of Kurt's example. I was looking for a spiritual direction, and I thought, oh hell, it works for Kurt. I'm not Catholic, though, I'm Episcopalian (and you know what they say, since Vatican II we're more Catholic than the Catholics. Except for the women priests, and the gay clergy, and all the divorced people, etc. etc).

I rather liked the story line where he was exploring becoming a priest because I thought his faith might lead him to see if it was a true calling or not. I didn't see him accepting all the clerical restrictions, at least not at that point in his life, but rather exploring to find where God might lead him.
So it's cool with me if he becomes a priest--he can always be received into the Epicopal/Anglican community and then he and I can get married. :)
And while I'm dreaming, I'd like a million dollars.

Movie Kurt did get on my nerves a little bit with all his God talk. I see it as more something I show others by example, like Comic Kurt. To keep it in context, Movie Kurt also got on my nerves for being fuzzless. There were lots of reasons he just wasn't my Kurt.

Somebody, somewhere on this board, a while ago, mentioned that Daredevil is also Catholic. Anybody know if that's true?

Winnowill - 19/12/03 at 19:57

My big brother had married a Jehova's Witness. I remember when I was 14 she kept trying to convert me, saying that Catholics worhiped the devil in their churches. :eek When I told her how much I felt the Spirit because I had just gone thru confirmation, she said that proved her point, it was the devil's work. :? go figure

Shadow_Dancer - 19/12/03 at 23:40

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
Kurt seems to espouse the "pure", unpoliticized RC faith. He doesn't constantly witness (evangelize), he doesn't make political decisions based solely on faith, and he doesn't use it as an excuse for pre-existing intolerance. He takes Christ's admonition of "As you treated the least of your brothers, so you have treated me" very seriously. And considering how he gets treated in return, it takes a lot of moral fiber to keep ones chin up in that way. :nodyes


This is the thing that attracted me to Nightcrawler in the first place, and I was so thrilled to see a truly Christian comic book character. Some people don't understand how much influence cultural icons have on society, especially young people. Teenagers often get ostracized by their peers over the smallest differences. I think Kurt is a good influence for the disenfranchised to understand the roll of faith in making us whole, no matter how we were created.

And I too am distressed over what some of my friends at church say about Catholics. My husband, who was a very wayward teenager and almost ended up in jail, was brought to a faith in Christ by a Jesuit priest. It seems very petty. Only God knows our hearts and we are cautioned to not be judgmental. It's a pity not enough people take that to heart. It's nice that Kurt does :)

Lauren - 20/12/03 at 03:35

WAIT JUST ONE COTTON PICKING MINUTE. How in the heck do Catholics worship the devil? Honestly, I mean come on. That is so preposterous, it makes me want to hit something. That's almost like people saying Wiccans worship the devil! they don't and neither do Catholics!

Well, enough with my ranting about that! I just liked how Kurt dealt with the Church of humanity! That was a pretty cool story!

Maelstrom - 20/12/03 at 04:18

*sigh* Yep, yep, yep. Strange how things work, isn't it? I honestly don't understand why the fundlets think Catholics worship the devil. I think it's all the symbols and rites they hate. Like I said: if you want a window into the mind of Fundamentalist paranoia, take a look at the Jack Chick Museum of Fine Art (search an engine for the title). It's funny and sad at the same time. There's a guy who'd be positive that Kurt was the antiChrist. And he's Catholic? Proof positive! ;)

Lauren - 20/12/03 at 04:23

Man... anyone who messes with Kurt messes with me, and you mess with me, fingers and toes go missing dernit!

Why is there such a big thing against Catholics anyway? I mean, sure we were mean and bad in the past, but most religions have their sour points....except Buddhisim, their still cool...

I wonder if Kurt wold make a good Buddhist:?

rockstar - 20/12/03 at 04:29

Just goes to show that you never know a person until you take the time to KNOW the person.

"Most people will never know anything beyond what they see with their own two eyes."

Main theme of Nightcrawler: Don't judge a book by it's cover.

Nightcrawler is judged and ostracized because of his appearence the same way many Catholics are ostrasized because of their faith.
And you know what? It sucks.

Lauren - 20/12/03 at 04:32

Honestly, I actually lost a friend because they found out I was Catholic. They said I was going to hell and I said I'd probably meet them there...Still, it was kinda depressing... Kurt cheered me up though! I loves him because he always cheers me up.

Maelstrom - 21/12/03 at 01:37

One of the things to remember: Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, Judaism, and countless others are Religions, ways of preparing yourself for the hereafter. They are manners of worship. Bhuddism, Daoism, and so forth are Philosophies, which are ways of living here and now. The former can lend itself to extreme behavior much easier than the latter. That's why you never hear about extremists Bhuddists rioting or starting a holy war. They think of the here and now and of how to expand consciousness, rather than planning for a future that has no basis in anything other than faith.

Lauren, don't feel too bad about "losing" a friend like that. My mother, who was just a non-denominational Christian at that time, had a mormon girl looking at her very hard for several minutes, and when she asked her why, the girl said she was looking for my mom's horns. Seems she'd been told that anyone who wasn't Mormon, yet claimed to be a follower of Christ, was a demon in disguise... :rolleyes

rockstar - 21/12/03 at 05:02

ok, I'm sorry if i'm annoying anyone by compairing Catholics to the stuff in X2, but this is the last thing. I promise.

"We're here to stay."

Whatever some people may have against religions other than their own, they need to get over it. Until Jesus comes down to Earth or until the world as we know it ends, there is going to be many different religions.
If people are going to say stuff about Catholics, they should at least be sure about the facts before they open their mouths. CATHOLICS DO NOT WORSHIP THE DEVIL!!!

Lauren - 21/12/03 at 05:03

really? Then I guess Kurt's disguise isn't working huh?

Warbird - 21/12/03 at 15:46

What I was told is that because we have statues and prayrs for Mary, we worship false idels which is in turn, warshiping satan. My reply was that if Jesus gave Mary undying love and respect than she deserves to be aknowlaged a bit more than "his mom". It's not like we sit there worshiping her image or praying to her as our savoir. It's fine to aknowlage how very important she is though. I find the whole thing frustrating. People don't understand my religion so I'm going to hell? whatever. I like to think that God is more forgiving than that. Like I said before and many of you have said, it's so wonderful that Kurt puts a positive spin on Catholisism when most people think it's very negative.

taekwondodo - 21/12/03 at 18:32

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Originally posted by Warbird
I like to think that God is more forgiving than that.


You've hit *one* of the many reasons that I am not religious in the least. If there is a God as the assorted Christian faiths insist, I'd like to think that he's not so petty as to care what manner you worshipped him in - or didn't for that matter - so long as you were sincere and tried to be a good person. I must admit that if I were ever to espouse a Christian faith - which is unlikely ever to happen - it would doubtless be Catholicism or perhaps Anglicanism. Purely for very shallow reasons however - I love the pageantry and formality of Catholic worship. I've had many Catholic friends (grew up in a heavily Catholic community) and have been to more than a few masses and spoken to more than a few priests. I didn't share their faith, but I must say that I've found them uniformly to be good men for whom I had much respect. You've got to respect someone who believes so strongly in an ideal that they're willing to literally dedicate their entire life to it. I can't even imagine how difficult that must be. It is a shame that the Church has dealt so poorly with its 'bad apples' that they have succeeded in giving a very bad name to priests and by extension the Church in general.

To add a somewhat different perspective to your religious discussion, I'd like to contribute the viewpoint of an agnostic leaning towards atheism. I get rather tired of the assumption that people who follow no religion have no moral code. It seems to me rather pathetic to assume that the only thing which can keep people on the straight and narrow so to speak is the threat of eternal damnation for their misdeeds. Some things are *wrong* simply because they are. You don't need to threaten me with God's wrath to get me to recognize them or adhere to them. I am, in fact, a much more moral person than many very devout individuals I know (not all, of course, but quite a few). I am also considerably more tolerant of some things - though less so of others. As a parent I can certainly see the appeal of religion to some. I had many agnostic friends who 'found religion' upon becoming parents - part of the appeal being how much easier it is to answer so many of the 'why' questions a little person asks by being able to say 'because God said so' rather than having to actually come up with a rational answer. (Yes, I do know a number of people who have explained the importance of their religion to them at least partly in these terms. Most notably some friends in law school.)

To end this rather long rant - I respect your right to be religious. Catholics as much as any other group. I wish that more religious people would respect my right not to be and my right to raise my children how *I* see fit. (You'd be amazed how many people think there's nothing wrong with trying to *convert* my kids b/c we're not religious where it would never occur to them if we were just Jewish or Muslim or a competing Christian faith. But lord the hell that would break loose if I tried to do the same to their kids.)

Very interesting discussion, btw.

very cool indeed.

thylacine - 21/12/03 at 20:27

This discussion is turning out totally awesome (sorry for being so 80's)!

Bamfchyck, that is cool that Kurt got you back into church & stuff.

To you other guys... Yeah... I just cannot figure how so many people think that Catholics worship the devil. I just do not get that one! Or maybe you get a lot of that where you live? Is is like in the South, or something?

Where I live, you get a lot of this kind of stereotyping: That Catholics are "uneducated" or "ignorant." People sometimes think that Catholics don't think for themselves and just "do what they're told." Like hello? They're wrong, honey! That's the line I hear. If yah wanna hear a real bad one... I went out with this Wiccan on a date. He was bragging that he was Wiccan, trying to scare me or impress me. I just so did not care, since I'd come across so many various types in my life... I told him I was Catholic since he asked. He laughed, "Catholic girls! I know what they're like! Family values. Do everything they're told. Like to get down on their knees!" Evil Bastard!

Anyway... no, I don't know if Daredevil is Catholic. I never read that one! I am also an X-Files fan, so if people care, Dana Scully is Catholic... Mulder just believes in aliens!

I'm glad I started this discussion. I thought that I'd get NO RESPONSE at all, since people don't seem that interested in religion these days.

If people wanna think that Catholics worship the devil, let's make Kurt Wagner the patron saint of mutants! They can make little gold holy medals with his image on it! :LOL

You can tell everyone who asks, that's St. Wagner, patron of all lost mutants, whom God gave the miracle of teleportation!

Anyway... I don't mind if Kurt became a priest and stayed single, but personally, I don't think it's a good idea, since he would not have time to also be an X-Man. How could he do both?

Lauren - 22/12/03 at 03:25

Actually, that's a good point too. My aunt's an atheist and she sometimes complains that most people tend to think that atheists have no moral codes. Now to me, I don't care what you are. Heck, I have a friend who's actually a Satanist, and they're a pretty cool person. The whole "kill and drink kitten blood" is not what normal Satanists do apparently, they just happen to think God and Satan are on the same level, but Satan is better *shrug* meh

Going back to the atheist thing, I think the only reason people put down Atheists is because the more vocal ones tend to make all atheists look like whiners who go around saying "We need to change this and we need to change that because I don't believe it and it's not fair to ME so YOU have to change everything to better suit MY wants and needs." I know most atheists aren't like that, but with every other group out there, it just takes a few to screw it up for everyone else you know?

St. Wagner that sounds awesome! but do you think the Pope would really let a comic character be named a saint:? Maybe if we asked real nicely?:oops

Maelstrom - 22/12/03 at 04:48

I think the term "Satanist" is kind of a misnomer, because there isn't really any organized religion around it. Yeah, yeah, There was a "church of Satan" in the 70s, but it was a real joke.... There are no extablished, traditional, "accepted" ritual methods of actually worshipping the JudeoChristian devil. People just kind of slap together stuff that sounds or looks right (mainly gathered from horror films) and claim that it's the real deal.

That's what really decides the difference between a religion and a cult, for me. Time is one thing: it needs to have been around for a very long time. The next is established, unbroken traditions. Satanism doesn't have that. (Unfortunately, neither do most of the new age "Wiccian", "witchcraft", or "Neo-pagans", but that's another story entirely....)

So far as I can see, Satanism is the ultimate boogeyman. It's the perfect, irredeemable enemy; elusive, invisible, everywhere, and fits whatever mold you want. Problem is, as a organized religion, or even a cult, it just doesn't exist... so you have to make a boogeyman out of somethine else.... Something that's real.

Humanity defines itself more by its enemies than its friends. By saying "I am NOT that", you also emphatically define what you are. We need a "them" to be "us" against. This is why I don't think we'll have world peace until we discover aliens. Then we'll have a whole new "them."

Regrettably, "mutants" fit the bill just fine. :shame

Warbird - 22/12/03 at 16:37

I've always been down with the idea of atheism. Most of the people I know who are, are actually some of the nicest and good peopel I know. They also always explain themselves in a similar fasion "It's not that I'm against god or religion, but there's nothing in it that I can relate/ belive in". I personaly think that that is very respectable. We all have our own cup of tea and it's rediculous that people can hate each other over religion. Do you think that god would like the idea that wars are carried out in his name? Anyway, I also agree with the idea that modern satanism is a bit of a farse. It's flashy but most of the members just do it for attention. I'm not saying there bad people or anything, but it's not real to me. I could be wrong though, all new religions are met with resistance and misunderstanding, including christianity. maybe they are to? I don't know, It's not for me to say. Anyway my origional point was that I think Atheism is as valid as any religuos group. I can't belive that some one could think it's ok to try and convert anyone especially just because they're atheist. Let people belive what they want. If they want you religion in their life they'll ask you.

rockstar - 22/12/03 at 16:46

good point, Maelstrom.

I feel silly for saying this, but I still get confused about this whole Religion thing. Pretty much since I was born, I've only been taught about the Catholic religion. I know about other religions, but not as much as i think I should.
Could someone explain the difference between a Religion and a Faith?

CNN is on the TV right now, and they're talking about the "War on Christianity." When did this happen?

Northstars Love - 22/12/03 at 18:45

Actually it is faith in Christ that we must follow. Not religion. The Catholic Church being the oldest institution of Christianity has over the centuries given the false belief that you cannot be saved without the intercession of the Mother Church. Religion likes to play the belief that they are needed along side the savior's sacrifice upon Calvary. Not so.

Faith is what Christ taught. He told his Apostles to have faith constantly. Even Christ himself said, "Do as the Pharisee's tell you but do not take their example." In other words don't practice your faith as they do. They do it to be seen. Going somewhere to pray to God alone is not doing it to be seen.

Religion is summoned up as a specific set of beliefs or worship that is built around God. That is why there is so many Christian denominations because each one of those are different from one another.

Being Catholic I really don't follow the religion anymore. But I have faith in God and Christ as savior of the world. It is a personal faith. Between God and myself. The way I believe Christ intended.

BTW, the Church is the people of God and not a building or set of religious rules.

Bamf Bunny - 22/12/03 at 20:08

I was surprised and pleased by Kurt's devotion to Gabriel in X2. I've always been fond of Gabriel, if you can use the word "fond" about a being so fearsome that he has to precede all his announcements with "Fear not". Gabriel is a herald, and in the Christian tradition it's his trumpet call that raises the dead in the end days, so he's always been associated with communications. He's not the patron of linguists for some reason, but he is associated with telecommunications (I used to be a network specialist).

I would have picked St. Michael the Archangel for Kurt. Michael's often shown with a sword, contending against Satan and his minions and rescuing the souls of the faithful; fencing is one of his patronages. Then again, Gabriel is (in the Christian tradition) the angel of mercy but Michael is the angel of judgment - so perhaps that's the better call.

Wolvertique - 22/12/03 at 21:24

Geez. I guess I, as a devoted Pagan, am in the minority of those posting in this thread. I deconverted from fundie Christianity in 1999, so I don't see Christianity as a blessing in general.

I see religion as the particular category of faith one follows (e.g. I have faith in Christ, therefore I'm a Christian), not the usual negative "it's following rules and not having faith" idea.

My mother's an atheist, and I have no problem with them in general. I have problems with the ones who ape fundamentalist Christianity, though, and insist anyone who has any religious belief whatsoever is clearly stupid and evil.

I don't mind people being Catholic. I mind people being jerks. I don't care what context it's in, be it religious or political or social, if you're a jerk then you're a jerk. And I don't blame jerkiness on religion or politics or so on. FYI. :D

thylacine - 22/12/03 at 23:49

This continues to be a real cool discussion. I'm impressed with you guys. I go to other online communities like this one & discuss philosophical stuff, and they all end up fighting and putting each other down. I'm really impressed to see people who are above that here. :)

rockstar - 23/12/03 at 00:31

well, A.) this is an OPINION thread, and B.) if we were to start fighting and saying mean things about other religions, the Moderators would take action. :respectnc

l agree with Northstar's Love. Whatever faith or religion is chosen, the person choosing it should keep it a personal deal.

Lauren - 23/12/03 at 03:46

PLUS: this is Nightcrawler we're talking about. Nightcrawler is the bond that brings everyone together to discuss something like this with actual respect!

Honestly, my friends and I were talking about religion before school ended, and they all agreed that religion isn't a building or a specific group of people. Quoting my friend George, "The Church is BS, what does a building and shiny jewelry have to do with God?"

Maelstrom - 23/12/03 at 18:18

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Originally posted by Lauren
Honestly, my friends and I were talking about religion before school ended, and they all agreed that religion isn't a building or a specific group of people. Quoting my friend George, "The Church is BS, what does a building and shiny jewelry have to do with God?"


The idea behind adorning church buildings with all the shiny, glittery stuff is "You give your best to God". Kind of like how the Jews would bring in the best of their chickens, their lambs, their oxen, etc, for the ritual sacrifices. After all: if you're giving stuff you don't really care about, it isn't a sacrifice, is it? ;)

The problem with all the glittery, shiny stuff is when we get too attached to it... and that goes for religious leaders. Priests/ministers, rabbis, holy men, shamans, and so forth: anyone is prone to temptation and corruption. To want to gain the shiny stuff for them, not for God. Or to demand more shiny stuff for God than the people can reasonably afford, just to make them "look better."

At one time the Catholic faith was a MAJOR governing institution, and (IHMO) sin is part of the job description for governments. They're as worldy as they come. That's why I believe (and our founding fathers did, too) that the two should NEVER mix, because one gets corrupted by the other. During the Middle Ages, we had all sorts of governmental taxings and purges from the Catholic Church. They were the same things everyone else was going, but with the added "shield" of being done in His holy name. Martin Luther saw the governmental excesses (sale of indulgences, the Inquisition, etc.) and disagreed with them so much that he nailed his thesis to the door, demanding change. The shiny stuff had gotten in the way.

It's not wealth that's the sin. Nor is it simply the pursuit of wealth that's bad. It's the pursuit of wealth above all else that causes so much trouble. The shiny stuff dwells hapilly, without trouble, in churches and mosques, in temples and synagogs, and even in the simplest of shrines. It is the best people can give, whether that's gold and jewels, or gifts of time and effort. It's the motive behind them that makes it a true gift or meaningless, repetitive ritual.

Like NL said, the Church referrs to the people: capital C for the congregation, small c for the building. The reason the Church is important (as opposed to the little building itself) is that humanity isn't generally designed to "go it alone". We need the presence and support of others. (This is why solitary confinement is a punishment in jails, and why we have "go sit in the corner" as a punishment for unruly children.)

Even monks and nuns, who have sealed themselves off to further their devotions, will congregate in groups. The true hermits, who go by themselves to be closer to God, are rare, but still acceptable. However, the hermits have (hopefully) made an enlightened choice, in the fullness of knowing the rest of the world, and they're the extreme minority. The rest of us just aren't designed to work that way. So we attend the Church by being around everyone else (whethet it's in attendence of a religious ceremony, a school, a party, or any other gathering). This is what makes Nightcrawler's situation doubly tragic. He may be part of the Church, but cannot express it by going to attend ceremonies in church with the rest of the congregation, because of his appearance. His solitude, his hermit status, has been kind of foisted upon him... and still he has the grace and love to deal with it instead of turning into a misanthropic nightmare.

rockstar - 23/12/03 at 22:33

Maelstrom....... You. Rock.
Sooo many good points in there.

I know this thread is about Kurt, but are there any opinions about the Separation of Church and State?

Lauren - 24/12/03 at 03:52

You can't have the church and state together for one reason, not everyone shares the same faith. Like, if a Rabbi came into my school and started to do a whole thing for the entire student body, I'd probably feel weird because I'm not Jewish and don't know about it. The problem is that most people who want religion in school and stuff is that they mostly want CHRISTIAN religion, and that's not fair to people who don't believe that, i know I'd be damned angry if my school suddenly made it mandatory to pray to Jesus or something. It's just not fair to everyone else.

and I agree, it's not right that Nightcrawler can't group together with other people except when he's wearing his image inducer! grrr...that's not fair!

spinifex - 24/12/03 at 09:32

I'm Catholic, and while I didn't know of Nightcrawler's spirituality when I was converting/in RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults - a Catholic 101 type of class), I found X2 inspiring when I was going through a low point in my faith journey.

One criticism that I hear from Protestants about Catholicism is that, according to Protestant belief, faith alone in Jesus will guarantee your place in Heaven. Catholicism, however, teaches that you need both faith and works to get into Heaven. It's not enough to merely believe in Jesus, you also have to, to the best of your ability, emulate Jesus and his teachings. For instance, Jesus said to "feed the poor", so go out and feed the poor - donate to a charity, give food to a food bank, work at a soup kitchen, etc., e.g. show Jesus' love by example, not solely by prostelyzing. St. Francis of Assisi once said "Preach the Gospel wherever you go. If necessary, use words."

Some Protestants think that that is 'too much' and can be an area rife with abuse. I've gotten into a few discussions with street preachers with this, and when they bring up the 'faith alone' point, I mention that doing good deeds in God's name certainly doesn't hurt now, does it? They never have an answer for that.

I like this discussion - it should definitely be kept going! Thanks for starting it!

C-ko

spinifex - 24/12/03 at 09:35

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really? Then I guess Kurt's disguise isn't working huh?


Thank you for making me spit out my Toblerone :D

C-ko

Wolvertique - 24/12/03 at 12:45

Separation of church and state is best for both church and state. It's as simple as that. Churches are more likely to thrive when they're not just a tool of the government, being used to advance its purposes and not the faith they profess, and the government does better when it tries to govern, not dictate personal faith.

Also, as Lauren mentioned, lack of separation means that the majority makes sure that the minority has no voice. (No offense if you're part of the majority, of course.) That's bad for many reasons, not the least of which is that most Christians I know of want people to willingly and freely choose to follow their God, not be pressured into it because otherwise they have no rights.

Lauren - 24/12/03 at 19:14

Because that's exactly what happened in Afghanistan with Al Quadi, they forced people to belief what they wanted them to believe, and that made things a lot worse! We don't want to be like that or the Middle Ages where if you weren't Christian, you had to go to the ghetto. I mean, the ghetto was a rich place, but you couldn't LEAVE the ghetto! And when something bad happened, "blame the nonchristian!"

Maelstrom - 24/12/03 at 19:46

In the middle ages in Europe, the Jews were *only* allowed to lend money (known as usery). They got in serious trouble if they had any other jobs. The interpretation of the Catholic faith, at the time, forbade charging interest on a loan, and in that case, why lend money at all? Judaism, however, still allowed one to charge interest (so long as it wasn't injurious or outrageous). The Jews were the moneylenders and financiers. And they were a persecuted minority...

I'm sure you can see where this is leading.... :evil

Yup: whenever you wanted to default on a loan, just go to your local Priest and tell them that that nasty 'ol Jew over there is eating meat on a Friday. He gets killed for Heresy, and your debt also goes up in smoke. Very convenient. The barons, dukes, and kings did this way too many times....

Invariably, when politics, greed, and other worldy things get involved, the most peaceful of religions can turn into an oppresive nightmare. Christianity reveres and worships one who let Himself be tortured to death, rather than fight back! You can't get more pacifistic than that! And yet, how many atrocities have happened in His name? More than I want to count. This isn't a swipe at religion in general, or Christianity in particular: it's a swipe at mankind's general habit of twisting things to fit one's personal desires.

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I've gotten into a few discussions with street preachers with this, and when they bring up the 'faith alone' point, I mention that doing good deeds in God's name certainly doesn't hurt now, does it? They never have an answer for that.


I can go you one better, hun :evil :

When I was in college, a pair of fundlet whack-jobs came and "preached" in the courtyard to anyone within earshot. I put "preach" in quotes because it was more of a harangue with Biblical notation than a sermon. They were so busy calling everyone a whore and a whoremonger that I doubt anyone who wasn't in dire need of a dominatrix would listen to them. (I felt so sorry for the local Saltworks group, kind of a Campus Crusade for Christ outfit. They were such sweethearts, and this made them look so bad....:urg) I argued with them (like so many others). I asked, "Why should we be so terrified of a God who loves us?"

Their response? "NOWHERE IN THE BIBLE DOES IT SAY THAT GOD LOVES US!"

Excuse me? :?

"He so loved the world that He gave us His only begotten Son"?

"God loves the sinner, but hates the sin"?

Are we even reading the same book??? :shakeno

Lauren - 24/12/03 at 20:49

Wait... that just blew my mind...I need to reboot my brain for a minute hold on...

Ok, that was just so stupid! did you smack 'em after that? I would most likely smacked 'em. i have this thing where when people get frustrating like that, I smack 'em really hard in the face! you should try it, it's fun!

Anyway, there have been a lot of problems when it comes to people screwing over other people and disguising it. We've had Popes that have declared wars just for the money! Heck, the Black Plague was blamed on the Jews! what's going on people? It's like there's this secret memo that went around that said when all else fails, blame the Jew!

taekwondodo - 25/12/03 at 01:08

Actually, Medieval Jews were allowed to follow other trades than money-lending, it was just that their status as bankers was pretty much the only reason their presence was tolerated. There were Jewish merchants and tradesmen - I know specifically that they fairly commonly were found as traders in cloths and dyes and as jewelers of various types.

Talking about religion being used to justify atrocities - you've got to love the Crusades. The Church got tired of 'good Christians' slaughtering each other for fun and money so they preached Crusades. Got truces between warring European factions, got rid of a bunch of younger sons whose only business was making trouble and provided an excuse to ship out large numbers of the 'useless common folk'. Bonus, they could make war on the filthy Moors and retake the Holy Land if they were lucky. Pretty much the same deal as al Qaida gives these days - kill the non-believer or die trying and go directly to Heaven, do not pass go, do not collect $200. And if you live and are victorious there's the added bonus of robbing, raping and pillaging with the Church's blessing.

Basically, almost any religion can be perverted and twisted to justify atrocities - modern Islamic extremists sure don't have a corner on the market (nor do the Christian fundies).

Lauren - 25/12/03 at 04:01

It's really sad that all of these religions that are supposed to be extremely peaceful get twisted by a few crazies and it makes the whole group look bad! there are even Hindu Extremists! I think it was a Hindu Extremist who shot Gandhi because he was nice to Muslims or something like that!

The only group that doesn't go insane are the Buddhists! They should get an award for that! Everyone applaud the Buddhists! Yay Buddha!

Wolvertique - 25/12/03 at 05:54

I like Buddhists. Just a little sprinkle of garlic salt, and voila! :)

Oops, did I say that out loud? :LOL

Yes, fundie ignorance can be entertaining. A local Pagan I know was once accosted by a pair of them, who asked him what religion he was. He pulled out his pentacle, a five pointed star in a circle. Apparently they confused it with the six pointed Star of David, for they looked at each other, smiled, and said, "Oh, so you're Jewish!"

So sometimes we local Pagans say we're Jewish.

Lauren - 25/12/03 at 17:48

That's so awesome! But didn't they see it only had five stars and not six? i used to get confused, but I figured it out later on.

Wolvertique - 25/12/03 at 21:04

::shrug:: I don't know if they just assumed a star had to be Jewish or what. I just know that it was funny...

Maelstrom - 25/12/03 at 23:33

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Yes, fundie ignorance can be entertaining. A local Pagan I know was once accosted by a pair of them, who asked him what religion he was. He pulled out his pentacle, a five pointed star in a circle. Apparently they confused it with the six pointed Star of David, for they looked at each other, smiled, and said, "Oh, so you're Jewish!"

So sometimes we local Pagans say we're Jewish.


:*D:*DBWAAAHAHAHAHA!!!! :*D Oh, Lord, that's hysterical! Can't tell the difference between Solomon's Seal and the Star of David?? I swear....

Of course, if you want to hear what happens when stupid people try to out-think zealots, here's one for you. Yes, this really happened. I personally knew both guys involved, Scott and Alan (who, at this time, were both in their mid to late teens).

Alan was telling Scott how tired he was of the Jehovah's Witnesses knocking on doors with the Watchtower. (Their block was some kind of magnet for Witnesses.) So Alan got the brilliant, inventive idea that he'd tell them he was a Satanist and scare them off. Scott could smell trouble, and warned Alan that this was not the brilliant, inventive idea he thought it was. Undaunted, Alan was determined to see his plot through. He didn't even wait for the JWs to get to their side of the street. He went to the door, opened it, and shouted "Hey! I'm a Satanist!"

The JWs came to his door calmly. Scott stood back and watched. Here was the approximate conversation:

JWs: You said you were a Satanist?

Alan: Yeah!

Scott: (silently, in the back corner) :doh!

JWs: What do you mean by that?

Alan: (pause) Well, I'm a Satanist! I believe in Satan!

JWs: Well, we do too. We just believe that our Lord and Savior, Jesus, is far more powerful than Satan....

.... This went on for quite some time.

The JWs, as Scott predicted, were SO used to this little ploy that they were quite ready for it, and had their spiel all worked out. After about half an hour, poor Alan mumbled that he had seen the error of his ways, begged to be let go to use the bathroom, and took a Watchtower just to get them off his doorstep.

Scott couldn't stop laughing for ten minutes. :evil


However, sometimes the "Satanist" ploy does work. Case in point:

I knew a friend (neither Scott, nor Alan) who once rented a single apartment for incredibly cheap. Why was it so cheap? Because the Satanic, incredibly STUPID, tenant before had burned a pentagram into the hardwood floor! Not surprisingly, the landlord was having a hard time renting it out, but my friend didn't care. He shrugged, kicked a rug over it, and basked in the glory of paying half the rent he expected.

One day a JW came to his door. This was one of the stereotypical, foot in the door kinds who just wouldn't leave until you were converted. So my friend went to a bookcase, picked out some random book with a black cover, kicked the rug off the pentagram, sat in the middle, opened the book, and said, "I'll match you verse-for-verse".

The poor bastard practically left skid marks. :shocked

Lauren - 26/12/03 at 03:58

that is sooo cool! But my dad used to actually study religion, and we once had Jws for neighbors. They constantly came over and my dad would have discussions with them. One day, my dad says we believe in the Holy trinity, and they freaked and said it was all evil and a lie.

They never came over since.

thylacine - 26/12/03 at 14:33

I hope everyone had a nice holiday... ! My Buick got rear ended, so I didn't.

Anyway... If people want my opinions on church & state... yeah, the church should not run the state & vice versa, but the state should not ban religious expression either. Like, locally a town would not let a rabbi put up a menorah in public view. That is really wrong, I think.

Also, with regard to violence in the name of religion, I don't think it's a religion problem, I think it's a people problem. People are violent and use beliefs as an excuse. Sad, ain't it?

Yeah... my uncle is a Jehovah's Witness, and he dumped the rest of the family and won't speak to us anymore. We were so good to him. That kills me.

Fundamentalists amuse some people and annoy others. I always get along with them myself, since they don't swear or steal or whatever (they're not supposed to anyway!). I just don't like it when they say Catholics will go to hell.

It's interesting to see how people have been saying that Nightcrawler is an inspiration to them. It's fascinating to see how a fictional character can have such an effect on people!

rockstar - 26/12/03 at 14:59

He may be fictional, but we all wish he were real.
If a man who looks like a demon can be so faithful to God, why can't we? God seems to help Kurt (even though Kurt goes through a lot). God helps a man who looks as different and as demonic as Kurt does. It helps me to remember that God love us no matter what, and He can help us with our problems.

Lauren - 27/12/03 at 02:58

Yeah, despite the fact that God made Kurt look the way he does, Kurt has strong faith in Him despite all of the issues he's been through, especially the one where mutants were being tortured in a church. It must have taken a lot to still believe after that happened.

Northstars Love - 27/12/03 at 19:19

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I hope everyone had a nice holiday... ! My Buick got rear ended, so I didn't.


Sorry to hear that. Hope everyone is ok.


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Also, with regard to violence in the name of religion, I don't think it's a religion problem, I think it's a people problem. People are violent and use beliefs as an excuse. Sad, ain't it?


True. It is unfortunate that people use the bible for all sorts of violence. Including discrimination against certain people for who they are. And some of these people that quote the bible are not Christians! But they feel it's a good reference guide to support their distorted beliefs of discrimination.


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Yeah... my uncle is a Jehovah's Witness, and he dumped the rest of the family and won't speak to us anymore. We were so good to him. That kills me.


The Witnesses believe the basic doctrine of the Trinity is a devil made belief. So they discarded the basic tenet of most Christian denominations. Hell, even the Protestants that broke away from the Catholic Church believe in the Holy Trinity. But certain faiths excommunicate family members and friends if they are not part of their religious faith.

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Fundamentalists amuse some people and annoy others. I always get along with them myself, since they don't swear or steal or whatever (they're not supposed to anyway!). I just don't like it when they say Catholics will go to hell.


I find the Fundamentalists faith to be anti-everything. I don't even believe in their doctrine of the Rapture. I find that belief to go against the belief of the Second Coming. They also forget the scripture which calls for us not to judge lest we be judged by the same measure. Catholics won't go to Hell. Fundies are under the misguided belief that they are right and everybody else is wrong. And Pride is one of the 7 deadly sins. Someone should remind them.

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It's interesting to see how people have been saying that Nightcrawler is an inspiration to them. It's fascinating to see how a fictional character can have such an effect on people!


Yes it is. Nightcrawler, despite all the ridicule and hate he experiences in his daily life still holds to his faith in God. Never once asking-at least not as of yet in the movies-"God. Why have you made me this way?"

Bamf Bunny - 27/12/03 at 20:43

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Because that's exactly what happened in Afghanistan with Al Quadi, they forced people to belief what they wanted them to believe [...]

You're thinking of the Taliban, the religious government that ruled Afghanistan before the second Gulf War. Al-Qaeda is a terrorist organization, not a government.

BamfChyck - 28/12/03 at 01:58

I'm not here to clobber you, dear. I don't agree with you, and I would encourage you to pray about this. I pray about it every day. If you're really curious, you might want to research it with some. Two of my favorite books about this are "Religion Is A Queer Thing" by Elizabbeth Stuart and "Homosexuality And The Christian Faith" by Walter Wink.

I don't think it's in the bible that gays are going to hell. I believe that the verses that are used to support that arguement have been distorted and misused to the extent that they are no longer true to their original meaning, literally or otherwise.

I don't think it says homosexuality is a sin, either. I could go over this verse by verse, if you want.

I've got very strong discernment. It is currently my strongest spiritual gift, and since I was a little girl, Jesus has led me to fight the homophobic misuse of the bible. This is an issue very close to me, and I just weep when I hear people spewing such hate in Christ's name.

As far as all the queers going to hell--it's God's idea of redemption here that counts. Not mine, not yours. And ultimately, it's His redemption that will affect us all.

Bamf Bunny - 28/12/03 at 02:03

Angel of the Night, I've deleted your post because I believe it goes beyond the respect called for in the rules. Religion is a topic where it will not be possible for everyone to agree, but flat-out declaring that anyone is going to hell is not acceptable here.

Lauren - 28/12/03 at 03:38

Whoops...boy do I feel kinda foolish now.. Well... the Taliban and Al Quadi were both BAD anyway so *Meh*

I'm kidding I'm kidding, Thank you for pointing out my mistake.

But it really gets me how people claim certain things just because it's in the bible, like the homosexual thing.

Who wrote the bible? People
Who translated it? People
Who spreads it around? People
Well, I think we've all pointed out that it is PEOPLE who screw up everything really. Who cares if it's in the bible, some of those things must be wrong because of one thing; people wrote it. I could easily write a book and put what I want in it, but does that make it true? No, so really people can't always use the bible to back their words that much!

Salinea - 28/12/03 at 09:01

I agree with you. People aren't perfect so they shouldn't claim that the writing in the bible is faultless. The only problem with trying to disproove the fautlessness of the bible is that you will have others who say that the bible was utterly and completely inspired by god so none of it can be wrong or slightly mistaken. There's the problem :(

I'm not exactly an agnostic but I don't believe in institutionlized religions because in every one I found some sort of problem with it..well..except for buddism (haven't really known that many Buddist people). I go to a Catholic high school because it offers a very good education despite the mandatory religion class. However, I've pretty much lost my faith in Christianity and other religions because of what I've learned and seen at my school. I have met many a truly hypocritical Catholic and many honest and good Catholics. The hypocrits hide behind their religion which has decent and moral goals but they take advantage of the name and the ideas behind it to defend there not-so-good beliefs or actions.

One of my religion teachers was a real goody-goody kind of person. She always smiled and always seemed nice but she was VERY biased. She would give less than deserving grades to people who didn't believe exactly as she did or have opinions just like hers. We had a section on abortion and had to write papers. This was supposed to be an open opinion paper but the only girl who wrote pro-choice was denied a grade on her paper until she was forced to after the parents spoke to the principal. Still, she gave the girl a low grade.

People like that have made me lose my faith but one of my very good friends is a devout Catholic and another is Jewish. The former is very involved in the religious activities we have at our school and I respect her and the other for their devotion to faith but I don't think I'm changing any time soon.

I've seen the problems with religions because many people have a lack of respect for other religions. Essentially, each religion is like a different interpretation of the same thing. God presented itself to different cultures in different ways but many refuse to see that. Human imperfection drives the majority of people to seek a way to make themselves better than someone else. All in all it's a sad predicament. :(

Northstars Love - 28/12/03 at 09:47

Angel, you need to understand that all people are different. And that includes gay people. There are many within the gay community that are very strong believers in God and Christ. Are we to assume that whatever they do to profess their faith will mean zip when they die? Did Christ not say that it is through faith that we are saved?

I'm a firm believer that my salvation comes from Christ's death on Calvary. And that he rose again on the third day and ascended into Heaven. I do not believe that a church or minister has the authority to say who is and who isn't going to Heaven. That judgement is left up to God. And to God alone. It is a personal relationship between Christ and myself. Not any church. Not any other person.

Man is inherently corrupt and sinful according to the Christian faith. I cannot trust in man to save me. That includes ministers, priests and rabbis. They are sinfull just as you and I. That is why I put my trust and faith in Christ to save me from my sins. And it is he that gives the strength to endure the hateful ridicule and condemnation from my other brothers and sisters in Christ because of who I am.

I don't hate or wish ill will to those that hate or disagree with me. Only pray that God enlightens them to understand the plight of their gay brothers and sisters. We have a common goal Angel and that is to help others to Christ. Let us work together to achieve this goal instead of making it pull us apart because of our temporary earthly differences.

Maelstrom - 28/12/03 at 21:19

An interesting tidbit of information. I can't vouch for the universal acceptability of it, as this kind of stuff gets debated endlessly and without resolution, but I thought I'd post it here, since apparently someone brought it up. (I didn't get to see the "errant post" before it was deleted....)

Some scholars have hypothesized that the "never commit homosexuality" phrasing is a corruption of "never commit sodomy". The ancient term "sodomizing" didn't refer to all forms of anal sex. Sodomizing was... well... rape. It was a way of exerting dominance, control, and other nasty things by a painful and humiliating method. Generally, this was what one did to conquered enemies: women were raped, and men were sodomized.

Taken in this light, it wasn't the fact that someone was gay that was the problem, nor even that love might be expressed through an alternate method. The sin was in being a "Sodomite", which basically meant a rapist. In this case, declaring gays "sodomites" is akin to declaring anyone who has had sex at all a "rapist".

I know this is a controversial topic, and this hypothesis may not be agreeable to everyone on the board, but it certainly sheds a different light on things....

Warbird - 28/12/03 at 23:19

Thank you Maelstrom!!! Sometimes I think I'm the only person who takes that view. It's hard to say if it was meant in the context of rape but it makes sence when you look at the social structure of the day. Especially because some Romans in high positions would take on male companions aside from their wives, weather the man, or sometimes boy, liked it or not.
The one thing I do have a problem with in the argument, even though I myself support it, is that it opens up the idea that the bible was written so long ago that it's obsolete. Too much has changed in the world, they would see it differently now, blah blah blah. It's a moral code more than a hand book for socioty, but it gets a bit sticky when you try and interprate it. No one knows what they meant exactly or what context it was in. Should we ignore or reinterprate anything that we don't agree with because our socioty accepts it? I do support the afore mentiond argument but I don't know if I'm right to do so.
Also, as far as doing good to get into hevan versus only beliving, I think that the good works are more important than beliving in jesus. I personaly belive that a truley good person could go to heavan even if they didn't belive, but a beliver who is also a mass murdurer doesn't have a shot. Maybe I think that the practice of good works is so important because I was raised that way. It is a Catholic thing I guess.
Anyway, i haven't been able to get to a computer so Happy holidays a little late for christmas... but theres still many more.

Lauren - 29/12/03 at 04:07

wait...I missed the whole Gay thing? Who said that? I gonna beats them up! no no, I kid, but I probably would have slapped them upside the head if we were talking face to face. It's the way I am sorry ^ ^.

Honestly, I don't really think when you die God does this:

God: all right lemme see here...Joe Schmoe...deadbeat, beat his wife and kids, was straight...sorry Hell for you

Now lemme see here...Alan Cumming...hmmm does charity work, played Kurt in a positive light for Christians...donated money...well you should be in..wait! you're Bi?! Sorry pal, Hell for you!

There is no way that if you are a good person that god's gonna dump ya because ya don't believe in him or are gay, that is preposterous!

In fact, i think there was a part in the Bible where after Jesus died, he went to Hell and he got everyone who was there and shouldn't be out didn't he? so ya see, ya can't believe everything now can ya? Because even Jesus has to correct his old man once in a while.

rockstar - 29/12/03 at 05:55

Rapists: Bad.
Homosexuals: Not bad.
Bisexuals: Not bad.

That's what the whole X-Men thing is about. When Bobby told his mom that he was a mutant, she asked him the stupidest question:

"Have you tried not being a mutant?"

STUPID STUPID!!!!
"Can you not be who you are? Can you change? Because, you're different. I don't want you to be different. I dont want you to be you."

How many times was a homosexual or a bisexual asked if they could try to be strait.
I just think it's crazy!

"Oh, he's gay. He's going to hell. She's black. She's going to hell. He's Jewish. He's going to hell."

No where does it say that a person's differences automatically condemns him or her to hell.
I think Kurt sends out this message perfectly. He's VERY different, genetically and physically. However, he has the heart and soul of a saint.

Wolvertique - 29/12/03 at 13:21

RE: the Bible and homosexuality. I'm a Pagan and don't believe the Bible's particularly special. However, one of my Christian pals has looked into the NT passages regarding homosexuality, particularly Romans 1, and found something very interesting. Homosexuality is being condemned there as a Pagan practice, because it was being done in the context of rituals to other Gods in Pagan temples. So to him, as long as you aren't practicing in the context of worshipping, say, Hera by enjoying your partner, the Bible doesn't condemn your action.

But I'm sure people could argue with this if they wanted to.

thylacine - 29/12/03 at 14:51

Regarding the above stuff...

Yes... I am okay physically since the accident, but I am quite angry about the other person's stupidity. People should look where they are going. Fortunately, my Buick is this 30 year old restoration project that weighs 4,000 pounds and the rear bumper is made of thick chrome plated steel. The Toyota really took it on the nose good. I was glad to see that my Buick can still fight back after all these years on the road! That will teach people to mess around with my car. The other person has got probably $1,000 + in damages, and I think mine is gonna be like $200??? Anyway...


That seems right that in X3 the scene where Bobby tells his parents that he is a mutant is symbolic of what people go through when they explain things to their parents. It might not just be about gay kids, though. It might also fit how kids feel when they say they don't want to really go to Law School, they want to be a musician or an artist. Or they may bring home a girlfriend who is black and the parents have bad feelings about that.

And, also... Yes, I definitely agree that we, as mortal human beings, should not condemn gay people. There are good gay people and bad gay people, just like there are good straight people and bad straight people. The person who mentions that "sodomy" in the Bible was really about rape may have been correct, since I read somewhere that the enemies of the ancient Hebrews used to attack the Hebrews and if they won the battle, the would round up all the men and molest them, so the Hebrew men, naturally, strongly resented that and outlawed it & etc. When you look at the Bible, it might be helpful to consider the historical context and society it was written in. Many things in the Bible are particular to the ancient society it comes from. For instance, they sacrificed animals in those days. Do we do that now? No! (Well... people who practice Santeria do... but that's not our discussion.)

*** In the books & in the movie Kurt does not get angry at God for making him the way he is. And in the movie he says he "pities people" because they only see what's on the outside instead of looking at the whole person. Do we think that maybe he doesn't blame God for making him a mutant, but instead sees this whole "appearance thing" as a people-problem rather than a problem with his looks? In other words that it reflects on how shallow people are. Do we think that perhaps he might feel that God may even use him to teach people a lesson in compassion and tolerance? Opinions... ?

taekwondodo - 29/12/03 at 18:10

Just for the record, I am so loving following, and occasionally contributing to, this discussion. It's so rare to be able to actually *discuss* any kind of religious issue rationally and non-combatively in the real world. It tends to be too personal for people and can sometimes become vindictive.

This is great, to see people with differing viewpoints actually discussing them and maintaining respect for differing viewpoints. Agree to disagree and have a ball debating the details. It's fun. Boy do I miss that from college.

Lauren - 30/12/03 at 04:29

Yeah, I agree with you on that one. It also helps that we're writing this all down too. I'm not very good when it comes to talking with people. I tend to stutter, get angry, and people don't take me seriously because I have a bubbly attitude towards things so that when I am serious and talking, they never hear me. When I write about this with you guys...I can actually express myself and get my meaning across better! thanks you guys

thylacine - 30/12/03 at 19:26

Yeah... This is an awesome discussion. And I am so proud of you guys, discussing this stuff without hurling mud at each other! I go to other online communities and try and start something up like this and somebody jumps in and has to be a jerk and start stuff up with people... ! But not you guys! You've all been so good! Why can't the rest of the world be Nightcrawler Fans? Just think... if everyone in the world was a Nightcrawler Fan, like us, there would be no wars, no terrorism, no trouble in Northern Ireland, no trouble in the Middle East, no calling America the Great Satan, and everyone would get along and be happy and read comic books and not cause any trouble... !

Lauren - 31/12/03 at 04:01

Yes, but think about it...then there might be a new religion started! and you know what that means! dum dum dum

thylacine - 4/1/04 at 20:25

Yeah... but then there would be no more violence in the world. We could all be happy geeks and read silly comic books and watch X2 together! :)

Warbird - 4/1/04 at 22:13

Woah now. Don't go calling my comics silly. I admit to being a geek, but I'll throwdown over having comics called silly.

Angel of the Night - 4/1/04 at 23:05

*looks around*
oh boy, :(
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Originally posted by BamfChyck
I'm not here to clobber you, dear. I don't agree with you,

thats fine, i know even people with the same faith and beliefs will always dissagree.
but there doesnt have to be any love lost between us all. :)

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by BamfChyk:
I don't think it's in the bible that gays are going to hell. I believe that the verses that are used to support that arguement have been distorted and misused to the extent that they are no longer true to their original meaning, literally or otherwise.

i know, some do interpret it however they want to (and add things that arent even in it)but doesnt it make sense that if God were in charge of overseeing what goes into his word, that he would make sure that the people would be true to what he wanted it to say?

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by Bamfchyk:
I don't think it says homosexuality is a sin, either. I could go over this verse by verse, if you want.

I've got very strong discernment. It is currently my strongest spiritual gift, and since I was a little girl, Jesus has led me to fight the homophobic misuse of the bible. This is an issue very close to me, and I just weep when I hear people spewing such hate in Christ's name.

but didnt you see in the 2nd part of my post where i said "no i dont hate homosexual people and no God doesnt hate homosexual people either"?
i work with a homosexual man and i love him, he is a wonderful person.

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by Salinea:
People like that have made me lose my faith

(im sorry, i know you weren't referring to me here )
but i am so very sorry to hear that! :(
i so hope i havent made it worse by what i said. if so i am extremely sorry!

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by Northstar's Love:
Angel, you need to understand that all people are different. And that includes gay people. There are many within the gay community that are very strong believers in God and Christ. Are we to assume that whatever they do to profess their faith will mean zip when they die? Did Christ not say that it is through faith that we are saved?

yes that is true Northstar.
what i know (and i know many will think im crazy, & just plain hard headed) is that homosexuality is a sin (and homosexual people sin). just like any other sin (no better, no worse) and it is because of our sins that separate us from God in the first place.
now i know that when we are saved he takes away those sins & separates us from them (like he says "farther than the east is from the west";). we are not all perfect and when we are saved we are still not perfect (we still sin) but God does still forgive us of those sins we make.
so to your statement about the homosexual community in the church not going to hell. i do not know if they will or will not.
all i know is when Jesus saves us from our sins. we are saved forever unless we turn from him and say "no i dont want to have anything to do with you anymore" (which is not to say that that person will indeed go to hell, you never know if the person will come back to the Lord in the future).

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by Northstar's Love:
I'm a firm believer that my salvation comes from Christ's death on Calvary.

Amen! and thats the only place it comes from, bro! ;)
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by Northstar's Love:
And that he rose again on the third day and ascended into Heaven. I do not believe that a church or minister has the authority to say who is and who isn't going to Heaven. That judgement is left up to God. And to God alone.

yes ,but actually it is our decision if we are going to heaven( to accept Christ's death as payment for our sins- that is the only way to heaven). He also said he will not reject any who come to him.

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by Northstars Love:
It is a personal relationship between Christ and myself. Not any church. Not any other person.

Man is inherently corrupt and sinful according to the Christian faith. I cannot trust in man to save me. That includes ministers, priests and rabbis. They are sinfull just as you and I. That is why I put my trust and faith in Christ to save me from my sins. And it is he that gives the strength to endure the hateful ridicule and condemnation from my other brothers and sisters in Christ because of who I am.

but i did not say that I hated anyone.
and i am so sorry for them doing that to you!
i guess when people see something wrong some feel that "tough love is the awnser" and they say very mean things to try to make them see what they are doing is wrong. but they themselves dont realize that they are doing the same wrong only in a different way.
(and i know many here will call me a hypocrite for saying that- but in my original post i didnt really state my position very well, im sorry).

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by Northstar's Love:
I don't hate or wish ill will to those that hate or disagree with me. Only pray that God enlightens them to understand the plight of their gay brothers and sisters. We have a common goal Angel and that is to help others to Christ. Let us work together to achieve this goal instead of making it pull us apart because of our temporary earthly differences.

im glad you dont hate them.
and, yes you are right, our one goal is to show Jesus's love and redemption for the world through ourselves. we shouldnt let our dissagreements dampen that (i think God wouldnt be pleased with us doing that either).
*gives hug to Northstar* :)
please understand, i dont hate anyone here.
youre all fellow nighty lovers, how on earth could i ever hate you guys? ;)

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by Bamf Bunny:
Angel of the Night, I've deleted your post because I believe it goes beyond the respect called for in the rules. Religion is a topic where it will not be possible for everyone to agree, but flat-out declaring that anyone is going to hell is not acceptable here.


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Originally posted by BamfChyck
As far as all the queers going to hell--it's God's idea of redemption here that counts. Not mine, not yours. And ultimately, it's His redemption that will affect us all.

ok, i know in the end i hurt alot of people's feelings and angered many more but it was never my intention.
what i said i said because i believe some are going to hell (hey I was going to hell before Jesus saved me! ). but i never meant it to be like i was saying, "convert or die sinners!".
somebody a long time ago had guts , told me the truth and showed me how my sins could be forgiven. maybe i didnt say it the right way or something (probably) but… i guess, for my only defense i just wish to say that i wanted to tell the truth.

and also for the record, my post was not directed to the person that i was quoteing from, (she happened to say something and i had a view on it. thats all) also my comment was not directed toward any members of this forum.
l cannot point a finger at anyone and say who is going to hell because firstly it would be wrong of me, secondly because i do not know their relationship with God (now or in the future) and thirdly because i am not God.

but i do formaly appologize for hurting anyone's feelings.

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wait...I missed the whole Gay thing? Who said that? I gonna beats them up! no no, I kid, but I probably would have slapped them upside the head if we were talking face to face. It's the way I am sorry ^ ^.

ouch!
:(

btw…why'd i get 2 warnings for one post?

python_gumby - 4/1/04 at 23:24

I think that we as free thinking people have to try to discover god or whatever spiritually runs this world ourselves. I've been Jewish all my life yet I have not found through the many years of attending jewish camp and going to shabbat services anything within the religion that really inspires me to be a better person (even if it says I should be I can't connect with it- if you know what I mean). Instead, I try to look within myself and discover through my own experience of what is right or wrong. And that's not just because I don't believe in Jesus, because basically I think the messages of these religions are the same. I want to create my own spiritual path and not rely on what others tell me is the right way. And that's what I feel Judiasm tries to do, it limits your horizons. It's fading away and that makes me sad because they are my people, but it cannot keep up with the times (the case with the Orthodox and Conservitive sects). I hope nobody takes offence to this, I just want people to look into themselves before looking to any organized path.

Shadow_Dancer - 5/1/04 at 02:34

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I want to create my own spiritual path and not rely on what others tell me is the right way. And that's what I feel Judiasm tries to do, it limits your horizons


The quote above sounds to me like what people often want to do, create a god in their image, approach him on their terms. If you believe in a God as the creator of the universe, I really don't think I, for one, would feel comfortable approaching Him in this manner. It is a very presumptive attitude.

I have been staying away from this thread because religion is a personal and sensitive subject for most people. Also being a Christian, my Lord said there is one way to get to God and that is through Him. This makes some people very angry and defensive, and often we are called intolerant and hateful because of it. But that is to be expected and Jesus warned us it would happen.

If you really study religions, as I have, they are not all the same. Some ideas are almost diametrically opposed. To say that all religions lead to God does not make sense to me. I want a God that is above myself, not flawed like humans, a God whose truths stand the test of time.

What never ceases to amaze me is that the God that has the power to create the universe would still care about ME. But he does, and regardless of our failings or our inadequacies (and I have many, to be sure), He still loves us. This is the message of Christianity that I cling to: That while we are flawed and ALL of us are sinners, he sent one spotless lamb, fully man and fully God to take our punishment. It is our choice to accept this free gift or reject it and that is the clincher. Anything else is really moot point, not how you worship, or your sexual orientation, or your political party or anything else. And at the end of time as we know it, it will be God who judges, not us.

The commands of God boil down to this: Love God with all your heart and your neighbor as yourself.

I hope this has not offended anyone. You are all entitled to your own opinions, but I am feeling very reflective at the moment and I needed to share this.

Lauren - 5/1/04 at 04:11

I have to agree with that on some kind of level. I mean, I don't want a God who makes mistakes like people, that would stink!

I think Nightcrawler said it best in I think it was issue 419 when he was talking to Father Whitley, and how he was asking where his God was, the one who's benevolent and isn't careless and capricious.

Yet again, Kurt hits the nail on the head!

Maelstrom - 5/1/04 at 05:41

I've noticed that if you look in your holy texts, whether that's the Bible, the Torah, the Qu'ran, or whatever, you'll find justification for whatever point of view you already espouse.

For example, in the Bible it is stated quite clearly that "I am the light and the life: you will only see the Father through me." But, if you look further on, you'll see a point where Christ talks about speaking with those who have departed, berating some and praising others.


Many asked "Hey, hold on! We've never seen you before! When did we treat you so well?" And His response? "As you treated the least of my bretheren, so you treated me." How many people from different faiths would recognize Christ as Himself if he showed up on their doorstep? Especially those who have never even *heard* of Christianity, yet still do well and with good works for the sake of good, as opposed to wanting something in return?

To me, this suggests that it is very possible to get to heaven, no matter your religion, because if you lead good lives, helping your fellows without thought of something in return, you have worshipped Him whether you know it or not.

Of course, that's just my take on things... but seeing as our Parish Priest, Father Leo, was one who espoused just this P.O.V. in one of his sermons, I'd have to think it isn't as heretical a notion as some might believe....

Lauren - 5/1/04 at 13:39

Actually, if anyone here as ever read the Narnia books, Aslan actually says that around the ending when he talks to someone who served Tash which is the Satan of that place.

Basically, he says if you do good in Tash's name, you serve him and if you do evil in the name of Aslan you serve Tash.

Maelstrom - 5/1/04 at 17:56

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Originally posted by Lauren
Actually, if anyone here as ever read the Narnia books, Aslan actually says that around the ending when he talks to someone who served Tash which is the Satan of that place.

Basically, he says if you do good in Tash's name, you serve him and if you do evil in the name of Aslan you serve Tash.


You know, one of these days, I have got to read the Chronicles of Narnia. I've heard so much about them, and know the basic premise, but I've never actually read them. And it's a seminal fantasy series, like LOTR.

I'd have to wonder... if anything like this could have influenced Kurt in his past.... :scratch

thylacine - 5/1/04 at 21:36

Warbird... I myself am proud to be a geek! Long live all geeks! The geeks shall inherit the Earth! Okay... if you don't want to think that comic books are silly, that's okay too!:)

The Chronicles of Narnia are fun books. My personal opinion is that they are a little sexist, but remember, they were written in the 1940's, and that's to be expected.

I like the Lord of the Rings better.

If you want good science fiction with a religious bent, also try the "Firebird" series by Kathy Tyers. Real good stuff. War, intrigue, romance, jealousy, and space ships blowing up! Cool!

Wolvertique - 5/1/04 at 21:56

Last Battle Tash worshipper? Went to "heaven"? Emeth. His name was Emeth. ;) Book geek here!

C.S. was VERY sexist. "Wars are ugly when women fight"? Ugh.

As for believing X or Y will go to hell...you can believe that all you like, as long as you can understand that I disagree with you and believe there is no such thing as hell anywhere but in the minds of vengeful human beings. :D

Maelstrom - 5/1/04 at 22:22

I've been of the opinion that Hell was someplace we placed ourselves in, by deliberately distancing ourselves from all that was good. If we place ourselves in Hell, it stands to reason that we create it for ourselves.

My only real problem with the idea of Satan isn't his existance, but his power level. Evil being the selfish, paranoid thing that it is, you just know he's gotta spend all his time watching his subordinates, to make sure they don't screw him like he's screwed them. It'd be such a logistic nightmare that he'd have very little time for screwing up the rest of us.....

Warbird - 5/1/04 at 22:54

The first point I'd like to address is that people "following their own spiritual path" is different from "creating god in their own image". I very much dissagree with this statement. I know some people who belive in the same god as I, and see him as infallable, but don't go to church or ever preach their faith. Instead they go and do volunteer work, they're getting intouch with god in their own way. They don't recreate God, they just interprate what their mission in life, and path to him much differently from other people.

Secondly, If Satan had enough persuasion, and enough of a following to even try to challenge God in the first place (even though he lost and was exiled to hell) He probably has enough power to not worry about the people he's tricked or missguided. I just think that Satan gets more power every time someone doesn't belive that he's real. Anyone who can corrupted as much as he does, exists and has power. (in my opinion of course). I hate to quote movies but "the greatest trick the devil ever did was convincing the world he didn't exist."

oh, and lastly, I was only joking about wanting to throwdown over calling comics silly. I just spend so much time defending them every day practicly. They're not just kids stuff.

I also, appologize if i've missinterpreted any of the things I was replying to. Don't get mad please.

Lauren - 6/1/04 at 03:20

And another thing, if Satan really had a lot of power, wouldn't he be trying to boot god out again? I mean, if I have that power, I'd try to do it!

Northstars Love - 6/1/04 at 09:22

How can a created being boot out an all- knowing, all-powerful God of the universe out of Heaven?

He can't.

But God decided if Lucifer wanted his own kingdom, why not cast him down into an abyss with a third of Heaven's angels that followed him.

I would like to think it would have gone like this:

God -"There you go Morning Star. Your own kingdom to reign. The master of the underworld.

Lucifer- "Thanks. Kind of dark down here. Could I get a light?"

God- "You should have thought of that before you tried to take over my throne. Not to mention influencing a third of the angels to join you. You are now eternally out of my presence, and the brilliant infinite light that had bathed you for eons has been replaced with total darkness...."

Lucifer-"Ya. Ya. Save the epilogue. Can I get a light down here?"

God-"I'll do better than that. How about some fire and brimstone?"

Lucifer-"Well, it would smell horribly. I don't think I'd like that too much.

God- "At this point Lucifer, you really don't have a choice."

Lucifer-:yell......

Lucifer created his own Hell. So now he has to live with it. To be so arrogant into thinking he could take out God. Talk about not being the brightest crayon in the box!

Lauren - 6/1/04 at 11:14

Oh man, I just had to laugh when I read the brimstone part...I instantly thought of Kurt! hehe!

Bamf Bunny - 6/1/04 at 12:00

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Originally posted by Wolvertique
C.S. was VERY sexist. "Wars are ugly when women fight"?

Yeah, and they're so beautiful when men fight. :rolleyes

Believe it or not, the sexism in the Narnia books is mild compared to some of Lewis's writings for adults. Compare them with That Hideous Strength, if you dare.

Lauren - 6/1/04 at 13:40

Have you ever read his book The Great Divorce? I don't think it was sexist, but it did have something to do with Heaven and Hell, it was pretty good actually.

And I think when women fight, he's talking about cat fights! We are so notorious for those beauties! Meowr!

Maelstrom - 6/1/04 at 16:30

To get just a wee bit off-topic, I've always said that the big difference between men and women is this:

When men get into a physical fight, people turn to watch. When women get into a physical fight, people turn away.

Women are far more likely to have a screaming match than a punching contest. Our weapon of choice, by and large, tends more towards words. That's one of the reasons we were forbidden to go into politics in times past: we were too good at it ;)

Really, think about it. When little boys are claiming that "my dad can beat up your dad" as a taunt, little girls are backbiting with "Well, Judy really doesn't like you, but don't tell her I said it, 'cause she'll say she likes you, but she really doesn't...." Men physically dominate, while women emotionally manipulate.

Which comes down to this: if it's gotten so bad that we're actually punching each other, it's gotten baaaaad. I'm talkin' primal, irrational, animalistic, turn off the brain, screamin' and clawin' baaaaad. :urg

Lauren - 6/1/04 at 17:28

Which is why I always laugh when my friends get into fights, it's just so funny watching them try to claw at each other!

then again, I'm weird so...yeah

Warbird - 6/1/04 at 22:19

Wow, most of my girl friends and I aren't the scratching type. We all tend to throw fists. Thinking about it though, we all grew up with older brothers. That probably has something to do with it.

thylacine - 7/1/04 at 00:34

Quote: C.S. was VERY sexist. "Wars are ugly when women fight"? Ugh.

So... like, when is war ever pretty? Isn't what's going on in the world right now ugly?

I disagree on the cat fight thing... I know people who love to watch women fight. In fact, they would play one against the other to get them into it and watch, smiling. Yeah... guess what? I'm talking about a guy.

Warbird, yeah. I knew you were kidding!

On other stuff... we do not know if hell is real or not, do we? The Bible says so, but we really don't know, do we? Better be good just in case!

BamfChyck - 7/1/04 at 01:21

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Originally posted by Angel of the Night

but didnt you see in the 2nd part of my post where i said "no i dont hate homosexual people and no God doesnt hate homosexual people either"?
i work with a homosexual man and i love him, he is a wonderful person.

From BAmfChyck
(Why can't I ever make this darn Quote thing work right?!?)


Oh Angel Honey, I wasn't talking about you when I wrote that!
I was thinking about some people who came to protest in my town a few years ago who carried the most hateful signs. Just awful, venomous stuff. Some of you probably know who I'm talking about.
I'm sorry I didn't see this sooner and reply to it. I'm sorry you thought I was talking about you. I was talkiing about the issue you raised, but not what you yourself said.

Bamf Bunny - 7/1/04 at 01:34

This has already strayed somewhat from the original topic, but doesn't it always?

Please, everyone who responds, keep in mind that people on every side of this issue feel that they have tested their beliefs against their sacred texts. I don't ask anyone to deny what they believe, and I'm not going to demand that people who don't agree with me keep quiet, but please, at least, try to post along the lines of "The Antioch Baptist Church teaches ..." instead of "God says ..."

It's one thing to have a discussion of theological questions; it's another to say "You're wrong!" "No, you're wrong!"

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btw…why'd i get 2 warnings for one post?

I don't know who else warned you - I only warned you once.

Angel of the Night - 7/1/04 at 03:01

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Originally posted by Angel of the Night

but didnt you see in the 2nd part of my post where i said "no i dont hate homosexual people and no God doesnt hate homosexual people either"?

From BAmfChyck
(Why can't I ever make this darn Quote thing work right?!?)


Oh Angel Honey, I wasn't talking about you when I wrote that!
I was thinking about some people who came to protest in my town a few years ago who carried the most hateful signs. Just awful, venomous stuff. Some of you probably know who I'm talking about.
I'm sorry I didn't see this sooner and reply to it. I'm sorry you thought I was talking about you. I was talkiing about the issue you raised, but not what you yourself said.


oh thank you BamfChyk :) !
i feel better now!
man im so sorry to hear that! i know i get angry too when i see people do & say hateful things "in God's name" and call themselves "Christians".
then in the end we have to clean up the mess ( so to speak) and try to explain that we truly arent like that. ugh! :(
thanks too for telling me what you meant!
i really appreciate it! ;)


Whoa! i feel like i just got away with the skin of my teeth there! (or however that phrase goes) .

Anyways, back to the subject of nighty.
well, i have really only one thing to say about the fact that he actually has faith (well, besides the word YAY! :D ).

Dave Cockrum gave nighty life but Mr Clairemont really gave him a soul when he added that feature to nighty's character.

Its not everyday you come across a character that is extremely devoted to what he believes in and is also widely accepted by people of so many different backgrounds and beliefs.
(which is not to say i am not eternally grateful to mr Cockrum for creating him).
God bless you both! :)


well…just hope nobody hates me now for stirring up so much contraversy. :(

Lauren - 7/1/04 at 04:04

aww *huggles Angel* it's ok...just don't do again or I'll be forced to smack you wif my tail! *pat pat*

thylacine - 8/1/04 at 16:04

Quote: I was thinking about some people who came to protest in my town a few years ago who carried the most hateful signs. Just awful, venomous stuff. Some of you probably know who I'm talking about.

I don't know who you are talking about... But people who hate people like that are sick, in my opinion. They say more about themselves than the group they don't like.

(Reminds me of a scene from the movie with an anti-mutant protest.)

Maelstrom - 8/1/04 at 16:30

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Originally posted by thylacine
Quote: I was thinking about some people who came to protest in my town a few years ago who carried the most hateful signs. Just awful, venomous stuff. Some of you probably know who I'm talking about.

I don't know who you are talking about... But people who hate people like that are sick, in my opinion. They say more about themselves than the group they don't like.

(Reminds me of a scene from the movie with an anti-mutant protest.)


Unfortunately, I believe I know exactly who you're refering to: "Minister" (and I use that term loosely) Fred Phelps of the Westboro Baptist Church. These are the lunatics who literally campaign and "protest" daily that "God Hates Fags". No respectable church (Baptist, Fundamentalist, or otherwise) has anything to do with them, and they're listed as a hate group on the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) website. They're based in Topeka, Kansas. This "church" is actually a single (if large) family unit, headed by a paranoid delusionary patriarch (Fred) who day and night thinks about the fornicating sin of everyone else in the world. The worst thing about this group is that they're mostly lawyers, and they go about threatening to sue (and fulfilling those threats) if anyone tries to put a halt to their raucus hate-mongering.


Yup, they have the God given right to sneer "Did daddy prick your ass. little girl?" to six year old children, but anyone who says different, and tries to stop this verbal abuse, is subjected to lawsuit after lawsuit. The point isn't so much to win these suits as to tie the victim up in court and bankrupt him with costs (kind of like what the Scientologists do).

These people are scary and abusive, but at least they don't have a lot of widescale political pull. They're so extreme and transparently hateful that the most right-wing of the religious right treats them like lepers.

A plug here for the SPLC: it's a site everyone should really take a look at. They monitor, examine, and uncover hate crimes and hate groups around the globe (though they center mainly on the USA). For fanfics especially, if you want to see what anti-mutant hate groups would look like, this is great background material. Here's their website:

http://www.splcenter.org/

Lauren - 8/1/04 at 17:26

*sigh* It's people like that that make me wonder about america sometimes. I mean, we let people like this do what they want and they're allowed to sue if someone tries to stop their campaigns! I think we need to be like Germany and have really tough laws against these people before I pay that SOB a little visit...muahaha

taekwondodo - 8/1/04 at 17:47

I'm all for free speech - even for psycho losers like that guy - but the litigation bit has *got* to stop. America is just plain sue-happy and it's ridiculous. He shouldn't be able to hound people through law suits, but the legal system in most states (esp. CA) makes it a simple matter for him to do so. Boy that fries me!

Northstars Love - 8/1/04 at 17:52

And most importantly, Fred Phelps actually pickets funerals of people that have died of AIDS and saying point blank that they are burning in hell for their sins. He even picketed Matthew Sheppard's funeral (the young man that was killed by those guys in Wyoming) saying he is in the presence of Satan for his homosexuality.

I don't hear much about him anymore tho.

Lauren - 8/1/04 at 17:54

I know! Shouldn't he be getting in trouble for doing that? He's interrupting a funeral! that shuld be breaking some kind of law! and if it's not, we need to make it a law! *growls and mumbles nasty words*

taekwondodo - 8/1/04 at 18:09

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Originally posted by **Northstars Love**
And most importantly, Fred Phelps actually pickets funerals of people that have died of AIDS and saying point blank that they are burning in hell for their sins. He even picketed Matthew Sheppard's funeral (the young man that was killed by those guys in Wyoming) saying he is in the presence of Satan for his homosexuality.

I don't hear much about him anymore tho.


Thank goodness for that. Hopefully he'll fade into the obscurity he deserves the heartless bastar*. If there is a Heaven and a Hell (and being an atheist I don't believe there is) you can be certain of just where he'll end up.

Maelstrom - 8/1/04 at 18:15

Well, Phelps is sort of in the news again. I guess he got tired of not being the front-runner ;) Here's the link on the SPLC website:

http://www.splcenter.org/intel/intelreport/article.jsp?aid=142

Basically, when people decided to allow the Ten Commandments to be displayed on public land, he decided he wanted his little "memorial" to Sheppard put up, too: "Matthew Shepard entered hell October 12, 1998, at age 21 in defiance of God's warning: 'Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind; it is abomination.' Leviticus 18:22." What a sweetie... :rolleyes

Of course, he was flatly turned down, but he's still keeping it up. Ironically, he may well undercut the support out of displaying the Ten Commandments at this rate....

(click the link for a lot more info)

bluefooted - 8/1/04 at 18:26

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
Basically, when people decided to allow the Ten Commandments to be displayed on public land, he decided he wanted his little "memorial" to Sheppard put up, too: "Matthew Shepard entered hell October 12, 1998, at age 21 in defiance of God's warning: 'Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind; it is abomination.' Leviticus 18:22." What a sweetie... :rolleyes

I remember hearing about this on NPR recently. I practically threw up in my car, I was so disgusted. You have to wonder if some people have any concept of what it means to be a decent human being.

Maelstrom - 8/1/04 at 18:48

What gets me is that he has the hubris to think his message is more important than the Ten Commandments! :LOL Talk about arrogance! Yes, he said it plain as day.

A quote from the SPLC article:

"Even as conservatives attempt to place more Ten Commandments monuments around the country, Phelps told a reporter in Rupert that it didn't bother him that his own campaign could undercut those efforts.

'My message is infinitely more important than the Ten Commandments,' he said."


:o "Infinitely more important"?! Wow! He must have a direct line to God! (Or somewhere else.... :evil)

Even the most extreme flaming nutcases would disgree with him on that one. It would be interesting to see the fireworks if he took that idea to a rabbi. The most conservative of them, who hate homosexuality just a little less than Phelps, would have kittens over the very concept of someone thinking their message was more important than Moses' commandments! :rolleyes

Phelps is going to Hell no matter which way you believe. If you believe in the fire-and-brimstone place of eternal punishment, he'll get tossed down there with all the other haters who do evil in His name. And if you believe we basically all go to the same place when we die, he'll sure *think* he was in hell, with all the "heathen homosexuals" walking around up there, smiling, shaking his hand, and welcoming him to forever.... :evil

Warbird - 8/1/04 at 21:33

A few years ago, there was a boy in a town near me who was a homosexual and committed suicide. In his note it explained how hard it was for him because he was always afraid of the people around him and what they thaught about him, including his family. His mother put together a remeberative documentary type film to try and enlighten people about people privately suffering like her son, how to recognize it, and how to help before it was too late.

The film was shown in a college near by in September. This is in Pennsylvania, and we had protesters show up from the mid-west. One of them was a mother who said that if either of her sons were gay, she'd wish they were dead. They had horrible picketing signs that offended some people who didn't even support the film. They were rediculousely unappropriate, and of course they had to throw around the slogan "God Hates Fags". Just thinking about them makes me sick.

The entire community was appauled. Luckily becuase of the law that requires a permit for such gatherings, we knew in advance what was going to happen. As a result, the gay community in our area threw a massive peace really in responce. People from all walks of life attended. The shear number of people at the peace protest dwarfed the biggots and they soon left with no conflict.

I'm relating this story because of the issue of free speach more than the issue of homosexuality. Yes there were people allowed to gather hatefully, but a greater number of people were brave enough to speak out against them with one peaceful voice. We were brought together as a community against someone abusing free speech. This showed everyone that peopel do hate, but unity and responsibility is stronger. It actually also helped news of the film spread and more people heard the story of this young man.

Sometimes I wish I could just hit people who say anything about hating any group of people and wish they weren't allowed to speak like that. But then where would it stop? I have to make myself remember, the same rights that allow me to say everyone is equal, are the same rights that let others argue to the contrary. Free speech is a powerful thing that is easily abused. Unfortunatly there's no way to licence people to gain use of it.

As far as the ten commandments being on public display is concerned, I feel that even if you aren't religiouse, they're a good guidline for life. Most are morals that any human on earth would agree with. Some peopel might be offended because of the religiuose connotations, but really, those same people probably follow much of that very moral code in some form. Saying that a young man was rightfully killed and is in hell, has nothing to do with normal human morals. It contradicts the ten commandments. Even if you do think that he was a sinner, What happend to him is a violation of the very commandments that this man feels his message goes along with, as well as a deadly sin. Is he a lunitic? Probably. And it's not like the commandments are being enforced as the law.

ok. my rant is done. I appologize if I've just offended, or pissed any one off. Sorry

Maelstrom - 8/1/04 at 21:54

Warbird, if that was your idea of a "rant", I can't wait to see something from you that's well thought out and reflective! :love

So often the haters rely on people getting angry and spitting invective. They're like net trolls. They thrive on it. It gives them an excuse to hate. That's why the Klan tries so hard to incite riots; they want to have a reason to hate and show how "oppressed" they are. :rolleyes

The best response I saw was done by a small town in the Midwest. (Can't remember where, sorry.) They knew that the Klan was going to parade down main street, and as they had a permit, they couldn't stop them. So they just closed the place down. Nobody went to work that day. The Klan got to march down a deserted, empty street with nothing but "closed" signs as far as they could see. They couldn't even find an open restroom. They went back demoralized, denied of their conflict. And the community pulled together and drove them back with passive resistance.

It's hard to walk that line between letting haters walk all over you and fighting back too aggressively: either extreme is just what they want. Evil thrives when good men do nothing, but it also thrives when they react too much.

But the thing that always gives me hope is the knowledge that this kind of thing is now considerd *wrong*. It isn't tacitly understood, it isn't given a wink and a nod. It generates headlines because people see it for the hateful, destructive thing it is. No longer is it "okay" to bash on minorities, to rape women, to drive drunk. No longer can laws get away with quietly stigmatizing the victims. Yes, there are still cases when the law fails, and people are hurt, even killed, due to such "winks and nods". But invariably someone finds out, splays it over the front page, and people are outraged instead of blandly turning to the sports section.

BamfChyck - 9/1/04 at 03:06

Yeah, it was Phelps. I wasn't sure I wanted to identify him and give him any more attention.

My heart just fell when I saw him outside my church, but we'd decided not to have any response at all to him there. I literally gasped for breath as I drove by and saw those awful signs.
I attended the counter-protest at the capital the following day, carrying my little sign with I John 4:7-8 written on it, and tried not to cry. His family seemed like such a bunch of whack-jobs that I think there must be severe mental illness in his genes. The only comfort I had was that I decided someone that mean must have a nasty personality disorder or something.

One guy had a sign: "God loves Fags, He even loves Fred." I thought that was wonderful!!

I don't know that Phelp's going to hell. I have a hard time thinking God's sending anyone there, because I think once we die and return to Him, He'll heal all the damaged, effed up stuff and make us whole.
And if anyone's damaged, it's Phelps.

And Angel, Honey, I really am sorry about the mix-up. You see how I wasn't thinking about you? I'm sending you virtual hugs!!

Lauren - 9/1/04 at 04:44

honestly, don't these people read the Bible and actually understand what it says half the time? I mean, last time I checked there was this little part about not judging people! Jeez, I always want to punch people when this kind of thing comes up at my school...*sighs*

Wolvertique - 9/1/04 at 13:15

"Minister" (and I use that term loosely) Fred Phelps of the Westboro Baptist Church.
--Hee hee. His group was coming to protest at my university a few years ago because it was hosting a conference for denominations and groups within Christianity who support gay people. So our Pagan group supported them by supplying volunteers to them.

I figure supporting almost anything Phelps and his followers hate is good. He protested at Mr. Rogers' funeral, you know. He has issues. I have a friend who thinks Phelps really is a closeted homosexual, and he may be right.

No, the Ten Commandments are not just generic moral laws. They are very specific religious laws, and do not tolerate my polytheism and worship of Gods other than the Jewish God YHWH. They do not allow for our First Amendment to the Constitution, freedom of religious exercise among our people. They do not belong on government property, and they do not apply to everyone. And I, for one, am very glad of it.

Lauren - 9/1/04 at 13:43

Wait...he protestd at Mr. Rogers' funeral?! What was wrong with Mr. Rogers to him?

Wolvertique - 9/1/04 at 13:46

Mr. Rogers is for loving everybody, regardless of sexual orientation, I'd guess. You could probably find out for sure by going to Phelps' little hate site, but that place makes me sick so I ain't gonna.

Lauren - 9/1/04 at 13:56

ewww...I'm not even gonna touch that thing with a 49 and a half foot pole! what kind of freak doesn't lik Mr. Rogers? I loved Mr. Rogers when I was little. The puppets were the best!

Maelstrom - 9/1/04 at 15:34

Extremists cannot abide by anyone who doesn't cowtow to their own personal views. They especially hate people who refuse to hate. ;) Fred Rogers, God love the man, was a Minister, and he saw his program (Mr. Roger's Neighborhood) as an extension of that ministry. Notice that he never shoved Christianity down anyone's throats? In fact, I never knew he was a Minister until someone told me. He lived, and worked, by the ideal of "conversion by example", which works a helluvalot better than fire+brimstone "We teach ya to HAYTE fo' Jesus" stuff you get in Chick tracts.

And that is no doubt what pissed Phelps off so much.

1) Rogers was also a Minister.

2) Rogers was infinitely more successful at spreading his message, purely by his loving, soft touch.

3) Rogers' message, "love everyone, especially yourself", was the opposite of Phelp's.

4) Rogers was respected by virtually everyone, conservative to liberal. He was so listened to that people breathed a sigh of relief when he came ot of retirement in 2001 to help parents explain to their kids about the Twin Towers. Phelps... well... everyone would breathe a sigh of relief if he shut up. ;)

5) Rogers refused to rise to anyone's bait. He never lost his temper. For Phelps, this means Rogers was always in control of the situation, where Phelps no doubt sees the sinful world as a place he simply must dominate, and can't.

6) This is incredibly petty, but, you know, it might have something to do with it? Rogers and Phelps share the first name. :smirk

So, you've got a rival minister, with a rival, antithetical message to yours, who's more successful, more respected, more loved and listened to, has more power, leaving you, the paranoid hateful delusionary in the dirt....

What's not to hate? :naughty

thylacine - 9/1/04 at 16:24

quote: "It's people like that that make me wonder about america sometimes. I mean, we let people like this do what they want and they're allowed to sue if someone tries to stop their campaigns! I think we need to be like Germany and have really tough laws against these people before I pay that SOB a little visit...muahaha."

There is hate everywhere in this sick world, honey. Look at the Middle East. The Muslim extremists hate Christians so much that during the Gulf War, our soldiers were not even allowed to have a Christmas tree at the place they camped out (so I have heard). Look at all the trouble all over the world, not just here in the good old US of A. There is racism in Europe too, and you read of riots in the newspapers.

Here is a story I heard on a talk show with regard to another extreme "minister." (I wish I could remember the name?) There is a Southern Fundamentalist group working towards the repeal of the 19th Amendment to the Constitution since it "hurts the family." Do y'all know what that Amendment is about??? That gives women the right to vote. Yeah. There are still people who want to do away with that too. If there are people trying to do that, then I call that a hate crime too.

It's just so very sad that there is so much ignorance in this troubled world. Human beings have no right to decide for themselves what God wants. People like that who are so uneducated need to just be quiet.

bluefooted - 9/1/04 at 17:14

One of the things that strikes me most about these groups is how uneducated many of their members are.

I live in a relatively liberal college town in the Midwest. We often have religious groups come to campus to try to put 'the fear of God' into all of us sinners. You know, by wearing incredibly offensive signs and spewing hate :rolleyes Anyway, I was walking with one of my lab-mates to lunch and we passed a protester with a sign that read "If my dad was a censored slur, I wouldn't be here". After we recovered from laughing, my friend, whose father is gay, turned to me and said "do you think we should give him a little lesson in biology?"

It was funny (in a horrible way), but then you notice all the really young children that these parents have dragged to the 'protest'. They're shouting out as much filth and hate as their parents. It really makes me want to weep just thinking about them and how they'll turn out :cry

Lauren - 9/1/04 at 17:28

Yeah it really is! and I think Mr. Rogers was the kind of guy who was able to diffuse some of these horrible lessons the parents are teaching the kids, which might be another reason Phelps doesn't like him.

Man..Mr. Rogers was th best! He probably would be able to peak to those kids and help them stay away from how their parents think!

Warbird - 10/1/04 at 05:11

Unfortunately, it seems that children raised to hate always will. I've only met a handfull of people with racist parents who weren't themselves. This is how intolerance has lasted so long, in our relatively well educated socioty. No matter what good examples there is, say Mr. Rogers following the prior example, it only holds the childs attention for about a half hour a day. They hear their parents points of views constantly. Which is more natural to them? Obviously what they're around more.

Also, young children strive to please their parents. Even if they idolize Mr. Rogers they're going say what they're parents want to hear, who in turn give positive reinforcement to the behavior, which perpetuates it further. It becomes a type of enviromental conditioning. It's all around them and it's not untill the behavior is fully learned, that most have an opportunity to break free of it.

It's great to have peopel in the public who can set good examples, but it won't change our socioty. It helps, and I really wish that men like Mr. Rogers could change it all, but there's so much working against it.

I actually had no idea he was a minister either. Ok, this is way off topic by now, so for my next trick, I'm going to try and relate this back to the topic at hand (not that it's going to work well). Is NC the Mr. Rogers of comics? Once you put aside his religion, I think apart from being occasionaly randy, he is a good example of teaching through example. He's kind to most every one and usually upholds his morals... I know it's a stretch. I tried.

BamfChyck - 10/1/04 at 16:35

Aside from the whole inability to get his feet in sneakers, I just can't picture Kurt in a cheesy cardigan.

Lauren - 10/1/04 at 21:07

Aw, I could see him sitting in front of people, taking off his special made shoes, asking if you'd be his neighbor! That would be awesome!:LOL

Warbird - 11/1/04 at 05:49

He'd fit in better on Sesame Street. Little kids could learn German from him instead of Spanish. He could teach the grouch how to be understanding. Maybe take over in the super hero department. I mean, who cares about Super Grover. Not me.

thylacine - 11/1/04 at 20:46

Hi Neighbor!

Speaking of religious people preaching on campus... In Boston years back they had the Moonies floating around Northeastern U. trying to rope in people. They follow you around trying to tell you about world peace and etc.

Lauren - 12/1/04 at 03:58

Yes, but do they try and force you into it? I wouldn't mind someone talking calmly with me about their religion, but those who try and force it down my throat anger me ever so much

Maelstrom - 12/1/04 at 05:45

Moonies were glassey-eyed cultists of the worst order. The "reverend" *snort* Sun Yun Moon would use such wonderful, ethical measures as sleep deprivation, food withholding, and various methods of mind control to brainwash them into mindless cultists, who'd work sixteen hours a day selling junk and roping in recuits! So, yes: if you gave them an inch, you *would* be forced into it.

And besides: anyone who claims to be "Christian", then claims to be the second coming of Christ, amasses an army of followers, and uses influence to create a financial empire isn't exactly kosher. ;)

He's been taken down many pegs by now, lost a lot of followers, power, and money, but he's slowly working behind the scenes. Just punch the word Moonie in any search engine to find out a lot of unsavory things about his cult.

Can you tell I have zip-po sympathy or patience with cults? ;)

Wolvertique - 12/1/04 at 12:54

Washington Times still runs, doesn't it? It's a major publication with a lot of influence on conservative politicians, and it's a Moonie publication.

Lauren - 12/1/04 at 13:42

Is that the same cult that tried to posion a town so that they could vote in one of their own to be mayor or something like that?

Maelstrom - 12/1/04 at 16:26

No, that was the Majareshi Rajneeshee in 1983. If you enter the name in a search engine, you'll find all sorts of interesting (if scary) facts about that relatively short-lived cult, and how it self-destructed just as the police were homing in on them.


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Washington Times still runs, doesn't it? It's a major publication with a lot of influence on conservative politicians, and it's a Moonie publication.


I'd forgotten about that. I went and looked up some stuff after you mentioned it, and it seems familiar, so I must have heard it before somewhere....

But I don't think the Washington Times has the same amount of pull now as it has in the past. It's become a journalistic joke. It has been satirized for shoddy reporting so publicly, so many times, that it has lost a great deal of its former respect. What at one time made it popular with conservatives is that Moonie hated the communists with great fervor (after all, they would have done away with his cult if they gained power). Well, now the Godless commies aren't the big baddies: terrorism is. Which makes it harder for Mr. Moon to get away with such wonderful statements as this:

"Some people may oppose me, but they will go down the drain after a while and end up in hell.... I came with the teaching that the world and religions should become one.... Soon, the American president will have to visit me to seek advice."
Sun Myung Moon, December 10, 2000, East Garden, New York source: http://www.unification.net/news/2000/news20001210.html

Yeesh! :rolleyes For someone who claims to have "created" Christianity, you think he'd remember that he's way too close to Revelations with this little "uniting all the world and its religions under one banner" kind of statement....


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I don't know that Phelp's going to hell. I have a hard time thinking God's sending anyone there, because I think once we die and return to Him, He'll heal all the damaged, effed up stuff and make us whole.
And if anyone's damaged, it's Phelps.


BamfChyck, you're right. I had meant that remark to be more of a pointed reference to us creating our own hell, and placing ourselves firmly in it, but it wasn't in the best of taste. I apologize. :shame

Lauren - 12/1/04 at 17:38

although it would be nice if religions combined to one thing that shared all of their beliefs together. Then we wouldn't have all of these problems!

Warbird - 12/1/04 at 21:29

Having one religion sounds great in theory. There wouldn't be any trouble between religous groups, but you would still have problems. You'd have the more, conservative types who only want their life to revolve around religion, fighting people who only use religion as only part of their life. I'm sure that the athiests would have major problems in that socioty too. People will find a reason to fight in any situation. Man kind is petty in general and always wants to assert its power over other humans. Yes there are many exceptions to this, but even in small ways you can see it everyday. I honestly think that the problems between religions are SOMETIMES just an excuse to fight. People would just make another one up if differences in religion were taken away. Communism is an example. There was no religion but the Bulshevicks and menshevicks and the SR party faught for years. They were all factions of the same group even. They had the same ideals (Marxism) but each wanted to have absolute power. Unfortunatly human nature is more of a problem than religion. I realize this is a harsh way to look at the world, but it's a frequent trend in human history.

thylacine - 12/1/04 at 23:24

I studied Communism briefly... The State tried to replace religion with love of Socialism and the Soviet State and did everything they could to discourage religion... But it didn't work out.

People seem to be "hardwired" for the spiritual. All societies have some sort of religion, even the most primitive societies.

Lauren - 13/1/04 at 03:49

Darn...*sigh* It would have been nice though...

Didn't stalin make whole museums to try and make people see that religions were all fake though?

thylacine - 13/1/04 at 22:29

The Soviet State was famous for its propaganda & one sided view of issues...

I don't think that religions are fake, just a lot of the people who run them... ! Phony TV evangelists make all Christians look like idiots. I know people who do terrible things then go to church to be seen as going to church. I believe in God. But people s-ck!!!

Warbird - 13/1/04 at 22:46

This is all true about Communists trying and ultimately failing to eliminate religion, but it wasn't exactly my point. The point was even though they didn't even have religion to fight over, they faught over their own ideals. The Bulsheviks, Mensheviks, and SRs were all communist. None of them had religion and they all had the same ideals. They all followed the concept of Marxism but still faught alot. People were fighting over nothing pretty much. They all had the same idea!!! My thaught is that even if there was one religion, people would still fight and have terrorism. It's human nature.

I do agree that alot of the problem with religion is people preach and go to church, but don't truely practice their own faith. They want to look and feel superior through their religion, when you're actually supposed to be humbled by it. It's a bit sickening how people completly distort somthing that is meant to be good.

Lauren - 14/1/04 at 10:49

It almost makes me want to laugh sometimes, especially when someone acts high and mighty for going to church, and then I point out that in the Bible, God says it's better to do it in private and alone and NOT to brag about it.

thylacine - 14/1/04 at 16:51

You are quite right, Warbird. And it's so sad that human nature is so weak.

I try to be a good person and improve myself each day. When I see how badly other people behave it makes me so very sad. And you cannot give them advice that would be helpful since they resent it. You see people messing up their lives with drugs & unsafe sex & alcohol & whatever they are doing, and you try to gently turn them around and they get mad at you for telling them & etc. Same thing with war, I guess. You tell people to give peace a chance and they say you don't understand & etc. and just go on fighting. Humanity stinks!!! :X

Maelstrom - 14/1/04 at 16:58

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It almost makes me want to laugh sometimes, especially when someone acts high and mighty for going to church, and then I point out that in the Bible, God says it's better to do it in private and alone and NOT to brag about it.


The idea behind the importance of going to church is that it's a communal experience. It isn't so much that you can't worship in private, or that it somehow does't count, but by joining up with people you renew your bonds. That's the reason they have "fellowship coffee" afterwards. It's not just to welcome and get to know newcomers, but to socialize and renew bonds with the rest of the parishoners.

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This is all true about Communists trying and ultimately failing to eliminate religion, but it wasn't exactly my point. The point was even though they didn't even have religion to fight over, they faught over their own ideals. The Bolsheviks, Mensheviks, and SRs were all communist. None of them had religion and they all had the same ideals. They all followed the concept of Marxism but still faught alot. People were fighting over nothing pretty much. They all had the same idea!!! My thaught is that even if there was one religion, people would still fight and have terrorism. It's human nature.


Sadly true. :( Humans are a diverse bunch of people, with differing opinions. Even zealots of the same cult/political party/subculture will have different ways they express their fanaticism. And if someone wants to hate and feel superior, they'll find a way to do it.

Ini the 60s, there was a famous experiment done in a grade school classroom (I think it was 2nd grade). The teacher had a theory that the reason minorities (specifically African Americans, at this time) seemed to do so poorly in school wasn't from "mental deficiency", but from social pressures. So she told the (all white) class that that day, blue eyed people were "better" than brown-eyed people. The blue-eyed kids even got to put little paper collars around the brown-eyed ones. Instantly, the brown-eyed kids, with their new social stigma, became withdrawn, unhappy, and uninterested in their studies, despite the fact that they had been A students the day before. The blue-eyed ones, with their newfound power, started tormenting them, calling them brown-eyed, constantly reminding them of their inferior status. The entire dynamics of the class changed wildly in just one day.

Recently, there was a reunion of the "kids" of that class (now all grown up and in their 40s) and the teacher. No, their was no bitterness. Everyone was happy to see each other. But as adults, they could look back at it and express eloquently what they felt, something kids just can't do. The ones on the "superior" side said that they had a sense of power and invulnerability. Like they could do whatever they wanted to the "inferior" ones, without fear of reprisal, that it was okay because they were better, and the teacher (the authority) said so.

And there you have elitism, racism, and hate in a nutshell. It feels good to have someone under you. It gives a feeling of power to "realize" you are better. And in a community, you reinforce this belief, give it authority, making it "all right" to feel this way. Zealots, with their black-or-white mindset, fall into this trap along with other extremists. They're 100%, absolutely, positively right. Everyone else in the world is wrong. They are the elite, the chosen, the vanguard. Everyone else who doesn't believe their way is inferior, and by association has less power, less rights, less everything.

Back to communism as an example, Stalin took everything one step further by manufacturing enemies. It wasn't enough to be superior, and have the right, nay, the responsibility to take charge. He had to have enemies. He had to define his nature by showing what he was not, and to do that, he had to have enemies. Unsatisfied with a vague groop of inferiors, he had to specifically identify a group of enemies within that inferior set, so he could define his own nature against them. A rampaging, paranoid-delusionary ego.

This is so often why extreme parties and cults self destruct. When there's no room for dissent, and dissent is basic human nature, you're going to have schizms. That's what happened with communism in the early part of the 20th century. The moderate Mensheviks, who found no reason to be violent, were bulldozed by the violent Bolshevicks. Why? Because the Bolsheviks saw the Mensheviks as traitors, along with the rest of the inferiors. In the schizm, all the really forceful, violent people went to one side, and the moderates stayed on the other. Regrettably, in this case, the moderates lost.....

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I do agree that alot of the problem with religion is people preach and go to church, but don't truely practice their own faith. They want to look and feel superior through their religion, when you're actually supposed to be humbled by it. It's a bit sickening how people completly distort somthing that is meant to be good.


I couldn't agree more. :( Far too often, churches tend to think of themself as a country club for the "saved". You go to your place of worship, you follow the holy texts, you perform the rituals, and that makes you superior to all those sinful heathens that don't. But in each and every religion I've seen, a church isn't a club for the saved: it's a refuge for those who need saving. It's a place you go to improve your imperfections, not congratulate each other for piety. And to improve, you have to realize your own faults, your own humanity. It requires humility. One of the original definitions of sin in the Catholic (both Roman and Orthodox) Church is "missing the mark". Not WRONG behavior, not EVIL behavior, not STUFF THAT WILL SEND YOU TO HELL behavior: just imperfections. In this vein, when mankind is called a "race of sinners", it doesn't mean a bunch of evil bastards. It just means nobody is perfect.

Ult_Sm86 - 14/1/04 at 20:02

Mael most of what you said there about club church applies (sorry catholics) more to the catholics. In my american baptist church you say "there's god and jesus the rest isn't up for me to decide" and that's it your a mamber of the church your baptised and your note expected to beleive adam and eve were the first and that water became whine. your supposed to reconize a guy named Jesus who will come back and that's it. That's what a real church is. Then you spread the message (if you see fit) and you welcome and not shake hands for every person taht isn't going to hell cuz I fully beleive that Hell has a large vacancy since that guy went on the cross. Jesus accepted all of our "wrongs" and now we're in. Tah-dah. (well some speculate that you have to beleive in him too and I say sure why not, but I still don't think you go to hell)

Warbird - 15/1/04 at 00:09

hmmm It's great that your church is like that... but you just embodied the "it's a Catholic problem" mentality that really disturbs me. I've had dozens of people from just as many religions, telling ME what MY church is like. Public perseption is far from the truth in many cases and this is one of them. Catholics are by no means top of the ladder or the only ones who are going to be saved. That also doesn't mean that we're always wrong and any problem with religion today is manifested in our church. I know lots of people who go to churches that are like cliques that aren't Catholic. Also, I dated a guy who went to a baptist church and I attended services with him on occasion. Every time he'd end up telling someone that I was "Really a Catholic" and I'd end up haveing a dozen people tell me that if I didn't convert I'd be damned because "Catholics aren't really Christian". They all looked down their nose at me or tried to "save" me. People of all faiths think that they're supperior to others. The country club behavior is universal.

TelegramSam - 15/1/04 at 00:33

I've met some pretty beligerant Baptists and people of other Protestant denominations, Bamfman, and some who were certain that their particular brand of Christianity was the only "right" one and that others were invalid. NOt just Catholics, for certain. I've had some Baptist kids claim that Catholics are not even Christian, which is highly ignorant at best. I've also had athiests, polythiests/pagans of various stripes, and Muslims run on about how only *they* have the true knowlege and every one else is a bunch of fools, so it's not only in the Christian world that these problems pop up.

The fact of the matter is that people just aren't happy unless they feel that they are somehow a cut above the rest or that they are "special" and part of an exclusive group. It's human nature to want to be unique. Well, that's fine and all, but when it gets to the point where you have to harm others to feel important, that's just downright pathetic. Back to Mr. Rogers, I think if more people would adhere to his view: that you are unique by your very nature, the world would be a safer place for all of us.

The funny thing about Christians who think they know more in particular is that the Christian faith bases salvation on Christ's sacrifice: a free gift given out of God's love for all who are willing to accept Him as their Lord. The idea that special knowlege is the "ticket" into heaven is an old Gnostic idea, and actually predates Christ by a century or two. It's also an old heresy.

(ps. the Gnostics are actually a rather interesting bunch, as far as heretics go. Look 'em up on wikipedia or google. :))

Ult_Sm86 - 15/1/04 at 01:10

The catholics and baptists have been going at it for years. Centuries really. The main thing you have to keep in mind is baptists (if it's american southern i think is a littler different) can be too loose and chatholics are known to be too strict. It's just a commonly portrayed thing so it means it must be true. Sure not EVERY catholic church is like that but a lot of them (including the two i've been two) are very "it's written like this so you have to say it like this and there's no questions"
A lot of the atheists I know were once catholics. They say their parents drove them insane with the "go to church or go to hell" or their preists with "i shouldn't have to answer that" or "time out time because you can't say god is contradicting."
I went to a christian camp once and my counsellor says god is infallable and doesn't contradict himself once in the bible. Nothing he does is wrong. I find that totally unbeleivable because if he made us in his fashion why do some of us get tormented with the ugly stick or with deformities? or are the non deformed to us actually the deformed? and what happened to being an all loving entity? Why try to make a life for everyone and put them in hell holes that they can't get out of? Can't mess with free will? Bull sh**. That's where I have my doubts.

Maelstrom - 15/1/04 at 01:44

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A lot of the atheists I know were once catholics. They say their parents drove them insane with the "go to church or go to hell" or their preists with "i shouldn't have to answer that" or "time out time because you can't say god is contradicting."
I went to a christian camp once and my counsellor says god is infallable and doesn't contradict himself once in the bible. Nothing he does is wrong. I find that totally unbeleivable because if he made us in his fashion why do some of us get tormented with the ugly stick or with deformities? or are the non deformed to us actually the deformed? and what happened to being an all loving entity? Why try to make a life for everyone and put them in hell holes that they can't get out of? Can't mess with free will? Bull sh**. That's where I have my doubts.


Bamfman, it sounds like your counselors aren't very good at explaining themselves, or the tenets of their faith. They should have been able to answer your questions in a much more satisfying manner than "because God said so".

Hell, I could answer them in a better manner than that, and I'm not even a minister!

The idea of being made in His image isn't just physical likeness. In fact, it has very little to do with physical likeness. It means our *souls* are made in His image. The body can look like literally anything. It's the mind and spirit that counts. That's also why He doesn't make everyone physically perfect. If we're to grow, thrive, and be challenged, we can't have everything perfect.

I know; from your standpoint, you'd like a lot less challenges. I'd love to have a body that works 100%. I'd love to get rid of the fallen arches, the bad eyes, the biochemical depression, the hypoactive thyroid. And your list must be far longer, and with far more important things. But if we have these problems, it means we have to solve them. It means acting in a way to help others solve them. It binds us together as a people.

There's countless ethical and theological debates about the nature of suffering and evil, and how it could possibly co-exist with an infallable, omnipotent, and loving God. It's been debated from the beginning of time. The simple way is just to blame "the devil", whoever or whatever he may be. But I think that's too simple.

My humble opinion of why evil exists? Because we create it ourselves. Because free will necessitates the possibility of choosing wrong. Because we are imperfect, and sometimes weak and selfish.

And my opinion of why suffering exists? Why people are born with deformalities or crippling diseases? To give those afflicted the opportunity to rise above and be better people. To give the rest the opportunity to prove their worth by helping those in need. To remind us that anyone, anytime, needs help, and that the life you improve may be your own.

Ult_Sm86 - 15/1/04 at 02:34

I think sometimes that Bruce Almighty film is right. He can't answer it all but he is "all powerful" why give us problems? cuz we ate an apple. No offense god but you think your big and bad now? dangle it. Danlge it. The only real redeeming thing in my eyes, that god did was give us Jesus. He felt bad. It was guilt. Jesus is awesome and Jesus is the man Big J. Way to go.
Why'd you kill him?
What was the point in that? Good character develpment? So we could all be freed? couldn't you have done it some other way? I mean come on.
AL thought we all need to work to improve ourselves so maybe that "bigger plan" is gonna do something useful for once. I want to know what that bigger plan is for me. Why I have to be stuck with this valve.
Or why jimmy died at 5 a month ago. Why his family was sent to wait for his death in a hospital for 6 months. Why he has the exact same problems as me, he just got pnemonia. Why does he die and not me? Why can't the kid who has so much the kid who can sing, why can't he live. God's bigger plan was to take a kid at five. No. God wants to prove himself to us it's about dammned time he came down. I beleive in him but i want answers and i want everyone else to get theirs answered too.

edited: i'd just like to say that this is the primary reason I've been distant lately. Yeah.....:shame it's not fair.

Lauren - 15/1/04 at 03:45

erm...Bamfman? I'm Catholic, and I think I'm one of the most laid back ones around. My priest Father Chris is also laid back, and one time told me that most of the Bible most likely is fake. You could have said the stereotype of catholics is, just so you didn't look like you were stereotyping them.

thylacine - 15/1/04 at 19:26

That's right. There are too many negative stereotypes of Catholics.

Also... I heard that Baptists were really strict compared to Catholics. Is this true, or not? Are there any Baptists out there who can tell us?

Ult_Sm86 - 15/1/04 at 20:10

Sorry to offend you as I had said I was actually trying to think of that word but i am no longer a human theasaurus and always ferget words. :LOL

From my experience no. Baptists (protistants) are often not strict at all. That is why they left england and why they so frequently got cast out right? Cuz their rules weren't as harsh. Though once again this ist he stereotype. Although I do have to think that the way that catholic schools and churches have run kids lives since the dawn of it's time well... let's just put it this way (and this is not meant to offend) but you don't see any Baptists telling their kids they can't do such and such on TV for a reason. TV does reflect life otherwise it wouldn't be realistic to us and we wouldn't pay attention. So the boob tube has to be right about it somewhat. If the majority of catholic churches are harsh tv will reflect that and then further the steretype of it.

Wolvertique - 15/1/04 at 20:13

Ahem. Not a Baptist, but I can tell you there are numerous divisions within that designation. There are liberal Baptist denominations, conservative Baptist denominations (e.g. Southern Baptists), and "independent" Baptists as well. Bill Moyers once said on his religion special on PBS, "Growing up they always told me, 'If you have two Baptists in a room, you have a fight,'" which referred to Baptist diversity of opinion on religious matters.

There are too many negative stereotypes of ALL religions that aren't WASPy in this country. Catholics are one of the many, unfortunately.

Most Catholics I've met are nice, but I've also met a few "If the Church says so, then it is true no matter what" types who scare me with their blind adherence to authority. Good to know you're a Catholic, Lauren! I like good Catholics. Especially in a white wine sauce. ;)

taekwondodo - 15/1/04 at 20:18

Hate to break it to you Bamfman, but I went to a Baptist school for 2 years (4th and 5th grade) and was on a good first name basis w/the Principal and his handy-dandy wooden paddle for repeatedly asking one of the big, forbidden questions in religion class - "why?". Next on the list was "how do you know?" Then there was "can you prove it?" Suffice it to say I spent a *lot* of time trying to come up with excuses *not* to sit down. Then there were the lovely 'born again' neighbors who ganged up on me when I was 7 (2 daughters who were my 'friends' and their mom) and told me that I had to accept Jesus into my heart as my personal savior or I was going to burn in hell for eternity when I died - and who *knew* when that might be? Told me that everyone in my family who had died already (they were Protestants) were in Hell already, including my older brother who was killed in Vietnam. Reduced me to incoherent tears and then got me on the phone to their minister who reiterated it all and pressured me into doing the 'accepting Christ' bit right there on the phone. Let's just say my mom was royally pissed and I wasn't allowed to play with them anymore.

Baptists can be just as narrow-minded, vicious and clique-ish as anyone. I've never had a problem like that with *any* of my Catholic friends and have actually found most of the priests I've ever spoken with to be fairly open-minded, intelligent and willing to discuss differing points of view.

Ult_Sm86 - 15/1/04 at 20:22

Well yes. But as i said from my experiences no. There are as wolvertique kindly put two sides there. The one i'm at well my preist (rev. dr. donald) he's the man he like hearing why he likes to know that you want to question. He sees it as god gave you the ability to question and by golly your using it. (by golly is EXACTLY what he would say too)
Anyways yes about the american all religions here are uptight.
Well thats enough of this thread for me. I miss Jim and this thread reminds me of him so I"m gonna back off for awhile and come back when I'm NOT part of the heated discussion.
Til then though I still do this day can't talk to my catholic friend about the afterlife without getting told off.

Maelstrom - 15/1/04 at 20:49

Bamfman,

One thing to remember is that some of the Protestants who left England (because of religious persecution) were the PURITANS. These guys made the Catholics look like loosey-goosey hippies. They were so strict that they refused to use words that weren't in the King James version of the bible.

And so it is unto today. Some sects of Protestantism are fairly loose and accomidating, some are the fire and brimstone "keep you in line for fear of your soul" types. Though this is really no different from any other organized religion (there are moderates and extremists in any group), the Protestants have a history of just splitting off and forming their own church when they disagree, which is why there's so dang many denominations out there. The biggies are the Episcopaians, the Presbyterians, the Methodists, the Baptists, the Lutherans, Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses (the dogma of the latter two I *really* don't care for :urg). But there are lesser known ones like the 7th Day Adventists, Pentacostals, Christian Scientists... and more churches are being formed as I speak. Why? Because humans naturally disagree, and the Protestant faith has made a precedent of spltting off during bad disagreements.

The Catholic church (Roman or Orthodox) doesn't allow for that. If you disagree that much, you can leave, but you can't split off and form your own sect. This is one of the things that gives the Catholics such a reputation for being strict. You don't agree? You have two choices. Keep it to yourself, or leave.

A great many RCs in America don't agree with what the Pope says, but you won't see anyone protesting over it and forming their own "true" Roman Catholic church. That simply isn't the way it's done. For those RCs who believe in Papal Infallability, the Pope is right no matter what. And for those who don't, they still respect the man deeply for his unwavering devotion to the faith. (The Pope has NO time to himself. He is 100% "on the job", day and night.)

Catholic schools are a slightly different subject. We've all heard of, or even experienced first or second hand, the nasty nuns and their metal-backed rulers of doom. We've heard of the teachers that squash all forms of questions as heresy. I would like to think these are notable abherrances, rather than the rule, as Catholic-run schools also have a reputation for excellent curriculums and graduates with excellent grades.

But, then again, if you go into ANY religious school, you're going to find the same basic things. In ANY religious school, you'll find good teachers and nasty zealots who squash all inconvenient questions that they don't know how to answer. There are Baptists schools that punish people for believing in Evolution instead of Creationism. In the Middle and Far East there are way too many Schools of Islam that are nothing more than brainwashing centers (giving the rest of the excellent Muslim-based schools around the world a bad name). And I'm sure the same thing is true of any other Religious-based instruction. What we should look at isn't just the ruler-wielding nuns, but the system that produces them, and ask ourselves whether or not the same results would occur in other religious schools.

The chances are, the answer will be "yes".

TelegramSam - 15/1/04 at 22:03

Maelstrom, Mormons are not Christian, their doctrine is too far removed from Christianity to be considered such (regardless of what they claim). Namely, they consider the trinity to be 3 separate entities, I'm not sure, but I also think there is a separate "heavenly mother" or "wife of God" in there somewhere, they also have a doctrine that claims that God was once similar to mortal men today, but was somehow "lifted up" or somesuch, etc etc and that it is a man's goal to do likewise (but only if he has enough wives and children). It actually borrows heavily from certain Native American sources and old Gnostic ideas. At any rate, it's an entirely different religion from Christianity. They do include Jesus, but that's about as far as the resemblence goes, and even there, their vision of him is rather different from anything found in Christendom. It's a very unique religion.

Maelstrom - 15/1/04 at 22:17

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Originally posted by TelegramSam
Maelstrom, Mormons are not Christian, their doctrine is too far removed from Christianity to be considered such (regardless of what they claim). Namely, they consider the trinity to be 3 separate entities, I'm not sure, but I also think there is a separate "heavenly mother" or "wife of God" in there somewhere, they also have a doctrine that claims that God was once similar to mortal men today, but was somehow "lifted up" or somesuch, etc etc and that it is a man's goal to do likewise (but only if he has enough wives and children). It actually borrows heavily from certain Native American sources and old Gnostic ideas. At any rate, it's an entirely different religion from Christianity. They do include Jesus, but that's about as far as the resemblence goes, and even there, their vision of him is rather different from anything found in Christendom. It's a very unique religion.


You're "preaching to the choir" on this subject, T.Sam. ;) I included Mormonism as a "branch" of Christianity because that is what THEY claim to be, and it shows just how far some schisms can go.

BamfChyck - 15/1/04 at 22:52

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Originally posted by TelegramSam
Maelstrom, Mormons are not Christian... It actually borrows heavily from certain Native American sources ...


No, it doesn't. It's what a bunch of White men THOUGHT were AmerInd beliefs. That's very, very different. Personally, with all the cultural appropriation that has happened, I find that concept one of the most insulting to me, as an Indian and a woman. So guess what I talk to the Saints about when they come knocking?

Last time some Saints came to my house, I asked the nice young women if they wanted to start with the racism or the sexism. They stayed for 45 minutes and helped me bake. They were a bit surprised I knew so much about it, but my step-dad was a Mormon and my mom is a (retired) minister, so I learned a lot listening to them talk.
The thing I didn't like was how circular their arguments became when I pressed an issue. Don't schools teach critical thinking anymore?

Maelstrom - 15/1/04 at 23:01

Well, think about it. Mormonism is considered a cult by many. And in such a system, you won't want critical thinking. You actively discourage it. If they think critically, they may well leave....

Wolvertique - 15/1/04 at 23:06

MOST extreme religious arguments become circular if you push. It's not just Mormons who are subject to this kind of behavior; fundamentalist Christians, extreme right Catholics, and non-religious crazies (e.g. John Birch Society) get that way if you challenge them.

Warbird - 15/1/04 at 23:26

For the record, No, Schools don't teach critical thinking anymore. Unless you go to a private school or take AP classes, kids are just spoon-fed facts that they regurgitate on tests. You can get A's and B's in public highschools today just by memorizing. There's allmost no need for applied knowlage in school anymore. It's a bit frightening. People aren't being taught to think at all. It's like soon Big Brother really will be able to controll us all because the new generation of people won't know how to think except for what they're told is right. Even if history was completly re-written in one day, if the Gov. says it really is that way, then no one will question it. If you've ever read 1984 you'll know what I mean. Independant thinking needs to make a comeback and soon!!!

Gaz - 16/1/04 at 00:39

The problem is that it's hard to get anywhere in life with complete independant thinking. Most of the stuff people do can be acheived unconciously or at least subconciously. Even if independant thinking is important, it is no longer neccesary in a society where you can get away with doing everything half-assed.

:offtopic...i know...

Lauren - 16/1/04 at 04:02

*hugs Nightcrawler* You see? This is why Nightcrawler is so great! He's Catholic, but he's not the stereotype, and he doesn't act one minded or anything. He questions things that need to be questioned and he doesn't just take what he's given either! *huggles him some more*

TelegramSam - 16/1/04 at 13:50

No, schools don't teach critical thinking anymore, because the employers of the world don't want employees that think for themselves.

Most Mormon missionaries are kings of the circular argument, and the'll run it into the ground until you acquiesce. They've got this whole stupid thing where they'll say crap like "you have to eat the milk before the meat" or some shit and refuse to answer probing questions about their religion until you're too far into the system to get out. And trust me, if you do later want to get out, they aren't going to make it easy. Generally you'll be ostricized from the community completely as an apostate, and if your family is devout mormon, well you can forget about Thanksgiving Dinner at Mom and Pop's house. They also have strictly enforced tithing laws that are responsible for them being the one of the richest religious organizations on the planet.

Frankly, I find them to be a rather scary bunch, but some people like that kind of thing I guess...

Maelstrom - 16/1/04 at 16:39

This is kind of a reprint from an earlier thread, but since we're delving into cult behavior, I'll repost it here. ;)

Cult behavior short-circuits your critical thinking process. You're taught to ignore any evidence to the contrary and remain "safe" in the knowledge that you are right. Any "inconvenient" facts are rationalized as "oh, well, I guess (cult leader X) had his reasons", or considered anathema and shunned. It's the mental equivalent of putting your hands over your ears and loudly singing LA LA LA LA LA I CAN'T HEAR YOU LA LA LA LA!!

Here's an interesting example from 1989, when George Bush Sr. was President. I was in college, and a rather scary man called Lyndon La Rouche was trying to gain power for his little "political party" (cult). He was an anti-semite, a Holocaust denier, a rampant homophobe who believed AIDS was spread by mosquitos, etc., etc. (Eventually, he went to prison for child molestation. :shocked) He had one of his followers in the courtyard (along with people from legitimate political parties, fraternities, sororities, and credit card companies) trying to raise interest and gain members. I walked up to him and engaged him in conversation. Here is that rather one-sided conversation.

Me: How can you believe in and follow a man who says the Holocaust never happened?

Him: You've swallowed Bush's lies!

Me: .... No, I hate Bush. I voted against him. But your boss said these things....

Him: You've swallowed Bush's lies!

Me: Okay, look. I have a recording of your leader claiming the Holocaust never happened....

Him: You've swallowed Bush's lies!

Me: *exasperated and looking to other tables for support* Somebody hit him! He's stuck!

For the Mormons, the fact that the Book of Mormon has been EDITED (that is, rewritten) over 5000 times is conveniently ignored. Name ONE other religious text that has been EDITED, not translated. As an example most of us on the board are familiar with, take the Bible. The King James version of the Bible was a translation from Latin, and the Protestant Bible removes a few sections completely (like the story of the Maccabees), but nothing is DELIBERATELY EDITED. No words have been DELIBERATELY CHANGED from their original meaning, no "errors in grammar" have been "fixed". No embarrassing or inconvenient parts have been made more "palatable". (Hell, the Pauline Letters embarrass ME, but I'd never change a word. If a book is really holy, it's not your place to do so.)

Also, one of the original Mormon texts, The Pearl of Great Price (once required reading), is now kind of set aside as it's a bit politically and socially embarrasing and hard to defend. And the entire dubious (perhaps even shameful) history of its author, Joseph Smith, is NEVER, EVER TAUGHT. After all, if you knew the historical TRUTH about him, you'd lose all respect for him and the religion he began.

Some religions are shrouded in what other faiths might consider "myth", such as Hinduism. These are not "historically provable". Others, like Islam, Judiasm, and Christianity, have definite "real world" people involved, and their history may be up for a bit of minor scholorly debate, but there are no "skeletons in the closet" that would destroy the faith they set up. But when you've got a (relatively) modern-day founder, whose life can be easily traced by hundreds of impersonal, factual records, and you deliberately keep that life from being accurately portrayed to his or her followers, you've got a cult. Period. End of statement.

Lauren - 16/1/04 at 17:50

Wow, I couldn't help but laugh when i read that he repeated the same thing over and over again. That's just...sad in so many ways!

thylacine - 16/1/04 at 18:40

Quote: Most Catholics I've met are nice, but I've also met a few "If the Church says so, then it is true no matter what" types who scare me with their blind adherence to authority. Good to know you're a Catholic, Lauren! I like good Catholics. Especially in a white wine sauce. <-- (fresh!)

Those fanatical people scare me, too! I've known a few! They are so far gone.

Catholic schools are actually okay. They are not these "torture chambers" they are stereotyped to be. The nuns are okay, about average teachers. Some were terrific, and one nun I had was bi-polar. But most were average. The big problem was that there is a large concentration of upper class wealth in those schools, since they are expensive. And the rich kids are total brats. "My daddy is a lawyer. He bought me a pony." "Oh yeah. My daddy owns the Patriots." "My daddy bought me a stereo system that cost $1,000." And, "My daddy bought me a diamond necklace." "What did you get for Christmas?" "Ah... I got a sweater and a pair of mittens." That hurts, yah know.

John Smith was mentioned... ? What is the real history of this dude that is so interesting? Tell us, do! :D

Wolvertique - 16/1/04 at 19:32

"No words have been DELIBERATELY CHANGED from their original meaning,"
Erm...three letters. NIV. Certain discrepancies HAVE been edited to make them consistent with other parts of the Bible.

Ahem. Carry on, though. :)

Maelstrom - 16/1/04 at 19:46

Seriously? I thought it was just omission of the Apocrypha! And maybe an updating of archaic language (you instead of thee, etc). They actually "edited" things to make them "consistent"?? :eek

Shows you how long it's been since I actually looked at the NIV Bible. I only use the Orthodox one now, which does have the Apocrypha and is supposedly translated directly from the original Greek texts.....

TelegramSam - 16/1/04 at 20:43

Note: the Greek texts are not actually "original", the old testament was written originally in Hebrew and the new testament was written in Aramaic. Unfortunatly, the few Aramaic texts that have been found cannot be feasibly authenticated, so pretty much all modern bibles have been translated from the later Greek texts.

:)

Maelstrom - 16/1/04 at 21:51

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Originally posted by thylacine
John Smith was mentioned... ? What is the real history of this dude that is so interesting? Tell us, do! :D


John Smith, by all accounts, was a failure most of his life who tended to tell "tall tales". One of the best books to look up his history (and that of Mormonism in general) is The Mormon Mirage. It's written by an ex-Mormon, who went out and looked all the stuff up on her own, from other, impartial sources, when she started having doubts. Not sure if it's still in print, but you may be able to find it iin your library. His history is too convoluted for me to remember right now.....

Wolvertique - 16/1/04 at 22:12

"They actually "edited" things to make them "consistent"?"
Yep, that's one of the reasons the evangelical Christians who sponsored it gave. :) They also may have done it in response to the RSV, which as I recall translated a word in a verse in Isaiah usually translated as "born of a virgin" as "born of a young woman." Young woman, ironically, is a more accurate translation of the original Hebrew word "bethulah" used in this passage.

See what fun you can have with this stuff? :D

bamfchickie - 17/1/04 at 00:13

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Maelstrom, Mormons are not Christian, their doctrine is too far removed from Christianity to be considered such (regardless of what they claim).


Out of curiosity, what do you consider the requirements for being considered Christian? I thought "Christian" as a catchall term meant any religion that believes Jesus Christ was the Messiah.

If that's the case, the Mormons are definitely Christian. Maybe not "proper" Christians in the generally accepted sense of the term, but they do indeed believe that Jesus was the son of God, and that he was the Messiah.

(Sorry. I try to avoid religious topics like the plague, but my parents are Mormon. I think the whole religion is a load of hogwash, but I still learned their principles of belief while growing up). ;)

TelegramSam - 17/1/04 at 03:16

They reject the doctrine of the Trinity which most consider to be central to Christianity, and there are about a million other discrepencies. It's just too much difference. I mean if you want to argue that way, you could argue that Christians are Jews because they believe in the God described in the old testament. Most people, however, would not consider Christians to be Jewish because there is too much difference in doctrine. I make the same argument about Mormons being a different religion.

Lauren - 17/1/04 at 04:09

The whole what makes a Christian a Christian brings to mind something else that's been confusing me...

Have you ever heard of this group that says Jews for Jesus? Now, if you think Jesus is the Messiah...doesn't that make you Christian and NOT Jewish?

taekwondodo - 17/1/04 at 05:33

Jews for Jesus consider their Judaism to be a cultural, not a religious, situation, at least that's how I understand it. Judaism is passed down matrilineally (I don't know if this is the case w/all Jewish sects or denominations or whatever they are). I had a friend in hs who was adopted into an orthodox Jewish family, her 'grandparents' didn't accept her as Jewish b/c she wasn't born of a Jewish mother. Her dad was basically ostracized from the family and the faith - though he was still very strict.

bamfchickie - 17/1/04 at 08:21

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I mean if you want to argue that way, you could argue that Christians are Jews because they believe in the God described in the old testament.


Oh, I'm not arguing anything, actually. I simply asked a question: how does anyone determine who is Christian and who is not? Is there a set list of criteria? ;)

For that matter, how is arguing that the Mormons (or any other "sect" of Christianity) are unChristian any different from the fundamentalist zealots who accuse the Catholics, Methodists, and Presbyterians of being non-Christian? :)

TelegramSam - 17/1/04 at 14:32

Because Catholics, Methodists, and Presbyterians all share the same basic doctrine, save a few details. Truly, the only difference between Catholics and the Protestant churches is the prominence given to Mary and emphasis on doing good works (though even most protestant churches emphasize outreach and community service) and the manner of confession.

Mormons, however, have little in common with other Christian sects save the fact that a man named Jesus and called "the son of God" is involved. The way they see the fundamental nature of God, the Trinity, and Jesus are all very different from anyone else. If you don't believe me, look up, for example, Catholic or Methodist doctrine or something and do a comparison.

ps. keep in mind that I'm discussing religious organizations here, not individuals.

Wolvertique - 17/1/04 at 15:51

Being that I am a member of a "minority" faith myself, neo-Paganism, I am willing to acknowledge that anyone calling her or himself a Christian who is not, say, practicing Islam and saying that Christ was stupid, is a Christian.

Besides, I've been told by many "loving" Christians before that if I'm not a Christian, I can't say anything about what Christianity is or who Christians are, so I have to take y'all's words for it anyway. ;)

I would not call most members of minority faiths, Christian or not, members of cults. It's a word too often used to mean "a religion I don't like, therefore I'm going to put it down." I'm sure no one here is trying to use it that way, but that's how I see it used most often. It's even used of my religion, and I can assure you that no real Pagan could be part of a cult because we're generally anti-authority and pro-individual rights. How could we all just be following a "charismatic leader"?

Ergh. Anyway. Enough. I could talk about this stuff for hours, but I won't.

TelegramSam - 17/1/04 at 17:41

Just so we all understand what we're talking about here (from dictionary.com)

cult ( n. )

1.
a. A religion or religious sect generally considered to be extremist or false, with its followers often living in an unconventional manner under the guidance of an authoritarian, charismatic leader.
b. The followers of such a religion or sect.
2. A system or community of religious worship and ritual.
3. The formal means of expressing religious reverence; religious ceremony and ritual.
4. A usually nonscientific method or regimen claimed by its originator to have exclusive or exceptional power in curing a particular disease.
5.
a. Obsessive, especially faddish, devotion to or veneration for a person, principle, or thing.
b. The object of such devotion.
6. An exclusive group of persons sharing an esoteric, usually artistic or intellectual interest.

The first one seems to be what most people here have in mind when they use the term "cult" but I could be wrong.

Wolvertique - 17/1/04 at 17:56

Then 1. doesn't apply to Mormons or the others they've been saying it does, though, TS. Mormons live pretty much like everyone else. Sure, you can pick at a few of their religion-specific practices and say "See, this isn't like everyone else," but you can do this with devout Catholics, Buddhists, and so on.

Warbird - 17/1/04 at 18:11

THough I personaly don't think that Mormonism is very legitamit as a christian religion, I wouldn't call it a cult. They don't perpously brainwash. If you say that they do, then enyone teaching religion as fact is practicing cult like activities. I'm a pretty Hardcore Catholic and I belive my faith as fact, and I intend on teaching my kids exactly what I belive. To someone who isn't Catholic, am I brianwashing them into my "cult"? I would say that Mormons are very very missguided Christians (becase even if they do deny the trinity they still belive in Christ the savior), but not cult members.

Maelstrom - 17/1/04 at 18:20

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Besides, I've been told by many "loving" Christians before that if I'm not a Christian, I can't say anything about what Christianity is or who Christians are, so I have to take y'all's words for it anyway. ;)


:LOL The way you put "loving Christian" in quotes speaks volumes!

For the longest time, I was really down on Christianity in general because it seemed unreasonable. As a kid, of course, you might go to Sunday School and learn about all the "Jesus Loves Me" stories. All the warm, fuzzy, touchy-feely stuff that tells you Jesus is your friend. And then you look at the "real" Bible as an adolescent, it's filled with contradictions and rules that make no sense, and people are now telling you to fear someone (who supposedly loves you??) or you'll go straight to Hell with everyone else because as a baby first out of your mother's womb, you're a sinful creature.

I don't even know enough to recognize my own toes, and I've already sinned my way into hell? Can someone please explain to me the difference between Christianity and a brainwashed Cult of Personality?

What was missing for me was the "why". A LOT of the Bible makes no sense on the surface. I mean, there are two sections in the Old Testament where a guy adopts his wife as his sister! Some things (like how Cain, one of the first four people on earth, could go and settle with the people in Canaan) make it look like you missed a chapter somewhere. And yet, this thing is supposed to be 100% TRUE? What the HELL? :huh

I started "studying" Christianity in earnest when I met a priest who was actually able to explain things to me in a sensible manner:

"Sin" doesn't automatically mean evil or wrong, and it doesn't mean you're going straight to Hell. It means imperfect. As a baby, you're born of a human, imperfect mother and father. You'll make mistakes, as have every single human before you, and will every human since.

The bit where the husband adopts his wife as his sister? That's based off of an old Babylonian custom. Wives couldn't inherit property, but family could, so if you truly loved and respected your wife, you would adopt her as a sister so she would have something left to support her when you died. (I'm not going into all the icky social "incest" consequences of this: I'm just relating a historical fact... ;) )

Cain marrying into Canaan is still a bit of a mystery to me, and to a lot of others. But, according to the Orthodox and Roman Catholic doctrines... it doesn't matter. Yes, it's a discrepency. It's a Mystery. The Bible is full of them, and they do not detract from the Truth.

And THIS is the #1, most important, imperative thing: there are two kinds of "truth". There is Big T Truth, and little t truth. The Bible is 100% Truth, not 100% truth. The difference? Big Truth consists of universal Truths. Of allegorical, metaphysical, universal Truths. Little truth is literal, historical, factual truth. Is the story of Adam and Eve the little truth? Of course not. It's taken from an even older Sumerian myth. There's no pottery shards, no preserved fig leaf aprons. Snakes never really spoke, and lions and lambs have always been predator and prey. But is it the big Truth? Yes, because it tells an allegorical story of how mankind grew in knowledge and self awareness, in the ability to know right from wrong, but did not grow in spiritual wisdom and occasionally makes choices to do wrong, and how the uneven nature of this development has placed us in the less-than-perfect world we are on today.

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I would not call most members of minority faiths, Christian or not, members of cults. It's a word too often used to mean "a religion I don't like, therefore I'm going to put it down." I'm sure no one here is trying to use it that way, but that's how I see it used most often. It's even used of my religion, and I can assure you that no real Pagan could be part of a cult because we're generally anti-authority and pro-individual rights. How could we all just be following a "charismatic leader"?


In a strict, clinical sense, many Pagan branches (I have no idea which one you belong to) can be considered cults because they've had to make up their rituals and traditions to approximate those of old. The 18th century Druids had very little historically in common with their 1st century progenitors, because there were few records (if any) of what the rituals were. When there's no clear-cut, historical lineage of traditions (whether they're written down or orally transmitted), and someone has recreated them in the recent past, that can fit the literal, dry, academic definition of a cult. It's not the same connection that dangerous, mind-controlling, violent cults have (the Moonies, the Scientologists, the Symbionese Liberation Army, the Phineas Priests), nor is it the "outcast and heretical" label of the Mormons and the Jehovah's Witnesses, but rather it fits the definition placed on any belief system/religion that is less than a couple hundred years old.

That said, I personally would be loathe to place anyone in that camp if I didn't know the first thing about their belief set. And, honestly, I don't know the first thing about yours. ;)

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Ergh. Anyway. Enough. I could talk about this stuff for hours, but I won't.


:D Actually, I kind of like talking about this stuff. Please feel free to go on talking about it for hours. :D

TelegramSam - 17/1/04 at 19:20

nit-picky thing about usage of terms: The term "cult of personality" refers to the sort of hype that a goverment (especially a fascist or dictatorial government) creates about a particular leader to encourage loyalty of the masses. It has nothing to do with religious cults.

On another note: Yes, Mormonism is a cult. And in many ways, so are many facets of Christianity. I have encountered many Christian churches that are indeed very cult-like. Some are, some aren't. I have yet to encounter a single mormon group, however, that is not. I'm not saying they don't exist, but I can assure you it's not in any large number.

Wolvertique - 17/1/04 at 20:54

To my knowledge, Mormons are not asked to have no belongings and move in with whoever the leader of their faith is, which is basically the primary dictionary definition of cult...following a charismatic leader and living in a communal setting. Which Mormons do that? I've never heard of any.

Pagans, too, aren't "cult" members because we don't follow a charismatic leader. Most of us, too, don't really live all that unconventionally. Of the Pagan group I know locally, most of its members are married working heterosexuals.

Having beliefs outside the Christian mainstream, or beliefs which must be revealed by God and not derived from history, does not make one a cult member. I've always used the word "cult" for religions which do follow a charismatic leader, require cutting oneself off from everything but the religion, and are objectively harmful (e.g. Heaven's Gate or Jim Jones).

TelegramSam - 17/1/04 at 21:16

well wolvertique, you have a much more extreme definition of "cult" than I do, and that's about all I can tell you.

The fact that apostates are ostricised, the fact that they brook no questioning or deviation from members, the fact that they are secretive about certain doctrines and activities high in the church, and the fact that they often demand very specific financial information and a tithe from their members spells c-u-l-t to me.

They're also quite misogynist, but that's more a personal criticism of mine...

This essay shows pretty well the way the Mormons go about their work: http://2thinkforums.org/anyboard/archive/13173.html

Wolvertique - 17/1/04 at 22:25

Well, TS, I can say I've seen all the above in "mainstream" churches, too. Especially the misogyny...remember the flak the Episcopalians caught for having female bishops?

I guess being in a religion which is frequently insulted and dismissed with the word "cult" gives me a different perspective than yours. So be it.

TelegramSam - 17/1/04 at 22:52

Like I stated before, wolvertique:
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On another note: Yes, Mormonism is a cult. And in many ways, so are many facets of Christianity. I have encountered many Christian churches that are indeed very cult-like. Some are, some aren't. I have yet to encounter a single mormon group, however, that is not. I'm not saying they don't exist, but I can assure you it's not in any large number.


And just for the record, I don't consider most pagan religions to be cults. They're generally not coercive and controlling, at least not those I've encountered. I had several wiccan friends in high school, in fact, and they never tried to force their beliefs on me. Yes, they criticized Christianity and one went so far as to call me a brainwashed moron (he apologized later though) but they rarely exhibit the kind of threatening behavior that the mormon church promotes.

Shadow_Dancer - 18/1/04 at 00:01

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Oh, I'm not arguing anything, actually. I simply asked a question: how does anyone determine who is Christian and who is not? Is there a set list of criteria? ;)

For that matter, how is arguing that the Mormons (or any other "sect" of Christianity) are unChristian any different from the fundamentalist zealots who accuse the Catholics, Methodists, and Presbyterians of being non-Christian? :)


* Heavy sigh *

I always find it sad when people see all the arguments that take place between people of different denominations claiming the name of Christian, especially when they deny the same name to another group. I belong to an interdenominational Christian organization that works with youth. We realize that we do not always agree on all doctrinal points. It is not surprising. This may sound very superstitious to you, but there is a spiritual enemy, one that we cannot see with our eyes, but he is ever present.

Go ahead and laugh if you want, but I don’t believe this blindly. I am a well-educated professional that does not follow the Christian faith just because I grew up going to Sunday school. I have tested and searched and I believe because I have seen miraculous changes in people’s lives through faith in Christ. I have also come up against very real, palpable evil. This spiritual enemy is very good at the “divide and conquer” method. As long as Christian’s fight amongst themselves, our message is lost, and we are left impotent. And all the world sees is a lot of people without real love and a lot of contradictions. No wonder so many people have problems with organized religion.

What I believe, and we teach the kids is this:

What truly qualifies one as a Christian is motivation more than anything else. I had to come to a realization that I am a sinner, and because of that I cannot approach my perfect and sovereign Creator. But He could have tossed us all out and just started again, but He didn’t. He made a way for us to come back to Him. I think that much of the Old Testament was to show us that no matter how hard we try, we can never be good enough on our own. There is not anything we can do in and of ourselves.

So then He came himself, in the form of a man who was both God and man. Who had the same weaknesses, faced the same trials and temptations but lived a pure life. In His death Christ took our punishment, and then rose again, conquering death so that we might also live forever. He bridged the gap between God and us.

To me, a Christian is quite simply someone who takes this to heart, that realizes that there is nothing they can do to bridge that gap themselves, and trusts in the sacrifice that Christ made and my wongs are forgiven. The debt I owe God is paid in full. I also believe that there is nothing you can do to “work” your way into heaven. I can never be “good enough”, or do “enough” on my own. But it was already done for me. All I have to do is confess that I am imperfect and trust that God only sees the perfection of Christ. And when I do the good things that the Blble asks me to do, it is not out of trying to work my way to God, but out of love and obedience for the one who sacrificed His life for me.



The outcome is the same, yes, but the motivation is different. And when I attempt to share my faith, it is not for “brownie points” from God, for I try (and yes, I sometimes do fail) never to see myself as better than anyone on this board. It is out of love for my Lord, and for you, my friends, that you could know the peace that I do.

Ultimately who is a Christian is not for anyone of us to say when you really get down to it. It is between God and that person. Only God can judge a person’s heart. IMHO, the rest is all semantics.

Wolvertique - 18/1/04 at 00:31

::shrugs:: I find it weird that you're singling out Mormons. Why not just say you don't like any spiritualities who force their faiths on others? It seems to be a better representation of your beliefs so far.

Love your sig, BTW. I've been entertaining my husband with it for several days now.

TelegramSam - 18/1/04 at 00:37

Wolvertique - Because we were discussing the mormons in specific? True, though, I feel the same about all religions of similar nature. The Mormons just seem to be the most prominent in this country, and thus tend to bug me more than the others. *shrugs*

Shadow_dancer - I get what you're saying, but I wasn't talking about individuals here, but rather institutions. There's a very big difference.

thylacine - 18/1/04 at 21:00

Hi. Most Mormons I have met were really nice people. The ones I knew where not like "brainwashed" and they definitely had minds of their own & their own ideas & etc. Let's not categorize people, because when you do categorize people, they might feel picked on & stuff. I think it's important to look at what you write in this space and think, 'how would I feel if they said that about my beliefs?' I just don't want anyone reading our stuff to feel hurt or singled out...

... Anyway... speaking of religious prejudice... today in the newspaper's advice column, this guy's girlfriend dumped him because he was a Catholic. She said, "I don't want my kids being raised by a Catholic." Like, that is so awful! That sounds like, 'I don't want my kids raised by a crackhead' to me. What was she thinking? That he would glue rosaries to their little heads???

TelegramSam - 18/1/04 at 21:45

Does anybody actually read what I write here? I said (for the 500th time) that I am discussing institutions, not people.

My beef isn't with individual mormons, as you said, most of them are decent people. It's the church itself, the people at the top who run the show and control the reigns that I have a problem with.

Warbird - 19/1/04 at 00:38

I think what every one is trying to get out though, is that Moromonism might be a strict religion, but is far from a true cult. THese people aren't being forces into anything or being brainwashed. They just have a different belife system that many people think is misguided. I don't know any Mormons who have been lead astray in a way that was trulely detrimental to their well being.

"this guy's girlfriend dumped him because he was a Catholic."
I was also dumped for being Catholic. It really really hurt. Honestly it was worse than any other break up because I was being cast aside for my faith. I was seen as a lesser person because of my belifes. He actually told me that I was a wonderful girl and that he'd stay with me if I would convert and turn my back on the "wretched" Catholic Church. His family looked down on Catholics because their church did. I obviosely declined.

That was the Baptist guy I mentioned before. I've never known any Mormons (and I do know many) that have broken up with anyone because of their faith... Most cults wouldn't tolerate that behavior in its members, do as you're told or you're out. None of them were treated differently by their church for dating outsiders. Cults usually have a problem with that. I'm not attacking Baptist, I'm just trying to demonstrate that there are other religiouse groups that pressure their members just as much as Mormons and no one refers to them as cults.

Maelstrom - 19/1/04 at 16:42

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Originally posted by thylacine
... Anyway... speaking of religious prejudice... today in the newspaper's advice column, this guy's girlfriend dumped him because he was a Catholic. She said, "I don't want my kids being raised by a Catholic." Like, that is so awful! That sounds like, 'I don't want my kids raised by a crackhead' to me. What was she thinking? That he would glue rosaries to their little heads???


:urg This is such a very, very sticky situation....

Part of this is indeed blatant religious bigotry. "I don't want my kids raised by A Catholic" makes it abundantly clear that he thinks Catholics are inferior at best.

However, I've noticed that many, many religions (not just Christianity) don't like to have their members marry someone of a different faith. Anyone besides me remember Fiddler on the Roof? When the father disowns his daughter because she wants to marry a Christian instead of a Jew? That's a scene repeated many times, with many religions. Sometimes that applies to different sects of the same faith, i.e. Catholic vs. Protestant.

The reason given is that when you've got people with radically different religions living together, something's gotta give. It's assumed that one of the two will convert to the other's belief. And if not, then any children will grow up terminally confused about their religious "identity". My mother explained it a bit more gently. She is very much Orthodox Christian, and her faith is so important to her that she would hant to share it with anyone she loves.

This is a very, VERY old view. Not "old" as in "outdated", but as in "has been followed for thousands of years, not likely to be changed any time soon". It's woefully common throughout the world. (If you think Fundlets hate the Catholics, imagine what happens in India or Pakistan when a Muslim and a Hindu fall in love.... :shocked)

Personally, I don't agree with this all-or-nothing view. I think there's room for debate and room for similarities. True, if there are children involved, you'll have to plan ahead of time what's going to happen. I think it is a lousy idea to bring a child up actively following two distincly different faiths, because it will be confusing. An adult can make a decision as to what road to follow, but a child lacks the wisdom to do so. But, by that token, if you've persevered this long against social pressure and opposition, then you'll surely be able to figure out something mutually acceptable. ;)

The Drastic Spastic - 19/1/04 at 23:10

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Originally posted by thylacine
... Anyway... speaking of religious prejudice... today in the newspaper's advice column, this guy's girlfriend dumped him because he was a Catholic. She said, "I don't want my kids being raised by a Catholic." Like, that is so awful! That sounds like, 'I don't want my kids raised by a crackhead' to me. What was she thinking? That he would glue rosaries to their little heads???


:urg This is such a very, very sticky situation....

Part of this is indeed blatant religious bigotry. "I don't want my kids raised by A Catholic" makes it abundantly clear that he thinks Catholics are inferior at best.


Or it could just mean "A Catholic" would want to raise them in the Catholic faith, which she didn't agree with. I can't even see myself dating a devout Catholic long enough for the subject of kids to come up. For me, it would be a source of extreme friction.

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What I believe, and we teach the kids is this:

What truly qualifies one as a Christian is motivation more than anything else. I had to come to a realization that I am a sinner, and because of that I cannot approach my perfect and sovereign Creator. But He could have tossed us all out and just started again, but He didn’t. He made a way for us to come back to Him. I think that much of the Old Testament was to show us that no matter how hard we try, we can never be good enough on our own. There is not anything we can do in and of ourselves.

So then He came himself, in the form of a man who was both God and man. Who had the same weaknesses, faced the same trials and temptations but lived a pure life. In His death Christ took our punishment, and then rose again, conquering death so that we might also live forever. He bridged the gap between God and us.

To me, a Christian is quite simply someone who takes this to heart, that realizes that there is nothing they can do to bridge that gap themselves, and trusts in the sacrifice that Christ made and my wongs are forgiven. The debt I owe God is paid in full. I also believe that there is nothing you can do to “work” your way into heaven. I can never be “good enough”, or do “enough” on my own. But it was already done for me. All I have to do is confess that I am imperfect and trust that God only sees the perfection of Christ. And when I do the good things that the Blble asks me to do, it is not out of trying to work my way to God, but out of love and obedience for the one who sacrificed His life for me.


I do like this though.

Lauren - 20/1/04 at 13:56

My friend's mother actually found a way to get her kids to be both Jewish and Christian. She had them baptized and stuff, but they went to Hebrew school and stuff along with religion school to be christian. She said it would help because at some point if they wanted they could drop one religion and keep the other.

thylacine - 20/1/04 at 14:20

That is cool to be both Jewish & Christian.

Quote: "He actually told me that I was a wonderful girl and that he'd stay with me if I would convert and turn my back on the "wretched" Catholic Church."

Did you slap that punk???

Anyway... I once worked with a Jewish girl who, when she found out I was Catholic, announced to my face that I was closed minded, prejudiced, uneducated, and ignorant, and homophobic. She only knew me for a few days. I could not say anything back to her, because she was a manager, and I knew right away that she was the type to make big trouble. All I could say was, "What-? I am not- " "Yes you are. All Catholics are! All of them! And you all just think you have to be so good so when you die you get to Heaven. But there is no Heaven," she raged. "There is nothing after this. Nothing at all! You just die!" (This behavior, of course, says more about her as a person than it says about her faith. She always left work early to see her psychiatrist. She was going to night school too, to be a sex therapist. I am not making that up!) She found out I was Catholic and treated me like an evil mutant!

Speaking of religious prejudice... My mother always said that she believed that my alcoholic father married her just because she was Catholic and he thought she would never divorce him no matter what. "Guess I showed him!" she said. It was a nasty divorce. Real nasty. "That's what I get for marrying a Protestant! If you ever get married, you should marry a nice Jewish boy. They're all doctors, and their mothers bring them up to do what they're told!" :LOL

Lauren - 20/1/04 at 15:35

where did some of these stereotypes come from anyway? I mean, we've got the jews have big noses one , jewish women don't like sex, caholics are all this and that, people who pray the rosary are fanatics! Come on!

Maelstrom - 20/1/04 at 16:38

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where did some of these stereotypes come from anyway? I mean, we've got the jews have big noses one , jewish women don't like sex, caholics are all this and that, people who pray the rosary are fanatics! Come on!


Well, the same "big, hooked nose" stereotype also goes for anyone who's even remotely Middle-Eastern (look at the political cartoons). The smidgen of truth that goes with that image lies more with adaptation than anything else.

On the average, Caucasian Europeans, Inuits, and Asians have slightly smaller nasal cavities. Why? Because they've adapted to a colder climate for a few hundred thousand years, and a smaller nose means you get to warm up the cold air you breathe in. (I know that large parts of China are swampy, humid, and hot, to say nothing of Japan, but originally only China's northern provinces were populated. It wasn't until a few thousand years ago that continued invasions from the North forced people into the southern, warmer areas, and then into Japan.)

By contrast, those from the warmer regions (Middle East, India, Africa, Native North and South Americans, Polynesians) have slightly larger nasal cavities for allowing the hot air to circulate and cool down on the way in.

The distinct shape of a nose is heavily influenced by these genetic factors, which were originally heavily influenced by environmental factors.

TelegramSam - 20/1/04 at 16:47

Interesting to note that more genetic variance has been found within small groups of chimpanzees than in the entirety of the human species. At some point, the human population dropped to less than 10,000, and the resulting "population bottleneck" insured that we're all basically identical on a genetic level, much the same way Cheetahs and Pumas are, and a few other species that have undergone a similar situation.

thylacine - 20/1/04 at 16:52

That is quite interesting... I did not know some of that stuff... I did know that thing on cheetahs though! See? Ain't I smart? I watch PBS!!!

Lauren - 20/1/04 at 17:26

Yay for PBS! Aww...now I'm going to be reminded of Mr. Rogers again! *sobs*

bluefooted - 20/1/04 at 18:18

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Interesting to note that more genetic variance has been found within small groups of chimpanzees than in the entirety of the human species. At some point, the human population dropped to less than 10,000, and the resulting "population bottleneck" insured that we're all basically identical on a genetic level, much the same way Cheetahs and Pumas are, and a few other species that have undergone a similar situation.


Well, the level of genetic diversity that is considered 'normal' will depend on the species. I don't think the human race is in as dire a position as the cheetah population - they have such low genetic diversity that all individuals are practically clones. And, therefore, there is little difference in their disease resistance. One good virus could wipe them all out.

I think the most astounding and important fact is that we've found there is more (much more) genetic diversity within human 'racial' groups than between them. Making our perception of 'races' really pretty biologically irrelevent. And pointless, too :) The visible differences between people that we (as humans) like to focus on are not reflected in the underlying genetics. And we should just become more homogenous over time, as we become a more 'well-travelled' species.

And to keep it on topic... um... we're really all the same on the inside... so, um... we should try to love one another... rather than partition ourselves into groups... whew!

Warbird - 21/1/04 at 02:49

Is it just me, or is being Christian and Jewish an oxymoron. Of course Christianity came frome Judiism (sp?) but there is something that makes them completely different. Jewish peopel don't recognize Jesus as their savior and Christians do. That's the main point of Christianity and it's completely rejected by the Jewish faith. I can only immagine that those children would have a very confused spiritual identity.

My best firend growing up had a Jewish and a christian parent. They raised her Jewish, because it is where christianity gets its roots so later she could explore it on her own. Her parents tried very hard to only raise her Jewish so that she wouldn't have such extreem conflicts in faith as a young child. Their thinking, and I agree, was that if she was raised with opposing faiths at the same time, it would be more likely that she wouldn't belive either as a young adult. I don't know about any one else, but if two people tell me extreemly different stories about the same event, I assume they're both making most of it up.

Wolvertique - 21/1/04 at 03:05

"Is it just me, or is being Christian and Jewish an oxymoron."

Not necessarily. Believe it or not, to many people these days, being Jewish is solely a cultural and not a religious thing! Shocked the stuffing out of me when I found out, back in college, that a Jewish person I knew who grew up in Israel considered herself to be a Jewish atheist! I didn't think it was possible, but then she explained the whole cultural v. religious Judaism thing to me.

I know. Weird. But if you ask, you'll find out that what I say here is true. :eek

Warbird - 21/1/04 at 03:37

I realize the idea of Judaism as a cultural identity is common now, but Hebrew schools almost always teach faith. If it's following Jewish culture and Christian religion I understand, but not both faiths at once.

"She said it would help because at some point if they wanted they could drop one religion and keep the other. "

This implies that both religions are being learned in tandom. If you're asking someone to lear two opposing religions their entire life, you might as well be teaching them Greek Mythology while you're at it. If they could simply just "drop" one, their fiath probably isn't that strong in either.

Lauren - 21/1/04 at 03:49

*shrug* it worked for my friend and her brother at least. She's Jewish and he's Christian.

The Drastic Spastic - 21/1/04 at 05:31

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Originally posted by Warbird
I realize the idea of Judaism as a cultural identity is common now, but Hebrew schools almost always teach faith. If it's following Jewish culture and Christian religion I understand, but not both faiths at once.

"She said it would help because at some point if they wanted they could drop one religion and keep the other. "

This implies that both religions are being learned in tandom. If you're asking someone to lear two opposing religions their entire life, you might as well be teaching them Greek Mythology while you're at it. If they could simply just "drop" one, their fiath probably isn't that strong in either.


I hate the idea that thinking about faith makes it weaker. It's part of the problem I have with most religions. Believe! Don't think! Ick.

Lauren - 21/1/04 at 13:38

Honestly, isn't it better to think about your religion, maybe even analyze it and if you want study it to see where the holes are, and such? Isn't that what we're doing on this thread?

Maelstrom - 21/1/04 at 16:24

Examining and thinking about a religion should never, ever make it "weaker". If it does, then you shouldn't be in it. The kind of people who rail against such examinations tend to be zealots, those who believe that any view but their own is utterly wrong. Also, cult leaders (there's that word again :rolleyes) smash any kind of critical thinking about their "faiths" with the "you must believe unquestioningly in order to be saved" garbage because critical thinking and cults cannot co-exist.

The major religions of the world have traditions of debating and scholarly research. (Some of the so called "debates" of the RC church during the middle ages were a bit silly, as they'd get really worked up over ideas such as how many angels could dance on the head of a pin....) When such scholarly research and debate is suppressed, it's invariably for purely secular reasons of power and control, not because the faith itself demands it. A preacher on the corner denounces you as a blasphemer for questioning the Bible? That's because he personally doesn't have the answers, but he doesn't want to lose control of the situation.

Lauren - 21/1/04 at 17:26

kind of the like the situation you said you wre in when the guy kept repeating the same damn line over and over again.

bamfchickie - 22/1/04 at 04:43

Whew! Take a few days off to get some writing done, and I miss all kinds of stuff! ;)

I'm sorry I missed the end of the Mormon discussion, but I wanted to blow a kiss to everyone who responded with "Mormonism is not a cult." You expressed my opinion far more eloquently than I could have done.

(Hmm, I need a smoochy-Kurt smilie. The licky-Kurt one seems awfully forward). ;)

thylacine - 22/1/04 at 13:41

Hi Bamfchickie... I don't truly know if Mormonism is a cult or not. I just don't think that people should make other people feel singled out. In other words, it is unkind to be like "this one is this, and that one is that -- " if you get my drift.

Lauren - 22/1/04 at 13:47

it depends on how your specific church or temple or whatever is like when it comes to your faith.

There are some Catholics, i know because I've been to a few churches, where they do nothing but condemn, whereas there are others that do not.

Some Mormon groups are like cults in a way, maybe some are not.

bamfchickie - 22/1/04 at 15:47

As I mentioned before, religion is one of those topics I try to avoid at all costs, because differences in opinion often cause the "debate" (such as it is) to disintegrate into an exercise in cyclical logic. ;) Or in other words:

"Is not!"

"Is too!"

"Is not!"

"Is too!"

And so on, so forth. LOL ...

That said, however, if you're interested in exploring the topics of Christianity, cults, their definitions, and the Mormon church (or any church, for that matter), I would recommend reading the following sites/pages.

http://www.religioustolerance.org

This is a wonderful site, with multiple cross-references and all sorts of lovely links to track down for more information. Of specific interest is this:

http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_defn.htm

Very nice overview of the multiple definitions of Christianity, with an explanation of why some denominations exclude others as being "real" Christians. There are links to cult information from this page as well.

And for a better look at Mormonism:

http://www.mormon.org/learn/0,8672,1598-1,00.html

These are the Mormon Articles of Faith: IOW, what they basically believe in. I think #11 is particularly meaningful when their church is faced with that nasty "cult" moniker. ;)

Hope that helps, if anyone wanted to know more. :)

thylacine - 22/1/04 at 22:43

I hope no one upset you, Bamfchickie. I'm sorry about people calling your religion a cult. Like I said, most of the Mormons I met were nice people. I don't know much about what they believe, though.

Warbird - 23/1/04 at 01:12

I wasn't saying don't think about religion. It's always good to think about all important aspects of your life. I actually have a tendancy to over analyze sot that's not what I was saying at all.

Also historically the Catholic church has had many very importan internal arguments that have shaped all of modern christianity to some degree. One such debate called the Iconoclasm actually became so heightened that there were small battles over it. It was over weather christians should be aloud to have paintings inside churches. Pope Gregory the Great was able to eventually settle it by stating that the Catholic church uses these pictures to help reinforce the bible to the illiterate and the uneducated. If this hadn't happend, no christian painting would have survied. It would have all been burned as false idols. The sistine chapel wouldn't have been painted. da Vinci wouldn't have painted the Last Supper or Madona on the rocks. Much of Giotto's work wouldn't exist either. And no one would have any pictures of angels or Jesus anywhere in their lives. Not all of their squabbeling was pointless, just some of it.

bamfchickie - 23/1/04 at 02:27

Quote:
I hope no one upset you, Bamfchickie. I'm sorry about people calling your religion a cult.


Call me Libs. :D Most everyone else does, and Bamfchickie always throws me for a loop. LOL! It's my LJ name, but no one calls me that online, so I always do a double-take when I see it. ;)

"Bamfchickie? Who is ... d'oh!" *face palm*

And naaaah, not upset at all! I'm not even Mormon. My parents are Mormon, though - so I tend to start twitching when "Mormon" and "cult" get used in the same sentence. ;)

thylacine - 23/1/04 at 15:05

Hey... I figured if your parents were Mormon, then... never mind. But I just don't think people should step on other people's toes. The internet is famous for that, since you can't see the person face to face, some people feel they can blast other people or let it all hang out.

When I write stuff, I re-read it for spelling & also for how it sounds. I try never to send anything that might upset any group of people.

Lauren - 23/1/04 at 17:37

it always helps when you use the word some when you talk about a group or something, like, SOME Mormon groups are like cults. Or SOME Catholics are homophobic jerks...etc. etc. It helps to make it so that you don't say most, making it the majority, and not all, which is not usually the case ever.

Warbird - 24/1/04 at 01:46

Unless of courst the stated item is fact. I wouldn't say SOME cannibal tribes eat people. Even if I don't know all members of thoes tribes, I'd be pretty comfortable saying ALL cannibles eat people. Who's ever heard of a vegan Cannible? Not I.

I do very much agree that when it's opinion, even when you think it's true, SOME is very appropriate. Especially when dealing with religion, there's no way to know who's right and who's wrong. That's why they call it faith. So with this inability to say for cirtain what's what, respect is of utter importance. I do have to say that I've really enjoyed this thread for that reason. There have been very very few things said that were offensive and disrespectful. Every one knows that religiouse disscusions don't usually go this smoothly.

Lauren - 24/1/04 at 04:08

yeah, and if anything is sad that was offensive on this thread, it's dealt with in a mature manner and the person who said it usually apologizes and rephrases their previous statement!

Slarti - 24/1/04 at 10:48

I won't even pretend I've read the rest of this thread, I simply trust that as members of NightScrawlers everyone has been civil and open minded.

I've always loved this forum, if for nothing else then for the tolerance extended by people of all faiths and beliefs. I'm a pagan, and I've never once felt out of place here at a forum for a Catholic character. I appreciate that, and I just want to say I'm happy to be a long standing member of a group that cares more for substance than style.

Hooray for NightScrawlers!

Wolvertique - 24/1/04 at 12:49

Yeah, but that's because Catholics ARE Pagans! :eek

(I've been to some forums where people, seriously, would say that. Ignorance, bliss, you get the drill...)

TelegramSam - 24/1/04 at 13:50

Well thankfully we all seem mature enough to eventually just agree to disagree on some things instead of it degenerating into a bunch of "is not!" "is too!" "is not!" "is too" "well you're a poopy-head!" "well so is your mother, so nyah!"

;)

Lauren - 25/1/04 at 04:16

*cries* No! YOUR mommy's a poopy head! I'm telling on youuuu! *runs to go tell* hehe, no seriously I've never seen a thread like this last this long without someone screaming at another that they were destined for Hell because they were Catholic/pagan/wiccan/jewish/gay/etc.

Gaz - 25/1/04 at 04:47

I hear all that "You're going to hell!" crap a lot. A lot of Born Again Christians hang out downtown near where I hang out and they pass out little papers that they expect to change their life. Hey, at least they try.

Warbird - 25/1/04 at 16:58

I almost feel sorry for the people that walk around trying to "sell" christianity as the only way. Do they realize how badly most of them alienate people? Even if I was interested in what they were saying, I think that I'd still want to aviod them because of how strong they come on. It's like even if you're in the market for what a telemarketer is selling, most people will still hang up on them.

Maelstrom - 26/1/04 at 02:51

For better of for worse, Christianity puts a heavy emphasis on conversion. Gospel means "good news", and we're told very plainly to "go out and spread the news" all through the New Testament. Some say it's absolutely necessary to do this, because anyone who isn't Christian is going to you-know-where (sound familiar? :rolleyes). Others take a softer tact, that Christianity is the easier, more direct route to grace.

Of course, this can take a lot of different paths. Some evangelize, attempting to spread the Gospel at the top of their lungs. I prefer the "live by example" approach. Show that you're a happy human being, and make yourself likable, dependable, etc. Show them how *good* Christianity can be: don't shove it down their throats.

In other words, screaming to the masses about God and sin is like spam: you hit way too many targets about it who couldn't possibly care less, you're annoying, and you're wasting everyone's time. But if someone is obviously unhappy, and you think that maybe you might be able to give them a measure of hope and happiness, maybe improve their live somehow, and they're receptive, by all means talk.

An interesting point about this: when Christianity was introduced to Ireland, the founding Saints (St Patrick, St Bridget, and one other, can't remember his name) explained to the Druids that Christ was the person they had been waiting for, that all their beliefs and religious ceremonies had been pointing to. That the human sacrifices that were regularly done in bogs and so forth were no longer necessary, because He had fulfilled that role. Incredibly, the druids listened to their arguments, weighed the theological evidence, and agreed. There was no bloodshed, no "red" martyrdom (as dying for the faith is called) in any of Ireland. For perhaps the only time in all of history, the conversion was done quietly, quickly, and willingly.

The Norse eventually converted, too, once they realized that converting to Christianity meant they didn't have to do any more human sacrifices either. This wasn't so much theology as politics, tho. After all; for Wotan's sacrifice, no one was exempt. A great leader might have to do it himself, or sacrifice one of his family. You can imagine how this conversation went.

Norseman: Look, we've got plenty of gods, and you only have one. Well, maybe three. I still don't get that "trinity" thing.

Missionary: It's a mystery. But, look, stay on the subject. If you convert, you don't have to worry about getting killed in one of those rituals of yours.

Norseman:... you mean, I won't get sacrificed on Wotan's Altar? And neither will one of my sons?

Missionary: Nope. And you can still claim divine right of rulership.

Norseman: WHERE DO I SIGN UP??

Lauren - 26/1/04 at 03:56

lol, yeah I picture people signing up just so that they don't have to be killed in a sacrifice.

See, why can't most missions be like those where they calmly explain what their faith is about instead of beating the people with the Bible? It's easier to catch flies with honey.

Warbird - 26/1/04 at 04:03

It's really easy to catch flys with crap though. that's why Politians rock so awsome at bull $#!t:D

Lauren - 26/1/04 at 04:07

yeah...but what if you put honey on it? would it attract even more flies? hehe

I think that's why everyone liked Mr. Rogers...he was always so nice when he talked about important stuff like that.

Gaz - 26/1/04 at 04:13

What makes the forcing of Christianity of people even worse is when they do it to poor people in other countries. I find it so sad that these privelaged christians come to these poor families and instead of bringing something that is guaranteed to come in useful, such a food, they give them a bible, which so far isn't determined to be helpful in the afterlife at all. I just find it to be such a waste of time.

The Drastic Spastic - 26/1/04 at 06:49

Mmmm. Honey and crap. :lick

That's interesting about the druids.

thylacine - 26/1/04 at 14:41

Quote: "There have been very very few things said that were offensive and disrespectful. Every one knows that religiouse disscusions don't usually go this smoothly."

Yeah... I'm really, really proud of how everyone behaves around here. I go to other message boards and people cannot discuss any philosophical topic without hurling insults at the other person. You guys are awesome and cool.

TelegramSam - 26/1/04 at 14:46

Gaz - that's why I like the Salvation Army so much. Their motto is "Soup, soap, then salvation." They *do* bring food and clothing to poor folks, and only after then do they hand them the bibles.

Maelstrom - 26/1/04 at 17:24

Personally, I have NO patience with "missionaries" who are so busy "saving souls" that they utterly neglect the life that is attached to them. In some ways, it's easy to "save souls". After all, since there's no empirical evidence one way or the other on the matter, it's 100% faith, all you have to do is talk the talk. No walking the walk required to save a soul.

But getting your hands dirty and improving lives? That's different. That's measurable by a lot of yardsticks. That makes an impact now. You can always tell the true missionaries by the way they link the two together, improving the lives as they show how their religion (whatever it is) fits in.

As a wee bit off-topic, this goes for more than just religion. This goes for political, social, and environmental views as well. It's so easy to say how horrible it is that the rainforest is disappearing. Righteous indignation makes you feel better, and superior, to all those stupid, earth-destroying, short-sighted, greedy people who slash and burn down there. But all the lecturing in the world won't do a damn thing if you don't give a poor charcoal-maker with a family something better to replace it with! They aren't burning down the trees because they're bored, or because they're destructive by nature. They're doing it because they have a family to feed, and they don't know any other way to live. So if you want to make a difference, make a difference. Go down there, teach then why this is wrong, and give them a lifestyle to replace it with. Teach them to harvest sap, give them a job reforesting instead, make it possible for them not to keep going with what they know.

Because if it's either following your point of view, or feeding one's family, guess which is going by the wayside?

Warbird - 26/1/04 at 21:59

Salvation Army also has a drug rehab program and gives jobs and homes to recovering users and homeless people. There's a few private missions in my town with this program also. I very much agree that's how people should convert others (if at all). Help them to improve their lives and set a good example. Unfortunately, people are too lazy and would rather complain and preach than actually help. It's depressing how unmotivated people are to help their fellow man.

I'm not sure about this, but I think other than large industries, It's farmers that are destroying the rainforests. They're using modern means to grow crops which is poluting the area. On top of that the soil there isn't fertile really. Most of the nutrients are gathered by the local plants awayfrom the ground. Farmers are exhausting the fertility of their land in a few years and then moving on to clear more forest for more planting.

Maelstrom - 27/1/04 at 00:41

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I think my computer has a glitch. This is the second time my post has doubled and I have no idea why. again, I'm really sorry.


Sometimes that happens, Warbird. It's annoying, but no big deal. And it is fixable. Just click Edit, then go down and click on the Delete this post! checkbox. ;)

Lauren - 27/1/04 at 03:53

aww but the message was so important about the salvation army that it just had to be repeated, just to get the message across.

Warbird - 27/1/04 at 04:12

Yeay, I fixed it. Thanks for the help. I'm so not computer Savey it's rediculous. Any time there's anything wrong with my parents computer, my sister used to just assume it was my fault. I'm supposed to be part of the computer generation for pete's sake!!!! I think I've been left behind.

Gaz - 28/1/04 at 07:31

I'm all for those Christian groups that actually help people, like churchs that have food drives and the Salvation Army and all that. I am mostly bothered when they would rather stick a bible in some starving mothers hands then a decent meal.

TelegramSam - 28/1/04 at 13:20

Gaz, I think most Christians feel the same way, or at least most of the ones I know. It seems that those who prefer the other way are the same ones we were talking about earlier who are a bunch of nazis. :X

thylacine - 28/1/04 at 13:33

At my church, we pass out turkeys at Thanksgiving, and gift certificates for grocery stores to the poor. We give away clothes, toys, blankets, furniture, boxes of canned food, rent aid, and etc. I know for a fact that some people would not get by without the church helping them through the month. That's why is pisses me off to hear all this stuff about how bad the Catholic church is. I know a priest who would give money out of his own pocket if someone really needed it, and he can't even wear his collar outside the building on the street because people might hurl stuff -- you tell people you're Catholic these days and they treat you LIKE A MUTANT!!!

Maelstrom - 28/1/04 at 17:41

And there, ladies and gentlemen, is the subject in a nutshell. Those who are honestly religious, and follow the spirit of their teachings (whether Christian, Muslim, Hindu, Pagan, or whatever) will "put their money where their mouth is". They'll do the hard stuff their conscience, and their faith, dictates. They'll knit socks for the poor, or help work at a soup kitchen, or (if they're financially fortunate), they'll give a bit extra to various charities. And they'll do it for anyone. People they know, people they don't, and even people they don't personally like. Because, at its core, every faith demands we try to forgive and get along with everybody.

The hypocrites don't bother. They're too busy demanding unquestioning faith and threatening you with eternal damnation if you don't do what they believe their religion says. They're screaming "God hates fags!" on a streetcorner in America. They're howling for bloodshed outside a Mosque in Saudi Arabia. They're setting fire to a busload of Muslim pilgrims in India. After all, taking your frustrations out on an enemy is so much easier and more gratifying than forgiving, feeding, and clothing them, isn't it? ;)

Warbird - 29/1/04 at 00:39

That's the reason that I feel that good works are more important than faith when it comes to the Hevan and Hell issue. I don't think God will favor the belivers who didn't act apon their faith over the non-belivers that acted with a good heart. People often say that Catholics stress behavior and charity work too much, but isn't that the essence of Christianity? To help your brother man?

Also on a historical note. In reference to Thylacine's comment on his Catholic churches food and clothing drives, Catholics in America are historicly the poorist groups of people. The Irish, Polish, and Italians, that flocked to this country were some of the very poorest immegrants. They were aslo all most exclusivly Catholic. As a result it bacame very important to the community to help others once you began to have extra money and clothing. You're friends and neighbors often still were impoverished. Hand-me-downs were given to the church when children grew, even by the poor, and they were redistributed to others in the community in need. In this system if you gave, you recived. Also, the church had enough money often to give away some relife to it's congregation. As a result, as the community became wealthier, it had allready developed a strong tradition and system of helping the poor.

TelegramSam - 29/1/04 at 00:53

The essence of Christianity is that Christ, the son of God, died for our sins.

The beef that Martin Luthor had with the medieval Catholic church was the notion that you could buy your stairway to heaven, when in truth Christ's sacrifice was a gift freely given and that all the good works done and all the indulgences bought in the world wouldn't get you past the pearly gates if you had no faith. Frankly, I tend to agree with him. I'm not saying good works aren't important, though, because they are. But the point is that If you have faith, you will do good works as an expression of your faith and your gratitude for Christ's death, not because you want to win brownie points with God (which is kind of a selfish attitude anyhow).

Warbird - 29/1/04 at 01:36

The necassary belife to be Christian is that Christ died for our sins. By essence I meant beyond that belife, the way of life that Christians are supposed to lead. Jesus even says that when you help your fellow man you help him. (very Paraphrased.) I can't belive that god would turn his back on an Athiest if they lead a truely good life and helped others. I'm not saying brownie points, that is a sick modivation... however, it's an interesting point. If someone has that sad modivation, they're obviousely a beliver. Are they better, or more likely to go to heavan than a non-beliver that actaully WANTS to do good? I think God would be more concerned with their Purity of heart.

And by the way, I was taught that it was mostly rich people paying money to have their sins absolved and having preists turn the other cheek for them. It was corrupt yes. But it was a scheme to get money, which is wrong, not the actual Dogma of the Church. Regular members of the church didn't practice this and were propor Catholics.

TelegramSam - 29/1/04 at 03:11

Well Luthor's beef was with the people that were running the church, not the common folks. His indignation was a result of the fact that he felt the church was exploiting, misleading, and abusing common people. It wasn't only the rich buying those indulgences.

On another note, Christ said in so many words that He alone carried the keys of heaven. I still don't think the best athiest in the world will cut the mustard in the end, after all, they are still guilty of the sin of rejecting Christ. Sort of like recieving the president's pardon from death row but throwing it back in his face. But nevertheless, feel free to disagree with me.

Lauren - 29/1/04 at 03:52

yes, but if someone who's an atheist or something else that doesn't have Christ, but has done good things and such, do you really think God's gonna throw them out because of one little thing?

Wolvertique - 29/1/04 at 12:13

It is sad that all Catholics get tainted with the "sins" of a few. ;) But I think it's a good thing that people are looking good and hard at the church, making sure that it's living up to its obligations. I wish people would do that with all institutions, so we can be sure our children and the people we love are safe. A roommate of mine in college, e.g., was abused by a priest, and when I found out due to the investigation that he might well have gotten off and kept doing it...you have no idea how sick I felt. No, I don't blame all Catholics for what was done to her, for the fact that she was an anorexic control freak, but I do blame the church structure that let priests do it over and over again.

I agree that living one's faith is more important than preaching it, but then again, I'm a member of a non-proselytizing religion. ;)

I don't reject any Gods. I reject human beliefs about the Gods, be they the obviously sick "God wants you to murder someone" beliefs or the more controversial "God believes you have to believe X or you're going to be tortured forever." I believe those are human beliefs, not the Gods' beliefs, thus I can't be rejecting the Gods themselves, just erroneous beliefs about them. (BTW, the latter "call God this or he'll torture you" I consider to be blasphemy, as no human being would torture anyone we loved for eternity for calling us "Lauren" rather than "Wolvertique," for example...and the Gods are supposed to be better than we at love...)

TelegramSam - 29/1/04 at 13:14

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Originally posted by Lauren
yes, but if someone who's an atheist or something else that doesn't have Christ, but has done good things and such, do you really think God's gonna throw them out because of one little thing?


Bluntly, yes. That is what the bible states. Human beings are flawed from birth no matter how much they try to be perfect, and without being made perfect in God's eyes through Christ's blood, they will be chucked out of his sight. Hell isn't fire by the way.The Dante version that most people have concocted in their heads is pretty silly. I don't believe in purgatory either. It is, simply, a complete and utter separation from God. It's not a "place" it's a state of being; namely, one of complete isolation from both creation and God. Make of that what you will.

Like I said before, you're welcome to disagree with me here. I'm not really out to convince anyone, but these are my own beliefs.

thylacine - 29/1/04 at 13:54

Quote: "Also on a historical note. In reference to Thylacine's comment on his Catholic churches food and clothing drives, Catholics in America are historicly the poorist groups of people."

Hi. I'm a she, not a he! :)

That is also correct that Catholic immigrants were historically among the poorest people in the past. My theory is that this is part of the reason that there is so much anti-Catholic feeling in this country. The dominant group was, and still is, what we commonly call the WASP -- white, anglo-saxon protestant. You know the kind I mean, belongs to the country club, plays golf, runs a big corporation, etc... Then you have the Catholic immigrant or second generation person who works for the rich man. Catholics and Protestants are not radically different the way Christians and Hindus are in their beliefs, but it becomes a class situation. The upper classes need to keep the working classes below them, and the working classes resent it. Many of the stereotypes about working and poor people are the same stereotypes they stick to Catholics: They're uneducated, they're ignorant, they're dirty, they're superstitious, they have too many kids, they don't think for themselves, they all beat they're wives, they all drink, and etc. Many of you may not have heard some of those, but I have... !

Maelstrom - 29/1/04 at 16:32

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Originally posted by thylacine
That is also correct that Catholic immigrants were historically among the poorest people in the past. My theory is that this is part of the reason that there is so much anti-Catholic feeling in this country. The dominant group was, and still is, what we commonly call the WASP -- white, anglo-saxon protestant. You know the kind I mean, belongs to the country club, plays golf, runs a big corporation, etc... Then you have the Catholic immigrant or second generation person who works for the rich man. Catholics and Protestants are not radically different the way Christians and Hindus are in their beliefs, but it becomes a class situation. The upper classes need to keep the working classes below them, and the working classes resent it. Many of the stereotypes about working and poor people are the same stereotypes they stick to Catholics: They're uneducated, they're ignorant, they're dirty, they're superstitious, they have too many kids, they don't think for themselves, they all beat they're wives, they all drink, and etc. Many of you may not have heard some of those, but I have... !


I think another thing that strengthens these steroetypes is the very worldview of Catholic vs. Protestant. In many instances, Protestants (especially Calvinists) believed that God showed you some of your blessings here. (The Calvinists had this interesting idea that you were predestined to succeed or fail, but by doing a lot of hard work, you would be able to "see" this future of success? Or something like that. It's kind of loopy to me: if you work hard, you'll likely be successful, so then we get into that whole chicken-or-egg argument....) Roman and Orthodox Catholicism is more concerned with the afterlife than this one.

These somewhat conflicting worldviews, now vs. hereafter, can make for some very different economic decisions. If you believe that your financial success is an indicator of God's favor (not the ONLY, just ONE of many), you're more motivated to acculmulate wealth than one who sees financial success as just another "thing" that makes life easier.

There are advantages and drawbacks to both views. The belief that some of your gifts now are a reflection of your spiritual status can encourage you to work hard and succeed, which can lift up a lot of other people in turn. However, it can also lead to the "worship" of wealth above all else, selfish, hoarding behavior, and constant discontentment with what you have.

The "live for the hereafter" view tends to make life much more bearable no matter what your "economic station" is. If you're content with your lot in life, knowing that no matter what, it'll get better in the end, your life can be that much easier. However, this view can be abused by a dishonest few. "Wordly" priests have been known to demand more than their flock can afford, with the admonition that "wealth is evil, spiritual wealth is everything, so give all your stuff to ME (God's representative)". And there are always those that think giving their wealth away can buy their way into Heaven (there's that Indulgence thing again.... :rolleyes).

(The one thing I don't believe is that the "afterlife" view breeds laziness. I have yet to see someone who is poor and religious who would dare sit on their hinder instead of go out and work for their daily bread, let alone do all they could to better the lives of their family. The "welfare deadbeats" that we always hear about on TV or in political speeches are a result of an "entitlement" culture, not a "who cares about this life" idea.)

I walk something of a line between both views. I believe that there is nothing wrong with the acculmulation of wealth, so long as it isn't your entire life. I believe that we can "make" some of our own blessings by giving in good faith to those who are in need, as good works do come around threefold (in one way or another). Though I strive to improve my lot, I'm never discontent with my material goods.

But I am not willing to devote constant 70 hour weeks to the pursuit of wealth, because I believe my time is more valuable than the extra dough. I'm just not willing to do the things that would make me a millionaire. I have obligations to my family, my friends, and my spiritual well-being. What use is all that money if you're constantly stressed out? It's one thing to work long, hard hours because you have little choice. It's another to do it just because you want more stuff.

thylacine - 29/1/04 at 22:45

You ought to tell that to my uncle! He is worth 1.5 million and won't heat his house, buy new clothes, travel, eat out, go to a doctor, etc. because "it costs money!" He walks to the YMCA to use their free showers to save on his water bill and reads the newspaper at the local library so he won't pay for the newspaper. Sick, huh?

TelegramSam - 29/1/04 at 22:53

Sounds like he needs some ghosts. :D


Or a good psychiatrist.... :X

Gaz - 29/1/04 at 23:45

It doesn't sound like he would be willing to pay for a psychiatrist :LOL

Warbird - 29/1/04 at 23:46

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Hi. I'm a she, not a he! :)


Nothing personal. When I'm not sure, I always use the mascaline. Less girls get all worked up when accidently referded to in the incorrect gender than guys. One of those wierd PC things.

I'm gonna have to go ahead and dissagree that being a non-beliver is completely damning. Yes I totally agree that it's a Grave sin, but so are rage and envy. Every one commits them. Even Jesus had a fit of rage. I'm pretty sure he got in. ;)

But like Sam, it's just my belife and oppinion. I'll agree to disagree all the way.

Also, I've always belived in purgetory, but my entire family( and 95% of my extended family) is Catholic. Now, I know a lot of people don't, but I was wondering if it was only Catholics that do, or if other groups do too? I know many who don't, I'm only curiouse about who does.

TelegramSam - 30/1/04 at 00:41

Feeling anger isn't a sin, regardless of what old pope Gregory said. It's how you act upon it that is either sinful or not. Jesus' anger was justified, as were his actons.

Lauren - 30/1/04 at 03:51

well you can't neccassarily take everything the Bible says as true since it was people who wrote it in the first place. God could have easily changed the rules on the accepting Christ issue.

The Drastic Spastic - 30/1/04 at 09:09

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Feeling anger isn't a sin, regardless of what old pope Gregory said. It's how you act upon it that is either sinful or not. Jesus' anger was justified, as were his actons.


If it's okay for Jesus, it's okay for me! *smacks someone who's bugging her* Perfectly justified. :D

Wolvertique - 30/1/04 at 12:09

Geez, I'm agreeing with Lauren again. Why can't you ever say something controversial? ;)

Lauren - 30/1/04 at 13:07

Controversial? Hmmm controversial controversial...

Honestly? Even though I was raised Catholic I actually think most of it is BS, but that's because you have to realize that the Bible was written by people. Hell, I could write a book and say that everything in it is true too if I wanted.

On the history channel sunday I think they are going to unearth missing parts of the Bible.

Wolvertique - 30/1/04 at 13:19

BLASPHEMER! :eek

I'm having too much fun with this.

Hey, everything I've written in the Fuzzy Visions forum is absolute truth. I swear. But I try not to.

Cool. Finally digging up the real Ten Commandments, huh? I bet people will feel really silly when they find out they were really just directions on how to do laundry. ;)

Lauren - 30/1/04 at 13:25

wow...you really ARE having way too much fun with this:LOL

Wolvertique - 30/1/04 at 13:28

Fanfiction.net is unavailable right now, and it's only a few minutes till work. I'm in a very silly mood. I should probably write something. Religious. Yeah. Gotta stay on topic.

Silly and religious...hm...any chance any X-man's a Discordian? Maybe Bobby Drake?

(Discordia is a religion that is a joke. Some Pagans like it. Look it up, I'm too hyper to post a link right now.)

TelegramSam - 30/1/04 at 13:31

Somebody bugging you isn't a justified reason for smacking them. Tsk, tsk. *puts you in time-out corner*

:rolleyes

:D

Lauren - 30/1/04 at 13:34

but didn't Jesus kind of give people holy smacks when they ticked him off?

thylacine - 30/1/04 at 13:42

You guys are so funny... ! :LOL

I'm not sure if I believe in purgatory or not. Maybe... ? Some people deserve it!

My uncle, by the way, is a Jehovah's Witness and says that God only loves Jehovah's Witnesses. No one else will see Paradise.

Lauren - 30/1/04 at 13:46

No matter how many times it is explained or rationalized, I don't think I will ever understand people who think God only likes their kind...it's sad

TelegramSam - 30/1/04 at 14:11

Reminds me of a t-shirt I once saw; "Jesus loves you" and on the back "But the rest of us just think you're a jerk"

Lauren - 30/1/04 at 14:13

aww but that's just plain funny! I want a shirt like that!

thylacine - 30/1/04 at 16:58

Yeah... ain't it sad? Now that my uncle is a witness, he only calls us when he wants something. Real Christian, huh?

Lauren - 30/1/04 at 17:32

*phone rings*

Yeah hello? Yes, even though i know for a fact that god hates you and loves me and all Witnesses more, can I have some money?

I'd start hurting people.

The Drastic Spastic - 30/1/04 at 22:19

*lays the Holy Jesus Smackdown on Thyla's uncle* I am God's hands on earth.

Lauren - 31/1/04 at 04:06

yeah, God is always smacking people around when they piss Him off in the bible! why can't people do it too? We're only following His example.

Gaz - 31/1/04 at 07:41

Okay, now this thread is getting close to where everyone feared it would......

TelegramSam - 31/1/04 at 15:00

Which is why I'm keeping my mout shut. Some things don't warrant a response anyhow....

Tatu - 31/1/04 at 16:29

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*lays the Holy Jesus Smackdown on Thyla's uncle* I am God's hands on earth.


Nah uh Jess, your the daughter of Satan, he told me so!

Warning! Long, rambling, theological post ahead!

Maelstrom - 31/1/04 at 17:29

It warrants some interest that the Old Testament God seemed a lot more willing to punish and otherwise get involved in worldly affairs than the New Testament God. Think about it: considering that the OTG was willing to wipe out entire cities for sinful actions, do you think He would hesitate to wipe all of the Romans, the Pharisees, and an unhealthy selection of his Chosen people off the face of the earth for the death of His son? Yet the NTG was not only willing to put up with this affront, He, His Son, and the Holy Spirit all came up with the plan to step aside and let it all happen without interference.

It looks like someone replaced Gods between stories, doesn't it? ;)

So what's going on here? Is God the bipolar thunderer on high, who is blessing us one moment and damning us the next? Is He the snap-decision entity who reflexively decided to banish all of humanity from His presence just because his two prototypes screwed up? Or is He the patient, loving father, who so loved us He was willing to sascrifice His only begotten Son?

Obviously, it has to be a mixture of both, somehow.....

I look at it this way:

The first few books, were stories passed down from many sources, taken from the Sumerians mostly (the Semites settled in Sumerian land for a long time). And the old gods had the burden of "explaining" why things were the way they were. They had to explain why floods destroyed cities and killed children, why lions, crocodiles, and hippos attacked and killed humans, why disease was rampant. This was one of the reasons there were several gods in the old religions: one for the good stuff, and one that cause all the problems. You had to have someone looking out for you, to make you feel safe, but there had to be a scapegoat for all the rotten stuff you couldn't control.

About the time of Abraham, things started turning from allegorical into historical. However, God was still the wrathful, vengeful Guy you just didn't want to cross. Why? Look at the examples the Semites had. Good gods and bad gods, constantly mucking about with human affairs. But there was only One God for the Semites, remember? So they saw him in the only mode, the only way, they knew how from the examples around them. He was loving to those who obeyed, but unforgivingly harsh to the disobedient.

Things evolved a bit further with Exodus and Kings. After all, God but that rainbow up for Noah as his covenant, and promised He'd never again wipe out all humanity, so even He had some rules to follow. But bad stuff still happened in real life, so the only possible reason the Semites could see for it was that they had screwed up and God was angry. Remember that the concept of an afterlife was not accepted by Judaism at this time, so everything that happened in this life was a reflection of your good, or bad, living in accordance with His rules.

Look at Job (generally accepted as the oldest book in the Bible). The poor guy loses everything, just so God can test his loyalty and faith. This was doubly bad for a Jew at this time, because it meant he and his neighbors saw this as a sign of his bad living and God's displeasure. And when he complained, God basically bitchslapped him, said "What? Who gave you all this stuff in the first place? Don't you question me, buddy!"... and promptly gave him back what he lost twice over in an ending that seemed awful rushed to me.... :scratch Makes me wonder if this wasn't a (historically) modern political parable that got a last minute revision... :smirk

And then, suddenly, in the New Testament, God stopped talking to us. He stopped reprimanding us through his poor, beleaguererd Prophets. He stopped raining fire and lightning on enemies. He stopped telling us what He wanted through the Ummin and Therimm. Instead, He spoke only to and through His Son, who was almost never angry. (Okay, there was that one bit with the temple, but you get the idea.) And His Son volunteered to be brutally tortured to death just so He could show us the afterlife that awaits. And when His Son dies, the most He does is rip a few curtains and cause an eclipse.

And when Christ returns after a few days, suddenly everything turns on its head. Suddenly your misfortune in this life doesn't mean God hates you. Why? Because this is only temporary! You've got something infinitely better waiting. In one fell swoop, we've taken the yoke of "bad guy" off God's neck. We've allowed Him not to constantly nudge things and interfere with this life, because He's really more concerned with the next.

Here's the crux: God is eternal. God doesn't change. His moods don't fluxuate. Only our perception of Him does, according to our own personal views. When there was only this life, and the gods around us had to have their hands in literally everything from raising the sun to making the rain fall, it looked like bad things meant anger, and good things meant pleasure. But once the afterlife concept came into view, this life becaue less important, and God didn't need to constantly interfere. This was just a dress rehersal for the real gig sometime later.

The Drastic Spastic - 1/2/04 at 03:27

When it's all laid out like that, the whole God and faith thing looks completely fabricated by man...

Warbird - 1/2/04 at 03:47

It looks like the thread has just barely been saved from going down the intellectual toilet!! (though some of that was amusing).

Most religions have parts that parallel each other. Why? Because humans since the begining of existance have needed to explain the world around them and religion was an easy way to do it. It isn't just in good and bad though, people are week in comparision to nature, which to a species that can adapt to almost anything, is hard to understand. Even today man is trying to tame nature. We're not meant to live on the moon, but why the hell not? We're people, we can do what we want.

So how can a force that has not intellect be more powerful than the most highly evolved life form on the planet? There's a higher power running the show. Now I'm not discrediting Christianity at all, but most religions have this basis.

Now what is very interesting, is how Monotheism evolved. It did start out with a God that was willing of distributing both the good and the bad amung his flock. Embodying both sides of the "Gods" (multiple) spectrum. But if it was just a veriation of that "religion", why was Christianity able to evolve into what it is, while all other religions kept to their old belifes? Christianity is radicly different from all other ancient religions. Maybe it's because there's truth to it!!! Did these monumental, unfounded ideas just pop up out of no where? Did so many people risk their lives to follow it just because? I doubt it.

Before anyone decideds to argue that people will latch on to new religions easily because we're klanish, In egypt, a Pharro named Akanatom tried to change all of the Egyptian religion. He even made it law. Every one converted, but as soon as he died, people went back to their old religious practices. People don't break tradition unless there's a very very good reason.

So I guess this was all a round about way to explain why I have faith in Christianity despite the inconsistancies in the Bible. Human nature is too strong in my oppinion for these changes to come about without a true catalyst.

Lauren - 1/2/04 at 04:19

it could also mean that those whole sections of the bible that were taking out could have been the more God kills this entire village, babies and all because He's got PMS. They probably wanted him to look better. You never know...there's just too many conspiracys with the Bible!

The Drastic Spastic - 1/2/04 at 05:51

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Christianity is radicly different from all other ancient religions. Maybe it's because there's truth to it!!! Did these monumental, unfounded ideas just pop up out of no where? Did so many people risk their lives to follow it just because? I doubt it.


And this is where the faith comes in. Maybe it's because there is truth to it. But really, how likely is that?

Where exactly do you think ideas come from? From people! Someone has to think of it. Monotheism could just as easily be explained away as a bad acid trip, or whatever it is the wise men were smoking back then.

Did so many people risk their lives to follow it just because? Well... any religion can claim persecution... are any of those other people following their beliefs just because? I imagine it came more from fear than truth. The strategy of saying DO THIS or it's ETERNAL HELL for you is surprisingly effective. Just look at how many people send on those stupid chain letters that promise riches and love if you send it to enough people. Well, damn. They can't be doing it just because can they? They actually believe it, if only a bit. Which brings me to my point, people are superstitious idiots who will believe any damn thing if it's threatening enough. Starting Christianity? Easy as pie for some terrifying charisma-choked pothead. (Whoaaaa. What if there's ONLY ONE god... maaaaan.)

I know I won't convince anyone that this is truth if they believe but other points of view are always good.

Warbird - 1/2/04 at 20:25

I do agree that humans scare very easily and that could very well be an explination. But Ancient Greek and Roman religion had an after life that was good and one that was bad too. And there were other monotheistic religions that crashed and burned in the Acient world. Akanatum's was one of them.

My point is simply that widly followed religions, that are completely different theologicly are difficult to start when there is all ready a very well established religion. Even when it's forced apon them by their pharroh, tradition is stronger.

Now obviously, you're right, there is a possiblity that there Jesus was simply just a very charizmatic nut job. That's how Hitler got power. He just promised soemthing better and was a good speaker. I personaly just think that there is more to Christianity than that.

Maelstrom - 1/2/04 at 21:44

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When it's all laid out like that, the whole God and faith thing looks completely fabricated by man...


:LOL Draz! You're not giving humanity or God nearly enough credit! ;)

It isn't so much that God (which ever kind you believe in) has changed according to our whim. It's that humanity's perception of him has evolved. With every new thought, every new generation, humans saw another facet of behavior, and with each sightning, it changed the basis of belief. The "obvious" conclusion to some was that God changed Himself. To others, the conclusion was that we just kept reinventing God depending on what our social mores were at the time. But while these are both understandable conclusions, I don't think either is quite correct.

In this case, I suppose you could make a tenuous analogy between faith and our discovery of various laws of physics. (Very tenuous, I know, as physics is generally provable by empirical research, but stay with me here.... ;) ) At one point, we had very simplistic, and incorrect, ideas of how things worked. Even Galileo, that brilliant individual who revolutionized astronomy (and pissed off the Catholic church/governing body with both his "politically inconvenient" discoveries and his egotism) believed that tidal action had NOTHING to do with the moon, and EVERYTHING to do with the Earth's roation instead. But no matter what anyone believed, the tides have always been dependent on the moon's proximity.

Or, perhaps, we could use the story of the four blind men and the elephant. Each one had a different idea of what the elephant looked like in entirity dependent on the part they touched. (One thought it was a long sinuos creature because all he felt was the trunk, another thought it was a winged thing because he felt an ear, and so forth.) If suddenly they all gained sight and saw an elephant for the first time, their opinion would change radically. Yet that elephant has never changed.

Just because we made discoveries, and those discoveries changed our conclusions about what we saw doesn't mean the object itself changed according to our whims. So, in a way, has God always been constant and unchanging. We're the ones who have evolved, not Him. We're the ones discovering new facets of God, as opposed to just adding another layer to our creation. (Or, at least, we should be. I'm not going to go into detail about nutcases who invent gods or deliberately distort the view for their own gain :urg. We've done a lot of talking about cults already....)

The Drastic Spastic - 2/2/04 at 08:49

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When it's all laid out like that, the whole God and faith thing looks completely fabricated by man...


:LOL Draz! You're not giving humanity or God nearly enough credit! ;)


Or maybe I'm giving humanity too much credit. :whistle

Though, religion in general still has a long way to go before it evolves into any real universal truth, or even something that does more good than harm.

Bamf Bunny - 2/2/04 at 13:02

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the Protestants have a history of just splitting off and forming their own church when they disagree, which is why there's so dang many denominations out there. The biggies are the Episcopaians

Episcopalians aren't Protestants, Mael. The Anglican Communion split off from the Pope independently of the Protestant Reformation, and many Anglican theologians consider the Communion continuous with the Catholic Church, and our bishops part of an unbroken line of succession back to the apostles. (In fairness this view is not shared by the Catholic church - the Catholic Encyclopedia says the Communion is "hopelessly committed to heresy and to heretical communication".)

Maelstrom - 2/2/04 at 16:38

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:LOL Draz! You're not giving humanity or God nearly enough credit! ;)


Or maybe I'm giving humanity too much credit. :whistle

Though, religion in general still has a long way to go before it evolves into any real universal truth, or even something that does more good than harm.


I think what you have more a problem with isn't the religion itself, but rather the organized structure behind it. Faith is a basis of humanity, and is supposed to make us better people. I can't see too many instances of a single person's faith causing worldwide social catastrophes. However, organized religion has been abused in this manner. "Holy Wars" (there's an oxymoron for you... :rolleyes) have been around a lot longer than Christianity, and they're invariably a result of organized religion rather than one heretical wacko. Or, should I say, one wacko wouldn't have a chance of starting these messes if he/she didn't have an base to start from, and corrupt people willing to accept, spread, and enforce this P.O.V. for personal gain.

Christianity is the big example of this because, put bluntly, we're the latest "success" story *shudder*, but you need to look at other historical precedents to see the pattern. Many of the faiths that follow a monotheistic ideal started with one man who espoused tolerance, forgiveness, and all those other good things. Initially the belief spreads because it is superior, in some way, to what is currently out there. It gives something that is missing from the current belief set. But once it spreads beyond his immediate reach (and especially once he's gone), a structure has to spring up to coordinate things... and things can get out of hand. Why? Because if you rub two people together you get politics. You get different ideas on how things should be run. You get one guy who says "live by example. Show them that belief in (x) will make them happier, and make everyone happier." And you get the other guy who's convinced that the population's beliefs are so incredibly wrong and damaging that the ends justify the means. Also known as "conversion by the sword". :mad

Some of the more obvious examples of this reasoning are:

RCs: the Inquisition (more recently, the lack of action in WWII)
Orthodox: "apologists" of the Russian communist party (at least, in the beginning)
Protestant: Salem Witch Hunts
Islam: conversion by the sword
Hindu: Thuggee assassins of Khali

(As an aside, the Khali thuggees were especially tragic, because they forever branded the image of Khali as a devouring, hideous, evil monster who demanded human sacrifice, and she was never that way. She's a lot more peaceful than most of the West thinks. There are lots of shrines devoted to her, and many interesting websites out there for those curious as to her true nature. Worth a look, no matter what or who you worship. ;) )

But all of these notable atrocities are perversions of the original faith. It isn't the faith that's rotten: it's the way it's interpreted by the current religious structure.

Organized religion can sometimes suck, depending on who's doing the organizing. But the original tenets are much harder to argue with, since you'll find they disallow the very actions that are done in "their" name.

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Episcopalians aren't Protestants, Mael. The Anglican Communion split off from the Pope independently of the Protestant Reformation, and many Anglican theologians consider the Communion continuous with the Catholic Church, and our bishops part of an unbroken line of succession back to the apostles. (In fairness this view is not shared by the Catholic church - the Catholic Encyclopedia says the Communion is "hopelessly committed to heresy and to heretical communication".)


My bad, BB. I listed the Episcopalians/Anglicans incorrectly, and I really did know better than that. :shame They deserve their own category, as they were created a good couple hundred years before Martin Luther nailed his thesis to the door, and formed for a slightly different reason.

The Protestants had a problem with many of the rituals and procedures of Catholicism (Roman and Orthodox). This lead to the idea of "Solo Scriptorum"; the Bible alone is sufficient. I don't think that the Episcopal church believes in Solo Scriptorum, do they? I think it has kept many of the original Catholic rites (weekly communion being one of the biggees: I've only seen a version of communion done once or twice a year in my husband's Presbyterian church....)

Bamf Bunny - 2/2/04 at 23:45

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I don't think that the Episcopal church believes in Solo Scriptorum, do they?

"Sola Scriptura", and no. Anglican theology is based on scripture, tradition, and reason.

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I think it has kept many of the original Catholic rites

About ten percent of Episcopalians - that's the Anglican church in the U.S. - are Anglo-Catholic. Services are very similar to those in Catholic churches, down to the liturgy and vestments. The veneration of saints is so similar that most churches seem to get their holy cards from Catholic shops, and some people pray the Anglican rosary, though it's not obligatory. In fact some Anglo-Catholics simply refer to themselves as Catholic and confuse the issue no end.

But this obscures some very real differences. Most important, I think, is that tradition is central but not forever binding. Whatever the Church has historically taught may later be tested and found wanting. Since there's no single authority in Anglicanism, no pope, individual bishops or archbishops may balance scripture, tradition, and reason differently. Even the Archbishop of Canterbury is considered "first among equals". The Episcopal Church USA has no Archbishop, and individual bishops have no authority outside their dioceses.

Right now a number of churches within the communion bitterly disagree about how much latitude other churches have to emphasize one element or another. As you may have heard, to the point where some of the African, Southeast Asian, and Australian churches are threatening to break with ECUSA.

The Drastic Spastic - 3/2/04 at 08:49

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But all of these notable atrocities are perversions of the original faith. It isn't the faith that's rotten: it's the way it's interpreted by the current religious structure.

Organized religion can sometimes suck, depending on who's doing the organizing. But the original tenets are much harder to argue with, since you'll find they disallow the very actions that are done in "their" name.


How can you separate the original faith from the current structure when the symbol of that faith has been rewritten by each structure to come around in the last couple millenia? And probably didn't make much sense to start with...

thylacine - 3/2/04 at 14:25

I'm really pleased that this conversation continues to be interesting and thought provoking, and best of all... no one has had a big fight!

By the way... my uncle never asks us for money... he just has my poor mother waiting hand & foot on him. She needs to take care of her own health, so it ticks me off that he is so self centered.

Also... everyone out there in computerland! Say a prayer for my mother today, please... she is getting an MRI on her liver at the hospital. We don't know if it's serious or not. Okay? Bye 4 now. :bamf

Lauren - 3/2/04 at 21:24

WHAT?! your uncle makes her do stuff and she's sick like that?! Can I please know where he lives so I can smack him!

I'll pray for your mom though, hope she gets better!

the_lone_bamf - 4/2/04 at 01:43

I'm so happy that people are insterested in this. I really love the religious aspect of NIghtcrawler's character- it makes me feel sad sometimes though- because I think the writers are more used to writing about political intrigue with mutants or things blowing up and are used to catering to people who think "Church SUXXORZZXXZZ! It's all hypocrites!!!" that they themselves don't know enough about Catholicism or the kind of faith that Nightcrawler is supposed to have to make it believable.

Lauren - 4/2/04 at 03:55

Honestly, sometimes I wonder why Chuck had to do certain things with Kurt. Like having his parents just happen to have sex in a church? No, that's not saying something! come on, chuckie...

Maelstrom - 4/2/04 at 05:10

He was indeed saying something: he was saying that Azazel had absolutely no respect for anything whatsoever. None for religion, none for Baron Wagner, and none for Mystique. He was (is) a selfish, ends-justify-the-means, I-do-whatever-I-want personality. Seducing someone in a church (and then summarily abandoning her) is a good way of showing all that in a very short frame of time.

Of course it was disrespectul. Even blasphemous. It was meant to be.

I'll be honest: for the longest time, I didn't understand or agree with Catholicism at large, either. The sticking points for me were reproductive rights. (They still are, really. I think that at the very least a woman should be able to choose not to conceive in the first place.) But now that I've studied more, I can undestand much more of the tenets and rituals.

Unfortunately, Lone Bamf, I think you're probably right in that most peopele who read or write comics don't know very much about any type of faith. Discussing faith in America is considered a bit "gauche" for some reason. Part of it may be from constantly being assaulted with "convert or burn in hell" messages, but another part might be because some people take the separation of Church and State a little too far.

As I've matured, I've realized that faith is very important to a society. Even if the bulk of the people no longer actively practice it, the subreferences are a form of verbal shorthand, and the social mores are thoroughly engrained. I've started studying different religions and philosophies as a way of understanding different cultures, and what their driving views may be.

thylacine - 4/2/04 at 13:48

Quote: "WHAT?! your uncle makes her do stuff and she's sick like that?! Can I please know where he lives so I can smack him! I'll pray for your mom though, hope she gets better!"

Thank you, Lauren. She's worried and I am too. It might be her liver. She never drank, but there was a "spot" on the x-ray. My uncle lives in a Boston suburb!

You are right that many writers today do not have any respect for religion of any type. Perhaps they are trying to show how "liberal" they are? Today it's "cool" to insult religion. It's like, 'see how cool this is? It insults Christians, so it must be so cool!' It just means that they need to grow up!

I agree, it was sick and bizarre for Azazel and Mystique have sex in a church.

I also agree that birth control should be allowed. I don't believe in encouraging promiscuity, though. And I don't think it's the place of public schools to pass out birth control to sixth graders, either! But married people cannot afford to raise 20 kids! In the 1930's, you needed 20 kids to work a farm. Today, you can't feed them all! I love the Catholic church, but you gotta get real. The leaders are elderly, and they are living in the past, maybe? It needs younger leadership.

Maelstrom - 4/2/04 at 17:09

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I also agree that birth control should be allowed. I don't believe in encouraging promiscuity, though. And I don't think it's the place of public schools to pass out birth control to sixth graders, either! But married people cannot afford to raise 20 kids! In the 1930's, you needed 20 kids to work a farm. Today, you can't feed them all! I love the Catholic church, but you gotta get real. The leaders are elderly, and they are living in the past, maybe? It needs younger leadership.


Younger and more modern leadership is something that will never happen in the Catholic Church (Roman or Orthodox). I had it explained to me this way:

The church isn't concerned with updating to modern standards. It's there to reinforce ancient, immutable values. When a new problem comes along (say, the spectre of human cloning), the moral implications are interpreted using the old, established traditions and rules. The Truth is supposed to be Truth for all ages and all times, not Truth sometimes and not others.

While the shakier interpretations of those universal Truths have been known to change with the climate (big example: the Southern Baptists at one time used the Bible to *defend* slavery instead of attack it), ideally those interpretations are to be made with careful, thoughtful deliberation for all time.

So why does the RC Church forbid birth control (besides abstinance or the "rhythm method" )? I'm not really sure. I think it's on the grounds that not having to worry about pregnancy and repercussions can cheapen the act and invite promiscuity. But if so, there should be nothing to prevent a married couple from using such methods. After all, they've fulfilled all of the requirements. I believe that the hard and fast rule of "never ever, no matter what" is an incorrect interpretation of Tradition and Canon, based on the old idea of "Go forth and multiply".

One other thing: I can now understand the reason behind "no sex before marriage"... but it's taken me a long time to figure it out. Yes, it makes sense... but it isn't being explained. When all you get is "It's a Sin! Because God said it's a Sin! So don't question, or you'll burn forever!", it isn't exactly helpful. As a matter of fact, that kind of authoritarian garbage simply invites teen rebellion. If ministers, priests, and so on would take just a few minutes to EXPLAIN, they'd save themselves (and their flock) a great deal of hardship and teen pregnancies. If you're old enough to seriously think about having sex, you're old enough to understand the church's position on it. THIS is what they should be telling you, instead of just sending you to your room for "insolence".


Oh, and the explanation? The reason behind the decree, besides to stop unwanted pregnancies and transmission of STDs?

1) Sex creates a very powerful bond. People who just have sex easily with everyone are refusing that bond, and it leads to treating people like objects. It also leads to being treated like an object. Ever wondered by "Easy Susie", the class party girl, is both popular with the boys and demeaned behind her back? There ya go.

2) That bond is so powerful it changes a relationship. If the relationship isn't mature enough, it gets stunted. Kind of like a bonsai tree, it'll never grow any further. Sex is really meant to be a "capper", a fulfillment, to a mature relationship.

3) Casual sex can be used as a form of emotional blackmail. If you have sex with someone, and then it turns out the guy/gal is a complete loser, it's a LOT harder to drop them, let alone refuse a request (or demand) for more sex.

Marriage is one of the few obvious and universally accepted ways of making sure that relationship is mature. You're supposed to have a long enough engagement to be sure of yourselves and explore your relationship before the final seal. (That is, ideally. I'm not going to get into the fact that half of all marriages in America end in divorce....:rolleyes )

My personal take on it is that it's not so much the religious and legal ceremony that's important as being in that committed and mature relationship. Sometimes, it just isn't possible to have that sheet of paper that makes your union "legal". But does that mean expressing your love is sinful and wrong? As long as you're bonded to each other, in a stable and committed relationship, then I'd have to say you're in the right. You're fulfilling all the moral requirements.

The Drastic Spastic - 4/2/04 at 19:30

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One other thing: I can now understand the reason behind "no sex before marriage"... but it's taken me a long time to figure it out. Yes, it makes sense... but it isn't being explained. When all you get is "It's a Sin! Because God said it's a Sin! So don't question, or you'll burn forever!", it isn't exactly helpful. As a matter of fact, that kind of authoritarian garbage simply invites teen rebellion. If ministers, priests, and so on would take just a few minutes to EXPLAIN, they'd save themselves (and their flock) a great deal of hardship and teen pregnancies. If you're old enough to seriously think about having sex, you're old enough to understand the church's position on it. THIS is what they should be telling you, instead of just sending you to your room for "insolence".


Oh, and the explanation? The reason behind the decree, besides to stop unwanted pregnancies and transmission of STDs?

1) Sex creates a very powerful bond. People who just have sex easily with everyone are refusing that bond, and it leads to treating people like objects. It also leads to being treated like an object. Ever wondered by "Easy Susie", the class party girl, is both popular with the boys and demeaned behind her back? There ya go.

2) That bond is so powerful it changes a relationship. If the relationship isn't mature enough, it gets stunted. Kind of like a bonsai tree, it'll never grow any further. Sex is really meant to be a "capper", a fulfillment, to a mature relationship.

3) Casual sex can be used as a form of emotional blackmail. If you have sex with someone, and then it turns out the guy/gal is a complete loser, it's a LOT harder to drop them, let alone refuse a request (or demand) for more sex.


They are explaining it that way now, at least they did at the Catholic high school I went to.

Warbird - 4/2/04 at 23:10

I have to say that I like that the Catholic church isn't updating to mach the times. Do you want a church that makes things easy, and changes its morals to fit what is socially acceptable? I wouldn't. Morals are morals, especially ones that pretain to religion. Just because everyone is doing it, doesn't mean it's magicly not a sin anymore.

As for birth controll, I can understand where they're coming from, though I don't agree completely. I'd rather see people that are having sex anyway, use something to prevent pregnancy rather than have an abortion. And it's really a married couples choice on weather to procreate or not. But still, rather than bend on these topics, I think that it's important that such a grounded instituation as the Catholic church, holds to its guns and doesn't conform. Even if I occasionaly dissagree, I like that I can always know where my church stands. They're constant and not sending contradicting messages, which is rare today. A church that morphs morals with the time, isn't being true to the origional concepts of their faith.

I also felt that Azzy in the church with Mysique was a very pwerful way to depict his true dark charicter. It was meant to be offensive. That's how the point was really driven home.

Lauren - 5/2/04 at 03:33

I know I'm kinda switching things, but did anyone see South Park tonight? I thought that was actually a good episode especially the message in the end

This Mormon kid walks up to Stan, who kept berating him the whole time because of his faith and says,

"All I wanted was to be your friend, but you were too busy being all high and mighty to see past my religion."

thylacine - 5/2/04 at 14:14

1. That episode was on before. That is a really good episode. Everyone should watch it. I know a lot of people who immediately tell me that I'm "ignorant" and "uneducated" because I'm Catholic. That's not fair. They don't even bother to get to know a person, they just jump on that.

2. And you are right about those things, Maelstrom.

3. I still don't think that Marvel should have had Mystique having sex in a church. It was sick and tawdry. Janet Jackson apologized on national TV, and so can Marvel!

Warbird - 6/2/04 at 00:31

The point of it was that it was sick. It was meant to be offensive. It showed the true charicter of them both. They weren't condoning it at all. If Marvel was like "hey wouldn't it be hot to have them bang in a church?" I'd totally agree with you, but that wasn't the case. It was done because they're disrespectful, shadey people who don't give a damn about anything sacred. It was a powerful point. It also makes a stark contrast between kurts faith and his parents complete disregard for it. He's good despite his genetics.

Wolvertique - 6/2/04 at 12:46

The one people should apologize for is the latest James Bond movie, where James and his latest female sidekick were making out in a real Buddhist temple. Disgusting.

Marvel should apologize for having Azazel to begin with, IMO. It's much better to go with the standard "Kurt's father was Baron Wagner" storyline. I also think it detracts from the somewhat sympathetic/redeemable character Mystique usually is portrayed as in everything I've seen.

Lauren - 6/2/04 at 12:55

mmm yeah and not to go completely off topic, she wasn't even sorry for throwing him over the waterfall in that one!

Back on topic, I onc watched this movie Revealations and these to people just scew right there in a chuch AND THEY WERE THE GOOD GUYS! *sigh*

Wolvertique - 6/2/04 at 13:36

"she wasn't even sorry for throwing him over the waterfall in that one!"
Eesh. Marvel sucks sometimes.

thylacine - 6/2/04 at 13:41

Quote: "Marvel should apologize for having Azazel to begin with, IMO. It's much better to go with the standard "Kurt's father was Baron Wagner" storyline." That's right. This Azazel person is a ridiculous character and doesn't seem to serve any purpose other than to be offensive to fans.

Maelstrom - 6/2/04 at 15:54

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mmm yeah and not to go completely off topic, she wasn't even sorry for throwing him over the waterfall in that one!


Does that really surprise anyone? Mystique is a sociopath. She has no morals, conscience, or anything remotely resembling a sense of guilt. She plays people as if they're her own personal toys. The rest of the episode featured her doing such wonderful, socially redeeming things as:

Setting up one of her servants to rape another for no apparent reason, except it was fun.

Bedding any man she could find behind her husband's back, apparently in a bid to become pregnant.

Making out with/being seduced by Azazel in a church.

Killing her husband once he started to suspect something might be wrong. And by the way she had that dagger conveniently placed under her pillow, it must have been something she was coldly calculating for a long time.

Throwing her newborn over a waterfall after reciting a litany of inconvenient and unhappy things that SHE will have to go through to cover everything up. In this litany, she blames everyone but herself.


I believe that the point the writers were making with this story (or at least trying to make) was that Kurt turned out a wonderful human being despite the absolute depravity of his birth parents and conception. As they were using religious things in a blasphemous way to drive home this point, it didn't bother me so much. There's a difference between just casually, thoughtlessly tossing in improper religious images and a calculated attempt at revulsion and horror. In The Excorcist, the whole thing was FILLED with blasphemous images, and it worked very well because they were literally fighting the devil himself. It highlighted the contrast between good and evil. Now, I'm not comparing the storyline with The Exorcist, because Azazel isn't the actual JudeoChristian Satan (despite the fact he seems to have adopted the role for political gain or ego purposes). But the blasphemous scene of sex in a church was acceptable to me because it was a shorthand way of showing both characters in a dreadful light, thereby highlighting the contrast between them and their religious, gentle son.

The way the story was executed... well, let's say I had serious issues with those issues. :smirk But that wasn't so much the storyline itself as the way slow. Plodding. Manner. It. Was. Told. Andthen gotshovedintoasingleissueathteendbecausetheyranoutoftimeorsomething.

bluefooted - 6/2/04 at 16:42

What she said... I mean, I agree completely. I actually really liked that issue (428, I think) because it showed just what a thoughtless and self-centered bitch Mystique is. I think the art emphasizes the point that these are two horrible people profaning something sacred. And, yet, they manage to produce something beautiful :bamf Particularly, I liked how the inside of the church was depicted - kind of glowingly lit, warm - it looked like a holy place. So, I think this scene does have symbolic meaning - that the church is not 'reduced' or profaned by their act, because it's power comes from something that they don't understand, faith and belief. In the end, the act itself is redeemed by Kurt's own faith and goodness. In other words, I don't think Marvel needs to apologize, at least, not for this ;)

Gaz - 6/2/04 at 16:53

I don't think Marvel should apologize. It's there own comic. We aren't being forced to read it or buy it. I do think that the whole Arc with Kurt's father could have been explained much more simply instead of creating some big dramatic and unnecessary story, but Marvel can do whatever the hell they want without having to apologize because they own the goddamn comic. Hopefully after that arc, they'll just stray from the subject and continue the comics as if the whole Azazel thing never happened.

Warbird - 6/2/04 at 22:21

I agree. I've heard so many people talking about how kurt's emotional responce should be put into a story, but why drag out a weak, already drawn out plot line further. Maybe if it hadn't gotten so long to begin with, I'd agree that there should be a folow up, but by the end of the arc I was bored with the entire thing.

And it's a little off to me that Marvel did do this entire Satan-esqu story. They changed around an entire 5 or 6 part arc of X-Statix because they didn't want people loyal to princess Diana to be offended.... but to hell with good christians? I don't think that they have to appologize though. Like I said before, it was to prove a point and not just done off the cuff to insult or alienate anyone. In retrospect, that's probably why they did alow it. The Diana arc was just for fun, and this one did (in theory) have a point.

Bamf Bunny - 6/2/04 at 23:16

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Ever wondered by "Easy Susie", the class party girl, is both popular with the boys and demeaned behind her back?

Sexism?
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Mystique is a sociopath. She has no morals, conscience, or anything remotely resembling a sense of guilt.

Not as Claremont used to write her. Mystique couldn't bring herself to attack Arcade's Nightcrawler robot because of her affection for Kurt. She was, arguably, like Magneto: a villain, but a human villain with motivations.

Lauren - 7/2/04 at 03:54

Yes, I rather liked the old Mystique and not this heartless witch they've been making her into. Even in unlimited four when she said she didn't care, you could tell she was lying when she realized it was really kurt she was talking to, why else would she let go and let herself fall down that waterfall to save them?

frankly, it would have been nice to have more input from Kurt while all this stuff was going on.

Wolvertique - 7/2/04 at 03:56

I agree. Mystique is not, in anything I've ever seen her in, from cartoons to comics, a sociopath with no morals or heart. She is instead someone on the edge of redemption, if she could just get over her pride ... heck, in Evolution she takes great risks to help Rogue and give her a friend, too.

The Drastic Spastic - 7/2/04 at 05:25

Awwww, Gaz is picking up on my speech patterns. ;)

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heck, in Evolution she takes great risks to help Rogue and give her a friend, too.


Uh? She didn't wanted to help Rogue, she was using her. I'm not sure where you got the idea she was ever trying to help Rogue.

I found the Mystique in the Draco prequel to be easy to sympathize with, or at least see where her motivation was coming from. :\

Gaz - 7/2/04 at 07:15

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Awwww, Gaz is picking up on my speech patterns. ;)


Has I? I really has'nt notesed that my speeach are silimar to yurs. :toothy

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Anyway....I hate when they make villians actually villians and not something you can slightly pity or relate to. I mean, villians are so 2D when they have no obvious motivation. Mystique does have the motivation of wanting humans dead because she was most likely taunted when she was younger, but so were others, I'm sure. I wish they would give villians more personality and less to hate about them.

Wolvertique - 7/2/04 at 13:08

::shrug:: I think that her motives might have been partly selfish, but they were obviously also to give Rogue a friend IMO.

Warbird - 7/2/04 at 17:20

I sort of got the feeling that she initialy started to befriend Rouge to get close to the X-Men, and I mean it in a bad way. By the end though, I think that she did realize the Rouge needed a friend outside of the X-Men and tried to be that. I mean she took Rouge to that concert, if I remember right, just becasue she was getting down. It was done to cheer her up and not to exploit her. So at first she was using her, but I think later it was more out of sympathy.

They also showed this side of her when she wanted to connect with Kurt. She wanted to do it just because he is her son, and never intended for it to be a situation with potential for his well being to be endangered. It also is shown when the Professer goes in and tells her that Kurt had turned out to be a good person. She looked so heart sick.

Anyway, I've always simpathized with both Mystique and Magneto's motives. I agree that's why they're such good villians. There's very universaly human motives behind them. Magneto's are a little less normal, but given his background, understandable.

thewildeman - 7/2/04 at 22:50

Okay, lets see if I can post now....:dead

This is my first post here so a religious thread seems a good place to start.

Speaking of religion and how it relates to Kurt, I have to say its part of what makes him such a believable character. Someone once complained to me of the mention of religion or God in comic books. I really don't see anything wrong with it. It is the mention of things that we can so relate to in the real world, that make the fantasy world seem so much more vivid. I like Kurts religious side, without it, he couldn't have been the backbone of the Xmen as he is now and has been....

Thanks.

Warbird - 7/2/04 at 22:58

You're welcome. :D nice to meet you.

Last I heard it was sepreation of curch and state and not the seperation of church and comics. People get bent out of shape it seems because A)they want to seem politically and socialy progressive or B) their religion isn't being depicted so it's a travesty to have others up. All I have to say in either case is, how untollerant can you be!!!

I agree that having such real and diverse qualities and personalities is what makes a really good comic. I think that's my problem with some charicters... i.e. superman, there's nothing to him. Thses qualities is importatn.

Lauren - 8/2/04 at 04:09

Besides, it helps people to see the character as someone that's actually more believeable. I mean, you can't just have people who have no say in religion at all. Even if they don't believe in anythihg, make them mention it. Religion tends to open more doors to a character whether it's lack of faith or in Kut's case, a great deal of it.

Bamfette - 8/2/04 at 09:56

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I like Kurts religious side, without it, he couldn't have been the backbone of the Xmen as he is now and has been....



I agree there is nothing wrong with mentioning it. don't have a problem wiht characters mentioning that they are religious. but.... that last sentence. why not??

I will agree that he has sometimes used his religion to help him to that end, but keep in mind he did not even mention he was Catholic until the middle of the Brood Saga sometime, roughly 70 issues after the character was first introduced, and he was just as moral and just as supportve to the team before then as after.

sorry. stayed out of this tread till now because welll. i'm atheist. and i am touchy about that. why can't a person be good, moral, a 'backbone' for a group of people unless they are religious?

my father is atheist and he is one of the best people i have ever known. he sells computers for a living. every once in a while, he collects enough parts to put together a system for reletavely cheap, so he puts them together and modifies them to be accessed via laser sensors and donates them free of charge to quadrapalegics who have lost the power of speech in the Fanning Center, a hospital for long term care patients. he also visits those patients more often than their own families do. but sometimes people make it seem someone can't do something like that unless they are religious.

Wolvertique - 8/2/04 at 15:15

Colossus was an atheist. I doubt anyone can say he did nothing moral for the X-men. Unless sacrificing himself to cure the Legacy Virus means nothing to people. ;)

In my experience, "bad" people are bad whether they believe in a religion or not. We've all known, presumably, "bad" people who are Christians. Those people would be "bad" whether they gave up their religion for another or for no religion. I'm glad that the X-men show good people, like Wolverine, Kurt, and Colossus, of different religious faith and no faith.

My mother is an atheist. She has spent her life working for a non-profit that benefits women and children. They run a domestic violence shelter and the only Big Brothers/Big Sisters program in her area. She is definitely a good person, and anyone who says she is not does not know what he/she is talking about.

Warbird - 8/2/04 at 18:17

Peolple are going to get sick of me saying this, but it's something I honestly belive in. What you do, how you act, and how you treat others determines if you're a good person or not. It doesn't matter what faith (if any) you are!!! A good hearted person is a good person, and a cruel person is a bad person. There's no way around it.

Morality doesn't always come with your faith. I'm sure we can all think of some highly religiouse people who are just down right $#!tty to others. Morality is simply a way to walk through this world trying to do what's right. It's not just what a religiuose leader tells you. I was actually going to use colossus as an example too... I guess it's just beating a dead horse at this point... Like I said, I realize that I, and others have posted this point of veiw before, but it's a concept that is VERY important to me.

scheherazade - 8/2/04 at 20:10

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I was actually going to use colossus as an example too... I guess it's just beating a dead horse at this point...


Awww... Sad pun.... *cries*

So, I just sloshed through all fourteen pages of this thread... oy vey.

Going back a way, someone mentioned that they could only imagine that children raised to be both Christian and Jewish would be confused. My mom is Jewish (reform) and my dad is Roman Catholic, and I wasn't confused (and am not now) about religion.

I was always taught that both religions taught the same thing, -- about right and wrong, and morality, and being good to others and all that lovely stuff-- Only Catholics believed that Jesus was the son of God, and Jewish people didn't. I rather prefer this way of being brought up, because I wasn't ever afraid to ask religious questions or find out more about why different people believe different things.I was brought up, basically, as an agnostic... believing in God but having little to do with the Church. I think it has made me a more understanding person in general, because I don't have an affiliation with any religion.

Now, I do identify myself as Jewish, because it is more of a cultural thing than a religious belief. As for Jews For Jesus, they're a little more than just Jewish people who have converted to Christianity and kept their Jewish background. It's more political, that they generally believe that the Jewish faith can incorporate the New Testament and keep the Jewish traditions... There's one in every good Jewish family, as the joke goes...

I had more to say, but I'll wait for later...

thylacine - 8/2/04 at 21:18

Quote: "They changed around an entire 5 or 6 part arc of X-Statix because they didn't want people loyal to princess Diana to be offended.... but to hell with good christians?" Yeah... I know that was like several pages back, but I have to add that I agree with that!!!

Anyway... here is what I do not comprehend (back to this Mystique thing) she wanted so badly to have a baby, and did everything she could to have a baby, then she dumps the kid??? Huh??? What? Who wrote that into it? It doesn't work right. If she wanted a baby that badly, she would have kept him, right?

BamfChyck - 8/2/04 at 22:01

I think it was pretty clear that she wanted the baby ONLY to hold onto all the material goodies she got from being married to the count, and a blue baby couldn't help her that way. If he's looked like a normal peach colored baby, she might have had a chance.
Plus she was mad as hell at Azzy and may have been striking out at him by hurting his son. It's been known to happen.

Bamfette - 8/2/04 at 22:09

it was also established before that storyline that that's what happened. in X-Men Unlimited 4, and before she kept who Graydon who is only slightly younger than Kurt, until he was a teenager because he looked normal and she could maintain the illusion of normalcy with him. but she was also somewhat contradictory because she abandoned him later because he was not a mutant. she wanted a mutant child, jsut not a 24/7 visible mutant. so then she adopted Rogue when her own attempts to have a baby that fit a very narrow perception of what she really wanted failed. she also may have kept Kurt had she been in another position. but given the position she was in, having a baby that looked like that took her from having wealth and power to having nothing.

and i should have known people here would understand about the morality issue. but a lot of people don't seem to understand. Recently the school board polled people on the inclusion of religious teachings in schools, and they lumped a class on morality, not 'religious morality' just 'morality' in under religious teachings :? i wrote tem a letter.... Atheistic morality is just based on empathy. you don't do something that would hurt someone, since you would not want that to happen to you. and you help people because you would want people to help you should you find yourself in some unfortunate position. and most religions teachings of morality are based on this, really. 'do unto others as you would have done unto you' etc. except there is a punishment and reward system thrown in with heaven/nirvana/valhalla etc and the numerous hells in the various religions.

Maelstrom - 9/2/04 at 17:01

Unfortunately, Jill, people see the word "Atheist" and just assume that without the belief in (or threats of) a God, you must be a very bad person. At best, they equate you with Madalyn Murray O'Haire, who was responsible for removing prayer in schools in '63 (a good thing, in my opinion, but really ticked off a lot of people), and also had such a loud, "in your face" militancy that she annoyed many of her fellow athiests. Or they'll shove you in the same camp as Michael Newdow, who decided to use his kid as an excuse to change the pledge of allegiance.

(A little clarification on that point. If Michael Newdow wants to sue to have the words "under God" removed, he has the right to do that. But the very idea of using the excuse that "it made his daughter uncomfortable", when she neither lives with him nor believes in his particular view, let alone minds saying the pledge, is outrageous. He's dragging that poor girl into a very uncomfortable position, and his methods are making everyone out there who might agree with his end point look bad. Do it yourself, mister! Don't use your kid as a shield!)

95% of the world believes in some form of higher powers, whether it's one of the "big" religions like Christianity, or something like tribal animism. This puts atheists in an extreme minority. Their view is incredibly foreign to the rest of the world, and we're all too familiar with how foreign, unpopular notions or people can be treated. Rather than try to understand, it's easier to demonize, especially when you can have God "on your side".

Jill, I find your explanation that athiests "don't need the threat of an afterworld to do well" very telling. :scratch Though it wasn't anything I'd thought about much before, I think you're definitely onto something here. The threat of an unpleasant hereafter has been used as a way to enforce morality for a very long time. I think the Egyptians were the first recorded instance of a "reward and punishment" system of faith. There are many people who just can't be hauled into line without a higher force or the threat therof. Small children (who tend to have no morals due to inexperience) have to be taught that actions have repercussions, and that is done by the threat of punishments from parents. Certain people would steal if they thought they could get away with it, but the police and law system keeps them in check.

If you don't have a specific belief in any gods, then your actions can never be for or because of them. There's an accountability inherent in atheism that seems lacking with too many forms (or perversions) of religions. You're not being charitable for bonus points somewhere else. You're doing it because you can see that this family is really in dire straights, and they need your help.

For a certain selection of humanity, I think you're right. Religion forms the basis of a law system, of an inescapable parent looking over your shoulder no matter where you go. You stole something and thought you got away with it? No ya didn't. God/Allah/Vishnu/whoever saw you. You'll pay one way or another. There are some who have to be hauled in line with this, because there's no other way to keep an eye on them all the time.

But I don't think that's the only reason behind faith. A universal parent can also make you feel loved when you have no one and nothing else in your life. For those who don't need constant watching and threat of chastizement, the knowledge that someone is there beside you at all times is very comforting.

Warbird - 9/2/04 at 18:31

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Quote: "They changed around an entire 5 or 6 part arc of X-Statix because they didn't want people loyal to princess Diana to be offended.... but to hell with good christians?" Yeah... I know that was like several pages back, but I have to add that I agree with that!!!


Actually that quote is taken out of context. There's an air of sarcasm to it if you read the rest. I belive my next statement was that though it was an odd thing to do, the princess Diana arc had no point and was just for fun. The violation of the church had a point to it. So it does make sence that they would allow somthing that is trying to make a statement but not a potential offensive situation that has no real point.

The Drastic Spastic - 9/2/04 at 23:18

http://meninhats.com/d/20020918.html

This made me laugh so hard, and then I put it in the thread and then I explained the obvious because of the stupid character limit.

Warbird - 9/2/04 at 23:45

That's so harsh!!! It's funny because it's true. ah, I like the detail given to the description of damnation... it's the little things.

Bamfette - 10/2/04 at 00:48

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Unfortunately, Jill, people see the word "Atheist" and just assume that without the belief in (or threats of) a God, you must be a very bad person. At best, they equate you with Madalyn Murray O'Haire, who was responsible for removing prayer in schools in '63 (a good thing, in my opinion, but really ticked off a lot of people), and also had such a loud, "in your face" militancy that she annoyed many of her fellow athiests. Or they'll shove you in the same camp as Michael Newdow, who decided to use his kid as an excuse to change the pledge of allegiance.


and that's what really bothers me. while i don't think the word 'god' has a place n the country's currency, or whatever, simply because it does not represent everyone in that country because they do not all believe in the same god or a god at all, and that national things like currency should represent EVERYONE... I would not automatically associate myself wiht other atheists.

because it is a belief system not based in any way on the teachings of anyone, or a book of teachings or anything like that, different atheists will feel and act differently about different things. some will take an almost militant stance on it. like the dead oposite of the most extreme fire and brimstone Southern Baptist. while others (like myself) have pride in it, but are more layed back.

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95% of the world believes in some form of higher powers, whether it's one of the "big" religions like Christianity, or something like tribal animism. This puts atheists in an extreme minority. Their view is incredibly foreign to the rest of the world, and we're all too familiar with how foreign, unpopular notions or people can be treated. Rather than try to understand, it's easier to demonize, especially when you can have God "on your side".


Oh, i realize this. and that's part of the reason i like to bring it up. i like to educate people. not convert them, but i know i am not a bad person. i know other atheists who are not bad people. i know believing this way does not make you immoral automatically (though i am sure there are immoral atheists out there) i wish for other people to understand this, as well. some people they assume you're Christian unless you say otherwise. and i have to admit, it's probably a pretty safe assumption to make most times... but sometimes people have said things to me, especially during the tense times following 9-11, about 'evil' atheists and etc etc etc. and i saw a poll at http://www.religioustolerance.org that said, on a census when asked the question "If your party nominated a generally well-qualified person for president who happened to be a 'X' would you vote for that person?" if "X" is Atheist, in 1999 less than 50% would vote yes. the lowest of ANY minority group. http://www.religioustolerance.org/amer_intol.htm

and i find that very sad. I realize that given that it was asking for a political leader, some could fear that an atheist would take away funding for religion, or something. but still...

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Jill, I find your explanation that athiests "don't need the threat of an afterworld to do well" very telling. :scratch Though it wasn't anything I'd thought about much before, I think you're definitely onto something here. The threat of an unpleasant hereafter has been used as a way to enforce morality for a very long time. I think the Egyptians were the first recorded instance of a "reward and punishment" system of faith. There are many people who just can't be hauled into line without a higher force or the threat therof. Small children (who tend to have no morals due to inexperience) have to be taught that actions have repercussions, and that is done by the threat of punishments from parents. Certain people would steal if they thought they could get away with it, but the police and law system keeps them in check.


Well, i apologize if anyone finds this offensive, but it is my personal belief that religion arose in part to help rein in people. get them to do what their leader wanted. early religions were very closely tied to government, in times when laws were few. the promise of paradise after your death, or threat of punishment, could help keep early people in line. A lot of gods had a pantheon of gods and the in favour god could change based on the political stance of the time. in times of war, Aries became more widely worshipped and supported by the government, for instance. A lot of the early religions also didn't have a book of teachings, really, or a set of rules to follow... but they did have a set of anecdotal stories that taught morality that way. nearly all of them have a story of someone getting murdered and severe punishment for that, for example. Set murdering Osiris and being banished, Loki murdering Balder and being imprisoned and torured for eternity, etc.

so most religions, i think, started as a way to impart lessons of morality, and to maintain order that way. if as a society they had not yet advanced to the point of people just being good for the sake of it and to help their fellow people, maybe they needed religion as an added incentive. it has since evolved beyond that, of course... and some religions became things that i don't think they were ever intended to be. i am talking waaay back like 5000 years ago.

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If you don't have a specific belief in any gods, then your actions can never be for or because of them. There's an accountability inherent in atheism that seems lacking with too many forms (or perversions) of religions. You're not being charitable for bonus points somewhere else. You're doing it because you can see that this family is really in dire straights, and they need your help.


and that's why i am proud to believe the way i do. I take pride in the fact that everything i do, good or bad, I am the only one accountable for that. and i don't want anyone feeling sorry for me, or say they are sad that i haven't found god, or whatever. i hate that. it annoys me no end. I know people mean well when they say it, but... yeah, i believe that after I die, that's that. the end, nothing more for me in the afterlife or reincarnated, or anything. but that just means I will have to try and make an impact in the here and now, do something to leave my mark so i will be remembered.

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For a certain selection of humanity, I think you're right. Religion forms the basis of a law system, of an inescapable parent looking over your shoulder no matter where you go. You stole something and thought you got away with it? No ya didn't. God/Allah/Vishnu/whoever saw you. You'll pay one way or another. There are some who have to be hauled in line with this, because there's no other way to keep an eye on them all the time.


um... i guess i already covered this... but i agree. ;)

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But I don't think that's the only reason behind faith. A universal parent can also make you feel loved when you have no one and nothing else in your life. For those who don't need constant watching and threat of chastizement, the knowledge that someone is there beside you at all times is very comforting.


oh, i agree. I realize a lot of people feel very comforted by their belief, and get a LOT from it. and religion has accomplished some very wonderful things. religions as mentioned before are responsible for a lot of the charities out there, and stuff. i just *personally* do not think i need that to be a good person, or for guidance or support.

Lauren - 10/2/04 at 04:00

Oh man..that comic was hilarious, and that's exactly what most aggressive converter people do! If they can't get you in nicely, they threaten you with Hell...it's sad really.

Sorte Springer - 10/2/04 at 09:14

About Nightcrawler and religion.

I am really quite surprised at this discussion. I never expected that X-men readers would think of Nightcrawler as a role models for beliving Christians.
(I use the term "beliving" because techically I am a Christian, I am babtized and I have not renounced that, but actually I an an agnostic)

I always thaught that Nightcrawler was made a beliving Catholic, because he needed to have other personality traits than just being an odd looking super hero, like Colossius was an artist, Wolverine has an affinity for Japanese culture, Beast likes fine art, Storm loves her plants and so on.

I used to see Nightcrawler as a super hero who is also a Catholic, (and an Errol Flynn fan) not a "Catholic super hero".
I was never under the impression that Nightcrawler was a good guy because he was a Christian. He was a good guy and a Christan.

In Denmark where I live, atheism, or at lest being at a religious minimun is pretty common, if not the most "normal" veiwpoint of the population.
I therefore have trouble understanding why being religious, or not being religious, should mean anything in the question of a persons morality.

thylacine - 10/2/04 at 14:18

Hi. People mentioned Madalyn Murray O'Hare... I read a book about her. In case anyone is interested... Her son became a born again Christian and was heard to say she "needs Jesus." Also, she has since disappeared, and people believe she may have been killed by a member of her group, the motive being money. When she was young, she tried to defect to the Soviet Union, but they didn't want her, so she came back to the USA.

The subject of morality and reward / punishment came up. I am going to paralegal school. Some of my professors are criminal defense attorneys. They are quite certain that MOST PEOPLE only do right because of what the law says, and they know they could get in trouble if they do wrong. SOME PEOPLE can do the right thing because it is the right thing, but MOST PEOPLE will lie, cheat, steal, and kill if they think they can get away with stuff. If there was no law or punishment, there would be total and absolute social chaos. And that is from a guy who really knows his criminals!!!

I feel that I personally do the right thing since it is the right thing (I'm a Catholic and I also believe in all the God stuff, too), but I also feel that people who willingly do the right thing are in the minority. I used to be really naive and think that everyone was "nice," but I got hurt enough times to know that the law professor is right -- most people are little criminals. Most people will do anything they think they can get away with. Lock up your car, set your burglar alarm, keep an eye on your purse. And that's the sad reality, people!

Warbird - 10/2/04 at 22:59

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Originally posted by Sorte Springer
About Nightcrawler and religion.

I am really quite surprised at this discussion. I never expected that X-men readers would think of Nightcrawler as a role models for beliving Christians.

I used to see Nightcrawler as a super hero who is also a Catholic, (and an Errol Flynn fan) not a "Catholic super hero".
I was never under the impression that Nightcrawler was a good guy because he was a Christian. He was a good guy and a Christan.


I actually think that is very accurate. He was made a Catholic in part to show he had faith contradictory to his appearance, and thus develpoed more substance and credability. His being a hero and a nice guy were primary and his religion was more of a background element. Over time it became more evedent that he is deeply spiritual and modivated by his faith. That's when he began to be, I wouldn't say a rolemodle, but a positive example OF Caholisism. Not necessaraly an example FOR Catholics to follow. Instead he is a charicter that breaks all of the Catholic stereo types and, I feel for at least people who really read comics, is helping to eliminate that stereotype.

thewildeman - 11/2/04 at 02:53

Eep, didn't expect to go that far. I should explain my own view on the term "religious". I find it a very complex term and to me it holds more of a spiritualistic definition and not a bible toting preaching one. Religion is a powerful system of belief, I simply meant that without his powerful system of belief (call it morals if you prefer that terminology) he just would not have been the same (at least to me). It would be like Wolverine without his claws. I don't think there is anything wrong with being athiest either, I say to each person, believe as you will, but harm none for the sake of that belief alone. Consider this, he is written now as a devout Catholic, but yet bought a Jewish star for Shadowcat. It's more than just a religion, it is that deep spiritual focus from within, (along with the fact that Kurt really cares about his teammates). Consider how many times he has been the close friend offering advice to his teammates? And when he was rescued by Prof X from an angry mob, what sort of building did he go into to save himself? (I don't remember for exact certain, but I thought it was a church). I really thought that sense of commitment and powerful belief were always a part of Nightcrawler. Sorry if I offended anyone. That is just what religion means to me.

thylacine - 4/3/04 at 14:19

I REALLY, REALLY MISSED ALL YOU GUYS!!!

I missed visiting this discussion every morning before class and debating all this deeply serious philosophy, theology, religion, and furry blue mutants!

We're back!!! YES!!! :bamf

So let's all start where we left off then!

BamfChyck - 4/3/04 at 17:37

Thy, it looks like U2Us not working yet.

How's your mom doing?

thylacine - 4/3/04 at 22:44

What are U2U's??? I am not a computer expert, so I do not know???

Thanks for asking about Mom, by the way. The doctors say she is fine. Her MRI was "normal."

Also... I shall take up all this computer space and announce this... I'm on the Dean's List!!! YES!!! :)

Just wanted to share it with all you guys!

I'm glad we're back, anyway!

CurlyyHairGirl - 4/3/04 at 23:44

Wow is it just me or was there a lot of stuff that was deleted?:o OH well. I'm so glad to be back. I missed everyone sooo much, and am very happy to hear how your mom is thyacine, thats great! I'm looking forward to some religous discussion .

I've been deprived.:(

Lauren - 5/3/04 at 03:47

Yay for Thy's mommy! *huggles everybody in celebration* Now she can beats up your uncle!

thylacine - 5/3/04 at 13:32

Yes, maybe she'll beat some sense into him!

I missed you guys!

Maelstrom - 6/3/04 at 07:08

Everyone:

I just wanted to let you know that I posted a "review" (of sorts) on Mel Gibson's The Passion of Christ. I thought about putting it here, on the religious thread, but then decided to just tell you about it and make its own thread so it wouldn't be "swallowed up". ;) Go and take a look, and let me know your thoughts on the matter.

CurlyyHairGirl - 6/3/04 at 21:24

i haven't see that yet, I want to but I dont have the money, that's how broke I am. My friend saw it and said that it brings out every emotion that you will ever feel, but for some reason I doubt that will happen with me. I'm the girl who goes to funerals and dosn't cry. I'm not saying I don't care but I am not the emotional type. But I still want to see that movie.

Gaz - 7/3/04 at 00:44

I figured this was a good place to post this nice little rant:

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I F*CKING HATE HOMOPHOBES!!!!!!!
Okay, so I go to a private alternative highschool run by a pair of lesbians and we only have one semi-republican at the whole school. We get lots of students joining the school in the middle of the year for various reasons. the most recent addition to our school is this 8th or 9th grade black girl who joined and immediatly started ranting about how much she hates gays and is happy that Prez. Bush outlawed gay marriage. This girl is a hardcore Christian who isn't willing to shut up about her beliefs. In her first class, she wrote "Jesus Loves You" all over the tables. In Drama, a slang word for genitals came up in one of the plays and she spazzed out and refused to participate in the rest of the Drama class. The other day she walked up to my bi friend and said "Did you know there were....*looks around* lesbians at this school?"
She won't shut up about how awesome Jesus is and how evil gays are. I'm so ready to kill that girl....

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Bamf Bunny - 7/3/04 at 01:11

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she hates gays and is happy that Prez. Bush outlawed gay marriage.

Where's she from, Days of Future Past? Bush hasn't outlawed same-sex marriage yet.

CurlyyHairGirl - 7/3/04 at 01:18

GO FOR IT *did I type that out loud?*, I can't stand it whan people are like that. Bush outlawed gay marriages? I should watch the news more. I think some of the coolest people are gay, I have 5 lesbian friends and people ask me if it freaks me out and I say,"No. Should it. And don't you think it is my buisness and not yours about what I think?" Gaz, I completely understand what you are saying. I have a friend who doesn't shut up about her religion, but I shouldn't be talking, I don't shut up about Nightcrawler. It really really bugs, though, when she told my Friend K that she was going to go to hell for some stupid reason, so I just told her who the hell did she think she was, passing judgement on other people, that's gods job not yours.

Gaz - 7/3/04 at 01:19

I don't pay attention to what Bush does but that's what she said, so I don't know. I don't care what he does becausse he's almost gone. That's jsut a quote from her....

Bamf Bunny - 7/3/04 at 01:49

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Bush outlawed gay marriages? I should watch the news more.

Bush has said that he supports amending the United States Constitution to ban same-sex marriage. Some people think that the wording of the proposed amendment would also ban civil unions.

The Defense of Marriage Act, signed by Clinton in 1996, already defines marriage as being between a woman and a man for federal purposes, and says that states don't have to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states. More than thirty states have either amended their state constitutions or passed legislation banning same-sex marriage.

Last year, the Massachusetts Supreme Court found that denying marriage licenses to same-sex couples was a violation of the Massachusetts state constitution. They've ordered the state to begin issuing same-sex marriage licenses in May of 2004. Although some people are trying to amend the Massachusetts constitution, the earliest this can happen is 2006 - so there'll be quite a few marriages by then.

Additionally, state officials in New York, Oregon, New Mexico, and (on the largest scale) California have begun issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples, even though some of these states have their own Defense of Marriage acts. Some people think that if there's a court battle, the state and even federal DOMAs will be overturned based on the Equal Protection Clause of the United States Constitution. That hasn't happened yet, though, and right now no one really knows whether these marriage will end up recognized or not.

Warbird - 7/3/04 at 02:39

Ok, first of all, why doesn't she go to a private school that agrees with her faith. There are a ton more religouse highschools than alternative ones.... I realize there may be other circumstances, but I don't think that they would usually make some one go somewhere that is so against what they belive in.

Second of all, I thought that we had a seperation of church and state... was I wrong? This is a moral and religiouse issue and I really don't think that the government has any right to step in. Why do they think it's ok to push for heterosexula marriages and condem Homosexual ones. If it's good for one group of people, why isn't it good for every one. Why can't we recognize these people's desire to be in a permanant relationship. If they want to stop the spread of STD's among heterosexuals by promoting families and Marraige, why don't they want to help promote this in the homosexual community. Are they less important? Does it not matter that there is an epidemic of diseases that are being spread becuase there is no chance that people can get married, and tend to be more sexually active with more partners because of it? If it's good for most Americans, why isn't it good for all Americans?

I hate this so much. It really really depresses me that something as minor as a persons sexuality can make such a difference in their rights, and over all quality of life. Last I heard, It wasn't a crime to love.

CurlyyHairGirl - 7/3/04 at 04:31

The way I see it is if it makes you happy, go for it, don't care what other people think, do what you believe is right. No one can say that you are wrong, and if they do ask them then what is right, ask them how it is right,ask them who was the first to say it right, and then give them all the reasons why you believe what you do. To me there is no right answer and no wronge answer. I don't care what other people think about same-sex marriages, I care what I think, people have their opinions and you do to and just because others say you are wrong, you truley never will be wrong, or right for that matter. AND if people say that it is abnormal, ask for the definition of normal. What is normal these days? The world has changed so much that I believ there is no such thing as normal or abnormal, just differences, because differences means that something is not the same but does not imply that it is wrong like the word weird of abnormal. So just tell her she has her opinions and you have yours, then walk away.

Gaz - 7/3/04 at 09:02

To Warbird, I have no clue why she doesn't attend a christian highschool, though even those are more accepting in this city than she is.

Here in Oregon, they checked the laws, which stated that anyone can marry as long as they are a male or female over the age of 17, which obviously does not state whether they have to date the opposite secks. So here in Oregon, a ton of people have been hanging out out side of the courthouse, waiting to get that slip of paper that says they are married. Good for them.

And Warbird? The separation of church and state thing? Private schools do not apply, obviously. If it applied to private schools, there wouldn't be any catholic or christian schools. Private schools have completely different laws than public ones.

And I would just tell her that she has her own opinions, but it is really hard to let someone insult you are your friend's beliefs to your face without saying anything. I'm just a born fighter anyway.... :D

CurlyyHairGirl - 7/3/04 at 15:29

I have family in Oregon....Yes, private schools have very different rule than public schools, I go to a public school but my best friend goes to a private school and they have to do alot more stuff and the teachers are more strict, but because it is a Catholic school, they have what my friend calls a church class that they are forced to go to every other day, they have a split schedual, and some of the students do even practice that religion, they just go there because the school has a better graduation rate than my school *but they have more drugs over there too*.

Warbird - 7/3/04 at 20:17

My little rant on church and state was supposed to apply to the fact that I don't think that the government has any right to stop same sex marraiges. I didn't mean for it to sound like I was talking about the school. If that was the case then not private religouse schools could ever exist. They were supposed to be unrelated topics. I was unclear, my fault.

CurlyyHairGirl - 7/3/04 at 20:47

No that is ok I was just saying something, and I don't know why.:oops

Maelstrom - 7/3/04 at 23:09

Marriage is such a loaded word. It's got legal, moral, religious, and cultural definitions, and they don't always coincide.

Marriage as a religious institution has historically only existed between heterosexuals. I can't think of one currently active religion that has ratified a marriage between a same sex couple, and this is probably because marriage was primarily made to create a family unit. Having children was the most important thing about a marriage when you needed children to support you in old age as well as to help run the farm.

Bush's problem is that he sees those Pauline letters about the "sins of sodomy" and has decided that he's got to make sure it this "sin" doesn't get spread or legitimized. In my opinion, he's got this whole thing bass-ackwards:

1) The more I think about it, the more I'm sure that "sodomy" refers to anal rape, not to homosexuality as a whole. By bashing so hard on homosexuality, these people are missing the point.

2) The US government has NO, read NO, place in the debate of whether a religion will allow marriage or not. It would make more sense (though be no less abhorrant) if Bush wanted to outlaw Same Sex Civil Unions than Same Sex Marriage as a whole.

3) I'd be more sympathetic to the "defense of marriage" if the rest of us heterosexuals treated it with any respect in the first place. We've got a 50% divorce rate in the country. People commonly get remarried not once, but four or five times. Cheating is rampant, abuse is rampant, and we're screaming about two men (or women) who love each other daring to make a lifelong committment? :?

Same sex marriage, as in a religious ceremony, is going to be very contentious because of the historical background. It has never been sanctified before by any of the major religions, and it's gonna be a very hard sell in the USA, at least. And it's something that the government has no say in whatsoever.

But there's one thing the government *does* have a place in, and that's the legal side of marriage. One of the big reasons why gay couple want to marry, besides the symbolism, is that they want the same legal and financial benefits for their partner as I enjoy with my husband.

For instance, if my husband dies, I get social security benefits. If he's injured and needs someone to take care of him, I make the decision before his family does. He's insured under my workplace insurance, and he's the primary beneficiary for my life insurance.

If I had a female parter, none of this would be possible. If she was badly injured, her sister from New Jersey, who she barely even remembers from childhood, would have more legal right to care for her than I. I wouldn't be able to cover her with my health insurance, and being a beneficiary on the life insurance would be iffy. So, in essence, I have the moral obligations to take care of my partner, but I have none of the legal aids to help me.

While the religious aspects of marriage can only be decided by that religion's elders, there is no reason to deny civil unions to same sex couples. They're useful on many levels to more than just gay couples. For example: let's assume I have a friend who was estranged from her family and would rather I took care of her if things went wrong. As it stands now, if she's badly injured in a car crash, and has left instructions with me that she'd rather die than live brain dead, but she hasn't written those instructions down, her family can swoop in, kick me out of the picture, and keep her alive indefinitely against her wishes. Or, if she was only mentally disabled, her family could grab her and stuff her in some convalescent home, even if I was willing and able to take care of her at home. You should be able to choose who will take care of you if something happens. A civil union will help plenty of people on this front.

CurlyyHairGirl - 7/3/04 at 23:21

This brought up a question with me. My aunt and her husband never really got married, they just live together for a long time until they were recognized as a married couple to the state, that doesn't apply to homosexuals does it. Would they just call them room mates?

Maelstrom - 7/3/04 at 23:34

Well, there is a "common law" partner thing. In California, if you've lived together for more than 7 years (I think), you're considered married in the eyes of the state, if not in the eyes of any higher power. Sadly, this only applies to heterosexuals. Same sex couples would just be considered room mates.

CurlyyHairGirl - 7/3/04 at 23:46

I believe it is 7 years. WHOA, I jest noticed, yer a fellow Californian too, AWESOME. I always find it slightly odd when my aunt and uncle say "my husband" or "my wife" cause my mind has trouble with the common law thing some times, and because the never got married at a ceremony, it would have been nice, but it's their choice, and should be left that way.

Bamf Bunny - 8/3/04 at 00:35

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I can't think of one currently active religion that has ratified a marriage between a same sex couple

I can - Christianity. Same-sex marriage liturgies have survived from the Middle Ages. See Boswell's Same-Sex Unions in Pre-Modern Europe.

Warbird - 8/3/04 at 00:53

Now I might be wrong, but doesn't the common law status now only apply in the distrabution of assests in the case of a "devorce situation". It's becoming more and more common for there to be cross gender roomates that live together for many years and are not romanticly involved. I think it has nothing to do with the normal legal benifits of being married, that were very well stated by Mael. I'm not sure of that though. From what I understand, at least in PA, common law marraige is becoming a blue law.

CurlyyHairGirl - 8/3/04 at 02:21

Wow, I didn't know that. Thanks for filling me in on that Warbird:)

Lauren - 8/3/04 at 03:50

I just can't believe that the one guy from New York who was giving same-sex couples marriage licenses has been arrested for doing so. Apparently my state says it is illegal to get married to someone of the same gender.

Bush wants to protect the sanctity of marragie? Hello! Didn't Brittany Spears all ready break it with her little episode? Why is it that when people divorce 50 times it's ok, but God forbid that two people who love each other dearly and happen to be the same gender get married. That would just tear out the seams of Western Civilization; hurtling everyone in a spiral of anarchy and pure and utter chaos where everyone hates Nightcrawler!

Wolvertique - 8/3/04 at 12:03

I can't think of one currently active religion that has ratified a marriage between a same sex couple,
--Unitarian Universalism. Paganism. Native American religion. Methodists. Just to name a few.

The government certainly has no business telling a church that it must recognize a marriage between anyone. Heck, the Catholic church doesn't recognize marriages between divorced Catholics. But the government has no business discriminating against same-sex couples when it gives out marriage licenses, either.

CurlyyHairGirl - 8/3/04 at 14:42

It might be the fact that, technically, same-sex couples can't reproduce. Some churches won't let you marry in a church for that reason. For example, my uncle is infertile because he has sooooo many different kinds of cancer, so he and his wife had to adopt, but, the church wouldn't let them marry, they had to go somewhere else. Maybe that is a reason.

Bamf Bunny - 8/3/04 at 15:08

The Christian churches' position of marriage has changed over time. The early church didn't have a marriage rite at all; marriages were entirely secular. After the Reformation, many Protestants considered marriage a civil matter as well.

But moving on to the present day - there are currently three countries that recognize same-sex marriage; Canada, Belgium, and the Netherlands. And, yes, mainstream religious denominations have performed marriages there.

Maelstrom - 8/3/04 at 16:36

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The Christian churches' position of marriage has changed over time. The early church didn't have a marriage rite at all; marriages were entirely secular. After the Reformation, many Protestants considered marriage a civil matter as well.


I did some research on Medieval marriages for a work in progress. As Bunny has said, the church had no part in the celebration for the longest time. They were entirely civil matters. The wedding feast was the big unveiling, which would verify to everyone in the communnity that these two people were indeed bonded. Somewhere in the High Middle Ages it became popular for the wedding party to make a journey through town to the church (especially if those being wed were of noble status). Then the priest would meet them at the door and bless the (already assumed married) couple.

Just seeing the wedding party on their journey was considered proof of their marriage.

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I've heard of that, but it's such a contentious debate that I was a little iffy on mentioning it here. And Wolvertique, I had no idea that the Methodists would okay same sex marriages. I thought they would have the same problem seemingly every other sect of Christianity has with them.

But the crux of my argument (such as it was) is that there's so much religiously-motivated hostility against the idea that it's going to take a long time for all that to die down in the mainstream. The Unitarians, along any pagan sect (which by the word's technical definition also includes American Indian faiths), aren't as "universally accepted" as the bigger, policy-making sects (Catholicism, Baptists, Islam, Hindu, etc). For better or for ill, very few people pay attention to the former as opposed to the latter.

But Methodists allow same sex marriage... and they're one of the more "powerful" sects... hmmm.... :scratch That's really interesting. I would never have figured a Protestant sect would take that tact. I wonder why I haven't heard more about that?

Bamf Bunny - 8/3/04 at 16:54

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
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Same-sex marriage liturgies have survived from the Middle Ages. See Boswell's Same-Sex Unions in Pre-Modern Europe.

I've heard of that, but it's such a contentious debate that I was a little iffy on mentioning it here.

I wish you'd qualified your statement: "Marriage as a religious institution has historically only existed between heterosexuals. I can't think of one currently active religion that has ratified a marriage between a same sex couple [...]"

For those who haven't read Boswell's work: there are liturgies from the early Middle Ages for the lifelong joining of two men. The ceremonies are nearly identical to marriage ceremonies from the same period, and they're attested in a number of languages and countries, suggesting that the practice was widespread.

It's easy to think that the vehement opposition to same-sex relationships we see from the Church now is an ancient holdover, but, in fact, this is something that's waxed and waned over the years.

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But Methodists allow same sex marriage... [...] I would never have figured a Protestant sect would take that tact. I wonder why I haven't heard more about that?

Maybe because so much of the discussion has been going on in Canada? After several Canadian provinces legalized same-sex marriage, Canada's largest Protestant organization called for the government to do the same throughout Canada. The United Church of Canada represents Methodists, Presbyterians, and the Congregational Union of Canada. Can't get much more mainstream than that.

taekwondodo - 8/3/04 at 17:03

Well darn, it's nice to have good reason to be proud of my Canadian roots!

Bamfette - 8/3/04 at 17:07

don't be TOO proud... though Ontario and British Columbia (sort of) have legalized it, they are two of the most liberal provinces in the country, and the others arent so quick to jump on the bandwagon, after it was announced there was legislation in th works to make it legal country wide... been quite a debate over legalizing it. I live in Alberta, one of the most conservative provinces, and the debate here is much like you would see in the states... >.< http://www.cbc.ca/stories/2003/06/18/samesex030618

and from my favourite religious site ever, there are key differences in Canad and the US in the way laws and policies are impimented regarding such things:

http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_marb10.htm

Maelstrom - 8/3/04 at 17:16

Let's face it: America as a whole is a lot more conservative than the rest of the Western world. For all our racial tolerance messages (mainly forged by necessity, as America isn't as homogenous as the rest of the world), our "power to the people", and our "innocent until proven guilty" statements and laws, we're still a very conservative country on the whole. That means anything that even seems like change to us is going to be resisted with everything we've got.

I think Canada has the right idea, but I don't hold out much hope for America to do the same thing for a long, long time. Unfortunately, there's still some rancor between the US and Canada now, thanks to Dubya's cowboy attitude in the Middle East. But Dubya was elected by a sizable portion of the US (I'm not even going to touch the "who really won the election" debate....:secret), and that reflects America's current social conscience.

Not my conscience, and not the conscience of the majority of this board it would seem... but if you go into the hinterlands of the USA, you'll see all too many people who believe with their heart and soul that they're under attack and need Bush to defend them.

Many people need to reaffirm their faith in God by pointing at something and saying "that's from the Devil". Kind of like internet trolls who desparately need to be hated to prove to themselves they have worth. I think that a lot of the hatred of homo or bisexuality is a "Biblically sanctioned" way of expressing that need for enemies. (And it's only Biblically sanctioned if you twist it out of all context.)

And in my opinion, if you have to "prove" God's existence by seeing Satan everywhere else, you don't have much faith at all. ;)

Warbird - 8/3/04 at 22:19

America is a country that is made up of many groups who came here as an attempted to find a place that they could practice religion as they pleased. Of course it's conservative!!! Religion has always played a major role in politics here, though it's not supposed to, and probably always will. It was a big deal that Kennedy was Catholic and was a big deal that Liberman was Jewish. People can't get past thier own religions to see what might actually be good for humanity as a whole.

I also think that this consevative nature of the contry is on the increase. Education is in the toilet. People who aren't well educated tend to resist changes based on ignorance. They're afraid of what they don't understand. This ignorance also gives more power to the government and the churches. People who can't decided what's good for themselves will look at these two well established institutions to tell them what to think. The less people learn the more traditional and conservative they will be.

Maelstrom - 8/3/04 at 22:48

I think one of the reasons the pendulum has swung back to conservative thinking is because of 911. The old phrase goes "A conservative is a liberal who hasn't been mugged yet". Once someone is hurt, a lot of talk about forgiveness, understanding, and giving a second chance tends to fly out the window.

It's kind of like the idea of Yin and Yang. We will always need both points of view. We need liberal thinking to make us re-think old, outmoded ideas, which we cling to for no other reason of "because we've always done it that way." And we will need conservative thinkers to remind us that not every new idea is going to work. Without liberal thinking we'd be stuck in 1950s Alabama forever. And without conservative thinking, Mao and his little red book would likely have taken over.

Religions tend to be an interesting mix of the two. They're conservative in the manner that they don't change. They're meant to be a bastion of morality. But their views, such as pacifism, forgiveness, charity, and so on, are liberal at their hearts.

When religions become hopelessly conservative in a negative manner (removal of women's rights, racism, "holy war", etc.), it's because someone has fundamentally excluded or misinterpreted things. The Bible is such a complex book that it's all too easy to do this with one out-of-context quote.... :(

CurlyyHairGirl - 8/3/04 at 23:29

Part of the problem today is the fact that people associate religion with politics for some reason or another, and it was really never meant to be that way. Sort of like the feud between science and religion except with science, people are TRYING to disprove religous work to show that the cause of life is the Big Bang and evolution as opposed to miricals and such. Religion and politics should be seperate, and I'm sorry to my fellow Americans, but if we can't just learn to deal with religions and marriages with different gender combinations, then our nation will eventually end up being screwed.:cryand I don't want to see that happen.

Bamfette - 8/3/04 at 23:51

I just want to clarify on the 'trying to disprove religious work' bit... while it may be true for some scientists to be actively doing that, i dunno their thoughts. but the majority i don't think the motivating factor in what they are doing has anything whatsoever to do with religion. scientists are driven for knowledge, period. in most cases, religion does not factor into it at all. It's just that if they find something to pursue that may conflict with some religious belief out there, it doesn't really cross their mind. it's just something there for them to look into, and they wont stop just because the bible says something different than their initial hypothosis based on facts. Darwin got all swept up into religion debates, but he was not trying to specifically disprove Genesis, he merely observed something, and followed up on it, recording his findings. those findings then became the subject of religious debate, but that was not the intention.

there are proportionately more atheists and free thinkers among the scientific community, but i really do not think religion crosses most of their minds at ALL when they are going about their work. religion isn't usually on most atheist minds, day to day.... BUT if they say something proclaimed to be a miracle, because so many scientists are atheist, they will likely try and find a more scientific explanation. not to create a stir, but to find an explanation that makes more sense to their way of thinking.

and it is not like even the religious challenge 'miracles' on a regular basis. the Catholic Church has extremely strict standards for proclaiming a miracle oficcially. they test and re-test with scientific methods to make sure it is a miracle to their standards.

just clarification....

Maelstrom - 9/3/04 at 03:44

I find it particularly telling that with all the sects of Christianity out there, it's the literalist fundamentalists who have the most problem with evolution and other scientific methods. The RCs, Orthodox, and so on have no problem reconciling Biblical and scientific views on the creation of the universe. And plenty of scientists who happen to be Christian (NOT the same as "Christian Scientists" ) have no problem with discovering the laws of the universe, either. They just see them as laws that God set down to make His job easier. I mean, what's more efficient? Spending all that time to keep drawing a straight line over and over again, or making and using a ruler? God's no dummy. ;)

Religion and politics *should* be separate... but historically it has never been so. Kings claimed divine right of rulership way back in Sumerian times. It was an easy way to legitimize your rule and keep your subjects from contesting it. Churches, temples, holy women and men, all have been authority figures, and so often forms of government. One of the reasons was that until relatively recently, literally everything was attributed to divine intervention. You had to set up a system to appease the gods (whatever kind they were), or ELSE. There's a drought? Forget meteorology: it's an angry god. Appease them.

Now... well, now religion has become "shorthand" for political views in some places. Ireland is a classic, and sad, example. If you're Catholic, you have this political view. If you're Protestant, you have the other one. And the backdrop to this Irish Sectarian tension is an uprising in 1641, where the Catholics (an oppressed population at the time) rose up and mercilessly slaughtered every Protestant land lord and gentry in sight. Believe it or not, many, many Protestants still live in fear of that reoccuring.

CurlyyHairGirl - 9/3/04 at 03:47

I'm sorry. I didn't clariffy what I meant , I wasn't specific, but I don't want to type it in right now, I just finnishe four hours of tyoing an English Essay and don't feel like doing more. I'm sorry:oops

thylacine - 9/3/04 at 13:54

quote: "She won't shut up about how awesome Jesus is and how evil gays are. I'm so ready to kill that girl.... "

Well... why did she sign up to enter a gay high school, then? Did she go just to cause trouble there?

CurlyyHairGirl - 9/3/04 at 14:40

She ahould keep her opinions too herself, tell her that for me would ya?:kiss

BamfChyck - 9/3/04 at 16:05

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Originally posted by Wolvertique
I can't think of one currently active religion that has ratified a marriage between a same sex couple,
--Unitarian Universalism. Paganism. Native American religion. Methodists. Just to name a few.


Just to clarify---there is no single Native American religion. But almost all of them honor the two spirited people among us and respect any caring union between consenting adults.

ELCA Lutherans, Congregationalists, United Church of Christ, and Episcopalians also bless same gender unions sometimes. It depends on the area, but I've been to them.

I was at a professional conference over the last four days and this marriage thing was a hot topic for debate. I tried to mostly stay out of it, because I wanted to enjoy myself and not fight, but I had quite a "discussion" with a man who I have known for years. I consider him a friend. In most ways, he is a good person.
I was patient and listened well, even when he said "f*gg*t," but when he used the phrase "ass-pounders" I lost it.
I terrifies me that someone with so little education about these things claims that it's a moral issue based on "faith," because I know there are tens of thousands of people who believe what he does. I asked, How can you know the love of Jesus and say what you said? He didn't have much of an answer....
Of course, he's a straight white man who doesn't even realize the privilege he has in this society, and I am his worst nightmare---an intelligent, educated queer woman of color. I try to see things from his perspective.

Yuck! What a headache.

So I'm glad I can come here and vent. Thanks.

Bamfette - 9/3/04 at 22:27

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Originally posted by CurlyyHairGirl
I'm sorry. I didn't clariffy what I meant , I wasn't specific, but I don't want to type it in right now, I just finnishe four hours of tyoing an English Essay and don't feel like doing more. I'm sorry:oops


it's cool, i know you didn't mean anything bad by it... just wanted to clarify....

CurlyyHairGirl - 9/3/04 at 23:34

I just got one of our high schools news papers, and there was afull two page article having to do with the government and religion. It was about the government and morality, and one of the sub categories*which was about 2/3 of the whole article* was theis one chick just trashing homosexuals and how they were all going to be condemned by god because it was the devils work. I'll type in some of the artcle later. I don't think that people should share those kind of veiw in a school news paper, never know who the readers are, one of my teachers wants to sue because the content was uppsetting alot of the students and it brought out some very ugly fights between some of the really religious student and the people who support same sex marriages. That's California for ya, and yes, I am dissing my own state.

Gaz - 10/3/04 at 00:12

Goddam homophobes. I cannot stand them. Hating gays is no different than hating blacks or Jews or anything. It is exactly the same. It is all based on hate, no matter who it is directed to. Why can't we all just love each other?

Warbird - 10/3/04 at 01:41

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Originally posted by Gaz
Goddam homophobes. I cannot stand them. Hating gays is no different than hating blacks or Jews or anything. It is exactly the same. It is all based on hate, no matter who it is directed to. Why can't we all just love each other?


My senitiments exactly. Hate = Racism = Predjudice = intolerence = segrigation =Hate = Racism =Predjudice = .... Nasty little cycle isn't it?

And when I use recism, I use it to describe racism of all types. Race refering to any specific group of people ( ie, nationality, color, religion, sexual orientation, ect) rather than a strictly anthropolic word.

Short little rant... People act like racism is only whites hating blacks. I think that this thread can be used as proof to the contrary. Humans are a clan species that group together and dissassociate from those who are different. It's nature, people will hate over almost anything. Also, anthrolopogists have found more differences within the traditional concepts of the "races" than between them. As a result, race can be used to indicate any specific group of people sharing qualities, as I was above. I'm not nuts, just taking the path less followed.

CurlyyHairGirl - 10/3/04 at 03:47

I HATE it when people trash others just cause they are different. I'll type it up tomorrow afternoon. I hope that one day people will just be able to except each other.

Lauren - 10/3/04 at 03:55

the only way that will ever happen is when people turn gray and act the same. It seems like it's the only way people will accept one another. It's sad.

Gaz - 10/3/04 at 04:04

It is sad, because so many people don't know the extent of the rascism and homophobia that occurs. Even saying 'God that's gay' about something is homophobic because it is using the word 'gay' as a negative adjective.

I'm white, and during middle school, I experienced a ton of racial prejudace toward myself. I went to a 40% African, 50% white, 10% other race school. I as made fun of at the school for being white and not being cool or listening to rap and R&B music. I am not at all saying that all Africans do this in any way, I'm just saying that the prejudice is not always coming from caucasians.

CurlyyHairGirl - 10/3/04 at 04:06

True, but we can only pray, wish and hope. SO, I think I will pray for the world, and if we all end up dead in some catastrophe, I'll pray it be fast.

WHOA sorry GAZ you replied while I was typing, this was meant to be ater the post above yours, so don't get confused

thylacine - 10/3/04 at 13:37

Quote: "Of course, he's a straight white man who doesn't even realize the privilege he has in this society, and I am his worst nightmare---an intelligent, educated queer woman of color."

Hey, I have enough problems in life being an intelligent, educated white woman! I am restoring an old Buick, and this little foreign guy came to do some repairs around the house the other day. He saw my Buick, "You are girl! Why you know so much about cars? You are girl!" American men don't have a problem with my car, they just can't stand the fact that I have a education and a mind of my own. I used to go out with this idiot who used to say stuff like, "You're gonna do what I say! And you're gonna marry me! You're gonna quit school and have babies and do what you're told." He married someone else, he's out of work, and he & mrs. idiot live in his parents' dumpy falling apart house... good!

CurlyyHairGirl - 10/3/04 at 16:29

Harsh, but he most likely deserves it. I have enough problems with guys telling me that my softball teams name is for guys *the Rangers*, but why does it matter ya know, we can call it whatever we d*mn well please.

Maelstrom - 10/3/04 at 16:42

Racism, sexism, and a host of other blind hatreds exist in part because they make the haters feel good about themselves. Isn't it wonderful to feel superior to someone? It doesn't matter how bad your life is, how much of a failure you may be, how your finances or your marriage may be in wreckage. You can point at that (insert insulting epithet here) and know with utter certainty that you are better.

Curly, where in California do you live? I know it's been a good fifteen years since I was in High School, but I just can't imagine any school paper allowing that kind of blatantly phobic drivel to be printed. Even letters to the editor get censored for that kind of ranting. Heads should be rolling in that journalism department. :shakeno

CurlyyHairGirl - 10/3/04 at 23:41

Heads should be rolling. I live in Santa Maria, Orcutt to be specific, it is a small section of Santa Maria *you know the place where the Jackson trials are?* The staff isn't much better than the students. WE DON'T EVEN HAVE A DRESS CODE, IT'S SO BAD. Education in California is going down the drain, including morals.

thylacine - 11/3/04 at 14:04

What, no dress code? That's no big deal. When I went to school, I was the only one not on drugs. And the staff was in such big denial about the drug issue. It was all drugs, violence, sex, attacks in the classroom... and the principal kept saying what a great bunch of kids they all were. I think they all totally s-cked! Even the so called nice kids were dopeheads!

CurlyyHairGirl - 11/3/04 at 23:22

It is pretty much the same except we have lock down drills and stuff like that because of students who might have guns and stuff like that. As for the Dress code, people can basicallyt walk around in a bra and a G-string and the school wouldn't care.

thylacine - 11/3/04 at 23:59

Walk around in a g-string??? Why that's awful! You guys have lock downs? Well... at least your school isn't in such awful denial about the problems. A lot of communities are in big denial that their little angels are doing dope!

CurlyyHairGirl - 12/3/04 at 00:29

Yeah well, I don't like my school very much or my state for that matter. As soon as I get out of high school I'M gonna go to an out of state college, move to either Alaska, Oregon, New York or Scotland.

Gaz - 12/3/04 at 06:25

Oregon! Woo! Come here. It's nice and good and gay marriage is legal. I love good old-fashion thinking for yourselfness. I'm so glad its legal here. All my friend's who have gay parents have gotten married in the past couple months.

Bamf Bunny - 13/3/04 at 05:59

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Originally posted by Gaz
All my friend's who have gay parents have gotten married in the past couple months.

Nice trick, since as of today they've been issuing licenses to same-sex couples for nine days.

Northstars Love - 13/3/04 at 06:13

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Originally posted by Bamf Bunny
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Originally posted by Gaz
All my friend's who have gay parents have gotten married in the past couple months.

Nice trick, since as of today they've been issuing licenses to same-sex couples for nine days.


I'm afraid that they will be illegal since most people don't want gay marriage based either on moral, religious, or just plain hate for gay people in general.

So sad. :cry

btw Bunny, Love your Bunny/Mags smilie. :D

CurlyyHairGirl - 13/3/04 at 07:40

I, personally, think that gay marriages should be legal. I like Oregon, got family there. I think I'll ask my parents if we can go visit them in Portland next year for Vacation, this year it's Las Vegas, been there 9 time already, it's getting boring.

thylacine - 15/3/04 at 03:06

Try Massachusetts! It used to be called the Bay State! Now they call it the "Gay State" because of gay marriage! There aren't many good jobs now, though! The economy is wrecked, just like the rest of the country!

CurlyyHairGirl - 15/3/04 at 07:04

HeeHee. I Have familt there too, maybe I will vist there!:LOLMy uncle has a good job I just can't rmember what it is.

thylacine - 17/3/04 at 06:01

Well... anyway... this was supposed to be a spiritual discussion with regard to Nightcrawler and all things spiritual... Anyway... anyone seen "Passion?" I heard it was violent.

Bamf Bunny - 17/3/04 at 07:08

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Originally posted by thylacine
Well... anyway... this was supposed to be a spiritual discussion with regard to Nightcrawler and all things spiritual... Anyway... anyone seen "Passion?"

It's already being discussed in another thread.

Crash Tofu - 17/3/04 at 07:54

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Originally posted by thylacine
Try Massachusetts! It used to be called the Bay State! Now they call it the "Gay State" because of gay marriage! There aren't many good jobs now, though! The economy is wrecked, just like the rest of the country!
Who is "they"?

CurlyyHairGirl - 17/3/04 at 08:01

I think "they" is just another wording for people in general?

BamfChyck - 17/3/04 at 21:25

Okay--how's this for a religious subject?

What do you think Kurt's favorite book of the bible is, and why? Old or new testament, or one of each.
Just to simplify things, let's leave out the Apocrypha and such for now.

Also, what translation of the bible do you think is Kurt's favorite? I don't even know what the Catholic Church officially uses, but I bet one of you does.

I think, for the old testement:
he probably likes the Psalms, becasue of the range of emotion they cover, or Job, because of the complex imagery and the message.
for the new testement: Paul's letter to the Phillipians, because of its grace, joy and affection.

I would like to think Kurt would use The Inclusive Bible (from the Priests for Equality), but I think Kurt probably would like an annotated copy of the New Jerusalem or Oxford bible.
But whichever, it's probably in German.

CurlyyHairGirl - 17/3/04 at 22:58

I think they use Latin, is that rifht? I think he most likely would like everything in the bible or whatever you said. I know I'm catholic but I don't read the Bible very much any more. But yeah, I really can't say what part of the Bible he likes, cause I really don't know.

thylacine - 18/3/04 at 03:36

"They" means people in the news media... ! (The Boston Globe, for instance.)


I also don't know what books of the Bible he would like? In the X2 movie, he seemed to be the type of Catholic to admire stories about the saints & the rosary & etc.

Maybe if Kurt were a "real" person, he would start a religious ministry for mutants? I think he would go for that, when he's not working as an X-Man.

CurlyyHairGirl - 18/3/04 at 07:19

Thanks for clarification. Yeah, that would be cool. Ya never know. He just may do that...someday.

Warbird - 18/3/04 at 09:45

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Originally posted by CurlyyHairGirl
I think they use Latin, is that rifht? I think he most likely would like everything in the bible or whatever you said. I know I'm catholic but I don't read the Bible very much any more. But yeah, I really can't say what part of the Bible he likes, cause I really don't know.


The Catholic church hasn't used Latin for quite a while, not even in Italy. And that was only for mass for even longer before that. The bible was translated so that it could really be understood in every day study by Catholics.

As soon as I read the question I immideately thought of the book of psalms. Not only are they emotional, they're absolutely beautiful. Thier poetic nature is what makes them easily memorized and converted into song. I think that would really appeal to kurt.

I'm actually not sure what the standard Catholic bible is. I think that there are quite a few used for study. I think the New American, Catholic edition is popular.

Lastly, did anyone read this weeks fantastic four? They meet God, who is an artist. He's drawing the world at an illustrators table, creating the situations in teh world as he goes, along with his "collaborator". I thought it was an interesting spin.

thylacine - 18/3/04 at 20:51

I do not read Fantastic Four, but that would be a cool story, wouldn't it?

CurlyyHairGirl - 18/3/04 at 22:51

I don't read it either, sorry.

I'm not sure which version or book of the Bible is popular, alot of people just chose the one that works for them and whatever church they are going to...well...at least in my town.

thylacine - 19/3/04 at 05:57

I like stories about the saints... I recently read this one about Mary of Egypt... Here goes... she was a hooker in ancient Egypt but saw some Christians going on a pilgrimage and joined them. On the pilgrimage she heard the Blessed Virgin say to cross the river Jordan so she could find peace. She went out to the desert and became a hermit. There was a monk out there too who visited her sometimes. She lived there for many years and died of old age. The monk found her dead but she had written a note in the sand before she died, 'bury Mary where you find her.' He was too old to dig a hole, so a lion came out of nowhere and dug a hole with his paws and pushed her in the hole with his nose. She is known as the saint who was buried by a lion. Cool huh? Probably not true... but! FUN tale.

CurlyyHairGirl - 19/3/04 at 08:03

I think I read that one a while back, I don't remember...UH..:urg:shrug

thylacine - 23/3/04 at 08:39

Then there was St. Catherine who was... according to the tale... a beautiful blonde maiden also known to be an intellectual of her time... A cruel and wicked despot wanted to marry her but she refused. So he built this giant wheel with spikes in it so he could toss her in and turn the wheel and listen to her screams... but everytime he tried to have her tossed in the darn thing broke down. So they said it was a miracle. So he beheaded her instead... !!!

The Drastic Spastic - 23/3/04 at 11:39

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Originally posted by thylacine
Then there was St. Catherine who was... according to the tale... a beautiful blonde maiden also known to be an intellectual of her time... A cruel and wicked despot wanted to marry her but she refused. So he built this giant wheel with spikes in it so he could toss her in and turn the wheel and listen to her screams... but everytime he tried to have her tossed in the darn thing broke down. So they said it was a miracle. So he beheaded her instead... !!!


:rolleyes A miracle? So if someone's car breaks down, it means God doesn't want them to drive? That Catherine is just lucky WD-40 hadn't been invented yet. Or not, since she died anyway.

CurlyyHairGirl - 23/3/04 at 11:43

EEEEEWWWWW!! I am not in the mood to hear about decapitations. Has anyone read the Revolve version of the Bible? It's kinda new and was made to target teens, and it looks like a teen magazine, it is on the new testiment.

thylacine - 23/3/04 at 21:45

I read that someone also did a version of the Bible written in slang so people can understand... And Jesus said, "Like, you know, blessed are the poor."

CurlyyHairGirl - 23/3/04 at 22:35

I gotta read that one. I know that one had to have pissed someone off, huh. Interessting.:)

Maelstrom - 24/3/04 at 01:50

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Originally posted by thylacine
I read that someone also did a version of the Bible written in slang so people can understand... And Jesus said, "Like, you know, blessed are the poor."


Oh, dear Lord, tell me that's some sort of joke. :shocked

Translations from Aramaic to Greek to English and so on have always caused problems one way or another. But slang is a subsect of language that will do NOTHING but cause trouble.

For instance, that whole thing about "it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than a rich man to get into heaven"? It sounds like an absolute, since no way can a camel fit through a needle. But in Jerusalem there was (and I believe there still is) a very narrow gate called... you guessed it... The Eye of the Needle. It was too narrow for most livestock to go through, but it could be done in certain circumstances, if you were very cautious. But since that subreference has been lost through the ages, the statement went from "difficult, but possible" to "utterly impossible".

Considering how fast slang goes in and out of style, can you imagine what a "slang" bible would look like in a few years? Let alone a century or two. How many of us would be able to make heads or tails of Civil War era slang?

Imagine a slang bible from the 80s:

...And, like, God said His son was, like, totally tubular.... :yech

CurlyyHairGirl - 24/3/04 at 07:18

OR yo, says shizzle to the fizzay,and the wicked to un richee.

Some people talk that way at my school, imagine that in a bible.

Bamf Bunny - 24/3/04 at 07:42

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Originally posted by thylacine
I read that someone also did a version of the Bible written in slang so people can understand...

There've been several versions of the Bible in contemporary English, notably the Good News translation in the 60s, the Contemporary English Version in the 80s, and The Message in the 90s. (Links go to the first book of Genesis in each.)

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
"it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than a rich man to get into heaven"

"All things (e.g. a camel's journey through
A needle's eye) are possible, it's true.
But picture how the camel feels, squeezed out
In one long bloody thread from tail to snout." - C. S. Lewis

Warbird - 24/3/04 at 08:02

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Originally posted by The Drastic Spastic
:rolleyes A miracle? So if someone's car breaks down, it means God doesn't want them to drive? That Catherine is just lucky WD-40 hadn't been invented yet. Or not, since she died anyway.


I think that's exactly the moral of the story!! And if your power goes out and everything in your fridge rots (which happend to me after Hurricane Isabelle) he wants you to starve. It's completely logical.

Martyrs are allways depicted with the instrument of thier death. Can you immagine what it would look like if instead of her head, saint Catherine was holding a spiked wheel of doom?!? That's enough to make you not want to go to church anymore. Actually, so is Saint Barthalamew holding his skin... Catholic art is way F-ed up.

thylacine - 24/3/04 at 21:40

Actually St. Catherine has been depicted with both a sword and a wheel, one in each hand.

CurlyyHairGirl - 24/3/04 at 22:52

That scares me, I havent seen those and I'm thinkin' I don't want to.

Warbird - 25/3/04 at 05:38

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Originally posted by thylacine
Actually St. Catherine has been depicted with both a sword and a wheel, one in each hand.


Now that you mention it, I have seen that image. It just never realized what that wheel was (I admit that I'm not familiar with her story) and didn't make the connection when I read the prior post.. They usually like to make them as brutal as possible, so I assumed she would be holding her head in one hand and a sword in the other. Barthalamew usually has a skinning knife and his skin. It seemed logical.

thylacine - 25/3/04 at 14:48

This medieval painting that I saw was actually quite beautiful. She was standing with a sword in one hand, and a wheel in the other hand, and had this calm placid look on her face like nothing much happened at all... I guess that's why she's a saint. They tortured & beheaded her and she's got no worries! :LOL

Maelstrom - 25/3/04 at 16:52

Catholicism (both Roman and Orthodox) has a history of people engaging in "red martyrdom". Those who have been horribly, horribly tortured for their faith. This generally happened under occupation (the original pagan Romans, the Turks, etc.), but occasionally happened because some individual was just a complete dickweed and decided to rape/beat the crap out of some pious innocent.

I believe (and correct me on this if I'm wrong, everyone) that martyrdom is revered for several reasons. One, it's a link to the suffering Christ went through on the cross. Two, it shows that if you have belief and faith, you can weather anything. Hell, if St. Barthalamew can keep his faith while he's being flayed alive, then keeping your faith while you're going through an economic downturn should be a piece of cake, right? ;) And three, if you do wether adversity, keeping your faith to the end, then there is a reward for you. And, in this case, I consider "keeping the faith" to include keeping your sense of humor, your sense of love and trust, and a host of other positive things, instead of turning into a bitter nutball of a zealot who thinks "GOD HATES XXX" :smirk

A more current example of martyrdom and keeping your faith: I remembered hearing about people who survived the concentration camps (most statistically likely to be Jews), and that some of them had created some sort of "healing" house for those who had gone through the holocaust. One of the people who came there was one of the prison guards, who apparently could no longer live with what he had seen and done. The staff, who may well have recognized him on the "other side of the fence", welcomed him with open arms. In all likelyhood the staff had been martyred for their faith, brutalized and butchered because they were Jews. If not, if they were among the countless Poles, homosexuals, "Gypsies" (used as an umbrella for Rmani, Sinti, etc.), "enemies of the state", and others who got in the way of the Nazi machine. Regardless of this, they still forgave and cared for their torturers when the need arose. That's keeping ones faith.

thylacine - 25/3/04 at 23:44

That is very interesting about the prison guards & people of the holocaust. I never knew that.

I also have the personal opinion that one does not need to "martyr oneself" to be a true Christian, but I admire the courage of anyone that does. If the Romans were coming to toss me to the lions, I'd make myself scarce!

(This economic downturn is the worst we have seen in a long time!)

Maelstrom - 26/3/04 at 16:23

Remember that religion was a slightly different animal back in ancient times. Now, in the "age of reason", we have various scientific means to explain some of the world around us. We understand the theroies of physics, epidemics, internal medicine, meteorology, geology, and a host of other things that were originally seen as 100% controlled by the gods. Back then, your religion explained *everything* around you, from why your kid died of measels to why the tide rises and retreats. Now, science explains all that, and our religions are reserved for social interactions, allegorical teachings, and all manners of things strictly controlled by faith alone. If someone dies from a lightning strike, it may be seen as God's will that it happened at all, but it won't automatically be seen as God taking an active hand in it and smiting some non-believer.

Therefore, when the early Christians were tortured to death in Rome (made into human torches, fed to lions, used as target practice, etc.), they let themselves be killed to *prove* their loyalty to a God that took an active hand in things. They figured a few minutes, or hours, of pain was a worthwhile trade for guaranteed entry into heaven.

Also, and this is something a little hard to explain, death and suffering was *everywhere* back then. It's only been since the Victorian era (late 1700s) that the Western world sanitized everything to avoid death entirely. People often die in hospitals now, instead of home, and when they die their bodies are taken to a funeral parlor instead of back to their home to be displayed and mourned over. In years past, people commonly died in the streets, or their homes, their bodies seen by all. You saw dead animals everywhere, too. Death was common, your own mortality constantly reinforced, and the afterlife always on your mind. The spectre of their own death wouldn't phase a martyr in the least.

The word "martyr" tends to bring up all sorts of imagery. Nowadays, it's distressingly negative. It's generally used for two kinds of people: nutcases who blow innocent people up to make a political statement, and mopey, guilt-inducing, attention-demanding creeps who say things like, "Oh, no, don't mind me. You go on ahead. There's not enough room in the car for me, and I'm sure I'll see Disneyland someday...." :rolleyes

Traditionally, a martyr was someone who suffered, one way or another, without any gain in mind but the tempering and purification of his own soul. No sympathy from passers-by, no political or land gains. For this, there are three types: red, green, and white (this is best explained in the book How the Irish Saved Civilization, which is also a darned good read. :) )

Red martyrdom: This is the one we're most familiar with. These people have physically suffered, or were killed, for their beliefs. To spread the Gospel and prove their faith, early Christian martyrs would happily go to the lions in Rome.

Green and White martyrdoms: Here I've directly cut and pasted from an article on http://www.americancatholic.org/messenger/jun1998/wiseman.asp#F1 :

In the book How the Irish Saved Civilization (Doubleday), Thomas Cahill talks about both green and white martyrdom. According to Cahill, Ireland was unique in that Christianity was introduced there without bloodshed (red martyrdom). No Irish martyrs emerged until the time of Elizabeth I. Cahill states that this lack of martyrdom disturbed the Irish, so they conceived first of a green martyrdom.

Green martyrs left behind the comforts and pleasures of ordinary human society to live hermits' lives on mountaintops or lonely islands. As Cahill puts it, they went "to one of the green noman's lands outside tribal jurisdiction." There they studied Scripture and communed with God after the example of the anchorites in the Egyptian desert. Ireland could not duplicate the barren terrain of the Egyptian desert; thus, this green martyrdom gave way to the more social life of monasticism.

Against this background Cahill introduces Columcille ( "Dove of God" ); also called Columba or Crimthaann. Born in 521, a prince with a title to kingship, he chose to become a monk. By age 41 he had founded 41 monasteries. Because Columba was held responsible for the Battle of Cuil Dremmed in which 3,000 men died, he became an exile. As penance he set out to save the same number of people as died in the battle.

Columba, with 12 relatives, founded a monastery on Iona off the coast of Scotland that became famous throughout Europe. Monks from Iona in turn set out for what they called a white martyrdom: "[H]enceforth all who followed Columcille's lead were called to the white martyrdom, they who sailed into the white sky of morning, into the unknown, never to return."

Bamf Bunny - 26/3/04 at 17:02

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
It's only been since the Victorian era (late 1700s)

Queen Victoria reigned from 1839 to 1901. She was born in 1819.

thylacine - 26/3/04 at 17:09

That is interesting. I have seen the book, but never had a chance to read it. I heard it was excellent.

Maelstrom - 26/3/04 at 19:10

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Originally posted by Bamf Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Maelstrom
It's only been since the Victorian era (late 1700s)

Queen Victoria reigned from 1839 to 1901. She was born in 1819.


Damn! Why do I keep getting that one date wrong? :doh! For some reason, I keep thinking it started in the 1790s instead of the 1890s.... Thanks for the correction, BB.

CurlyyHairGirl - 27/3/04 at 03:20

Oh, about the people who were put in concentration camps, along w/gypsy's and jews they also put Jahovah's witnesses habitual criminal and a lot of others, they would deport them and give them badges; yellow for Jews along with another color(the badges were an upturned triangle)Black was for antisocial,Pink for homosexuals, red for political, green for habitual criminals, brown for gypsys, blue for something i can't think about right now, and violet for Jahovah's witness. For the Jews, the would create a badge with 2 colors, the bottom is yellow with a righted triangl and on top of that they would put another color*exmple: pink on yellow would indicate that the prisoner was a homosexual Jew* the two were put together to form the star of david.

Just a tidbit. We are working on a project in our history class on the holocaust, this was part of my groups. There were also MANY Catholic churches and convents and places like that , that gladly took on Jews and others targeted by the Nazis in and hid them for safety, children were the easiest to hide 'cause they were small.

thylacine - 29/3/04 at 21:11

People have a great capacity for evil. The Holocaust is totally sick. People who do things like that to other people are sick-sick-sick-sick... and you know what else? They are SICK!!!

Maelstrom - 29/3/04 at 22:26

Like I said: humanity defines itself by its enemies. A negative is an affirmation of what you are not, and lets you project everything you despise onto a "safe" target. By destroying that target, you have a "legitimate" way of attacking what you hate in yourself. It's the very idea of a scape goat.

Originally, when things got really bad, the shamans would dress up a goat, load it down with the evil luck that was plaguing the villiage, and let it loose out on the countryside, where supposedly all the bad luck would follow. In this manner, the scapegoat was very much a sacrifice. Its loss would eliminate the bad luck (or sins) of the community. In other cultures, the animal would be killed instead, but it was still done with the same goal of appeasing some higher power. And I think we're all rather familiar with the concept of a lamb being sacrificed to wash all our sins away... :whistle

CurlyyHairGirl - 29/3/04 at 23:23

If anyone would like to check out my teachers site, it has tons on the Holocaust and all that jazz, and links to other sites.

it is:
http://www.smjuhsd.k12.ca.us/~cgreeley/

I use this site alot sometimes.

thylacine - 30/3/04 at 16:56

Quote: "By destroying that target, you have a "legitimate" way of attacking what you hate in yourself. It's the very idea of a scape goat."

It sounds like a school yard, doesn't it?

Maelstrom - 30/3/04 at 17:31

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Originally posted by thylacine
Quote: "By destroying that target, you have a "legitimate" way of attacking what you hate in yourself. It's the very idea of a scape goat."

It sounds like a school yard, doesn't it?


Sadly... yes. It does. And it is. :(

The idea of having something else take the blame for your misdeeds, without any contrition or will to change on your part, is an incredibly immature and selfish thing. That's why a modern-day scapegoat is an object of pity and compassion: it means someone has been royally screwed and blamed for stuff they didn't do.

Christianity took a different tact with the concept. Yes, we had a sacrificial lamb to take the blame for literally everything we've done. In return, we got a clean slate, absolution, and a "get out of Hell free" card.

BUT....

There's a catch, here. This is where the "traditional" scapegoat idea takes an interesting, and more mature, turn. The Lamb wasn't just a farm animal you killed to even the score. The Lamb was someone you identified with. He was a being who made a conscious decision to do this, without our asking, and therefore you owe Him. With this one difference, we've got an incredible leap from "I'll just blame someone else, have him pay, and keep going on like before" to "Oh, man, this was my fault, and someone else suffered; I can't do this anymore." It's a measure of maturity. From serving our own needs and only being annoyed that we got caught, to 1) realizing there are others who pay for our mistakes, 2) feeling an empathic bond with others that overrides our own sense of self, and 3) taking steps to rectify the situation, even if it's inconvenient or painful for us.

An immature asshole will stand you up for a date, and when you confront him later he'll shrug or laugh and say, "Sorry, dude, I really got caught up with this cool videogame." Someone who's mature will at the very least call you to apologize for running late. A true gentlemen will go out of his way to get to you, even if he gets a flat on the road, gets splashed with mud in the pouring rain, and his cell-phone goes on the blink.

What's the difference between a flake and a gentlemen? It isn't age, breeding, status, wealth, or anything external. It's the same thing that makes someone a "good" Christian, Muslim, Jew, Hindu, or whatever faith they believe. It's a sense of responsibility, empathy, and the willingness to put others above self.

Have you ever wondered why gang cultures, hate groups, and so on seem like such immature schoolyard bullies? Why do they act like such spoiled bratlings? It all goes together. To create a scapegoat is the ultimate in irresponsible, immature behavior. It's not only refusing to admit to your own flaws, but gleefully putting the blame on something (or someone) else when caught, therefore avoiding any repercussions from your own actions. It also requires an utter lack of empathy, which is the glue that binds any society together, from humans to meercats.

I'll never be able to go along with the fire-and-brimstone section of Christianity, which constantly screams that we're all horrible, horrible sinners! Guilty for life! Guilt guilt guilt guilt! Feel ashamed for absolutely everything, you lousy piece of filth! He died for you, and you can never be worth it or repay the debt! That's going too far in the other direction. It's one thing to recognize that you're human and fallable, just like everyone else, and that you should strive to overcome this frailty. It's another to believe (or have forced upon you) that you're utterly worthless at all times. :rolleyes

CurlyyHairGirl - 31/3/04 at 03:54

I don't go for that either. There is no way in any world that a person can be totaly and utterly innocent of sins. Some people go as far a telling you that because you sin you go to hell, then I guess I'll meet them there 'cause eveyone sins, even the pope.

thylacine - 31/3/04 at 17:28

I think you need to do something really bad to go to hell... like being Jeffrey Dahmer... not little stuff like cheating on your taxes. That's something for the IRS to worry about, not God!

Gaz - 31/3/04 at 18:04

Or hit a dog and right in front of the owner and then drive away. That's what happened to our family-friend's dog yesterday :bawl
That dog was so sweet. He just drove up, killed it, and left. That dog also happened to be my doggy's dad. A father and husband. I usually don't hate people that I don't know, but I hope that person who killed Buster goes to hell :bawl

Maelstrom - 31/3/04 at 18:23

Hell is such a subjective thing. I've seen some wonderful versions of it:

An episode of the Simpsons where Disco Stu sees a vision Heaven as an all-night disco. Also there is a rather glum and very out-of-place Frank Sinatra, who claims this is Hell for him.

A short story (or TV show, unsure which) about a nasty biker who goes to Hell. But Hell for him has nothing to do with demons and boiling pitch, which he thought was cool.... No, old Scratch turned him into an 8 year old kid and placed him in a 1950s era front room, watching his parents' slide shows for all eternity... :evil

A far side cartoon, where a devil is ushering someone into a classroom with a smiling nun. The devil's words are to the effect of, "Believe it or not, this is Sister Guido's version of Heaven...."


The formation of Hell (or, should I say, our understanding of it) has always been a bit of a mystery to me. In the Old Testament it's barely mentioned at all. (The same goes for Satan. The Book of Job seems to be the Devil's main apperance there.) You've got sheol, which seems to be both hell and the afterlife. Apparently, the earlier Semites didn't believe in an afterlife, and when you died that was it. I guess your disembodied soul was kind of stuck somewhere dark and creepy. I wonder if, when Christianity and "eternal life" came around, the ideas of sheol blended with visions of the afterlife already common in other cultures? Thereby splitting into our more commonly accepted visions of Heaven and Hell? :scratch

Paranoid delusionaries like Jack Chick would have us believe that "everyone's already going to Hell; only belief in Our Lord and Savior will get you off that one-way road." But I just can't reconcile the idea of an all-merciful and loving God with someone who would gleefully send 99.9% of humanity to eternal torment. Sure, there's a lot of statements in the New Testament that could be taken that way, but only if you twisted them out of shape and removed them from all context.

Case in point: "I am the light and the life. No one comes to the Father but through me."

Sounds pretty inflammatory, doesn't it? "If you dont believe in me, you're not getting to heaven." But when approached in a less literal way, it means if you don't follow His tenents, you're not getting there. And what are the tenets of Christianity? The usual stuff about not stealing, loving your neighbors, parents, and enemies, helping the poor... :scratch Hmmm, where have I heard this stuff before? Maybe from the mouths of every religion in the world? And every philosopher, whether they believe in a God or not?

My view of Hell is a place of self-imposed isolation. When you repeatedly act in a selfish manner, distancing yourself from God, then when you die, the closer proximity to Him will feel like a horrible, burning flame. You could be standing right next to another guy who led a decent life, and is perfectly happy being so close to God. But you, the unrepentant, selfish creep, are so damned miserable that you're isolated among all these happy people.

Gaz - 31/3/04 at 20:39

Though I don't believe in heaven or hell, i've always imagined that hell would be a combination of everything that one person hates, and heaven is a combination of everything they love. Like each person has their own personal hell and heaven. But I don't put much thought into the stuff I don't actually believe in so that's all I really have...

The Drastic Spastic - 31/3/04 at 23:56

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
He was a being who made a conscious decision to do this, without our asking, and therefore you owe Him.


In other words, Jesus paid for our sins, now let's get our money's worth. :D

CurlyyHairGirl - 31/3/04 at 23:57

I don't believe in Heaven or Hell either, even though I was raised to, I've devoloped my own beliefs, not what others say they should be. I believe that when you die, you just die, as far as I know we are in a living Hell as it is. I can't picture nor imagine a heaven or hell. I am a scientific thinker most of the time.

I don't believe that people have the right to tell others how to live their lives, esp. the Church. People have their own views on life and should stick to it if they truely believe in it.

thylacine - 5/4/04 at 16:34

I am a scientific thinker too and I respect that other people have a right to believe what they want... but this is how I see this afterlife thing. I believe in an afterlife because there has to be something beyond this material world, and I think most people make it to Heaven, but if you were really evil like Ted Bundy, then there is a place for you to go!!!:LOL

Maelstrom - 5/4/04 at 20:31

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Originally posted by CurlyyHairGirl
I don't believe that people have the right to tell others how to live their lives, esp. the Church. People have their own views on life and should stick to it if they truely believe in it.


It should be that a church only runs your life if you let it. Sadly, that is rarely the case. Religion and government have gone hand in hand since the Neolithic Age. Religions were the basis for governments, in fact. The reason the Christians got the short stick (or long bonfire) in Rome was not because they didn't believe in Jupiter, Mars, etc. After all, Rome didn't make bonfires out of Hindus, Egyptians, and so on. But when Christians refues to sacrifice to the Roman pantheon, or to the current emperor, it was considered a form of treason. Religion was so wound up in their government that if you didn't at least acknowledge the gods, it was treason. It would upset the entire society.

The USA was one of the first experiments in chuch-state separations. Or, should I say, one of the first successful experiments. We've lasted for over 200 years now. That's a good track record.

shakspear - 5/4/04 at 23:58

I found this thread to be very interesting....
No matter what section of a country anyone lives in...
"Or maybe you get a lot of that where you live? Is is like in the South, or something? "
Or what people believe that is their personal belief.
I was raised Southern Baptist, attended at Catholic church when we moved to the South...heh and then for years didn't even go to church. I have a 15 year relationship with a Catholic and together we have a beautiful 11 year old daughter. I accepted Christ as my PERSONAL Savior and it is as Northstarluver said earlier...a Personal relationship between God the Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit, and the believer. Everything else is just man made and can be corrupted.
When people like JW or Mormons come to my door, I simply and politely tell them to have a nice day and then close the door. I do believe that there is a place called Hell-it is known as Graduate School!
:p:p:p:p:D

CurlyyHairGirl - 6/4/04 at 02:29

I'm from the west side, central coast (CA), not to many people I know go overbard with religion though, only some.

Maelstrom - 6/4/04 at 04:34

In my personal experience, fanaticism, especially religious fanaticism, requires ignorance to breed. You may find those who lead the fanatics may have an education and worldy knowledge, but the vast bulk of their followers are "the great unwashed", often with substantially lower education, experience, and social standing than what is considered "normal" for the area or nation at large.

In fact, ignorance is vital to the formation of a fanatic. Because if you start seeing the rest of the world, and realizing that different does not always equal evil, then you're not much of a fanatic, are you? ;)

In hotbeds such as the Middle East, where they've been trying to wipe each other out for thousands of years, and the Balkan States, where the Christian-Muslim hate has been going on for centuries, it's easy to find fanatics. They're everywhere. They're molded by their societies, they're reinforced by sporatic conflict, and they're lead by a charismatic, educated leader. It's almost always the same, a cult of personality built around a figure of power. Religious fanaticism is precisely the same way. Sects will spring up based not off of the religous texts, but off of the man who interprets them (and, generally, in a manner others of his religion would see as heretical, if not blasphemous).

Where religious fanaticism takes a turn for the especially nasty is in willingness to die for a cause. Oh, sure, every fanatic will hapilly lay down his life, but a religious fanatic cannot be stopped by any force on this Earth, short of his death. If God has told you to do something, what could possibly convince you otherwise?

And if you had any education, if you had the right information and weren't kept in the dark, you would take a look at your religion and realize the very God you're willing to die for also forbids the very action you're proposing, whether it's suicide bombings, shooting doctors, or screaming hacial hatred and separation in His name. If you thought about it at all, you'd say no. And people who think for themselves aren't exactly easy to mold that way, to seduce with stuff that may sound reasonable, but isn't quite right.

As it is in the dictator's best interest to keep his subjects ignorant and in the dark, so it is in the religious demagogue's best interest to only give part of the story, ignoring parts of the holy texts which are "inconvenient".

NWKurt - 6/4/04 at 06:40

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Originally posted by Gaz
Though I don't believe in heaven or hell, i've always imagined that hell would be a combination of everything that one person hates, and heaven is a combination of everything they love. Like each person has their own personal hell and heaven.


If you have ever seen the movie "What Dreams May Come" with Robin Williams, this can sum up everything you are stating Gaz. It was a real mind opener for me. I believe that there is much more to the story than first meets the eye when you see it. It is a movie that will have you asking questions long after you've seen it. Good in my book!

If you haven't seen it, watch it with an open mind, I recommend it.:)

K

thylacine - 6/4/04 at 13:36

My uncle became a Jehovah's Witness and it has totally taken over his life. I don't care what other people want to believe in general, but since then he has abandoned us and treats us like we are strangers. I could describe him as a fanatic (and yes, you are right, fanatics have a low level of education) and he believes everything they tell him without questioning any of it for himself. It really hurts to see him this way. You guys have no idea how much it hurts to see him lost.

tarface - 6/4/04 at 18:24

I can't believe I missed this us Catholics get all the crap, nice to see that Kurt is helping reverse that :D as for fanatics theres devout and then theres foaming at the mouth :/

Anyway nice discussion lasting 19 pages wow! :) with minimal backbiting, when I saw this I was expecting it to beome a landmine field. Monty Python's the Life of Brian also pokes fun at religion in a nice way. Who could forget the mob of people screaming: Follow the shoe! :D classic
any body else heard of Father Ted? Also pokes fun at Catholics :p

CurlyyHairGirl - 6/4/04 at 22:39

My sister told me about it, but I have never actually seen it, sound funny though.

tarface - 6/4/04 at 23:20

It is :D you have a choice between three quite strange priests: Theres Father Ted the loser who tries constantly to get off the tiny crap island where he lives, theres the naive Father Dougal very sweet but slow, and theres my personal favourite Father Jack :D the filthy mouthed alcohol-mad one who is fond of shouting ''feck!'' ''arse!'' ''gurls!'' and ''knickers!'' He says little else. :p

TelegramSam - 7/4/04 at 00:15

It's been a while since I've peeked into this thread. I haven't read everything, but I will say this: The bible is pretty clear on the fact that accepting the sacrifice of Jesus Christ as atonement for your sins is the only way to enter heaven.

In regards to hell, well as best as I can understand it, it's something like this: God isn't going to force you to love Him. If you clearly don't want anything to do with Him, ultimately He will put you away from Him, as you wish. That is Hell. That is ALL that Hell is. There's no fire or brimstone or little imps in red tights poking you in the ass with a pitchfork. Hell, by definition, is simply utter and final separation from God. Nothing more, nothing less. And if you don't want God, he won't make you hang around Him. There is "Hell" and there is an all-loving God.

tarface - 7/4/04 at 00:51

I'd say that you send yourself to hell. Hell is more of a psychological thing to me, a good example of hell is in the French play Huis Clos now that is true pyschological hell as a character says: Hell is other people, who needs weapons of torture, fire and brimstone, when the worst cruelty you can experience comes from other people.

thylacine - 7/4/04 at 12:38

Quote: "Hell is other people, who needs weapons of torture, fire and brimstone, when the worst cruelty you can experience comes from other people." Sadly, that is so very true.

shakspear - 7/4/04 at 20:13

Hell, by a Biblical definition, is simply and total absolute separation in every way, shape, and form from God, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. That is what Hell is.

CurlyyHairGirl - 9/4/04 at 03:14

I agree with that, then again, you haven't been in my french or history class.

thylacine - 9/4/04 at 12:43

Yeah? How about my litigation class? Now that, my friends, is pure hell! :LOL

shakspear - 9/4/04 at 23:26

As my favorite writer <check siggy> once wrote: (paraphrasing here) "Kill all the lawyers!" Start over.:p

CurlyyHairGirl - 10/4/04 at 06:04

Hey? Does AoA Kurt have a religion, or is he all "all is war and love and more" or is it "all is war with blood and gore"?

Bamf Bunny - 10/4/04 at 13:46

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Originally posted by CurlyyHairGirl
Does AoA Kurt have a religion

He's put off by Christianity in particular - he resents meeting in an abandoned church due to something unspecified that happened to him as a child.

CurlyyHairGirl - 11/4/04 at 02:52

I didn't know, danke! I love AoA Kurt for some odd reason and I wanted to know more about him, esp. if 'e had a religion.

thylacine - 12/4/04 at 14:23

Quote: "I can't believe I missed this us Catholics get all the crap, nice to see that Kurt is helping reverse that ." Yes, that is right! I agree with you! The Catholic Church's leadership is rotten right now, but why should Catholic people, the majority of whom are decent, be the focus of so much prejudice these days? It's enough to make you feel like a mutant! :)

And don't kill all the lawyers! How am I gonna get a job out of paralegal school?

CurlyyHairGirl - 12/4/04 at 16:03

My mom doesn't even bother taking us to church anymore, mostly because the church we went to keeps changing the way it is being ran, it has been going down hill for years, so I think she wants to switch to a different church.

Easter celebration: or, "Christ gives Satan the finger"

Maelstrom - 12/4/04 at 17:51

Since there are so many of us of different theological persuasions on this thread, I thought it would be interesting to you if I related what an Orthodox Christian Easter celebration (also called Pascha) is like. I realized that the rituals used vary so much from sect to sect, we likely have no idea how another group celebrates the Resurrection.

First thing... Orthodox services start at 11:30pm Saturday night, and end sometime about 2 or 3am. We don't do midnight mass for Christmas, but we do for Easter. The younger children are brought to church in their PJs, with sleeping bags and pillows. Hell even the adults can have a hard time staying awake through this. ;) My first celebration, last year, I was falling asleep halfway through. :yawn Add to this the fact that there are candles involved, and life can get interesting. :shocked

A fair percentage of the first half hour is spent in near absolute darkness. We have candles, but they aren't lit yet. There is just enough light for the priest to see by the altar. Those of us in the choir had to use little LED lights to read our music. At the end of this half hour, near midnight, all the candles are lit, and there's a candlelit procession outside and around the church. The entire church is involved in the procession: only one person stays behind in the church (more about him later). When we get back to the entrance, the priest pounds on the closed door three times. The guy left inside asks who it is, and here the priest acts in the symbolic role of Christ, demanding to be allowed entry. This is repeated once, and then the door is opened, and everyone enters into a fully-lit church. And so we have the symbolic reenactment of His going down into Hell and freeing everyone who'd been stuck down there since Adam and Eve.

The next two some-odd hours are filled with liturgy that constantly reinforces the fact that He has risen from the grave. The actual chant is "Christ has risen from the dead, trampling down death by death, and upon those in the tombs restoring life." Many times, the priest will "interrupt" his own service, walking up and down the aisle and shouting "Christ is risen!". The congregation responds with "Indeed He is risen!". This is done in several different languages, each one (and the correct response) printed on a small sheet you're given. This symbolizes the fact that the Resurrection touches the entire world. (This can sometimes be a bit difficult to follow.:smirk While most of us know the Greek call and response, it's harder to do this in Arabic or German. The end result being that there's a big response for English and Greek, and a more muddled response for all the others.:LOL) Aside from the constant focus on the Resurrection, and the fact that Hell got thoroughly pissed off, screwed over, and torn down when He went down to pay a social call :naughty, another notable difference between the Pascha liturgy and that of the regular Sabbath is the fact that there is no homily (sermon). The gospel is read, but for once it is not "explained" per say.

What I found the most impressive about the Orthodox service, as opposed to the Protestant ones I had attended in the past, is the participation and energy. The Presbyterian church I had gone to in my youth seemed very passive. You had the choir singing, you had a sermon, and there was a lot of life, but it seemed to be focused entirely in the pulpit and in the singing loft. The rest of the laity, while happy, was just passively receiving it all. (I imagine in a Baptist ceremony, where the whole congregation often joins in, this wouldn't be the case, but I digress. ;) ) In the Orthodox service, even though there's repetition on a grand scale (I lost track of how many times we heard and chanted Christ is Risen!), it serves to heighten the Earth-and-Heaven-shaking significance and joy of the Resurrection. Also, and for me this is very important, the Orthodox method of celebrating Easter placed it squarely as the most important religious holiday of the Christian calendar. On a strictly theological level, even as a pre-teen, I was always surprised at the cultural emphasis placed on Christmas, when Easter seemed like it should be the more important holiday. Yeah, sure, without His birth there could be no Resurrection, but the whole reason for His birth was the resurrection. Everything was leading to this, so He could wipe that slate clean. So why did it have to play second-fiddle to Christmas? (Which, coincidentally, wasn't even invented as a celebration until some time in the 4th century, while Passover/Pascha has always been celebrated without a break.)

I think it's probably because of its religious significance. It's one of the more "pure" religious holidays that we celebrate in the Christian culture, one which hasn't been overtaken by the secular aspect. There's more Easter decorations, candy, and bunny junk sold now than a generation ago, true, but it still doesn't hold a candle to the money pumped into Christmas lights, food, gifts, decorations, trees, trips, holiday parties, and so forth. Celebrating someone's brutal murder and resurrection isn't a cause for gift giving, while a birthday is.

The Drastic Spastic - 12/4/04 at 19:38

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Hell, by a Biblical definition, is simply and total absolute separation in every way, shape, and form from God, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. That is what Hell is.


So then biblical Hell is just oblivion. If God is everything, Hell would be nothing.

But to go to Heaven, you would have to give yourself up anyway. "Hell is other people", so to be perfectly happy everyone would have to give up what makes them a person, just to be able to get along perfectly with everyone else. So why not Hell?

Father Ted rocks!!!!!

Maelstrom - 12/4/04 at 20:36

:smirk I think you're closer to quoting "Black Adder". You know: the bit where he's been assigned the role as Bishop of Cantlebury or some damn fool thing, so that he can keep people from dying and leaving all their stuff to the church? Paraphrased:

Dying man: But I thought I needed to leave my wealth to the church to go to Heaven?

Black Adder: Weeellll, Heaven's not really all that it's cracked up to be. Heaven's fine for people who like playing harps, singing, talking to God. (evil grin) Hell's for people who like doing the other stuff.

Dying man: Really?

Black Adder: Oh, yes.

Dying man: *signs his property over to the king* Then I will leave my worldly wealth to the King, and may God damn me to Hell like the worthless wretch I am!

tarface - 12/4/04 at 21:00

yay! :D another Father Ted and Blackadder fan about the hell is other people comment, i meant that the characters in that play didn't live their lives according to what they wanted to be. They let themselves be defined by other people, now their hell is made all the more worse because they cannot exist without each other and define who they want to be. They are dependant on the others' existence, yet at the same time they will only cause each other misery for all eternity.

TelegramSam - 12/4/04 at 22:35

Father Ted is hilarious. Too bad I don't get BBC America anymore. I wish they'd release some region 1 DVDs of that show, I'd soooo buy it...

CurlyyHairGirl - 13/4/04 at 19:29

I get BBCA, but it is never on when I want to watch it.

We don't really do much for Easter in my family, we just have family visit and have a nice dinner together *huggles*

thylacine - 14/4/04 at 14:20

I think it's awful that in Boston Sean O'Malley won't let women participate in the "washing the feet" ritual anymore. Women have been in that for a long time, what is he trying to bring us back into the dark ages??? And the Vatican announced getting rid of altar girls too! I am so mad right now about that. This is so pre-Vatican 2 you guys. This is so backward. We need new leadership!!!

CurlyyHairGirl - 14/4/04 at 16:38

Why do people have to be so sexist? That is just wrong. We deserve to be treated as equals, man and woman.

thylacine - 15/4/04 at 13:00

I really don't understand it either. And another thing... why is the Catholic church in Boston making such a BIG ISSUE over this gay marriage thing? They just got over having their own problems, and now Sean O'Malley is encouraging this letter writing campaigan against politicians who vote for gay marriage... then he gets quoted in the Boston Globe as saying that all the problems in society are caused by liberals, feminists, and the Woodstock generation. Then he goes and closes down a third of all the churches in the area. What is up with this guy?

TelegramSam - 15/4/04 at 14:09

I'd say he has some serious personal issues.

Maybe a female hippie stole his wallet in the 60's...

CurlyyHairGirl - 15/4/04 at 15:44

Or maybe he has some serious psycological problems that he really needs to deal with, He should call Love Line, they'll talk to you about any problem, Dr. Drew has the answer for any problem and Adam Carolla is just there to bug drew and make a joke out of your problem, I love those guys:*)

Maelstrom - 15/4/04 at 18:54

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I really don't understand it either. And another thing... why is the Catholic church in Boston making such a BIG ISSUE over this gay marriage thing? They just got over having their own problems, and now Sean O'Malley is encouraging this letter writing campaigan against politicians who vote for gay marriage... then he gets quoted in the Boston Globe as saying that all the problems in society are caused by liberals, feminists, and the Woodstock generation. Then he goes and closes down a third of all the churches in the area. What is up with this guy?


Perhaps that's the point: to get people thinking about something else. Which immediate mental association would be less damaging to a diocese?

Boston = pedophile priests
Boston = overly-zealous Catholics

Three guesses as to which is more acceptable, and the first two don't count. :naughty

In all honesty, I haven't even heard of this new problem, somehow. I'll have to look it up so I can form a more coherent opinion on it. Right now, it looks like a diversion ploy.

thylacine - 15/4/04 at 21:42

It's like been in every Massachusetts parish lately, encouraging people to write their politicians to say no to gay marriage and gay this and gay that. Personally, from my point of view, I don't care that much about the issue either way. I just wanna come to church for an hour then go home. Why can't they talk about stuff from the New Testament like they used to? I am just so sick of the Boston Archdiocese being such a CIRCUS!!! Nightcrawler probably would love to go to church in Boston for that very reason... It's a circus and the leadership are a bunch of clowns!!!

TelegramSam - 15/4/04 at 23:23

Truly Biblically-based Christianity is a hard thing to find these days. It's too at-odds with modern western culture and most people are cowards.

Bamfette - 15/4/04 at 23:41

i don't think it's cowardly to believe something other than exactly what's in the bible if you think it's wrong, even if you only think it's wrong in parts, like the Old Testament.

besides, that's the problem with whatshisface in Boston. it IS biblically based, atleast to him. it may be based on a part of the bible that many people ocnsider to be severely out-dated, but... (not saying i agree with him, believe me)

the polarization on the same topic by people who share the same religion can be quite extreme. see here: http://www.livejournal.com/community/idcultureclash/38089.html

TelegramSam - 15/4/04 at 23:59

I really don't understand some people's obsession with telling everyone else how to run their lives.


Personally, I don't believe in the banning of homosexual marriage because I do believe in seperation of Church and State. Religion getting involved in the government isn't good for the government OR the church if history has anything to say on the matter. Also I personally believe in minding one's own damn business, and so long as gay people aren't harming anyone else, who cares?

meh...

CurlyyHairGirl - 16/4/04 at 00:55

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Personally, I don't believe in the banning of homosexual marriage because I do believe in seperation of Church and State.

Also I personally believe in minding one's own damn business, and so long as gay people aren't harming anyone else, who cares?

meh...
Exactly! I think that is the persons choice on whether or not they will get married w/same or opposite sex, not the gov's or the church's, and yes some people will object to my opinion, maybe not in here, but that is their opinion, and this is mine........GO HOMOSEXUALS!!!!!

Maelstrom - 16/4/04 at 01:07

Unfortunately, that's where things get really, really sticky. :urg A marriage is both a civil and religious ceremony.

Originally, the government was the religious order, period. The tribal shamans ran everything, then the priests when things really got going in places like Sumer. At first, priests ran things in Egypt to the point where they killed the old king when he got too feeble to rule. But after a few hundred years the king got more temporal power (probably due to a standing army at his side :smirk) and the priests had to slack off, replacing the human sacrifice with a "rebirth" ceremony (Heb Seb). Rome got a name as being the "most pious city" in the ancient world because there were so many religious ceremonies to perform, and these ceremonies went hand in hand with running everything.

As you can imagine, it was all too common for ancient Mediterranian priests to be bribed or otherwise corrupted in a "worldly" fashion, which was one of the reasons Judaism developed the ideas of chastity, charity, and at least a little bit of separation. The Christians took this even further, inventing the monastic, reserved life, which was supposed to remove you from all worldly temptations. But, even so, religious law ran things. Priests had as high a stature as kings, in some ways.

Marriage, one of every society's most fundamental ceremonies, had religious signifigance due to its primal importance. You *need* kids in your old age to support you. You *need* sons to inherit. (Daughters, regrettably, were less desirable... :rolleyes) And so getting married meant nothing less than survival and continuation of your people.

Now marriage has a slightly different significance. Our society has grown so complex, with financial, tax, and other rules, that the government has invented whole civil statues for married couples. It's no longer vital to your small tribe's survival that you have as many children as possible, and in America woman can inherit property, too. But the basis of it is still in religion, and a sacred vow to take care of your partner until their death. We have a layer of civil legistlation over what is a religious ceremony.

And now... get ready for the nasty, complex stuff. Because of its religious significance, the idea of same-sex marriage scares the holy shit out of the more conservative parishoners, and even gives the more liberal ones reason to pause. Conservatives we can understand, because they're convinced everyone but them is going to burn in hell anyways. But for the liberal authorities, it's not so much the idea of "legitimizing" homosexuality that worries them as the precedent it sets. If you can redefine an institution that has only allowed male-female bonds, in any culture, from the beginning of time (which in itself is a controversial view: just ask Bunny about documented same sex marriages in the Middle Ages;) ), then what's to stop polygamists from screaming "foul" when we refuse to let them marry four fifteen year old girls at once? And that's the mildest example I can think of.

In a way, they have a point with this. America has gotten so "sue happy" and overly sensitive to "political correctness" that people are willing to sue for the most absurd things, claiming them as God-given rights. For every honest man trying to make a point and change an injustice, there's a Fred Phelps harrasing everyone he can see and gumming up the legal system like sand in an engine.


An example, and I'm 100% serious about this: a friend of mine, who runs the fan club for the San Jose Stealth LaCrosse team, has been sued, along with Lockheed-Martin, Gilette, and everyone else who has used the word "Stealth" in a commercial sense, by a guy who claims to have copywrited the word. So the Stealth team, the Stealth Fighter, the Stealth Bomber, the Stealth rollercoaster, the Stealth razor, and everything else all belongs to him now. This is a "fishing" expedition, to be sure: he's trying to see how many big corporations he can blackmail into giving him a few grand to shut up, since it'll be cheaper for them to buy him out than to mount any legal defense, but the fact he's even doing it shows you how insane our legal system has become.

(And I'm not even going to go into what the Scientologists have been doing for with their army of lawyers the past 20 years.... :urg)

So on one hand we have dedicated couples, who have been together for many years, and just want the civil ability to take care of one another in old age. On the other we have the tenets of a popular religion that says "you can't do that; you're gay". And we have a government that is strongly influenced by the religious side, but is now starting to finally see that it isn't their job to dictate moral standards. All they can, and should, do is dictate sterile, legalistic, civil law. And, in a civil sense, there is no reason why a monomagous couple shouldn't be able to take care of each other in old age, so civil unions are starting to be bandied about. A civil union sidesteps any religious sense, but allows the same rights any heterosexual couple enjoys.

No, you're not really married, but at least you'll be able to take care of your lifelong partner.

It's the best they can do, and really the best they should do. If this is what has the Boston Diocese up in arms, the idea of civil unions, they have NO RIGHT to scream, any more than the government has the right to interfere in church doctrine. It's a civil matter, guys. Stay out.

CurlyyHairGirl - 16/4/04 at 04:47

Life is to freakin' complicated these days. I wish I could just forget the world ride my horse into the sunset and play the harmonika, livin' off the fat of the land without the gov interfearing with my life*this is truely my dream in life*:cowboy

thylacine - 16/4/04 at 12:53

In the Boston Globe today some cardinal was interrogating Candidate Kerry. I am mad at that too. How dare he tell a presidential candidate how to vote and how to think. No one should tell anyone how to think. The mind is the most intimate place a person has, and no one has the right to invade the privacy of your own mind by telling you how to think. Does the Boston Archdiocese think they can control America by controlling how the next president thinks? How dare they? That is so wrong. They have just no right to interfere with the political process whatsoever. They are threatening to excommunicate Kerry because he supports abortion. Personally, I don't believe in abortion. But to hold that over someone's head just because they think differently is extortion, pure and simple.

BamfChyck - 16/4/04 at 13:06

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No, you're not really married, but at least you'll be able to take care of your lifelong partner.

It's the best they can do, and really the best they should do. If this is what has the Boston Diocese up in arms, the idea of civil unions, they have NO RIGHT to scream, any more than the government has the right to interfere in church doctrine. It's a civil matter, guys. Stay out.


Thanks, Mael. You always have a way of putting things clearly and respectfully.

There's a lot that can be done to protect a same-gender union. Domestic partnership benefits are available in my area, to any couple (any gender combination) who registers for them, so my family is lucky that way. Of course, that's part of why we live here.
We also have the expensive all-but-married paperwork to protect us should one become incapacitated or a parent. There are books available so people can DIY it, but we went the lawyer route.

But I AM REALLY MARRIED!I was married in my church (well, technically outside in the garden, but that's because it wasn't raining that day) by our priest and we've got a certificate that recognizes us in the eyes of the Diocesan cannon law.
It was very important to me that we have a marriage, not just a blessing of our union. So we got it. It's available if you look around for it.

I'd like for my government to catch up and recognize the value of my family.

Bamf Bunny - 17/4/04 at 14:17

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A marriage is both a civil and religious ceremony.

A marriage can be both a civil and religious ceremony. Marriages by justices of the peace, Vegas Elvis weddings, and a lot of write-your-own vows aren't religious, but they still confer all the rights of marriage.

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If you can redefine an institution that has only allowed male-female bonds, in any culture, from the beginning of time


This is breathtakingly untrue, Amy. Since you've decided to dismiss the same-sex weddings performed by your own Greek Orthodox church - without a word of explanation - how about Aztec, Incan, Mayan, Mojave and Zuni same-sex marriage in what's now the US? Chuckchee same-sex marriage in Siberia? Chinese same-sex marriage during the Yuan and Ming dynasties? Igbo and Meru same-sex marriage in Nigeria? Roman same-sex marriage around the first-century? Japanese same-sex marriage under the Tokagawa dynasty?

In fact, when lawsuits challenging the constitutionality of marriage were filed in Hawaii a decade ago, the plaintiffs cited the Hawaiian consitution's stipulation of respect for native practices ... and the native Hawaiian tradition of mahus, who were men who married other men.

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what's to stop polygamists from screaming "foul" when we refuse to let them marry four fifteen year old girls at once?

Our long-standing legal principle that restricts most rights and privileges to consenting adults, perhaps?
But now I'm confused, Amy. You've already said that marriage is defined by what's come before in human history (or what you're willing to admit has come before ...) But polygamy, and child marriage, are also very widespread. By your own logic, you ought to be defending our hypothetical old Mormon.

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In a way, they have a point with this. America has gotten so "sue happy" and overly sensitive to "political correctness" that people are willing to sue for the most absurd things, claiming them as God-given rights.

The 14th Amendment of the United States Consitution, also called the Equal Protection Clause, prohibits states from denying any person within their jurisdiction the equal protection of the law. It prevents the states from extending rights to one class of people and not another, unless the states can show that the classification is necessary and shows a compelling interest.

Our courts have been very reluctant to forbid opposite-sex adults to marry. As the Supreme Court wrote in Loving v. Virginia, "Marriage is one of the 'basic civil rights of man' ..." Serial killers on death row can marry. Twenty-time divorcees can marry (and never mind that the Greek Orthodox church limits you to three marriage per lifetime tops; they don't have to perform weddings they don't approve of.) In general, any single man and single woman can marry each other if they care to.

The lawsuits about same-sex marriage today all come down to this same principle: marriage laws extend rights to one group but not another, without constitutionally defensible reasons. It doesn't matter what other societies have done before - if it did, we wouldn't have a Constitution in the first place; we'd have the kings that everyone else had before the founding of the United States.

Equal protection is one of the central foundations of U.S. law. I'm not sure I see your comparison between this and suing a fan club because you've tried to trademark a common word in their name.

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A civil union sidesteps any religious sense, but allows the same rights any heterosexual couple enjoys.

No civil union legislation currently proposed or existant in the United States does any such thing. They confer only a small subset of the rights given to married couples.

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It's the best they can do, and really the best they should do.

No. The founding principles of our country demand equal application of the law.

Crash Tofu - 17/4/04 at 22:07

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So on one hand we have dedicated couples, who have been together for many years, and just want the civil ability to take care of one another in old age. On the other we have the tenets of a popular religion that says "you can't do that; you're gay". And we have a government that is strongly influenced by the religious side, but is now starting to finally see that it isn't their job to dictate moral standards. All they can, and should, do is dictate sterile, legalistic, civil law. And, in a civil sense, there is no reason why a monomagous couple shouldn't be able to take care of each other in old age, so civil unions are starting to be bandied about. A civil union sidesteps any religious sense, but allows the same rights any heterosexual couple enjoys.
By this logic, EVERYONE should only be allowed civil unions from the government and marriage should be a wholly religious thing.

If they're not there to dictate "moral" standards, and homosexuality is not a criminal offense, then where it the validity to them preventing same-sex marriage?

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No, you're not really married, but at least you'll be able to take care of your lifelong partner.
"Separate but equal"? Funny how the equal part of that NEVER was true and NEVER will be in things like this.

Lauren - 18/4/04 at 03:41

In my school's GSA we were discussing this topic and our head guy George was saying that if Bush's law passes, it will be the second time that their will be legally second class citizens in America.

I'm glad we learn from history.

LadyErin - 18/4/04 at 04:00

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Unfortunately, that's where things get really, really sticky. :urg A marriage is both a civil and religious ceremony.


Not always. Some marriages are both, some are civil (see BB's exmples. Or an atheist couple. ), and some are religious (Polygamy, for instance, is recognized by some churches but banned by law. )

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Marriage, one of every society's most fundamental ceremonies, had religious signifigance due to its primal importance. You *need* kids in your old age to support you. You *need* sons to inherit. (Daughters, regrettably, were less desirable... :rolleyes) And so getting married meant nothing less than survival and continuation of your people.


Not in all people. My people are, traditionally, Matirocal and Matrilineal. Borderline between Egalitarian and Matriarchal even.

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But for the liberal authorities, it's not so much the idea of "legitimizing" homosexuality that worries them as the precedent it sets. If you can redefine an institution that has only allowed male-female bonds, in any culture, from the beginning of time (which in itself is a controversial view: just ask Bunny about documented same sex marriages in the Middle Ages;) ), then what's to stop polygamists from screaming "foul" when we refuse to let them marry four fifteen year old girls at once? And that's the mildest example I can think of.


Actually, there is not one traditional, universal standard.

There are many. Copy/Pasting my sociology notes here:

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No, you're not really married, but at least you'll be able to take care of your lifelong partner.


Not if the person needs medical care. Or a decision needs to be made about life support or organ donation. Or inheritance and property rights. Or the custody of children.

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It's a civil matter, guys. Stay out.


Right. Civil matter. God doesn't really have a place in it. Or rather, religion doesn't.

Maelstrom - 18/4/04 at 20:54

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A marriage can be both a civil and religious ceremony. Marriages by justices of the peace, Vegas Elvis weddings, and a lot of write-your-own vows aren't religious, but they still confer all the rights of marriage.


Hmm... I was under the impression that any "marriage" that wasn't done by an established religious figure (whether that's Christianity, Hindu, Native American, or whatever) was more properly termed a "civil union." I'm sorry if I was in error on that.

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This is breathtakingly untrue, Amy. Since you've decided to dismiss the same-sex weddings performed by your own Greek Orthodox church - without a word of explanation - how about Aztec, Incan, Mayan, Mojave and Zuni same-sex marriage in what's now the US? .... By your own logic, you ought to be defending our hypothetical old Mormon.


Bunny, I'm really sorry I didn't make myself clear on this. What I was trying to do was several things at once:

1) I was trying to say that the idea only heterosexual marraiges were ever performed is in itself a statement open to debate. I personally know of the same-sex marriages the RC church was supposed to have performed in the middle ages, and have no doubts that other cultures did the same thing. So the statement that "this has never happened" is controversial, and even untrue. In this, I think, we're in violent agreement. :oops

2) I was also trying to give the reasons why the more liberal parts of the established Christian order would object to the ceremony, as I had it described to me. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around it myself, and I had to "step out of my own mind" to try and explain it with any sense of clarity... and I don't think I did it that well.... :shame

And, personally, I'd be a lot more "vigorous" in "defending the sanctity of marriage" if the very people screaming the loudest weren't also the same people with a 50% divorce rate....

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Equal protection is one of the central foundations of U.S. law. I'm not sure I see your comparison between this and suing a fan club because you've tried to trademark a common word in their name.


In retrospect, that comparison did seem to belittle the cause, and for that I apologize. (This is what happens when I tackle a subject this complex... :doh!)What I was trying to do was show what an "overly sensitive" legal morass our system has become. And, no, I wasn't doing it with the implication that "suing for the right of gay couples to marry" was that kind of "overly sensitive" application. It's the fact that people take things into the court (or into the government itself) that should, by all rights, never have gone in there in the first place. When religous leaders request that their parishoners deliberately influence their statesmen with their narrow interpretation of a religious law, that is an example of taking things into court/ the government that should never have gone in there at all. And it seems to me that that is what the Boston Diocese is doing.... :(

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A civil union sidesteps any religious sense, but allows the same rights any heterosexual couple enjoys.

No civil union legislation currently proposed or existant in the United States does any such thing. They confer only a small subset of the rights given to married couples.


Marf? What? Aren't they supposed to give the same rights? I know that they're not (currently, at least) transferable across state lines, but aren't they designed to give the same tax, medical, inheritance, and other rights? Just without the ceremony?

Damn, Bunny! I honestly thought they were supposed to give the same things, and that lawmakers were working on the state-to-state thingy. Can you get back to me sometime and fill me in on that in more depth? Maybe give a link or two so I can see the differences for myself?

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It's the best they can do, and really the best they should do.

No. The founding principles of our country demand equal application of the law.

:urg Unfortunately, our founding fathers weren't always that good at enforcing the principles of complete freedom. How long did it take before a slave was considered anything but property (and therefore somehow 3/5ths of a person)? How long have women had to fight for their basic voting rights, and the right to inherit property? How many laws have been put in place that deliberately took away all rights to certain minorities? In California, especially, we had laws in the 1800s that pretty much made it legal to eliminate all Chinese or Japanese immigrants like rats. Think we've changed? Guess again: In the 1990s, Prop 187 tried something very similar with Latino immigrants, attempting to force every doctor, teacher, and emergency worker into being a spy for the INS....:cry

Which isn't to say you're wrong. On the contrary: you're right. But that protection, which should be automatically there, is going to have to be fought for. Because implied rights don't seem to mean much if they're not written down in strict, airtight, legal terms.

Tatu - 18/4/04 at 21:26

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Marf? What? Aren't they supposed to give the same rights? but aren't they designed to give the same tax, medical, inheritance, and other rights? Just without the ceremony?


No ames, thats the problem, it exists to shut us up, which has worked well as you can see ;), but we get NO RIGHTS whatsoever, we ARE second class citizens.

its a ploy to shut us up so we can say "Oh we're married", marriage isnt about cake a parties and a piece of paper, its about love and rights.. they dont seem to get that

Example : Amanda is in the hospital, sick as hell..and hes gonna die. Bunny is fucked.

http://www.economist.com/books/displaystory.cfm?story_id=2459758

Bamf Bunny - 19/4/04 at 01:31

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
Aren't [civil unions] supposed to give the same rights?

Civil unions are only available in one state - Vermont. California has a more limited "domestic partnership" that will go into effect in 2005. Massachusetts has a proposed constitutional amendment that will ban same-sex marriage but allow civil unions.

Neither arrangement gives same-sex couples access to any of the federal benefits of marriage - or can, due to the federal Defense of Marriage Act. (Since the linked article was written other states have passed state-wide DOMAs; the current total is thirty-nine.)

For example: If you're visiting the US from another country, and you fall in love with an American of the opposite sex, the two of you can get married and you can stay. If you fall in love with an American of the same sex, you'd better not get a civil union ... because the government can interpret that as an intent to outstay your visa, and deport you. Immigration rights are handled by the federal government, not the states.

GLAD has a more up-to-date article on the difference.
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[...] lawmakers were working on the state-to-state thingy.

Which lawmakers are these?

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It's the best they can do, and really the best they should do. [...] How long did it take before a slave was considered anything but property (and therefore somehow 3/5ths of a person)? How long have women had to fight for their basic voting rights, and the right to inherit property? How many laws have been put in place that deliberately took away all rights to certain minorities?

Gosh, maybe slaves, women, and minorities should have accepted that the way things were was the best they could do, and, really, the best they should do.

Maelstrom - 19/4/04 at 02:11

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It's the best they can do, and really the best they should do. [...] How long did it take before a slave was considered anything but property (and therefore somehow 3/5ths of a person)? How long have women had to fight for their basic voting rights, and the right to inherit property? How many laws have been put in place that deliberately took away all rights to certain minorities?

Gosh, maybe slaves, women, and minorities should have accepted that the way things were was the best they could do, and, really, the best they should do.


Honey... I think we're in violent agreement again. ;) I don't think that the government should dictate to religions, and that the change has to come from the parishoners and Patriarchy. By the same token, I think that religions have no right to dictate federal and government policies.

That was my take on the "the best they can do" bit. It's up to the parishoners to scream loudly enough for the Patriarchy to take notice, in order to change the religous definition of marriage. Having the government make a religious decision sets a horrible precedent for letting a religious sect have its way. Even more than it is now.

That doesn't mean we have to "sit back and take it". Far from it. But it does mean that the rights that should be guaranteed by the constitution, all too often, have to be fought for. And it means that we have two fronts to fight on: the religious and the secular. We have to raise a stink in our churches (assuming we belong) to have them "reconsider" the marriage policy. And we have to raise a stink in congress to squash things like that damned amendement. Slavery was at first fought in this manner as well: civil disobedience and religous disobedience (in both instances, by the same basic group of people: the abolitionists). (God forbid that we'd have to go that last step that I deliberately left out: a Civil War.)

What really ticks me off is that they're selling this Civil Union idea as "just as good" when it's apparently far from it. :mad It isn't the same as marriage, despite what they're saying. THAT has me steaming.

C, you're right. "Separate but Equal" has never worked. I was under the (sadly, false) impression that they were just going to extend the same civil and legal rights. Instead, it's morphing into a twisted "separate but equal" bit.

And that has me penning a letter to my congresswoman. Maybe it will do something, maybe it won't, but, dammit, I don't like being lied to!

Bamfette - 20/4/04 at 17:03

this thread stopped being about Nightcrawler in any way a long time ago, so i am moving it to the Off-topic section where it will be more on-topic.

I also invite people to see this thread: http://nightscrawlers.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=4107 in the Heathen Sent forum. intended to be a place where you can ask questions about alternative/pagan religions, or just inform about your own religion, since this one has become mainly about Christianity. I don't know about others, but as someone with an alternative belief system, that makes it intimidating to post here.... i feel like i am not part of the club. so we started a new club. :p

thylacine - 22/4/04 at 12:54

Well... anyway... with regard to George Junior and his Defense of Marriage Act... just keep on saying to yourself... "Term limits! Term limits!" :)

Bamfette - 25/4/04 at 18:23

i swear, i didn't mean to kill this thread by moving it here.... if anything i thought the move would make it even more popular, sicne the Off-topic section is higher traffic. it just stopped being on-topic in the Nightcrawler forum, since it hasn't been about Kurt in any way for pages....

thylacine - 25/4/04 at 18:41

I don't think you killed the thread by putting it here. It's a real good discussion, and it's great that different people with different ideas can discuss things and no one has had a big argument! I'm very impressed with that. It is also about Nightcrawler still, in a way, since we can discuss Catholic issues here (and the prejudice against Catholics too) and Nightcrawler is Catholic. Also I think Kurt would be a liberal type of Catholic, if he were real... This is still a good discussion.

Now for the good news. The Boston Globe reported that even though the Vatican sent an order that churches should not give Communion to politicians who support abortion, no one has refused to give Communion to John Kerry. YES!!! Personally, I'm against abortion, but they should not try to control politics that way -- it's extortion. Also, the Vatican said they can still have altar girls as well as altar boys. They were thinking about banning that! (Sheesh! How conservative can yah get?) I don't think the Pope is behind any of this... I think he's so old and sick he's letting people below him run stuff. Sad, isn't it? I hope the Catholic church gets its act together so it can be a decent institution like it used to be.

An explanation and apology from she of the hard head....

Maelstrom - 29/4/04 at 23:13

Okay, guys? My head is as hard as granite sometimes, and it's taken me a long time to realize this, but... take a look at this statement I made a while back, please....

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If you can redefine an institution that has only allowed male-female bonds, in any culture, from the beginning of time (which in itself is a controversial view: just ask Bunny about documented same sex marriages in the Middle Ages ;) ), then what's to stop polygamists from screaming "foul" when we refuse to let them marry four fifteen year old girls at once? And that's the mildest example I can think of.


:doh! I so screwed up with this, and I should have seen it. I insulted Bunny, and I didn't mean to. Here's a breakdown of what I actually meant:


1) The "only man-woman marriages happen" theory is at best up for debate, if not flat-out wrong, and that's assuming it's only Christianity we're talking about. Otherwise, it *is* flat-out wrong.


2) When I did the little (;)) at the end of "ask Bunny", that wasn't a "isn't he cute with his little theories? Give this poor deluded fool a hand!". I had spoken with Bunny on this before, and realized that he had actualy done research on this. He knew the papers, the facts, the actual nuts-and-bolts of the issue, where I didn't. I consider him the expert in these matters, the factual resource to go to.

In other words, I meant to both refer to Bunny as the authority, having information that I lacked, and to thank him for his setting me straight. Instead it came out like a slap in the face :cry, and I am so sorry that happened... :shame


3) The "what's to stop the polygamists" line was never, ever, ever meant to implicate anyone's views or preferences. I was actually quoting, word for word, what I had heard from one of the church scholars. I was attempting to show the point of view of a third party, which I did not necessarily understand or agree with, but wanted to espouse so that others might at least see (if not understand) the fears they have.

I should have actually put that in quotes, to further separate it from my own point of view. But I didn't. Like I said, I screwed up big time.


Of the many faults that I have, I had not realized that arrogance was so key among them. I was so certain that I was doing this "right", that I was perfect in my words, my phrasing, and my views. It never once occured to me that I could be wrong, let alone harmful. But there's a reason why pride is considered one of the seven deadly sins. It has much more far-reaching implications than simply making you look like an asshole. In this case, I ambushed and hurt at least one very, very dear friend of mine. :cry

thylacine - 3/5/04 at 22:37

Where the heck is everybody around here??? A while ago, this thread was hopping! Where did everybody go?

BamfChyck - 4/5/04 at 20:54

Sorry! Sorry Thy, I'm here!
My life got crazy busy there for a while. A big crunch at work, my partner's grandfather died, my own grandfather got sick (he's 98 so when he gets sick we jump), my younger brother and sister-in-law had a baby and he had to spend a few days in the NICU so that was tense (but he's out now and breathing just fine), my partner got laid-off, and I'm under pressure to finish a set of vestments for church.
Lots of other people are busy, too. I know it's finals/exam/graduation season, so that probably accounts for the younger people.
So what were we talking about? Gay marriage? I'm all for it. Do we have any other topics?
How's this? We all know Kurt's a good,sexy, Catholic boy, but what religions/demoninations do other X/Marvel people belong to? I've heard Gambit and Daredevil are both lapsed Catholics. Is there any proof? Anybody know?

CurlyyHairGirl - 4/5/04 at 22:57

Sorry I don't know either.
But I have a question> Instead of being a preist, couldn't he be a Revrend, or is that for some branch of church he dosn't belong to. I am pretty sure he could have family if he were a REV. instead, but still be very true to god.

BamfChyck - 5/5/04 at 00:17

Since Catholics don't have reverends (or ministers or pastors , etc.) he'd have to switch denominations and that's officially considered a bad thing by the Catholic Church. He could become a Deacon, I think, and still be Catholic, but he wouldn't be able to provide any sacraments that way. He could become an Episcopal priest, which would let him do all the priest stuff and have a family, but then there's leaving the Catholic church again.
What's a Fuzzy Elf to do?

LadyErin - 5/5/04 at 02:25

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Sorry! Sorry Thy, I'm here!
My life got crazy busy there for a while. A big crunch at work, my partner's grandfather died, my own grandfather got sick (he's 98 so when he gets sick we jump), my younger brother and sister-in-law had a baby and he had to spend a few days in the NICU so that was tense (but he's out now and breathing just fine), my partner got laid-off, and I'm under pressure to finish a set of vestments for church.

Oh! I don't know what to say but I hope things get better.
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Lots of other people are busy, too. I know it's finals/exam/graduation season, so that probably accounts for the younger people.

:bawl finals!!! :bawl
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So what were we talking about? Gay marriage? I'm all for it. Do we have any other topics?
How's this? We all know Kurt's a good,sexy, Catholic boy, but what religions/demoninations do other X/Marvel people belong to? I've heard Gambit and Daredevil are both lapsed Catholics. Is there any proof? Anybody know?

Is it cannon or fanon that Xavier is a lapsed Catholic?

Maelstrom - 5/5/04 at 16:16

I've never heard anything about Xavier at all, but I do remember seeing in the Daredevil movie that he was a lapsed catholic, and considering how close they tried to stick with canon, I believe that would be from the book. And as for Gambit, it would also make sense, considering that Catholicism has a stronger following in French-descended New Orleans.

But, so far as the RC church is concerned, better a lapsed Catholic than a convert to anything else. They don't even consider the Episcopalian or Orthodox churches in communion with them, and those are the closest in theology and proceedures among all Christianity.

And, to be honest, I can't really see why Kurt would want to leave Catholicism. He hasn't had any reason to turn away from God, and I think that's what it would take to do it. He's so familiar with human frailty that whatever a single priest, or even a heretical sect, does isn't going to shake his faith. Vicious acts in God's name happened several times in the Church of Humanity arc (ending in Holy War), and Kurt has still stayed.

Here's an interesting bit of "food for thought". :scratch The RC and Orthodox churches are very similar in most things, differing mainly in procedural overlays such as papal infallibility, the "fliloque", and immaculate conception. But there are other, very intriguing cultural differences, too. Has anyone here ever seen an Orthodox icon? Here's a link, just so you have an idea what I'm talking about : http://www.greekorthodoxicons.net/byz/deisis.htm

Notice that this picture of Christ, with (I believe) Mary and Joseph to either side, looks curiously flat. You have shading, but it's brought out in an exaggerated, almost "cartoonish" manner, and the perspective is almost non-existant. It looks very much like a Medieval European painting. This is done deliberately: the artist who wrote (yes, it's called "write" instead of "paint" when talking about Icons) the Icon wanted to remove the situation from the real world and place it elsewhere. This removal aspect continues in every "flat" Icon you see in the Orthodox church. In fact, they don't even like to have statuary. You will never see a single statue in an Orthodox church, whether American, Serbian, Greek, Russian, or any other.

For instance, this icon shows the "Harrowing of Hell", which is sometimes called the harrowing of Hades instead. http://www.comeandseeicons.com/pha21.htm . Since the Orthodox do not believe that Heaven or Hell are real, physical places, but states of being, this is an entirely allegorical icon. Christ is trampling on the open graves (those "boards" under his feet), raising up Adam and Eve. All those shackles and keys, in the dark space below, represent the bondage of Hades, which He has broken to free those held within. It's as if this scene has been seen through a "filter", allowing us to comprehend what can not be seen with our physical senses.

In contrast, the Roman Catholics have no problem with statues. Statues of the Virgin are common, as well as statues of Christ and His saints. The belief here is that all of these people really existed at one time, so why should there be a problem recreating them in a realistic manner?

Neither view is inherently "more enlightened" than the other. It's a cultural choice. The Orthodox concentrate on the fact that He was part of this fallen, imperfect world, but not *of* it, and show that remoteness in their art. They want people to know that the scenes depicted are "out of time and space", that they often defy description and understanding on this level. The RCs want to bring Him, and those around Him, as close as possible into their midste, as their way of following scripture. ( "Do this that I may be among you" )

Icons are a fascinating thing, by the way. They're basically historical, religious records, and because of that they use specific, unalterable symbols in every one.

thylacine - 6/5/04 at 15:14

Here is an interesting story for you re: icons & stuff... Merrimack College is owned by the Augustinian Brothers, so it is considered a Catholic College like BC. Anyway... It seems to me like this generation of young people wants to show its sophistication and enlightenment by having disdain for tradition and / or anything religious... When I went to Merrimack for my business degree, suddenly people next to me would interrupt the prof and protest that there was "a cross on the wall, and that is offensive!" (Like, kid, what are you a vampire or something, that a cross is offensive??? Huh?) "This school has no right to force religion down anyone's throat!" And everyone (but me) would go, "yeah!" Like, look at me, I'm sophisticated, I don't believe in anything! First, the crosses on the walls in the classrooms were small, about no bigger than six inches, and not in the front where you could see them, they were in the back of the room out of sight. You had to look for them. Second, if you don't want to go to a Catholic owned college, go to U Lowell, which was 20 minutes away and cheaper. Third, it was obviously they wanted something, anything, to moan about. Next, the students complained that they needed to take a "religion class" as an elective. They grew angry at this. And this is even more dumb, since 1. It's an easy A, and 2. You could choose ANY religion, such as Buddhism, Islam, or whatever to study! At one point there was talk of including Wicca in the curriculum but I don't know how far that got. Why does the presence of religion in everyday life have to be such an awful prob for so many people? No one is forcing them to believe anything. You cannot get inside someone's head and force thoughts on anyone, unless you are Professor X! And further, when you throw everything like that away, you don't just lose symbols of religion, you lose thousands of years of tradition along with it. What is included with stuff like that? Christmas, Easter, the cute frilly dress (or little dark suit) they made you wear on your first Communion... these traditions are woven into the lives of people and their families, and have been for many generations. Are we going to throw it all away because some people don't agree with everything the church teaches? They can be offended all they want, but I think they need to get a life. What's next? Calling up the church down the street from your house and telling them to stop ringing that nasty bell because anything associated with religion is offensive? Then ban Christmas! And Easter! And Halloween, since it's both Pagan and it's All Saints Day! Ban Christmas lights in the town centers all over America! No more manger scenes, no more big Christmas trees on the White House lawn either! It's all Christian and it's all offensive!

Maelstrom - 6/5/04 at 20:17

It is rather ironic that in our quest to separate church and state, to keep any religion from being forced upon us (*cough*ChristianCoalition*cough*) that we have also created an especially "militant" strain of people who have NO respect for religion of any strain. Let's hear it for that swinging pendulum, boys and girls.... :rolleyes

This case you described, Thy, is almost laughable. Read the brochure, pinheads. This is a college owned by a monastary. It is a Catholic School, not a public one. Therefore, strict rules that separate church and state do not apply. If you're going to "act all sophisticated and growed-up", then do your damned research. You have no right to complain here.

I think the seat of this isn't so much their disdain of religion as their disdain of any type of authority. Even if this was a public school (where such displays are frowned upon if not banned outright), the way they responded was unforgivable. Anyone with an ounce of respect would have asked the teacher about it privately. At the very least they should have raised their hand and said, "Mr. So-and-so, the cross makes me uncomfortable." No, this wasn't truly about religion; it was about respect and power, and those students didn't want to relinquish an ounce of either.

So why'd they make a fuss about a small, tastefully-displayed symbol of faith in the corner? In their case, it was because Christianity is "safe" to express indignance over. Christianity is "looked down on" in the USA for several reasons, and, unfortunately, some of them have merit:

1) One word: Fundamentalism. This has to be the worst thing to happen to Christianity since the Inquisition. Fundlets have provided such a raucus, skewed, intolerant version of Christianity that they've turned off literally anyone with the ability to think for themselves. And their habit of *ahem* interfering with laws and political candidates is enough to make anyone unfamiliar with the faith toss that Bible into the garbage.

2) Christianity is the "power broker" of religion in America, and that, in itself, can be a problem. Christianity is *everywhere* in America. You have to look around to find someplace where it isn't the dominant belief. At best, people like rooting for the underdog.... and at worst, there's this "snob appeal" thing, where anything that the "vulgar masses" like must be ignorant, inferior, and only worthy of scorn.

3) Because the USA was created by Christian men (and women, but they weren't officially included for a couple hundred years ;) ), Christian symbolism and specific values have permeated the entire system. The In God We Trust phrase on coinage, and the beleaguered "under God" phrase in the Pledge of Allegiance, are relatively new, but it's only been since Ms. O'Haire raised a stink that we finally got rid of "organized" (read "expected and enforced" ) prayer in schools. Presidents, judges, and everyone who's ever been on a witness stand, all swear on the Bible. Though most of our holiday displays have been sanitized to some degree, just the fact that we shut down banks and workplaces for Christmas, but not Eid, is something that no one could possibly miss. And if you're not Christian, constantly having this "enhanced status" rubbed in your face has to hurt.....

4) Christianity has been used as an excuse for hatred and willful ignorance. It's been used to justify such odious institutions as slavery. It's been (mis)quoted to justify wife and child abuse, race hatred, constant verbal and physical attacks on gays and bisexuals, and even attacks on other sects of Christianity (let alone other religions). Some of this is the fundlet's fault, but not all. I've seen these views espoused by many an intolerant Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox, Episcopalian, and so on. (Now, to be fair, a LOT of other organized religions have been abused in this way, but then that leads us back to the "power broker" problem: they aren't currently the big dog on the American block.)

5) Christianity has so many bickering sects now that it's lost a fair amount of respect. (Remember Ireland?) I don't know how many versions of Islam there are, but I don't think they number in the hundreds.... :shakeno

A militant *anything* is frikkin' annoying at least, and at worst a danger to themselves and others. Why? Because their militancy doesn't let them give and take, to recognize that they might *not* be speaking for all of their brethern, let alone the rest of the world. And the more diverse we become, and the more acceptable that diversity becomes, the stronger the militant fringes feel the need to lash out. Militant Aethiests HAVE to get rid of anything that could *possibly* be construed as acknowldging a god of any type. Militant Christians *HAVE* to try and get amendments passed to "protect" their narrow vision of love and partnership. Militant Jews and Muslims *HAVE* to kick (or blow) each other off of "their" land in the Middle east, because it's THEIRS, dammit! THEIRS! THEIRS! THEIRS! No one else's!

And if you put all these militants together, with enough firepower, you'd get a large crater. And maybe the rest of us could go about our lives in a semblence of peace. ;)

Bamf Bunny - 6/5/04 at 20:28

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I think the seat of this isn't so much their disdain of religion as their disdain of any type of authority.

Or, just perhaps, an ill-informed reaction to Christians putting the Ten Commandments up in public buildings, "under God" in the Pledge of Allegiance (it wasn't originally included), and their own religious beliefs in the U. S. constitution.

Bamfette - 6/5/04 at 20:46

about holidays, actually, the christmas trees are in no way Christian.... it's a pagan tradition associated with Yule... as are the eggs and bunnies of Easter (named after a celtic fertility goddess, no less) Christians have a long history of placing their religious celebrations on already existing Pagan holidays....

taking religion out of the equation would not stop the tradition. my family celebrates Christmas and Easter and we are atheist. most people celebrate Halloween and they have no belief in the pagan origins of it.... we (my family, i can't speak for anyone else) celebrate out of tradition, not out of belief in the religious ideas, either Christian or Pagan, that started them.

but i get your point. may as well re-name the days of the week, or the planets by some of these people's logic....

though i happen to agree with removing the word 'god' from currency and the ten commandments from secular institutions, such as courthouses and public schools... and i fully agree with the re-naming of B.C to B.C.E and A.D. to C.E.

but if they are going to a school owned by the Catholic church, they ahve no right to complain. so i do get your point...

Maelstrom - 10/5/04 at 16:17

Jill,

How long have the B.C.E and C.E conversions been around? I've seen them used within the past few years, but only sporatically, and nowhere near as often as the more commonly seen B.C. and A.D. This is one case where I don't think there will be a giant "Christian backlash" against changing, because these are marks used almost entirely in the scientific or academic community, which is more interested in factual, specific notation than religious validity. I think the reason we developed the standard of B.C. and A.D. is because the birth of Christ was a universally accepted time constant in the Western (and that time, Catholic) world, during a time when God's hand was seen as directly influencing everything. The only reason I can see why it has survived through the 20th century is inertia: no one bothered to change it. And now that there's a movement to do so, I don't think there'll be much opposition. It won't cost millions of dollars to change, and there's no emotional attachment to it.

Just the fact that I have seen B.C.E. and C.E., in other places than purely academic jounals like JAMA, does speak well of the fact American society could be moving that way. Sort of like how the plural "their" is being accepted as a single gender-neutral pronoun instead of only a plural.


To change topics a bit, sometime back (in either this thread or the Heathen Sent one), the question was raised as to why God would kick out 1/3 of his angels for disagreeing with Him. Was the threat to His power so great that He couldn't allow any dissent in His presence? And what was it all for, anyway? I was curious about this myself, so I listened to a talk my local Priest, Father Leo, had on the subject.

First, a quick discalimer: this is the Orthodox Christian view. It may not match the RC or moderate Protestant/Episcopalian points of view, and it sure as hell won't jibe with the Fundlets (which may be a good thing... :scratch). The church Patriarchs went over this question in length during the early centuries of the church's existence, primarily trying to figure out just what could make an appalling 1/3rd of His angels rebel, especially His second in command, Lucifer.

What they came up with is that The Incarnation was what did it. It's hard to envision, let alone explain, but Orthodox believe that the Trinity of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit all existed at the same time, from before the beginning of time, even though God created the Son. Therefore, all of God's plans were laid out before time began. He knew that He was going to create Mankind, that Mankind would screw up so badly that He'd need to send His Son to clean things up, and that by doing that, He would humble himself to a level below that of Mankind. For some reason, 2/3rds of the angels said "That's a great idea!" and the others said, "Wait a minute, you're going to do WHAT?"

On the surface, it would seem that Lucifer and the rest of the 1/3 are given a raw deal. They tell God that they can't possibly love and obey anyone or anything more than God. Lucifer actually says to God, "Lord, let *me* do this. Let *me* suffer the pain, humiliation, and death for you. I love you too much to want you to suffer for a fallen creation." And God throws a hissy fit and kicks them out of Heaven for that love. But you have to look a little deeper. It isn't really love; it's pride masquerading as love. Lucy and his compatriots weren't worried about God (and, by association, the Holy Trinity) going through all this effort to bring Mankind back to Him. Their real objection was the fact that they would have to humble themselves before humanity. Why? Well, they know they're under God in the grand heirarchy, and if God makes Himself a servant of Man, that means THEY'RE servants of Man as well. Lucy hated this idea so much that he brazenly offered (demanded, really) to take this position, and the glory that would inevitably come from its completion, for himself, thereby attempting to insinuate himself as an equal in the Holy Trinity.

And at that point, when that 1/3 decided that they didn't want to go along with it, they cast thmeselves out. By deciding that they didn't want to follow His plan, and deciding that they knew better than He did, they turned away from Him, and placed themselves in a fallen state. It's the Orthodox view that Hell and Heaven don't exist as geological places, but as states of being.

So it comes down to the fact that one third of some of the most perfect beings ever created have the capacity for evil, in one state or another. By pride they refused, but attempted to "spin doctor" it into love instead, thereby compounding things further. (Hmmm, what does this say about politics in general? :naughty)

That's kind of scary. :shame If selfishness and evil exists in such amounts that it can corrupt so many nearly perfect beings, no WONDER humanity is in such a state. But, then again, it is a little comforting to know that even those right next to God can screw up, because it means that maybe the rest of us who screw up aren't as far removed from Grace as we think. That's where the humans have it over angels: since we're still learning, we can screw up and still redeem ourselves. The angels, being borderline omnicient, had learned everything already and *still* chose the wrong path, damning themselves by their own knowledge when they rebelled.

& etc.

thylacine - 11/5/04 at 19:26

That is a very interesting story & commentary!

Also... quote "How long have the B.C.E and C.E conversions been around?"

I think those have been around quite some time... For a few decades, I believe, maybe longer... we knew of them back in the early 70's when I took religion class... and the teacher was quite familiar with those designations, so they must have been around a while.

Bamfette - 12/5/04 at 01:31

yeah, they've been around a while... not sure how long. no one is making a big push for them to my knowledge, so they're just kinda slowly taking over. an i use C.E and B.C.E myself when appropriate. but as Mael mentioned, they are used frequently among the scientific community.

Nightcrawler ZERO - 13/5/04 at 02:39

I don't know about the necessity of vhanging BC and AD to BCE and CE.

We have days of the week named after Norse Gods

We have Planets named after Roman (and now Inuit) gods

Why not have time seperated based on the origins of Christianity? Aside from being a religion, it's also one of the most impactfull forces on western culture (And remember- if it's not western culture... it's not culture.... :P ;) jk). It makes a decent historical marker for that reason.

thylacine - 13/5/04 at 18:48

Since Christianity & religion in general has had a big impact on history & culture, that's my point as to why we should not just toss it all away like garbage. No religion is perfect, but it's an important part of our culture & society.

It's like the young mother who never had religious training while growing up... she named her daughter Bethany because she heard that name somewhere & thought it was pretty, not even realizing where the name came from -- it's a village in the Bible somewhere. Or the other person I used to know who thought that the Virgin Mary was an "unwed teenager" who "got in trouble" and this guy Joe married her later. It was pretty darn useless to try & explain that, no, that's God's kid and she wasn't fooling around, it was a "miracle" thing. And some people think Jesus' last name was Christ, too... It's not their fault, of course. But that's what happens when you decide religion is all phony or stupid and don't bother to teach anything to your kids or tell them anything about religion. This other lady I knew used to say, "What religion are we again? I dunno... ? Are we Methondist? We don't ever go to church, yah know. I think it's stupid. Church is for idiots, anyway... Are we Congregationalists? I forget what we're supposed to be. What? Your Catholic? That's the dumbest one of all." Her words, not mine.

The Drastic Spastic - 14/5/04 at 00:14

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Originally posted by thylacine
Since Christianity & religion in general has had a big impact on history & culture, that's my point as to why we should not just toss it all away like garbage. No religion is perfect, but it's an important part of our culture & society.

It's like the young mother who never had religious training while growing up... she named her daughter Bethany because she heard that name somewhere & thought it was pretty, not even realizing where the name came from -- it's a village in the Bible somewhere. Or the other person I used to know who thought that the Virgin Mary was an "unwed teenager" who "got in trouble" and this guy Joe married her later. It was pretty darn useless to try & explain that, no, that's God's kid and she wasn't fooling around, it was a "miracle" thing. And some people think Jesus' last name was Christ, too... It's not their fault, of course. But that's what happens when you decide religion is all phony or stupid and don't bother to teach anything to your kids or tell them anything about religion.


What was your point again? Bethany is a pretty name. Who cares if it was a city in the Bible. You don't need to know that to enjoy the name.

And details about Jesus are only important to believers. Believing his actual last name is Christ isn't going to have much of an effect on the average person. And the whole thing with Mary... yeah, it seems incredible to people who were raised with it that people wouldn't know it was a Godly Miracle but seriously. Does it really matter? No one who doesn't believe is going to give much of a damn that believers think that's the way it was.

Did you know that Mormons believe when Mormon men die they go to a planet where they are waited on by all their wives and daughters? Do you care? It's an interesting/amusing factoid but aside from that it's useless. Cause you aren't Mormon. And you don't believe it.

Bamf Bunny - 14/5/04 at 01:06

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Originally posted by The Drastic Spastic
And details about Jesus are only important to believers.

And if enough people get them wrong, they become official ... St. Agatha's breasts were cut off by the Romans, and she was depicted carrying them on a platter. Later generations misinterpreted the pictures, thought they were bells, and made her the patron saint of bellmakers and bell ringers.

Maelstrom - 14/5/04 at 15:45

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Originally posted by The Drastic Spastic
And details about Jesus are only important to believers. Believing his actual last name is Christ isn't going to have much of an effect on the average person.

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Did you know that Mormons believe when Mormon men die they go to a planet where they are waited on by all their wives and daughters? Do you care? It's an interesting/amusing factoid but aside from that it's useless. Cause you aren't Mormon. And you don't believe it.


Actually, I'm not sure that's quite right. The fact that I don't believe in the Mormon's view of the hereafter doesn't mean I'm not interested in hearing it. Why? Because those beliefs tell us something about the people who believe in them. Though I'm Orthodox Christian, I'm always eager to hear about the symbols, the beliefs, the rituals of others. The fact I don't consider them sacred to my religious core is secondary: I want to learn what is important to other people, because it makes communication and relations that much easier.

Here's a few true life cases where ignorance has caused trouble, or at least embarrasment. Names and dates have been removed to protect the innocent. Two of these are commonly-known dietary restrictions, which makes you wonder how insular people can be....:shakeno

* At a small company, honey-baked hams are given out as holiday bonuses. To everyone, including the one Muslim of the group. :doh!

* Another ham disaster: a catering company was doing a bar mitzvah, but they catered it with ham platters. If they knew anything about the Jewish belief set, they would know that any pork product is considered unclean, never to be touched. Compounding this, when they were told to remove the offending foods, the idiots just removed the ham from the platters and re-served them. To this day, I don't know whether they were bloody stupid, or whether they were anti-semites, and did this deliberately to a paying client to show disrespect. In any case they didn't get paid, and they never catered any Jewish events again once word got around of their behavior. That incident cost the caterers tens of thousands in future lost revenue, and it wrecked a boy's once-in-a-lifetime coming of age party. :(

* While in Greece, and attending a Greek Orthodox service for the first time, a man eats the bread of fellowship (available to anyone who attends service, regardless of their religion). As his Greek is poor, he is mystified as to why people in the communion line are shouting to him and pointing to the ground. Then he realizes that he is letting the crumbs drop inside the church. (This is a serious faux pas: it is disrespectful to let the blessed bread be carelessly dropped inside, where it helps nothing. Crumbs are always dropped outside, where birds can eat them, or they nourish the nearest flora.)

* A young American altar boy is attending a Greek Orthodox patriarch for the first time. The patriarch asks him to get him some Kolyva (which is prounounced similar to "cola" ). Since it was a hot day, and the boy was as yet unfamiliar with that particular name of the traditional sweetened almond and grain dish, he bypasses the place where the Kolyva is being served out, goes to the closest vending machine, and gets a Coke instead. (The patriarch just laughed good-naturedly and thanked him for the cool drink. ;) )

In cases of the responsible religions, knowing more about their way of worship is a broadening experience, showing you different ways of expressing what is essentially the same love. For cults, it's more a case of "know thy enemy." That knowledge lets you know what flashpoints and triggers are built in. It can also let you argue facts with them and have a chance of snapping them out.

The Drastic Spastic - 14/5/04 at 18:22

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
The fact I don't consider them sacred to my religious core is secondary: I want to learn what is important to other people, because it makes communication and relations that much easier.

In cases of the responsible religions, knowing more about their way of worship is a broadening experience, showing you different ways of expressing what is essentially the same love. For cults, it's more a case of "know thy enemy." That knowledge lets you know what flashpoints and triggers are built in. It can also let you argue facts with them and have a chance of snapping them out.


If you know you're planning on attending Mass on your trip to Greece, for sure you should do some research. But in general, there are just too many religions for everyone to have to worry about all the obscure customs and taboos. (Unless you're a caterer, for god's sake.)

It would be great if people knew more about everyone else in general. But I don't think parents should have to teach their kids all about Jesus if they don't believe in him.

Bamfette - 15/5/04 at 12:43

I'm with Draz on this. I make a point of knowing about stuff, and i have had to learn a whole lot about a lot of different religions for Heathen Sent. but i don't think it should be necessary if it wont directly affect your life or your work. who CARES if someone decides to name their daughter Lilith not knowing about the demon in the Bible? so? does it really affect anything (aside form the kid potentially being teased)? what's the big deal if i don't know the details of the Bible? I don't believe anything in it to be true, so how would it affect my life if i didn't know? if you WANT to learn, great,i happen to enjoy learning about it. but... if you have kids, and you are of a belief system that differs from the general society, i don't think it shold be mandatory that you teach your kids about somethingyou have no belief in. it is nice to give the kids knowledge, and the option to decide for themselves. but then many christian households don't exactly give that option. i don't hear of many Christian/Muslim/Jewish etc. households teaching about Wicca, for instance. so why should an atheist/pagan household be held to different expectations?

IF it affects you, such as the catering companies should know what foods are forbidden by the major religions, yes, you should look it up. if you are planning on attending a ceremony in a place of worship, it would be good to ask if there are any customs you should be aware of, yes. but barring that? nah.

as for 'throwing it all away' i think you'r going to a bit of an extreme. so long as practitioners of the religion in question keep in line with what the beliefs are, (and if you ar going to call youself a member of ANY religion, you should learn about the one you ar in, yes.) it wont be 'thrown away'. not recognized by those outside the religion, maybe. but what should it matter if they don't?

BamfChyck - 15/5/04 at 12:46

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Originally posted by The Drastic Spastic
But in general, there are just too many religions for everyone to have to worry about all the obscure customs and taboos. (Unless you're a caterer, for god's sake.)


:) Or a funeral director. :P

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Originally posted by The Drastic Spastic It would be great if people knew more about everyone else in general. But I don't think parents should have to teach their kids all about Jesus if they don't believe in him.


I see your point there, but I think it would be nice if kids were at least taught enough to be respectful about Jesus, for the sake of those who do believe. That just seems like good manners to me.

Many years ago, I dated someone who was an Orthodox Jew. I learned enough to be respectful of the religion, although I didn't agree with some of it. For instance, I hated having to sit up in the balcony during services because of my gender. But I did it, out of respect for the cultural.

These days, when I work a funeral in an Orthodox church, I don't go up to the front to close the casket, because I know the Priest prefers that a man do it. Even if it's "my" funeral, even if I'm in charge, one of my male co-workers will close the casket.

I think it's just polite to respect those kind of things, whether I agree with them or not. I certainly wouldn't join a church that I felt a conflict like that with, but as a visitor, I think it's good manners to respect those kinds of differences.

Bamf Bunny - 15/5/04 at 13:04

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Two of these are commonly-known dietary restrictions, which makes you wonder how insular people can be....

A company's giving out holiday hams? Miss Manners herself says, one, that companies are better off to recognize holidays with bonuses and time off, and, two, that you ought to take presents in the spirit in which they're given.

Without knowing more about the ham at the bar mitzvah story, it's hard to say. But did the customers specify that they wanted kosher food? If they did, the company's at fault for promising something they didn't understand - but if they didn't, that's another matter. Reform Jews don't necessarily keep kosher.

And the other two examples don't seem to stem from insularity, but people's ignorance of their own religions. I mean, you don't get sent to attend a Patriarch unless you're Orthodox yourself, right?

taekwondodo - 16/5/04 at 06:19

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I see your point there, but I think it would be nice if kids were at least taught enough to be respectful about Jesus, for the sake of those who do believe. That just seems like good manners to me.


Why? Do you think Christian kids are taught about Muhammed for the sake of those who believe in Islam? Or anything about any other religion for that matter? Christianity is not relevant to my life and just because it's relevant to someone else's doesn't create any obligation on my part to learn about it or show respect for it beyond the simple fact of respecting their right to believe in it.

Now, I do happen to talk to my kids about Christianity - as a curiosity and along w/Islam, Judaism, the LDS and any other interesting cultural phenomenon that happens to strike our fancy at any given time. I don't think good manners require that my children know anything about Christ or Christianity, but simple curiosity and an interest in the history of our world does. But they also are learning about Norse and Greek mythology and Arthurian legend in much the same manner. As matters of interest and curiosity.

And as for the argument that the 'facts' of Christianity should be preserved as a cultural inheritance...the world won't suffer unduly if general knowleged of them is lost, any more than it did because of the loss of knowledge of any other belief system that's been common in the past. I don't think that anyone's going to argue that just because Zeus (or Jupiter if you want to go Roman) was the supreme god of the world's dominant culture for a *very* long time that we are now suffering greatly for the fact that knowledge of his history and proper worship is no longer common. The world changes and beliefs change. It's happened countless times throughout history and will certainly continue to do so. It's simply the nature of humanity.

Bamfette - 16/5/04 at 14:05

I think what it boils down to is, if some of us are coming off as defensive, that Christianity is the dominant religion in much of the western world. and those of us that don't consider it to be any more valid than any other beleif system get really annoyed when it's suggested it or it's followers should get special treatment. because it so often DOES get it. the people who were attending a Christian College should have not complained, because they should have known going in that if it was run by monks there would be trappings of Christianity about. that i agree with. and that's an instance where it may be good to pick up atleast a few basics. but just learning incase you bump into someone on the street? (and how is someone going to offend a Christian in regards to their religion in day to day relations, anyway? besides just coming out and saying they think it's stupid or whatever. that is not derived of ignorance and could be said ieven if you are fully knowledgeable on the subject. that just comes from being thoughtless and rude. )

All i think me, or Draz or Tae etc are asking for is equality. you want us to learn/teach about Christianity for the sake of respect? fine. then you do the same. teach your kids about Buddhism, Hinduism, Wicca, Asatru, Vodun, Native American Spirituality, Celtic Druidism, etc. so they wont offend someone on the street with ignorance.

or just don't get offended if someone doesn't know everything there is to know about it, even though they are not a pracitioner of your religion. I don't get offended if someone is confused about my beliefs, just so long as they respect my right to believe what i want, and not say they are wrong, or that i am somehow not as good as them because of my beliefs. I am understanding that everyone out there wont know everything there is to know about MY beliefs. and i don't expect them to.

I admit with Christianity being so wide spread and such a big part of society in the western world, is it surprising if someone doesn't know something so basic as that in the bible Mary was a virgin and Jesus was God's child? considering there are well known Christmas carols on the subject, yeah, it's surprising. and i would say if someone raised in North America or Europe didn't know that, i would think they were probably ignorant of a great many things, just because it IS such common knowledge. is it insulting? i don't think so. no more so than many Christians and others being ignorant of what exactly all the gods in Hinduism represent. We've discovered recently that people get Hanuman (Hindu, an incarnation of Shiva) and The Monkey King, Sun Wu Kong (Chinese, not even a real god.) mixed up all the time. they see the DBZ character and think any monkeyish god character is The Monkey King, not realizing Hanuman is wholly separate. while the information isn't as readily accessable on Hanuman as it is on Christianity, the basic idea is the same at the core. why should you, as a Christian or anyting else, be expected to know that Hanuman and the Monkey King are NOT one and the same? how does that affect you in your day to day life?

just remember your beliefs are your own and they are important to you and anyone else that shares them. don't expect it to be important to anyone else. there are too many religions floating around to learn everything there is to know about all of them just for the sake of courtesey. since, in general, day to day interactions should have nothing whatsoever to do with religion, it shouldn't cause problems. not in North America, Europe, Australia and the like, anyway. unfortunately some countries it is harder to find this kind of freedom.

Bamf Bunny - 16/5/04 at 14:38

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Originally posted by taekwondodo
And as for the argument that the 'facts' of Christianity should be preserved as a cultural inheritance...the world won't suffer unduly if general knowleged of them is lost

The tenets of Christian belief, especially the stories, poetry, and teachings of the Bible, permeate Western literature - and, to some extent, Western history - so deeply that I don't see how you can understand one without a working knowledge of the other. For most of the history of literature in English, for example, writers could assume that their readers would recognize Biblical and Christian allusions (and classical mythology) and wrote accordingly. The authors may well have been atheists or Deists, they may have satirized Christian belief or used it as nothing more than a source of familiar metaphors, but readers unfamiliar with the faith will end up missing out on a lot.

It doesn't follow that Christianity is more true than other religions; it doesn't follow that, in a country founded on religious freedom, that Christianity should be privileged above other religions; it doesn't mean there's no great English-language literature informed by other beliefs (though I can't think of much from before the 20th century). But do I think you underestimate how much our cultural inheritance is intertwined with Christianity.

thylacine - 16/5/04 at 19:04

Quote: "All i think me, or Draz or Tae etc are asking for is equality. you want us to learn/teach about Christianity for the sake of respect? fine. then you do the same. teach your kids about Buddhism, Hinduism, Wicca, Asatru, Vodun, Native American Spirituality, Celtic Druidism, etc. so they wont offend someone on the street with ignorance."

I agree. I think it would be an awesome idea to teach young people to respect all religions. I went to a Catholic school, and when we took religion, we had to also study world religions, which included Judism, Hinduism, Islam, & Buddhism. I liked studying Buddhism.

But here is my thing... the girl who thought that Mary was a pregnant teen in trouble called her a "whore" and that made me upset. I didn't say anything to her, though, because when someone goes on saying stuff like that, what can you say? She called the Virgin Mary a f--- ing whore, and I really felt awful because she knew I was Catholic and should have known better than to blast her mouth off like that. It's really sad. That's why I wish someone had taught her better. I was taught to respect other religions, so I would never make a crude remark about Jewish people or Muslims -- because I was taught not to.

BamfChyck - 16/5/04 at 19:33

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I see your point there, but I think it would be nice if kids were at least taught enough to be respectful about Jesus, for the sake of those who do believe. That just seems like good manners to me.


Why?

For much the same reason that I believe children should be taught enough about racial differences to be respectful of them. It’s politeness. I think it’s a good idea to teach children to be respectful of genders, or physical handicaps, or developmental disabilities, or any of the other millions of differences human have.

Please don’t read too much into what I’m saying. I did say “taught enough to be respectful about Jesus,” NOT “taught enough about Jesus to be respectful.” I’m not suggesting all children should be taught ABOUT Christian faith, but rather that they should be taught to be respectful of other people’s faiths, Christianity included.

Do you think Christian kids are taught about Muhammed for the sake of those who believe in Islam? Or anything about any other religion for that matter?

Well, I know I was, and I know the kids in my life are.
Many of the schools in my area (both public and private) had special events for the students to learn about Islam in the last few years. But you're right--I doubt all kids have those opportunities.

Christianity is not relevant to my life and just because it's relevant to someone else's doesn't create any obligation on my part to learn about it or show respect for it beyond the simple fact of respecting their right to believe in it.

I'm glad to hear that. That's all I'm asking for.

I hope that clarifies things.

Bamf Bunny - 16/5/04 at 22:39

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Originally posted by thylacine
But here is my thing... the girl who thought that Mary was a pregnant teen in trouble called her a "whore" and that made me upset.

This girl's problem is a lack of manners, not a lack of information.

CurlyyHairGirl - 17/5/04 at 03:16

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Originally posted by BamfChyck
Well, I know I was, and I know the kids in my life are.
Many of the schools in my area (both public and private) had special events for the students to learn about Islam in the last few years. But you're right--I doubt all kids have those opportunities.

We have been learning about it in all of our history classes from seventh grade and on up. I am not sure but I think it might be a requirement in California for the history curriculum.

Maelstrom - 17/5/04 at 19:53

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Originally posted by thylacine
But here is my thing... the girl who thought that Mary was a pregnant teen in trouble called her a "whore" and that made me upset.

This girl's problem is a lack of manners, not a lack of information.


Lack of manners, and a little something more.... If she was born and raised Catholic, it could be she was using this deliberate act of "blasphemy" as nothing more than a way to rebell against her parents and upbringing.

I'm reminded of the scene in Titanic, when Kate Winslet's character deliberately lit a cigarette in front of her mother (who detested the habit). Some of the more militant anti-smoking people screamed that this was just another case of Hollywood inserting gratuitous smoking in their movies. But those people were missing the point. This had to be taken in the context of a period piece. In the early 1900s, very few people outside the medical profession realized how lethal smoking was. And for a girl to smoke was about as bad as... *gasp*... bobbing her hair :shocked. This wasn't about smoking, it was an act of disrespect and rebellion. (Considering the circumstances, it was practically the only expression of rebellion the character could give.)

I look at the whole "whore" comment and see the same thing. The speaker is going for shock value, attention (even if it's negative), and rebellion against every single authority at one time (Church, parents, and school). I have to admit: she managed to efficiently cover a lot of bases with one comment.

That girl should thank the God she's currently railing against that she doesn't live someplace like the United Arab Emerites. An equivalent act of blasphemy there, no matter the root cause, will get you tortured or killed.


Webster's defines blasphemy as:
1 a : the act of insulting or showing contempt or lack of reverence for God b : the act of claiming the attributes of deity
2 : irreverence toward something considered sacred or inviolable

I'm of the opinion that blasphemy is more subtle than calling the Virgin Mary a "whore", or saying that Muhammad "laid down with pigs". Those are more fighting words to me; obvious, attention grabbing, and loud. I see blasphemy in the twisted words of people who selectively quote (that is, twist) scripture as a justification to hate and kill. Blasphemy is in a Columbian drug lord going to church every sunday, and plotting how to kill his latest rival/annoying non-curruptable judicial enemy on the way back in his car. Blasphemy is the reason Alabama had to bring in the entire national guard just to let five "negroes" (to use the word of the time) go to public school in 1952. :(

thylacine - 17/5/04 at 23:50

Quote: "This girl's problem is a lack of manners, not a lack of information." Yeah... she was a unique individual. I worked in the same office with her... she used to walk around the office with her shirt totally open (size XXL black bra) & have obscene materials at her desk. She spent most of her time on the phone crying & fighting with the boyfriend (he was a thug) too! I covered for all her mistakes and did 75% of her work for her since she was pretty much incapable... I learned from that, though... Next time someone like her tries to get me to help her with her work & says she "doesn't know how to use a computer," then "Well, now is the time to learn, dear!" Wanna know what she looked like? She was a dead ringer for Anna Nicole Smith before loosing the weight, and talked just like her too! No kidding. Anna Nicole Smith's evil twin! I sometimes wonder what became of her... but then, why should I care?
:LOL:

Maelstrom - 15/6/04 at 15:52

Well, it finally happened. Today the Supreme Court decided not to accept Michael Newdow's case against saying the words "under God" in the Pledge of Allegiance. They tossed the case out on the grounds that Michael didn't have custody of his daughter when he filed in the fist place. (And, to be honest, he doesn't have custody of her now. A quote from CNN's site: "Newdow never married the mother of the child and the two are in a battle over his parental rights." Link: http://www.cnn.com/2004/LAW/06/14/scotus.pledge/index.html )

Michael has said he is disappointed, seeing his earlier victory tossed out on a technicality, but that he has "several families lined up" for a class-action suit on the same subject.

I know what the Supreme Court did looked like a "cop out". In an 8-0 ruling, they unanimously stated "you don't have the right to bring this up", rather than addressing the thorny issue of church vs. state boundaries. This kind of dismissal must be incredibly frustrating to everyone who's been following this case since it garnered national attention (if not from when it was filed two years proir to that). But I've believed all along that Michael didn't have that right, for the exact same reasons, and I think that the Supreme Court did the best thing.

Can you imagine what would happen if they accepted the case and decided one way or another based on its merits, with that legal technicality unaddressed and hovering in the background? It would have made anything else they said ripe for scorn and contention by the losing side. No matter what, someone would contest the decision on that technicality, and a whole hell of a lot of time and effort would have gone down the proverbial drain.

Mike says he has families lined up to take up the torch. If so (and I have no reason to doubt him), more power to them. There are no doubt many, many aethiest families that are close-knit, with no paternity squabbles to get in the way; people with no "family issues" to taint their motives. As Newdow was/is still going through custody proceedings, it gave the everything the unwanted air of "this lawsuit is a way of getting back at my ex". No matter how pure his motives may or may not have been, it cast reasonable doubt over the whole thing.

If and when another parent takes this up, someone without distractions or ulterior motives, I will watch with fascination instead of mild disgust. TKD, if you decided that you didn't want your children constantly bombarded with the "under God" phrase, I'd hapilly listen to your point, because you'd make the point well, rationally and calmly, and with the full backing of your family. You'd have every right to bring it into the courtroom if you wanted, because you've got all your ducks lined up, legally and morally. And then we'd have a REAL church vs. state legal battle, based entirely upon the merits of the case, rather than the custody proceedings of one man with questionable rights.

Oh, and by the way: for those interested, Newdow gave CNN a short interview on this. Here's the transcription: http://www.cnn.com/2004/LAW/06/14/newdow/ Is it just me, or is this guy being really whiny? :rolleyes

If you're going to use the laws to your advantage, you'd better make sure you follow them yourself.

As an aside, the whole issue of "why didn't he get married in the first place" is frought with peril. Without more information, it's hard to tell who's at fault here. It's possible that the woman hid her pregnancy from him, or that he was out of the country for a year, and by the time he got back, Bang! But as this woman is a born-again Christian, I can't imagine her willingly having her child out of wedlock. She would have wanted to get married to *somebady*. In this case, it's not looking good for Michael's side; considering what I've seen from him, it's more likely that he couldn't have been bothered to go to a JP and get legally hitched before the birth of his daughter, and instead has taken this squabble to the courts after the fact. Does anyone have more information on this? Did the woman marry someone else before she realized she was pregnant with Michael's child, and only the paternity test showed otherwise? Did she attempt to get Michael to marry her? Or did she "realize her mistake" in getting involved with someone whose views were 100% contrary to hers, hide the pregnancy, and get married to J-random "good Christian" instead, for the sake of her daughter? Or was the girl actually born out of wedlock? I'm going to research this further.... :scratch

Bamfette - 15/6/04 at 18:37

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In this case, it's not looking good for Michael's side; considering what I've seen from him, it's more likely that he couldn't have been bothered to go to a JP and get legally hitched before the birth of his daughter, and instead has taken this squabble to the courts after the fact.


just because he never married the child's mother does not make his love and concern for his daughter any less valid. if he and the mother were not in love after she had gotten pregnant, no they should not have gotten married. that would have put the kid through hell. a child doesn't just need their parents to be married, they need their parents to be together in a LOVING relationship, or not at all. otherwise the parents fight, are unhappy, and just make things worse for a a kid rather than better. so i don't think anyone should blame him just because he's not married to the mother of his daughter. as an atheist, he woud not have any religious beliefs telling him he should get married 'just because' he would look at it in a more rational manner and what was really best for his daughter, and for himself. it's a shame she got pregnant in the first place, yeah. but i really don't believe he did anything wrong by not marrying the woman if they had fallen out of love or discovered they were otherwise incompatable since the conception of their daughter.

I really think it's a shame it got thrown out. he had valid concerns about the seperation of Church and State. i ask again fromt he other thread... what if this:



WAS the real coin. and you had to say "one nation under Loki"? it's a no-brainer, to me. no matter what his reasonings for fighting for it were.

Bamf Bunny - 15/6/04 at 19:35

Maelstrom wrote
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But as this woman is a born-again Christian, I can't imagine her willingly having her child out of wedlock [...] it's more likely that he couldn't have been bothered to go to a JP and get legally hitched before the birth of his daughter


Newdow's wife became a Christian after the child's birth. The two do not seem to have been particularly close, except physically, for long.

But his relationship with his wife isn't what's before the courts. The girl is his daughter. He doesn't have primary custody of her, though he's fought for it. He pays child support.

The source story turned up as the "I feel lucky" Google match.

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If you're going to use the laws to your advantage, you'd better make sure you follow them yourself.

What I can't find is a source that says Newdow broke the law. (Though I did see that he holds a law degree.) Do you mind providiing a source for this assertion?

Re: this case

thylacine - 15/6/04 at 20:09

Hi guys... To me... this looks like another situation where a parent uses their kid to make trouble where it did not exist before or make a "federal case" or simply get themselves on TV. Does anyone ever think of the kid? Or how the kid really feels? How does the kid feel going to school knowing her daddy put her on the news as an atheist who won't say the Pledge and etc.? How are the kids treating her at school now? Are they all praising her as the brave heroine / freedom fighter? Probably not. They're probably beating the poor girl up after class over this! This man ought to be ashamed of himself for using his kid this way. (I don't know the whole story, but that's how it looks to me.) If it was really about his concern for his child's rights, then he would not allow the name(s) printed in the paper to protect her.

Maelstrom - 15/6/04 at 20:13

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Maelstrom wrote

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If you're going to use the laws to your advantage, you'd better make sure you follow them yourself.

What I can't find is a source that says Newdow broke the law. (Though I did see that he holds a law degree.) Do you mind providiing a source for this assertion?


It wasn't so much that he *broke* the law, which he has most certainly not done. But he brought forth a case that hinged on his legal relationship with his daughter.

As her father, he asserted she was being damaged, and that he had the right to stop this damage and indoctination into what he felt was an objectionable church-state collusion. If he was her father in the eyes of the law, this would have been a defendable position, but he wasn't. No matter how much love exists between them, Michael doesn't fit the legal definition of father. In fact, the opposition has a cooperative, built-in witness for them that he *doesn't* have custody of the child: the girl's mother. And he *knew* that when he filed in the first place. The foundation of his lawsuit was made with sand instead of stone.

Basically, I figure if you're going to court for an ideal and saying "I'm doing this for my daughter", you need to be able to prove she actually is your daughter in that same court of law. If you can't, then even the most popular, most transparently righteous, and universally acceptable movement is going to get dismissed somewhere along the line.

As he was taking on what he *knew* was a very unpopular and controversial position, he should have gone to great lengths to remove any wiggle room for his opposition. Instead, without the legal definition of father, he left that rug out to be yanked.

And Thylacine? .... I agree with you 100%. In fact, using your child to "attack" your enemy in a child custody battle has to be the most horrible thing you can do. Since I've been through that, as the child, it's a real button with me.

In this case, I'm trying real hard *not* to see this case as a "He's obviously using the kid to make trouble". I want to see that Newdow had legitimate concerns. But because of the atmosphere, and the shaky legal ground, these concerns invariably wind up tainted. Even if he had no ulterior motives at all, and was really worried about his daughter and the rest of the children in America, how can that ever be separated from the rest of the junk circulating around? There will always be room for vehement debate. He wasn't exactly a clean-cut "poster child" for the movement.

I guess that's what I want to see. I want someone who fits the legal definition of parent or guardian. I want no family problems that could taint public perceptions. I want a clear-cut, church vs. state battle, with American citizens excercising their civil rights on both sides of the fence. Perhaps, when the class action lawsuit Newdow has aluded to comes up, I'll actually be able to see that.

taekwondodo - 15/6/04 at 20:31

I haven't bothered to follow or read everything associated with this case, so I may be incorrect here. But, to say he's not her *father* just because he doesn't have custody is grossly unfair and inaccurate. Unless there's an actual question of paternity he is, without doubt, her father. The fact that her mother has legal custody and the right to make decisions for the girl in no way negates this relationship.

Bamf Bunny - 15/6/04 at 20:54

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
If he was her father in the eyes of the law, this would have been a defendable position, but he wasn't. No matter how much love exists between them, Michael doesn't fit the legal definition of father.

Newdow is this child's father, both biologically and legally, and no one - not the mother, not the state, not the Supreme Court - denies that. The Supreme Court ruling was based on whether, as non-custodial parent, he had the legal right to represent the child's interest in a case in which he disagreed with the custodial parent.

Here is the full text of the Supreme Court decision.

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The foundation of his lawsuit was made with sand instead of stone.

The Ninth Circuit Court found otherwise. Their decision unambiguously states that
"Newdow has standing as a parent to challenge a practice that interferes with his right to direct the religious education of his daughter". They go on to cite legal precedent.

The key difference in the Supreme Court ruling was the mother's intervention, which indicated a conflict between the parents. She spoke up after the Ninth Circuit Court decision, long after the initial filing, and after the Magistrate and District courts had heard the case, and the Ninth Circuit Court had reversed the District Court's decision.

Full text of Ninth District Court decision: http://www.ca9.uscourts.gov/ca9/newopinions.nsf/FE05EEE79C2A97B688256BE3007FEE32/$file/0016423.pdf?openelement

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Basically, I figure if you're going to court for an ideal and saying "I'm doing this for my daughter", you need to be able to prove she actually is your daughter [...] without the legal definition of father [...] I guess that's what I want to see. I want someone who fits the legal definition of parent

Where do you get this?

Maelstrom - 15/6/04 at 20:54

I took a look at Bunny's link. It's a couple months old, but that doesn't matter in this case. Here's a cut+paste of the more pertinant bits. I've placed a colon : between gaps.

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".... even as his big moment before the nation's highest court approaches, Newdow has another dispute on his mind: his ongoing custody battle with the mother of his daughter. Newdow, 50, denounces the "ethically, morally and legally bankrupt" family courts that have restricted his visits with the girl to two weekends a month.

Newdow's remarks aren't just the rantings of an angry single father. His custody fight with the girl's mother, Sandra Banning, is at the heart of the Pledge case — and could prevent a definitive ruling on whether the "under God" clause is constitutional.

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Banning, the girl's custodial parent, is challenging Newdow's right to include their daughter in his suit about the Pledge. If the justices decide that Newdow isn't entitled to bring a lawsuit on behalf of the girl, they could dismiss the case without ruling whether the Pledge is constitutional.

Banning, 44, and Newdow never married. Banning says she became a "committed Christian" after bearing their child. She says that she and the girl, who has not been named in court papers, attend church regularly. Banning says the girl, a student in the Elk Grove school system about 15 miles south of Sacramento, likes to lead her fourth-grade class in reciting the Pledge.

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Newdow grew up in Teaneck, N.J., the son of Jews who he says encouraged him to "think for myself" on religious matters. He became an atheist in his teens.

A graduate of Brown University, UCLA medical school and the University of Michigan law school, Newdow says he is bothered by what he calls the indignities atheists face in this country, from the Pledge to "In God We Trust" on currency. He challenged the Pledge in court in 2000. By then, he was a father.

At first, he did not embrace the role of parent. During a family court hearing, Newdow claimed he had been the victim of "date rape." The judge called that absurd.

Banning is reluctant to discuss the custody battle. But, she says, "I'm no rapist, and Mike Newdow's no victim."

Newdow has provided child support, and initially the girl lived only with Banning. Five years ago, he went to family court to seek more time with the girl and more say in decisions concerning her.

The result so far: Newdow, who lives a 20-minute drive from Banning's house, gets his daughter two weekends a month and some holidays. He gets input into decisions concerning her, but Banning has the last word. Newdow says he plans to keep pressing for more access to his daughter."


*whew!* This is the most tangled "he said - she said" bit I've seen for quite a while!

Okay, fist thing's first: I'm using the wrong definition. Instead of "father", I should be using "custodial guardian" or something along those lines. :doh! Newdow's custody is in contention, not paternity.

From what I can tell, he filed suit in 2000, before he had any concern about his potential child at all. In fact, in the beginning he apparently wanted nothing to do with her. Only after some time had passed (maybe a year or two? It's hard to tell from the context of this article...) did he decide he wanted to have more time with his daughter. And only recently did he decide to "include" her in his apparently pre-existing lawsuit.

If he'd just stuck with his own lawsuit, there wouldn't be a problem. No one can argue that he doesn't have the right to sue on his own behalf. But when he claimed to be doing this on his daughter's behalf, especially when he didn't want a thing to do with her at the onset, just muddies things even further.

It looks like he had a change of heart somewhere along the way, and truly wants all the best for his child. According to Banning, that's what she's been geeting from father and daughter: an abiding love and respect for each other. But when you've got a record as spotty as Newdow's on the subject... who's going to believe you?

And when you make your daughter the focus of a whirlwind of controversy, something a child is ill-equipped to handle, let alone understand.... Believe me, if some right-wing fundie nutcase did the equivalent thing, using their child as an excuse to "bring God back into His proper place in our society", I'd be just as angry. You don't put your kids in the spotlight this way. You're supposed to shield them, not use them as a shield.

Bamf Bunny - 15/6/04 at 21:23

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
From what I can tell, he filed suit in 2000, before he had any concern about his potential child at all [...]

In Newdow's Original Complaint, made in March of 2000, he files as the "next friend" of his daughter. ("Next friend" is legal terminology for someone who files on behalf of someone else who can't file for themselves - because they're a child, say, or mentally disabled - but isn't that person's legal guardian.)

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If he'd just stuck with his own lawsuit, there wouldn't be a problem. No one can argue that he doesn't have the right to sue on his own behalf.

He can't challenge the Pledge in schools "on his own behalf", because he's not a student in a school that recites it.

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And only recently did he decide to "include" her in his apparently pre-existing lawsuit.

His daughter has been at the center of the case from day one.

Links to copies of many of the legal filings and decisions

thylacine - 16/6/04 at 19:58

Quote: "And when you make your daughter the focus of a whirlwind of controversy, something a child is ill-equipped to handle, let alone understand.... Believe me, if some right-wing fundie nutcase did the equivalent thing, using their child as an excuse to "bring God back into His proper place in our society", I'd be just as angry. You don't put your kids in the spotlight this way. You're supposed to shield them, not use them as a shield."

Basically, this dude is a jerk, plain and simple. He is as much a jerk as the idiot who ran over a kid trying to catch a baseball (recently in the news). People like that should not have kids at all.

Bamf Bunny - 16/6/04 at 20:10

Well ... that's one way to look at it, thylacinie.

Sometimes, though, as a parent, you have to make choices about what's best for your child. And they're not always clear.

Should you encourage a kid who's different to fit in, so he'll have an easier time? Or to take the lumps and find his self-confidence elsewhere?

Do you send a seriously ill child to school to have as close to a normal life as possible? Or keep them home so they can enjoy what time they can?

Do you let your daughter say the Pledge, even though you believe it's a violation of her rights, so that things will be quiet? Or do you fight for her rights in the belief that some disruption is a price worth paying to ensure her freedom?

thylacine - 17/6/04 at 12:48

I dunno all the answers, Bamf Bunny... but from what I've seen & heard about this dude, it looks to me like he's more concerned about himself & his crusade than about his kid. I feel sorry for the kid who's caught in the middle of all this.

Maelstrom - 15/7/04 at 17:46

At the risk of opening up an unintentionally fiesty can o' worms, I thought I'd brighten some days with this little tidbit, cut+pasted from Lycos. Chances are, a lot of you already know about this, but for the rest of us....

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Senate Blocks Bush Move to Ban Same-Sex Marriage

WASHINGTON (Reuters) - President Bush on Wednesday failed in his attempt to amend the Constitution to ban same-sex marriage when a divided U.S. Senate blocked the measure, virtually killing it for at least this election year.

On a 48-to-50 vote, six Republicans broke ranks as proponents of a proposed amendment fell 12 votes short of the needed 60 to end a Democratic procedural hurdle.

White House hopeful John Kerry and fellow Senate Democrats accused Republicans of pushing the proposal merely to rally their conservative base for the November presidential and congressional elections.

Democrats also charged that four days of Senate debate on it could have been better spent on such issues as health care and national security.

"The floor of the United States Senate should only be used for the common good, not issues designed to divide us for political purposes," Kerry said in a statement.

Bush expressed regret that the Republican-led Senate blocked the proposal, which would define marriage as a union strictly between a man and a woman, and urged the Republican-led House of Representatives to pass it. "It is important for our country to continue the debate on this important issue," he said.

But the House is also expected to fall far short of the needed votes when it takes up the measure, likely in September.

THREE-QUARTERS OF STATES

For a proposed constitutional amendment to become law, it must be approved by two-thirds of the House and Senate and then ratified by 38 of the 50 states.

Sen. Orrin Hatch, a Utah Republican, rejected complaints that the proposal is discriminatory, saying, "Gays have a right to live the way they want."

"But they should not have the right to change the definition of traditional marriage. That is where we draw the line," he added.

Polls show most Americans oppose same-sex marriage, but are split on whether a constitutional ban is needed. Surveys also find voters believe many other issues are more important.

Kerry and his vice presidential running mate, Sen. John Edwards of North Carolina, oppose same-sex marriage, but argue amending the Constitution is not the answer. Like most Democratic lawmakers, they say states should have the power to define marriage.

Bush in February called on the U.S. Congress to approve an amendment after Massachusetts' highest court ruled gay couples had a right to wed and San Francisco began issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples.

SAME-SEX MARRIAGE

This helped trigger a crush of lawsuits, some challenging the right of one state to refuse to recognize a same-sex marriage that was licensed in another.

Even in defeat, Senate Republicans obtained at least two goals: They got a debate on the issue and put senators on the record.

"It's been a good debate," said Sen. Jeff Sessions, an Alabama Republican. "We will be back again and again" pushing a proposed constitutional amendment.

"And it will become law," Sessions said.

Republicans contend gay marriage devalues traditional marriage, which they say is a pillar of civilization, and should be outlawed for the sake of children.

Kerry and Edwards were the only senators who did not vote on the procedural hurdle. Both said they would have interrupted their campaigns and been in the Senate, however, if there had been a vote on passage of the measure.

Three of 48 Democrats ended up voting to end their party's procedural hurdle, while six of 51 Republicans voted to maintain it after a number of Republicans disagreed earlier this week over the wording of the proposed amendment.

"This was an attempt to divide Americans that backfired and divided Republicans," said Cheryl Jacques of the Human Rights Campaign, a gay and lesbian civil rights group.


It's not an end to things, but at least it shows that even some who oppose the idea on religious grounds find the concept of an amendment distasteful enough to block.

thylacine - 19/7/04 at 22:57

Hey, I'm a Christian and I don't have anything against gays. So remember, not all Christians are right wing extremists. And I'm glad they blocked Bush! Someone needs to block that guy for once.

BamfChyck - 22/7/04 at 14:18

Anybody see the movie "SAVED!" yet? I caught it yesterday and thought it was pretty funny, and interesting. Some of the acting was excellent.
I can see why it pissed off so many people. It's not very flattering to people who see God with a narrow mind.

thylacine - 28/7/04 at 16:11

No... I did not see "saved." I heard it was sort of portraying Christians as being fundamentalists... I sometimes feel the media in general sees all religious people as being right wing, which is unfortunate. What do you think? Do you think the media portrays religious people as being close-minded?

Bamfette - 29/7/04 at 17:32

well, i haven't seen it but from the sounds of it, it is just showing the extreme fundie side of things, as in, it is not saying ALL Christians are like that, but it IS saying SOME Christians are like that. and some are. seems there are some normal kids at a Christian high school, and the extremists are getting out of hand persecuting others for minor 'sins' and some bad decisions, from what i can see.

thylacine - 2/8/04 at 15:43

Sounds like a good movie... Maybe I should get it on video.

BamfChyck - 21/11/04 at 23:09

I just wanted to vent for a bit...

Fred Phelps is back in my town, protesting at a local high school. The school is putting on a play about Matthew Shepherd, and apparently Fred and his flock just couldn't stay away. They have their horrible sign and are spewing their usual filth.
I am already so sad--deeply, deeply sad, about the election results that this just feels like one more thing to top it all off. Not just the president, but all the anti-same gender marriage things that passed, and then Fred is back.

I'm trying to look on the bright side.
*At least Fred didn't come to my church, like he did last time he visited.
*At least I have a church!
*At least I live in an "Island of Sane People" (as Dan Savage put it so well in his column) and Fred is just visiting.

So. I tried to talk my partner into moving to Canada a few weeks ago, but SOMEONE thinks we need to make careful decisions based on something other than emotion. "We can't move for just four years, and we'd have to give up 40% of our savings." Blahh!
I guess I'm fine with that for now. But if Bush changes the constitution--that's it--I'm moving! And I'll bring my brother with me, and we'll carry my partner there, locked in the truck of the car, if necessary! They must need computer geeks and funeral directors somewhere in Canada.

But we're leaving Fred here.

P.S. For those of you who don't know of Dan Savage, this is what I'm talking about : http://www.thestranger.com/2004-11-11/savage.html
Enjoy!

HoodedMan - 22/11/04 at 22:44

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Originally posted by BamfChyck
But if Bush changes the constitution--that's it--I'm moving! And I'm bring my brother with me, and we'll carry my partner there, locked in the truck of the car, if necessary! They must need computer geeks and funeral directors somewhere in Canada.

But we're leaving Fred here.

P.S. For those of you who don't know of Dan Savage, this is what I'm talking about : http://www.thestranger.com/2004-11-11/savage.html
Enjoy!


You'll have a run for your money up there for computer geeks if it does pass. But even though I'm generally pessimistic about such things, I don't think it can pass.

BamfChyck - 22/11/04 at 23:10

Run for my money about computer geeks?

Does that mean there's a lot of them up in Canada? I'm not the computer geek, so that's okay with me. As long as one of us is employed, we should be okay.

HoodedMan - 22/11/04 at 23:54

I meant I would be right up there job-searching as well. ;)

Bamfette - 23/11/04 at 18:18

there also IS a lot of computer geeks.... remember, Softimage, Silicon Graphics, and all that nifty CGI stuff, while it is employed mainly in the Bay area by the likes if ILM and Pixar, was actually developed in Canada. among other things. they're mainly in Quebec and Ontario, but some in Vancouver as well. we don't have as many in sheer numbers as the US, but remember our population is also far less, percentage wise i think it's actually higher. until recently Canada's suffered a huge 'brain drain' to the States because we didn't have enough high end technology jobs for everyone up here looking for them, and the jobs in the US offer them sweet deals. but on the bright side, we see 4 times more immigrants with university degrees in high technology professions than the ones that leave for the states. you could be one of those.

if you speak French, Quebec handles some of it's own immigration, and you'd probably have an easier time of immigrating. but you would almost certainly need to speak French.

BamfChyck - 23/11/04 at 23:31

The website I went to actually said my technical assosciate's degree (Mortuary Science) was more valuable then my Master's (Counseling Psychology) or undergrad. Plus I know how to do Green Funerals and those are popular in Canada.

I don't speak French at all, but I do speak Anishinabe passably and my brother speaks several languages, including that and French. Would that help us at all, do you think? My partner only speaks English, but can swear in Japanese!

Besides, if the computer geeks can't get computer jobs, there's always waste management. Until a computer job opens up, that is.

HoodedMan - 24/11/04 at 18:54

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Originally posted by BamfChyck
The website I went to actually said my technical assosciate's degree (Mortuary Science) was more valuable then my Master's (Counseling Psychology) or undergrad. Plus I know how to do Green Funerals and those are popular in Canada.


For the social sciences (e.g. psychology and sociology), you generally need a Master or a Ph.D. to get recognized and get a serious job. And Mortuary Science is always in demand. :P

Bamfette - 24/11/04 at 19:19

what exactly is a Green Funeral? just curious :p never really had to look into the different types before...

multilingual of any kind can be a huge boon, but Canada and Quebec in particular is a bilingual country, we have two official languages, English and French. (it's why, if you ever see a Canadian product, we always have the labels repeat the same thing in French) Quebequois is a bit different than Parisian French, but any form of French, be it true Parisian or Cajun French is preferable above any other language for that reason... particularly in Quebec because unlike the rest of Canada where the first language is English, Quebec's first language is French, English is secondary. that's why speaking French would help things along with immigrating to Quebec...

and yeah, we have a shortage of doctors and nurses right now, so i'd imagine any job wiht medical leanings would be extremely helpful in moving up here.

Bamf Bunny - 24/11/04 at 21:03

The official website on immigrating to Canada only mentions French and English, the two official languages of the country, so I'd assume those are the only ones they care about. There's an interactive test that lets you see if you're qualified to enter.

Having a job already lined up counts for a lot, so if you make contacts with Canadians in your field and they want to hire you, you shouldn't have much of a problem getting in.

If there's a lot of activity on this thread about moving between countries, I'm going to split it off into a second thread.

BamfChyck - 30/11/04 at 03:25

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Originally posted by Bamfette
what exactly is a Green Funeral? just curious :p never really had to look into the different types before...


It means a funeral with low environmental impact. Usualy no embalming
(or minimal embalming, if it's required)

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Originally posted by Bamfetteand yeah, we have a shortage of doctors and nurses right now, so i'd imagine any job wiht medical leanings would be extremely helpful in moving up here.

BamfChyck - 30/11/04 at 03:26

I hope I'm posting this in the right place.

I know I'm not talking about religion specifically, but I see Fred and his ilk as being related to the misuse of religion, so it sprang from there. And from what I've read, it was the religious right and fundamentalists who got out and voted in record numbers that swung the presidential election the way it did, so that seemed to tie in too.


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Originally posted by Bamfette
what exactly is a Green Funeral? just curious :p never really had to look into the different types before...


It means a funeral with low environmental impact. Usually, no embalming (or minimal embalming, if it's required), a biodegradable casket or container, and no marker. To make the concept really work, it needs to be combined with a green cemetery and those are few and far between. In fact, I don't know of any that are public. They space people out a lot, don't allow semi-permanent containers, and usually don't allow outer enclosers (vaults). They also minimize or eliminate the use of pesticides and herbicides.

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Originally posted by Bamfetteand yeah, we have a shortage of doctors and nurses right now, so i'd imagine any job wiht medical leanings would be extremely helpful in moving up here.


Well, technically, I guess embalming is a medical procedure. I mean, things could get pretty yucky if no one took care of the people who needed it.

fourpawsonthefloor - 1/12/04 at 04:37

Well, I have finally slogged through that post. Took me a couple of days. First I have to say I am extremely impressed at the depth of knowledge and passion that you all have.
My take on it.....love, empathy, kindness. Think about it, you can't really go wrong if you live by those things. That is what God is about for me. You do good things, be nice, it works. And for those who do not believe in God, it still works....where can you go wrong?
Now I don't mean "be a doormat", that is not loving yourself!
I happen to believe in God quite stongly, but I have a problem feeling comfortable surrounded by worshipers, because even though I love the feeling of community and peace in a church, there is always those few jackasses that think that it is their job to tell you how to worship God. Namely what you are doing wrong. Or how they are better than you cause they "honour him better". Ick.
So call me spiritual for lack of another saying.
This is part of what called me so strongly to Kurt's character. The fact that he is loving and forgiving ect. Not that we all don't have our less than glorious moments, but from what I have seen the people on this board have this concept down pretty good. This is the longest religious discussion I have ever heard about or read that hasn't degenerated into bigoted fighting. You guys are awesome!
And because Bush has been mentioned a few times it reminded me of a little clip that was on the news today. It had him thanking the Canadians that came out to wave to him....with all five fingers. HA! Nearly peed my pants (having kids will do that to ya). Good thing that he visited the east, and not out here in B.C. Most out here would give him the Trudeau salute for sure!
Paws

thylacine - 16/1/05 at 19:32

Yes, you are right. It is awesome that this religious discussion has not turned into an argument. I hope this discussion will continue on in some way. Sorry I've been away so long, guys. I've been real busy -- and yes, I can't stand another four years of him, either!!!

Tatu - 29/3/05 at 03:15

*passes out marshmallow peeps, because its easter, and because jesus was a bunny*

Bamfette - 29/3/05 at 03:55

you know, he really was....

http://www.livejournal.com/community/absolute_jesus/173195.html


:D

fourpawsonthefloor - 29/3/05 at 22:34

Very funny picture!

Have a couple of quotes that made me think of this thread and you guys...funny that it was bumped up again right when I was thinking of posting this.

Why is there enough religion to incite war, but not enough religion to incite tolerance?

Don’t analyze my beliefs and I won’t pick out the flaws in yours.

Don’t judge me based on your intolerance.

Better to be an open sinner than a false saint.

You tell me that I sin, you say I’m bound for hell, so once your judgment condemns you, I shall see you there.

Never knock on heaven’s door…ring the bell then run (he hates that).

Nightmare - 30/3/05 at 21:18

I was agnostic growing up... Dad was a (very) lasped Catholic and Mom was protestant. I went to babtist bible school, and talked to Mormon missionaries, but never was converted to any denomination. I came to believe that any devoutly held uplifting faith was a way to God, so it didn't matter which one you picked.

As a young adult, I picked Wicca, and studied it quite a bit though I never really practiced it. As a pagan, I didn't discriminate between denominations... if you said you worshiped Christ, you were a Christian, period. But even as a Pagan I could see that some, and it was a minority of them, who said they followed Him truly followed His teachings. I learned that those who called themselves by His name and preached hate were many, but those who preached peace and love were few, and I respected those few.

About 5 years ago, my family had a reunion and they asked me to attend this really on fire Pentecostal church in Redding, Calif (Bethel Temple). That sense of the supernatural I had been looking for all my life was in that building, and I learned that it was the Holy Spirit. I suprised my husband and myself by converting.

It took months and years to pull myself from the Pagan worldview, but I retain vestiges of it, like refusing to buy into denomination politics. I do kinda frown on Mormons and JW as groups because they downplay the divinity of Christ, but I still maintain my old standard: Those who act as His followers ARE His followers, no matter what label they call themselves.

I'm the only one in my church who thinks that they should let Terri Schiavo go, because a liquidfied cerebral cortex = no person left.

...

*Hangs her head* There is one thing that being a Pagan first did to me... I just can't get into the song "The Old Rugged Cross". I turn my head away and try not to snicker when I hear it. That's because the first song I heard to that tune was by Leslie Fish, who is a PAGAN (in capital letters) Filk-singer, and the song was called Stone Dance.

On a Hill, far away, stands a stone menhir ring, the emblem of druidic pride.
And we love that stone ring, and the circle within, as the Goddes as Hag, Mom, and Bride...

[Chorus] So we'll dance round the old menhir ring, till the flames of the fire have died down.
We'll emote, slit a goat's throat, and sing, then get dressed and drive back into town...

On a hill nearby stands, a looped and straight cross, of the type that some folks call an Anhk
(*<- rhymes with 'drank'*)
Keeping Evil at bay, like the shield of the Law, for which we have Gardner to Thank...

(Chorus)

In the valley below, shines a flashing blue light, on the car of the local police.
But the Law's on our side, and we soon will be free, well, at least by next Mid-summer's eve...

(Chorus)


I'm so bad. =)

Bamfette - 31/3/05 at 00:17

speaking of Terri Schiavo, i don't understand why people feel the need to stick their noses into what should be a very private, personal matter. it disgusts me. I think her husband is completely in the right. she has been in a vegetative state for 15 years, and as you said, CAT scans have shown that several important parts of her brain are essentially nothing more than liquid. Terri is dead, her heart just ahsn't stopped beating yet. but if her husband wanted to keep her alive for religious reasons, well, that's his right too. the point is it's not my place or anyone elses to make this kind of decision for him. yes, her family has a right to protest his decision, even if i disagree with it. they ar her FAMILY. so i don't have a problem with THEM fighting the decision. i just disagree with them.

but the religious groups inserting themselves into this? they are the people i can not STAND. meddling, nosy, preachy... but essentially just assholes.

Northstars Love - 31/3/05 at 11:09

I have to throw in my 2 cents worth. I've been watching bits and pieces of the Terry Schiavo case and true the religious fanatics are out there preaching to reinsert the tube and some have gone as far as to say that her husband is murdering her. But my point is what were some of these people that got arrested trying to do? Give her water? She can't drink it! So what good would it have done?


A young boy of 10 was arrested for trying to give Terry water. Are you telling me a 10 year old thought this up on his own and that he was willing to get arrested? Hell No! His father holding up the Bible on TV put him up to it! When the woman interviewer asked the young boy questions the young boy couldn't answer but instead his father jumped in and answsered for him.

Would you not say that this is child endangerment?

Lastly, the government needs to stay out of everyone's personal lives and let us make our own decisions!

Maelstrom - 31/3/05 at 16:48

My mother and I have gotten to disagreeing on several things, now, since she went whole-heartedly into Orthodoxy, but we finally stood in unison on this one. This was a private matter, it should never have been dragged into the spotlight like this, and the politicians were putting up a hue and cry solely to get election brownie points from the infamous Religious Right (who are now feeling "angry and betrayed" that their GOP didn't do more about it... :whistle). Poor Terri wasn't living, she was existing, and existing with methods just as extreme as living on a respirator.

Mind you, I did see a supposed affidavit, created from the testimony of an RN who was at the clinic that took care of Terri during the early years of her hospitalization. The kind of things she detailed were nothing short of wilful, malicious neglect, falisification of records, and outright murder attempts on the part of her husband. But you'll notice I use the term "supposed"? I have no way to verify if the charges have merit, if the woman worked at that nursing home, if she was an RN, or even if she existed at all. Considering how much our "liberal" media loves to bash on nursing home abuses, and how dim a view our judicial system would take of such abuses, why is it only the right wing radio stations and so on have waved this affidavit around? It makes me *incredibly* suspicious.... :shifty

But let me give you a little "inside look" at the way our church felt on it....

On Sunday March 20th, in the usual single-page, double-sided, triple-folded pamphlet that accompanies the service, there was an admonition to pray for Terri and her parents... and that the "vegetative" diagnosis was controversial, and she was being murdered by her husband. (To my knowledge, the parents had found ONE PHYSICIAN out of 100 that said she was misdiagnosed. If that 1% had said, instead, that she was a vegetable, and 99 others said she was functional, who do you think they would have believed?)

I quietly chalked this up to a "right to life" mindset that I would never be able to fully embrace, no matter how into the church I get. Just another little thing I couldn't agree with. My mother had a much harder time with it, perhaps because she had embraced everything about the Orthodox Church, and spoke with Father Leo on the matter. Father Leo, usually a very reasonable person, felt it was murder, it was painful for Terri to be "starved to death", and that man didn't have the right to ttake a life away. Period. Trying to explain any differing view to him was like talking to a brick wall. From this exchange, I've come to believe that the religious stance against removing Terri's tube doesn't have anything to do with whether someone would *want* to live as a vegetable: they're alive, and anything that "makes them not alive" is evil and wrong. We don't have the right to take lives, and must do everything in our power to preserve it.

I suppose this is consistant with other religious views on abortion and "assisted suicide". But... dammit, *I* wouldn't want extraodrinary measures keep me alive when I have no mind, memory, or consciousness! If one good thing has come out of this mess, it's that thousands of people are making living trusts, putting their "do not resuscitate" desires, and their "I designate X as my guardian" wishes, IN WRITING. Hopefully, we won't see too many more things like this in the future.

The Schaivos were having what amounted to an open, messy custody battle over Terri. It had gone on for 15 years. They believed she had consciousness, the husband believed she didn't. While the husband has struck many people as a rather cold and slimy man, I have to wonder how much of that is from fifteen years of constant struggle over someone you dearly love, the agony of seing a body without a mind, and being villified by your in-laws for doing what you feel/know is the right thing.

I have the horrible feeling that even if everyone in the family had agreed that Terri was brain dead, and that it was most merciful to remove her tube and "let her be reunited with God", all it would take would be one stranger to raise a stink about it, and we'd have this whole problem all over again. Everyone would jump in, call the entire family murderers, claim Terri was a victim of neglect, that we kill our disabled when they're no longer convenient, that it's not our decision, etc. etc.

Considering the poor woman died today, this whole thing is finally, THANKFULLY, moot....

Well, not really. The husband wants her body cremated. The parents are Roman Catholic and want her buried. :doh!

Bamfette - 31/3/05 at 17:17

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Originally posted by **Northstars Love**
I have to throw in my 2 cents worth. I've been watching bits and pieces of the Terry Schiavo case and true the religious fanatics are out there preaching to reinsert the tube and some have gone as far as to say that her husband is murdering her. But my point is what were some of these people that got arrested trying to do? Give her water? She can't drink it! So what good would it have done?



it would have killed her faster.... she had no ability to swallow. she would have choked/drowned to death.

and the 10 year old was very sad. i think he genuinely believed in what he was doing to an extent, just because he had been so indoctrinated with his parents beliefs, but they were using him as a shield. they arrest him, he's a juvenile, gets a slap on the wrist.

BamfChyck - 1/4/05 at 01:29

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Originally posted by Maelstrom
The husband wants her body cremated. The parents are Roman Catholic and want her buried. :doh!


Just for the record, officially, Roman Catholics are allowed by their church to be cremated now. They can even receive a full funeral mass or Mass of Christian Burial with the ashes present in the church sanctuary. So the parents' issue is probably more with their family tradition than with their church.
And they may just be unilaterally opposed to whatever their son-in-law wants. They certainly seem angry enough to let emotions make their decisions.

At my funeral home, we've had surviving family members threaten to sue us for allowing the surving spouse to authorize cremation. But when there is a surving spouse, that person has the only voice that counts in the decision of final disposition.
No one who has threatened to sue for that issue has been able to find a lawyer willing to take the case because the laws in my state are so clear. I don't know what Florida's are like, but I doubt they could get something together quickly enough to prevent cremation. It usually happens within a few days.

If there is no surving spouse, authorization for final disposition goes by degree of kinship and gets a lot more complicated.

What a horrible situation for everyone involved. It became very clear to me that a lot of people involved in this didn't give a hoot about Terri, and that's what I find so very sad. Death can be a very precious thing in some circumstances, and I hope the people who loved Terri can find some peace now.

fourpawsonthefloor - 1/4/05 at 02:46

I didn't have so much of an issue that Terri died, that was a blessing to me...she'll be at peace now. I did find it a little hard to take that she had to die of dehydration. Euthanasia is a real tool, for those who would otherwise suffer. Gosh knows I have had to help many animals cross that bridge, and have watched animals die without it. An overdose of anethetic is much preferable over days of lingering in immense pain and suffering.
I too am frusterated by the people that make this their crusade - her family was begging these people to be peaceful, and they still were making such a fuss. What a travesty!
And I agree - what were those people that were "smuggling" food and water in thinking??? IF she could eat and drink on her own, why would she have the tube in the first place? Common sense is lost again in the fervor of "being right".
Rest in peace now Terri.
Paws

Saint Kurt - 1/4/05 at 05:50

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Euthanasia is a real tool, for those who would otherwise suffer.


One of the major reasons I chose to pursue a DVM over an MD has to do with the oath. A graduating medical doctor promises to "protect human life" which a graduating veterinary doctor promises to "protect against suffering". (The emphasis is mine.) To me that's a big deal. I want to protect life, but not at the expense of its quality.

I'm actually taking a elective in animal euthanasia and owner bereavement in vet school right now and it's been very interesting.

One of the things we've talked about a lot is that at the end of life, a long illness, or other ultimately fatal condition, an animal's owner might chose euthanasia to end the suffering of a beloved pet as a "gift" in return for so many years of love and devotion. A big part of the class is how to counsel an owner in making the right decision at the right time and to feel comfortable with that decision.

I'm not sure if we'll ever reach a point where, as a society, we can make these kind of decisions as it applies to human suffering.

-e

CurlyyHairGirl - 1/4/05 at 18:07

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Euthanasia is a real tool, for those who would otherwise suffer.


The whole Terris S. case prompted my family to talk about this last night at dinner. I have no way of knowing what it must have been like for her in the last 15 years. My dad said she was basically dead, and whoever said she was just existing, I agree with that.
I admit, there are alot of things I don't understand, but I do know that if I was ever in Terri's place, I wouldn't want to rot slowly on a hospital bed, or be starved to death. I asked my parents why people can't be Euthanised if there only other options were to stay in a vegitated state or starve to death, and my mom said it was illegal. To me, that is BS.

Will someone explain why it is illegal (even if it may be the person in question's wishes) to be euthanised, because the whole thing is over my head. I know that when I had to take my dog, Sarah, to be put down two years ago, all she felt was prick and that was the end for her. No more pain in her stomach or joints, and that she was in a better place. I decided then, if I were suffering I would want to got the same way. And isn't it illegal to starve an animal to death? How come that doesn't apply to people as well? Explain these things to me please. I need to understand. I swear, IMO the human race is the most flawed, and quite frankly I don't know if I can stand being a part of it anymore. It's to emotionally draining for me. I can't stand it anymore.
Please.

fourpawsonthefloor - 1/4/05 at 21:19

A lot of our laws have a basis somewhere in the church, and I think that is there is such upheaval everytime someone wants to change things, in that the change to the law will often be different than the "laws" of some religions. Two of the main topics that I am interested in right now that are "hot" ones are euthanasia and gay marriage.

It depends on where you are, but self euthanizing (suicide) isn't illegal anywhere in Canada to my knowledge, they just want to make sure you are of sound mind. (In that if you were suicidal because you were clinically depressed, you would go to the mental health ward. If you were terminal and decided to kill yourself, that's OK)

Up in Canada we had a guy recently make his death public - he had a meal with his family, and then killed himself surrounded by them. He was living on borrowed time, and was in agony.

The lines are blurry when you ask someone else to euthanize you. Then, legally, they are committing murder. Though I am sure that there are assisted sucicides (euthanasia) all over the place that are overlooked by the authorities, in a "so long as I don't see it" kind of way. I hope that progress to this and other laws do occur, but changing laws as you all know is about as easy as catching a whale with dental floss. It takes a lot of time and patience.
(Though it seems to me that we are progressing in these two laws quicker up here in Canada. So if you're gay or want to be euthanized, I suppose its a good place to be :rolleyes)

I hope that I am never put in that position, but if I am, I hope that someone will have the courage to help me die.

Curly girl, I remember when I was a teen, and life overwhelmed me. I saw all the crappiness of the human race, all the evil that we commit, all the greed, all the abuse. I was horrified, and was disgusted with the human race in general, so I know what that feeling is like. As I went through my 20's I found that this began to be tempered by the good things that I saw, and experienced and did. The best that I can do, is change what *I* do. That is what makes a difference - individuals.

I'm working on my 30's - I get back to you and let you know how that went. :D

CurlyyHairGirl - 1/4/05 at 21:32

Thanks for that, fourpawsonthefloor, that really helps:)

I know there is alot of good in the world, but right now the bad is far more easier for me to notice and has been since I've been eight.

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I hope that I am never put in that position, but if I am, I hope that someone will have the courage to help me die.


My thoughts exactly.
:shame

And again, Thank you for helping to explain.

HoodedMan - 2/4/05 at 02:55

Indeed. Vegetative patients may still be able to respond to sensory stimuli, but I think if I was in a vegetative state for fifteen years, I would certainly want the "plug" or feeding tube, as it were, pulled.

fourpawsonthefloor - 2/4/05 at 04:30

Oh, I agree, do me in anyway possible, even if I have to starve to death. Gosh, I hope to goodness that absolutely nothing of her conciousness remained, because I cannot envision a worse hell than that, living all those years trapped...it is the stuff that nightmares are made out of.
I just have seen lives linger for days, in immense agony, and I have seen lives that were guarenteed to end in death taken with the quick release of an overdose of anethestic. I prefer the needle, but I would prefer that I be left to die on my own rather than artificially kept alive in a hell of medicines creations. But as usual, very few things in life are black and white, and we are left to deal with the grey as well as we can.

Bamfette - 2/4/05 at 07:22

I too would not want to live in a vegetative state. i mean, this is assuming I will be bedridden and unconsious. give me say, 6 months, possibly a year if doctors are optimistic. after that i don't want to be a burden to anyone, and would like to die with some dignity.

i would also opt for euthanasia, though i know it is illegal. but i also know it is done with 'accidental' overdoses and i would hope they would have the guts to do that with me.

Tatu - 2/4/05 at 07:45

The whole Terri thing just makes me sad and I find it odd that we can't find a line between Life and Existence, I keep seeing everyone throwing around "We have to protect life!" but how can one really *define* life? Terri haa been in a bed for 15 years, she can do nothing. She doesn't even respond (Sure, the video clips show you what seems like responses, but what you don't see is the hundered times they spoke to her and got nothing.) She is alive, she is not living, and granted, I've been known to be callous, but, she is nothing more than a shell and I don't think you can exactly consider that "Life"

I feel as though I should feel badly for Terri's parents, but honestly I really see them as nothing more than selfish (yeah, i'm curel, whatever hear me out first.) The way I honestly see it is that, they aren't keeping her alive for her benefit, they were wanting to keep her alive because they don't want to let her go. They want to have their daughter no matter what, which I can understand, but it isnt looking out for her best interest at all. Even if it were possible that she could recover, her mentality would be nothing she'd be what she was. and even if she did recover mentally to lose fifteen years of your life is bound to have some serious psychological effects on you. i'm 19, if I woke up and was 34 I wouldnt know what to do with myself.

Of course, I also have little sympathy for her parents for they simple fact that the way they handled this disgusts me, they brought this *deeply* personal matter into the public and now her husband is getting DEATH THREATS over it... they have basically ruined his life.

... i really shouldnt post at 2AM, i doubt i'm even making sense, so i'll shut up now.

thylacine - 3/4/05 at 18:54

Hi. I gotta tell yah what worries me. First, Terri is at peace, God bless that poor woman, and God help her poor family...

Anyway... What if our society goes down the slope from this staring point and starts euthanizing people in wheel chairs, retarded people, the mentally ill, elderly people, the poor... and so on... You start with someone you label a "vegetable," then where does it go from there??? That's what happened in Germany in the 1930's, people -- they euthanized retarded people and handicapped people and looke where it led to! This is a scary thought. I know that Terri is at rest now, but the thought of what the future holds worries me.

Some people may say I'm paranoid, but stuff like that can happen. It did before!

thylacine - 3/4/05 at 18:56

P.S. Hey Nightmare, that is cool that you had such diverse spiritual experience in life.

Bamfette - 3/4/05 at 20:03

yes, but the Germans were euthanising the mentally handicapped and such as a means of genetic purification under the guidance of a mad man. this was to end a person's suffering, according to her husband, at her own wishes. In Canada, as mentioned, there is a man who chose to die himself, because he was in agony every waking minute of his life. There are others we never hear about who have their plugs pulled every day. this ISN'T setting some new precident, it happens all the time anyway, has been happening for many years. it just got more public attention becuase her family fought it so much. the debate wasn't over her dying, it was over who got to make that decision, her husband (after being told by terri she would not want to be kept alive by artificial means) or her parents. she was allowed to die because her husband believed it was her wish and there was no hope for recovery.

people in wheelchairs, even those with no vocal capability, and (except in VERY extreme circumstances) the retarded have the capability to voice protest to someone trying to kill them, and i don't think anyone is going to go as far as that, to kill someone who is unwilling to die and has the ability to say so, even if it is by blinking one for yes twice for no.

HoodedMan - 3/4/05 at 22:34

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Originally posted by Bamfette
people in wheelchairs, even those with no vocal capability, and (except in VERY extreme circumstances) the retarded have the capability to voice protest to someone trying to kill them, and i don't think anyone is going to go as far as that, to kill someone who is unwilling to die.


In most cases. My grandfather was apparently in a position in which he was on life support and could not speak; however, he made it very clear that he wanted to be unplugged -- he pantomimed the motions. It's generally clear in most cases what a patient's wishes are.

The problem with this when one is in a vegetative state is that the lack of cognition is implied (or it would not be a vegetative state). One cannot interpret a patient's motions as reflecting their desires because theoretically they have no desires. They're not thinking about what they want.

Bamfette - 3/4/05 at 22:41

yeah, i was editing as you posted, adding the 'and the ability to say so...' bit. the vegetative state is a bit trickier because they are incapable of voicing an opinion, may even be incapable of forming an opinion, their brain may be that damaged, which is why having a living will, or at the very least letting your family know what you want is important.

Shadow_Dancer - 4/4/05 at 02:03

On this thing with Terri, my opinions are definitely on a different page than my church. I just can't understand some of my friends. As far as I'm concerned, if the woman was a Christian they are keeping her from a much better state of being. And she'd been in her vegetative state for 15 years. Let's face it, she wasn't ever going to get better. From what I understand talking to one of my colleagues that knows human anatomy better than I do, all she really had left was autonomic neurological functions. There was no sentience left. This kind of decision is made all the time and it is usually very private. I have no idea what the parents were thinking to let this get dragged along so long. I begged my husband to never allow that to happen to me. We are both in agreement and are considering drawing up living wills.

My mother has a living will and I have possession of it. I live several states away from her so she has made my brother the executor of her estate. However, he is very conservative and so is my sister. She feels that if she ends up on life support, they will refuse to allow her to die with dignity and that her living will may disappear. She knows I will honor her wishes even if I have to fight my siblings. My mother is a retired RN and has seen countless families put their elderly parents through living hell to buy a few more weeks or days. It’s very sad. She is a Christian as well and she is confident in life after death. She never wants that to happen to her and I’ll make certain it won’t.

Bamfette - 4/4/05 at 05:26

That is one thing i did not understand about her parent's motivations... but i took it as me just not understanding the whole Christian mindset, maybe. it's not something i have experience with. but... If her parents were fighting for this under the pretense that it was for thier religious beliefs, why would it be so horible, if she was facing a life in a bed unconsious anyway, or at best brain damage if she ever woke up, to have her die and, according to their beliefs, go to Heaven? that part, i did not understand, and it made them seem very selfish. I mean, if she had a chace of recovery, a real chance... ok... but they seemed to blatantly ignore anything that said there was little to no chance she would ever regain consiousness, instead digging and digging to find people who would say what they wanted to hear - that she was misdiagnosed and would recover. and they often had an agenda to push which announcing she would recover would help promote. and they would listen to this ONE PERCENT of people and claim the other 99% was wrong.

and again they seem rather selfish...

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Michael Schiavo's family has said he plans to take the cremated remains to Pennsylvania, where Terri Schiavo grew up, but her parents and siblings had wanted to bury her body in Florida so they can visit her grave.

http://edition.cnn.com/2005/US/04/02/schiavo.ap/

I mean, yeah, it would be nice to be able to visit her grave. i get that. but again it is a decision based on THEIR wants, not hers.

BamfChyck - 5/4/05 at 00:59

Bamfette, I'm Christian and I don't understand what Terri's parents were thinking any more than you do. It gives me a headache jsut to think about.

The nice thing with cremains is that they can be split up among different people. If her husband were willing, he could have her cremains divided so he can bring some to Pennsylvania, and her parents could bury or inurn some in Florida.

Just the other day I helped a family who wanted the cremains divided into 15 parcels. The selected 15 memento (small) urns to house the cremains, and everyone will get one.

When my grandfather-in-law died, I split his cremains up for his children and grandchildren. Some were scattered, some put in special gardens, and I think my sister-in-law still has some on a shelf. It's all good.

I don't know what Terri wanted done with her cremains, or if she ever expressed an opinion on it. But to me, this seems like an easy way to try to help her parents heal. They seem to need a lot of healing.

Nightmare - 6/4/05 at 03:25

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P.S. Hey Nightmare, that is cool that you had such diverse spiritual experience in life.


Thanks... I used to run an old fashion dial up bbs on the WWIV network. On it I hosted a forum called "A Matter Of Faith". I didn't discriminate on any faiths there, though I was openly posting from the Pagan point of view. My main rule was that everyone stay polite.

The first Christian I ever really respected posted there, she called herself Pooh Lady. =)

We'd also get the fundy xtian types, but they weren't the only ones who'd rattle their swords. The Asatru (Norse Pagans) would get nasty too. If I was being called unfair by extremists on both sides, I figured I was doing things just about right.

thylacine - 22/5/05 at 19:21

I know they took Terri off life support to end her suffering... BUT !!! What if... and this could possibly happen in the future... What if they start euthanizing handicapped people to "end their suffering???" This really, truly frightens me. What if this happens when I am elderly??? What if society gets colder and meaner than it already is now and starts euthanizing the handicapped, the elderly, the retarded, the mentally ill, and then who knows... the poor, the homeless... ? I dunno. It just worries me when the media discusses euthanasia.

Bamfette - 22/5/05 at 22:17

covered this a page or so back... Terri only had the decision made for her because she was absolutely unable to communicate because she was essentially brain dead. the debate wasn't over wether she should be allowed to die, people in similar states have their plugs pulled every day in North America and Europe, that's nothing new. It was over who got to make that decision, her husband (who said it was her wish to die in such circumstances) or her parents. if a person is handicapped or old, so long as they have some mental capabilities, they are able to vocalize if they want to die or not, and their decision trumps all others. they need not do it with words, but with their eyes or any other means they have at their disposal to communicate. this is what Terri lacked, so the decision fell to her husband. no one would ever kill someone who did not want to die and had the ability to say so. and if they did, like the 'angel of death' nurses, they would be rightfully charged with murder.

The only way i could see a situation like you mention arising is if our society somehow reached a point where there was a societal 'cleansing' going on. where, nevermind race, the handicapped and mentally disturbed are considered for whatever reason unworthy to live or reproduce. Like Hitler did. And there are many problems with society, but the only people who hold those kinds of views right now are fringe extremists. It would take a lot for that kind of thinking to take hold to tthe point that it became normal, especially after WWII, and how vehemently opposed the president was to pulling Terri's plug.


aaaaaaaaaanyway... The topic i am currently interested in is the debate over 'Intelligent Design' and evolution being taught in schools... first off, it's blatantly obvious it's only the creationists trying to gloss over the religious aspects of their argument. as such, it violates the seperation of church and state, imo. mention that there is a debate, fine, whatever, but I don't think much time should be devoted to it. the only thing that should go into science textbooks and cirriculum is SCIENCE. Facts with evidence to back them up. and if Evolution is 'just a theory' (mangling the understanding of 'theory' in a scientific sense. GRAVITY is 'just' a theory.) then ID is nothing more than a hypothosis. It's not been tested, it's not been proven in the slightest. get some scientists to test this hypothosis of 'it's real complex, so it must be created by something else' and come back with at least a BIT of evidence, THEN maybe they can challenge evolution.

and a tangent.... also... and i hate to offend, but i don't see how there could BE a debate.... ok. ID, it's vague enough that if you believe in it, as in you believe evolution was guided by a higher force, i can accept that. i don't believe it, but I'm ok with and can understand others believing it. just don't try and force it in the public schools till you get some solid proof.

but straight up creationism... that everything on the planet was created *as is* by god. i don't get how people can still believe it. again, i don't mean to offend, but it just seems so... strange to me. I knew someone in high school/college that did, they tried to convince me that dinosaur fossils were planted by Satan. I just kinda smiled and nodded... I had no other comeback, really, becuase I was just dumbstruck by this assertion. I had not really entertained the 'debate' before then, so had never really encountered anyone talking to me like that before.

but evolution via natural selection is so well proven and documented.... in 150 years, it hasn't been disproven and just keeps getting more and more evidence to SUPPORT it, not the other way around. especially now that they are ding DNA testing on... well, pretty much everything, to see how far back they diverged from other related species. or groups of the same species, most notably our own, to track ancient migration patterns. and i mean, just LOOK at any animal on the planet, most specifically, mammals and birds, how can you tell me there is no common ancestor there? I just don't get it, it's plain as day to me. for instance, EVERY mammal on the face of the earth has or demonstratably had at some time in their evolutionary past 4 limbs with 5 digits on each. yes, even horses and whales/dolphins. If every species on the planet was 'designed' or 'created' why would they all have that? why aren't there vertibrate creatures running around with 6 or 8 legs? and why do whales and snakes have pelvises and leg bones? in short, why so little variation within types of animals?

Just... places like the 'Creation Museum' (and the website that sponsors it, Answers in Genesis) show an astounding lack of understanding for the underlying principles. I am not sure wether to attribute that to actively trying to come up with ANY explanation that fits, no matter how ludicrous, or that they genuinely believe it...

I do realize that if evolution were accepted as true, then the literal reading of Genesis would have to be considered not true, and I do understand that people may not want to let that go. But I also know many Christians accept Genesis as not being the *literal* description of the origin of man (I say man and not life because evolution has nothing to do with the origin of life or the origin of the planet. merely how life evolved to more complex organisms from simple ones.) do i don't see the huge deal.

is there anyone here who does not believe in evolution? if so do you believe in a young (the earth is no more than 10,000 years old) or old earth (billions of years old)? if young earth.... why? i can understand believing old earth creationism to an extent. but new earth, it just seems as though you're willingly slapping on blinders, ignoring evidence all around. like believing the world is flat. that's just the way i see it. I can't wrap my mind around it, can't understand it, is all. I am not really trying to convert you to my way of thinking, just trying to understand yours.

and though as menioned, not trying ot 'convert' anyone, but if anyone has any questions of evolution, I will do my best to explain whatever you want, be it common ancestors or punctuated equilibrium.

taekwondodo - 24/5/05 at 06:38

Would it be safe to assume that you're a fan of the late, great Stephen Jay Gould? Your remark on the universality of 4 limbs and five digits brings to mind the phenomenon of the panda's thumb.....

Bamfette - 24/5/05 at 07:50

fan of evolutionary theory in general, but Stephen Jay Gould would be counted among evolutionists i have read, yes...

and yeah, the pandas thumb is a bit odd.. it's still the same bones as other creatures, but a wrist bone has been modified to stick out like another digit...

as an aside, when fish were first evolving to walk on land, there were several transitional species, that had fins modified into rudimentary feet, and the number of digits started out much higher than that. i find it interesting that eventually 5 ended up being the magic number. http://msnbc.msn.com/id/4638587/

I also wonder if, a few million years from now, descendents of something like the mud skipper may evolve more/less toes/limbs or also arrive at 5. to my knowledge, the mudskipper's fins do not posess bones, they are merely highly muscular, but instead of having the rear fins forming 2 limbs, they have fused into one, sothat's different already. 3 limbs. there is no guarantee they will evolve further, they seem to fill their little niche nicely, but assuming they did.

mudskipper: http://2.pro.tok2.com/~mudskipper/files/Boleophthalmus/B-mutugoro1....
and yes it's in japanese, but the pictures were the best ones, and the images speak for themselves. mudskippers are fish that are able to crawl on land and even climb trees. they have modified gills which store water, sort of like a scuba tank would store air for us. but besides that, they are also able to breathe air through a membrane in the back of their mouths, and also through their skin.

and sorry if i got a bit ranty.... just something that really confuses me...

oh. and... http://msnbc.msn.com/id/7954411/

:rolleyes

Saint Kurt - 31/5/05 at 14:09

This thread is very long and very winding and very... done.

It is not that religion and spirituality cannot be discussed here - in fact, I welcome the creation of a new topic by anyone who wishes to discuss the subject. I look forward to reading and joining in.

This religion topic thread however, is being closed.

As the subject has turned towards convergent evolution (always a fascinating topic to me as a vet student) Jill has started this cryptozoology topic that's really cool. (And that I totally regret no posting in yet, but I've been kind of busy under Nightscrawler's "hood" lately.)

Interesting...

Thank you.
-e